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Just found out my brother is an alcoholic. What's the best way to handle this?

He's 37 and works in finance. My guess is two factors led to...
fragrant mediation tanning salon
  08/17/25
Spend more time with him
Opaque area
  08/17/25
idk how to handle it but alcoholism usually means depression
Aromatic Stag Film Jewess
  08/17/25
Alcohol abuse is endemic to finance…if he’s dri...
At-the-ready poppy pervert trump supporter
  08/17/25
love your poasting brother
Rusted library stock car
  08/17/25
Have u tried sucking his dick
Razzle-dazzle plaza
  08/17/25
Stop being a nosy fag and let him live his life
Apoplectic personal credit line cumskin
  08/17/25
have you tried handling it by handing him a handle and drink...
Crawly heaven
  08/17/25


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Date: August 17th, 2025 11:37 AM
Author: fragrant mediation tanning salon

He's 37 and works in finance. My guess is two factors led to a drinking problem:

1. He works too much. I don't know how many hours exactly, but he works tons of nights and weekends. Too much stress and not enough rest.

2. His fiancee broke up with him a few months before the marriage, and it's made him lonely and/or depressed. He has a big house but lives alone.

He functions well enough to hold down his job, but he's drinking lots of vodka. I don't know how much exactly, but my mom cleaned his house recently and found tons of empty vodka handles in the trash. He's short-tempered and easily irritated.

What's the best way to approach this? None of my friends have dealt with drinking problems, so I've never had to deal with this before.

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Date: August 17th, 2025 11:38 AM
Author: Opaque area

Spend more time with him

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Date: August 17th, 2025 11:43 AM
Author: Aromatic Stag Film Jewess

idk how to handle it but alcoholism usually means depression

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Date: August 17th, 2025 12:05 PM
Author: At-the-ready poppy pervert trump supporter

Alcohol abuse is endemic to finance…if he’s drinking alone and drinking Vodka it’s a bad sign.

What you are going to do will depend on how he views his drinking. Does he know it’s a problem? Is he willing to admit that? Or is he in denial?

If he’s in denial it’s going to take a major event to wake him up to the possibility - a job loss, a health episode or a legal issue. For me it was a health issue, I quit about 10 years ago.

I started drinking heavily due to a series of really bad breaks when I was younger…but as time went on, alcohol took on a life of its own. Eventually the things that made me drink faded into the background, but the alcohol was there as its own force. It snuck up on me.

I struggled to quit for maybe a couple years. I could get a few days here. A few weeks there, but would always come back for the bottle. Eventually I just got tired and that’s how I quit. I was simply “sick and tired of being sick and tired”



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Date: August 17th, 2025 3:01 PM
Author: Rusted library stock car

love your poasting brother

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Date: August 17th, 2025 12:08 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle plaza

Have u tried sucking his dick

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Date: August 17th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: Apoplectic personal credit line cumskin

Stop being a nosy fag and let him live his life

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Date: August 17th, 2025 3:02 PM
Author: Crawly heaven

have you tried handling it by handing him a handle and drinking it with him like a normal human

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