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Should no-breakfasted friend leave sweatshop firm for other biglaw firm?

Friend is a 10th year associate at a v15ish firm that sounds...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
What practice group? People with no book make partner all t...
awkward orange mother
  08/24/25
Litmo How/why do people with no book get breakfast at a v...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
I don't know about V15, but you can make breakfast and make ...
awkward orange mother
  08/24/25
No, he would be making the top senior associate market rate ...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
staying in biglaw for less than $1 million is dumb after a p...
awkward orange mother
  08/24/25
I agree, and he probably would too. His wife wants trips to ...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
if you're at a v15 and they just tell you no, no way, no bre...
awkward orange mother
  08/24/25
you could luck out and be the go-to for a rainmaker's client
citrine exciting travel guidebook degenerate
  08/24/25
Does that get you real breakfast? The client probably wouldn...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
All of those firms have fake partnership now for people in t...
Indigo Hilarious Laser Beams Corner
  08/24/25
"friend"
citrine exciting travel guidebook degenerate
  08/24/25
He should go to Lewis Brisbois imo
Frum cuck address
  08/24/25
He definitely needs to bail. Sounds like everyone at firm #...
twinkling pit police squad
  08/24/25
What would you expect his current firm to do if he says he w...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
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Vigorous shivering native personal credit line
  08/24/25
He might as well bounce in the hopes that lifestyle improves...
Rebellious wine market
  08/24/25
He’s a litmo. You might as well “plan” to...
trip senate famous landscape painting
  08/24/25
Lol
Pontificating Bull Headed Foreskin Death Wish
  08/24/25
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low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
lol at that breh
Rebellious wine market
  08/24/25
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vengeful magical mediation
  08/24/25
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milky location
  08/24/25
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Indigo Hilarious Laser Beams Corner
  08/24/25
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appetizing multi-billionaire
  08/24/25
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propecia mathematica
  08/25/25
This is a stupid hypo. If he is making good money he should ...
spruce house
  08/24/25
No offense but if you’re saying he should stay put he ...
Rebellious wine market
  08/24/25
I make nothing and my actual irl is a nightmare
spruce house
  08/24/25
I’m sorry man. I hope the panic attacks improve.
Rebellious wine market
  08/24/25
I hope they get worse so he poasts more
My little restricted guy
  08/25/25
wow, timmy titfucker
Misfit Patriot
  08/25/25
Jumping offers a good chance at fewer ruined weekends and va...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
I haven’t had a non-ruined weekend in decades
spruce house
  08/24/25
Sounds rough. He's a good guy who seems to genuinely enjoy s...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
I want to die daily.
spruce house
  08/24/25
Doesn't matter that much because when your kids grow up and ...
flirting crimson private investor temple
  08/24/25
You're preaching to the choir as far as I'm concerned. I thi...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
Yea i was being an asshole but fwiw i think its a great idea...
flirting crimson private investor temple
  08/24/25
"Career change" sounds more significant than later...
low-t cream hall
  08/24/25
lol no she should just leave that business model behind if s...
Bossy Ruby Telephone
  08/24/25


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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:24 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

Friend is a 10th year associate at a v15ish firm that sounds more demanding that the average v15 firm. Lots of ruined weekends and vacations. But, he says people like him and want him on their matters.

He got an offer at an equally prestigious biglaw firm. He's thinking of taking it. I lean toward yes, he should, because even though biglaw is almost always demanding, he gets worked dumped on him at the last minute before weekends and vacations more than average. He has young kids.

As an aside, he was wondering where partnership prospects would be best. I told him they are essentially 0 at either place because he has no book.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209173)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:25 PM
Author: awkward orange mother

What practice group? People with no book make partner all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209180)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:27 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

Litmo

How/why do people with no book get breakfast at a v15?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209186)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:30 PM
Author: awkward orange mother

I don't know about V15, but you can make breakfast and make more money at a somewhat lower ranked firm in some cases. Are the going to give him one or those $1 million of counsel deals?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209195)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 5:45 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

No, he would be making the top senior associate market rate either way. That's not bad. $500k+. See the other recent thread about many "biglaw" partners making no more than that: https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765548&mc=53&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209500)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 6:38 PM
Author: awkward orange mother

staying in biglaw for less than $1 million is dumb after a point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209624)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:35 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

I agree, and he probably would too. His wife wants trips to Paris, designer clothes for their kids, pretty much whatever she wants. So, he is still in biglaw and not enjoying it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209813)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:01 PM
Author: awkward orange mother

if you're at a v15 and they just tell you no, no way, no breakfast ever, you just gotta leave. same thing happened to me and i hung on longer than i should've

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209873)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:32 PM
Author: citrine exciting travel guidebook degenerate

you could luck out and be the go-to for a rainmaker's client

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209203)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 5:48 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

Does that get you real breakfast? The client probably wouldn't follow you to another firm if you left. That's the only thing that really counts as a book.

In any event, I don't think that would be more likely at the new firm. At his current firm, he has a few years of a good reputation to help him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209509)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:39 PM
Author: Indigo Hilarious Laser Beams Corner

All of those firms have fake partnership now for people in this situation. Or almost all of them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209220)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 2:31 PM
Author: citrine exciting travel guidebook degenerate

"friend"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209198)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 3:06 PM
Author: Frum cuck address

He should go to Lewis Brisbois imo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209257)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 5:53 PM
Author: twinkling pit police squad

He definitely needs to bail. Sounds like everyone at firm #1 recognizes him for his good work and reliability, but don’t stop to consider his future prospects. They may if he presents an offer from elsewhere. Or they may not. Plan to move

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209515)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:37 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

What would you expect his current firm to do if he says he weighing a lateral move? Help him take on less work? That's not the nature of the assignment. They're not giving him breakfast.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209817)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 11:25 PM
Author: Vigorous shivering native personal credit line



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49210320)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 6:49 PM
Author: Rebellious wine market

He might as well bounce in the hopes that lifestyle improves, which it might but but whatever. Plan to go in house within 3-5 years.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209666)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:17 PM
Author: trip senate famous landscape painting

He’s a litmo. You might as well “plan” to win the Powerball in 3-5 years lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209766)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:23 PM
Author: Pontificating Bull Headed Foreskin Death Wish

Lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209785)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:38 PM
Author: low-t cream hall



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209821)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:40 PM
Author: Rebellious wine market

lol at that breh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209828)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: vengeful magical mediation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209834)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:52 PM
Author: milky location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209848)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:20 PM
Author: Indigo Hilarious Laser Beams Corner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209919)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:23 PM
Author: appetizing multi-billionaire



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209925)



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Date: August 25th, 2025 1:11 PM
Author: propecia mathematica



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49211309)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:28 PM
Author: spruce house

This is a stupid hypo. If he is making good money he should stay where he’s at. Jumping ship offers him nothing. It’s not like they’re going to reward him for having no book.

If he wants to go in-house or start his own thing, that’s one thing. But if it’s just fishing for the best opportunity within law firms, leaving ship is almost always the worst option.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209800)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:42 PM
Author: Rebellious wine market

No offense but if you’re saying he should stay put he should leave. You make 225k as a senior shitlawyer. You could’ve made more if you made the right moves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209832)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:56 PM
Author: spruce house

I make nothing and my actual irl is a nightmare

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209860)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: Rebellious wine market

I’m sorry man. I hope the panic attacks improve.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209863)



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Date: August 25th, 2025 1:32 PM
Author: My little restricted guy

I hope they get worse so he poasts more

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49211367)



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Date: August 25th, 2025 2:48 PM
Author: Misfit Patriot ((zurich is stained))

wow, timmy titfucker

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49211588)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:50 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

Jumping offers a good chance at fewer ruined weekends and vacations for the same money. If I were him, I would do it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209845)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: spruce house

I haven’t had a non-ruined weekend in decades

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209862)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:09 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

Sounds rough. He's a good guy who seems to genuinely enjoy spending time with his wife, kids, and friends when biglaw doesn't interfere.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209887)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: spruce house

I want to die daily.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209890)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:38 PM
Author: flirting crimson private investor temple

Doesn't matter that much because when your kids grow up and you realize you missed their childhood because you were doing biglaw I heard you can always do a 'reset' and redo their childhoods and stuff.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209818)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:48 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

You're preaching to the choir as far as I'm concerned. I think his wife's expensive tastes have him locked in.

To be fair, the impetus for leaving is that there is a good chance another firm will have better work life balance, even if it's still biglaw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209842)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: flirting crimson private investor temple

Yea i was being an asshole but fwiw i think its a great idea to do career change things once every 5-10 years esp in your buddys case if thats how he's been treated. i think its a no brainer tbh.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209850)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:07 PM
Author: low-t cream hall

"Career change" sounds more significant than lateral to a firm that, from the outside, appears essentially identical to his current firm.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209882)



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Date: August 24th, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: Bossy Ruby Telephone

lol no she should just leave that business model behind if she knows what’s good for her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5765808&forum_id=2)#49209892)