If a girl likes you, she'll make it obvious.

It took me so long to figure this shit out. I had to witness my female friends flirt with my best friend to see how women interact when they are interested.

With me, she's mostly cold, blunt and gives one worded responses, but with my friend, she always asks him how things are going, endlessly joking with him, being talkative, etc.

Idk what to make of this, I'm just tired of trying for so hard and not getting any results.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5791977&forum_id=2)#49390167)

I can’t count the number of times I’ve fallen down this rabbit hole.

“Wow, I might have a shot. We’ve got great banter. She shares my sense of humor. She asks questions instead of just responding. She keeps eye contact. There’s even incidental physical contact. This might happen.”

“Oh, she’s talking with another guy. There’s much more physical contact. She isn’t just talking. Words are spilling out like a flood. She’s practically bouncing with excitement. What about her eyes? There they are, wide open, bright, almost pleading for affection.”

“You never had a chance, did you? Nope.”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5791977&forum_id=2)#49390358)

Idk what to make of this

Idk what to make of this

Idk what to make of this

Idk what to make of this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5791977&forum_id=2)#49390181)

FroznParsnip 44 points 3 days ago*

Yeah I liked someone who fits the first scenario perfectly years back at work. One night we were slow so we both drew fun pictures on paper takeout bags. I kept one in my glovebox as a symbolic memory because she always told me to drive safe when I left work.

I recently mustered up the courage to tell her how much it meant to me and got ghosted. Nothing even remotely romantic, just wanted to reconnect as long-time-no-see friends.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5791977&forum_id=2)#49390184)

The worst part for me: Not just no reply, I got the “Read” receipt. My message went something like this:

“Hey xxxxx! It’s u/FroznParsnip! So I just got a new car, and I wanted to tell you about something very special I’ve been keeping in my glovebox from our time back at (our old job).”

Like what goes on in these people’s heads when they open a message like that from an old friend and just click out of it without any care?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5791977&forum_id=2)#49390308)

Women are idiots but they sort of intuit this. Like they never take the incel at face value. They never accept the “truth” that he can’t have sex bc he sucks. They label him as Bad and self sabotaging and maybe they’re right. Discuss.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5791977&forum_id=2)#49390347)