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Spaceporn will never dare tell anyone what the waitress actually said
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Date: January 9th, 2023 12:42 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen It's one clue as to his motivations for posting the story in the first place (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764016) |
Date: January 9th, 2023 12:47 PM Author: passionate lemon dopamine indirect expression "the waitress' accusation is coming from INSIDE THE HOUSE!!!" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764041) |
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Date: May 5th, 2023 2:53 PM Author: passionate lemon dopamine indirect expression (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#46274039) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 12:48 PM Author: big honey-headed legal warrant stage i think the whole thing is flame (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764050) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 12:49 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen If it were flame he could offer up one verbatim quote. He refuses to do so. I think I know why. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764054) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 11:21 PM Author: Contagious Indigo Psychic SQUANCHY! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45767164) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 12:51 PM Author: provocative sound barrier I specifically poasted what she said. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764071) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:00 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen Then you should have no problem repeating it here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764118) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:02 PM Author: provocative sound barrier Neither should you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764128) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:14 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen I don't see it in any of the other threads on this. I think you're lying and I'm 100% certain you won't give a verbatim quote in this thread either (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764166) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:16 PM Author: provocative sound barrier I just read it in my thread, just now.
It's literally written out, in quotes. Are you high or just stupid? |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:27 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen In all the other threads people ask you what the waitress said and you never give an actual quote. Usually when people play the "I already did it in another thread" routine they are lying. You'll keep insisting that you gave a direct quote but you'll never actually do it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764242) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:30 PM Author: provocative sound barrier If you Can't Read well, why do you think you can make accurate conclusions about poasters?
This is the poast. You are annoying me now.
Date: January 6th, 2023 9:50 PM Author: SP tp
Waitress insanely accused me of abducting my kid. She rudely asked me what our situation was and I said “this is my kid and we are out to dinner” and she stormed off and turned around and said really loud, “I KNOW that’s not your kid and I hope you aren’t doing what I think” and she went to a corner and started videoing me with her cell.
I was stunned, my kid was stunned.
I got up and yelled at her and then we left. My kid cried in the car a little bit and I tried to calm myself down so as to be able to speak with him and minimize trauma for him.
Man I used to love that place.
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:31 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen That's not a verbatim quote. It's your characterization of her remarks. I know why you won't give a direct quote. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764255) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:37 PM Author: provocative sound barrier I literally specifically quoted what she said to me that was the offense. It is the precise wording because I had to get it exactly right to report the statement to management.
No one else seemed to have trouble with this. In fact, someone started an OP with the "quote, tp."
“I KNOW that’s not your kid and I hope you aren’t doing what I think” |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:39 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen "She rudely asked me what our situation was" is extremely vague. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764295) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:45 PM Author: provocative sound barrier this is not what you took issue with when you made the poast.
You are trying to milk a poast to be a nuisance.
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:47 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen Yes it is and you're still confirming my prediction that you will never tell us what the waitress actually said. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764337) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:49 PM Author: provocative sound barrier I owe you nothing, particularly in light of your threats to fuck w my IRL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764343) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:52 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen Even if you don't owe me anything, you're still affirming my prediction. I predicted you would behave exactly like this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764352) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:42 PM Author: soul-stirring casino coldplay fan It’s a direct quote. It’s in quotes. You didn’t read the whole poast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764623) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:46 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen It all began with waitress saying something Spaceporn will only characterize as follows:
"She rudely asked me what our situation was."
This is coming from a lawyer who surely knows how ambiguous and imprecise that statement is. Furthermore, AS I ACCURATELY PREDICTED in my thread title, he will not elaborate beyond that. I think he worded it that way deliberately. My prediction didn't come out of nowhere. |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 10:46 PM Author: soul-stirring casino coldplay fan Yeah, I remember. Then he just posted:
she stormed off and turned around and said really loud, “I KNOW that’s not your kid and I hope you aren’t doing what I think” |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:32 PM Author: Aromatic private investor bawdyhouse i'm confused, seems like the waitress was correct, what's the issue? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764261) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:33 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen She said something Spaceporn characterizes as "rude" but he won't say what. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764263) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:39 PM Author: Aromatic private investor bawdyhouse well, i know he thinks it's rude to say it's not his kid but...it's not his kid, ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764296) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:42 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen He says she led with a question, not an affirmative statement. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764314) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:07 PM Author: Wine juggernaut its all clearly flame, but successful bait content. That's why he spread it over like 15 threads.
He's a very peculiar poster, who clearly relishes the hullabaloo around the notorious accusations that hound him on xo. Imagine simultaneously wanting to shed that accusation and at the same time pumping the board full of an IRL story centering on that accusation.
I fell for his schtick many times, trying to give sincere and practical advice as to how to extinguish that stuff. And then I was bewildered when he would fuel it further.
I guess it's his niche, because he goes out of his way to keep it alive.
Personally I hate that xo plotline |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:09 PM Author: provocative sound barrier It was only three threads. I try not to fuck up the boart with a lot of repetition.
The first was when it happened, and I reported it.
The second was after I emailed management and then spoke with management pending their investigation.
The third was to report "suspension" of waitress and nice free meal for family at another restaurant owned by the owner.
I may have had to clarify misunderstandings here and there but those were not my OP.
As for the xo storyline, yeah, I hate it too. Almost everyone here does. |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:15 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen He won't give a verbatim quote of what she said. If the story were fictional it would be no big deal to give a fictional quote. He's scared to do it for a reason. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764171) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:22 PM Author: Walnut deranged meetinghouse It doesn't matter what she said. The thing about SP is using his own particular haunting vocabulary is rather ingenious tbh. You've got his kid openly telling a waitress hes being squanched and forced to eat playroom hotdogs and she senses something is amiss but can't put her own words together. He can't either |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:29 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen It's not what she said that matters. Spaceporn is afraid to give a quote for reasons that have nothing to do with the content of her speech. Look at him try to obfuscate and make excuses for failing to quote her ITT. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764249) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:35 PM Author: slate vivacious black woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764280) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:34 PM Author: Vigorous university old irish cottage He said she said I hope you’re not doing what I think you’re doing and that’s not your son (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764270) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:35 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen He's very vague about this. He says "She rudely asked me what our situation was" and that's it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764277) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:48 PM Author: Odious rehab place of business Seems like a reasonable inquiry under the circumstances. Who takes a minor to a dive bar to eat spaghetti dinner in the first place? It’s the kind of place you go when you have something to hide. From a strictly Bayesian perspective, her inquiry was a good one to make. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764340) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:52 PM Author: provocative sound barrier I dont have an issue with her asking me what our situation is, although it is "rude" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764356) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:53 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen We don't know what she actually said and Spaceporn will never tell us. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764358) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:22 PM Author: Wine juggernaut Although I would be put off to be accused of something so horrific, the last thing I would want to do is help punish someone (esp a poor worker) for gathering the courage to investigate when her gut tells her something is off.
Hopefully Id use it as an opp to tell my kid "she was worried about you. There are bad men in the world, who hurt kids, and good adults are always on the lookout, tho sometimes we get it wrong."
She didnt call the police, she didnt alert other diners, she didnt send over a bruiser. She asked enough questions to calm her conscience.
If your son's soccer coach had him in a bar, taking advantage of your kid's naivety, I imagine you'd praise to high heaven some waitress who dug a little, saw distress in your kid's face, and did in fact call the cops or photo a license plate, etc. |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:25 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen We don't know what she did. We only know what Spaceporn is willing to tell us. Spaceporn likely doesn't know what she's done (or will do) either. He may have even made "the situation" worse by getting her fired, since there's no longer any disincentive for her to speak out about what prompted her concerns. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764535) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:31 PM Author: provocative sound barrier I have previously poasted similar sentiments. Some of your facts are wrong.
She did actually speak with other diners up at the bar during the course of my dinner, apparently "investigating" me. They told her I am a regular there, and a nice guy. And they specifically told her to let her ideation go, to forget about it. (This was relayed to me by the manager during our first call.)
It was after the meal, when she presented me with a check that she asked what the deal was. I don't honestly recall the exact phrasing but it was something like, "So how do you know him" or something like that. Irritated but assuming she was just country, I told her this was my son and we are having dinner. Instead of accepting this, like a normal person would in the scenario you've described, she stood there with a doubtful look on her face and would not leave. Doubly irritated, I repeated what I said. She then turned around to leave when she yelled what she did.
So she actually did check it out with other people who knew me, and refused to take to heart what they told her, and she did do a fair if rude inquiry of me directly, and I answered her question appropriately, and then her mental problem was so strong she couldnt resist saying what she did. That's why she's fired.
As for explaining to my kid, I agree with you except that if she were genuinely concerned in the way that you've described she would not have yelled, "I KNOW that's not your kid ...." after I explained Twice, that this was my kid. That's not what you say in front of an adopted kid if you have even the remotest speck of sense or consideration for the kid himself.
Prease revise in non-autistical fashion.
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:44 PM Author: Wine juggernaut being as generous to you as possible, I can see somehow how this would be hurtful to your kid. It's a reminder that people see in terms of race, and that in some real way, you arent his dad. Those are harsh reminders when youre young, but when you adopted a child of a different race, I imagine you anticipated all of these things. Again, a chance to tell your kid, "Because youre asian people will make all kinds of assumptions about you. This is the real world. Some will be fair, some unfair, some hurtful, some will give you some privileges, etc."
If she walked away shouting, "I know that's not your kid!" etc, I would too find her rude. Youve got to anchor this, though, not in racism but in her desire to protect YOUR kid. She didnt broach it because she felt like shaming some azn. She broached it because she does not want anything bad to happen to your kid.
Taht would be my take. |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:57 PM Author: provocative sound barrier Thanks for your take. That’s not the way I would go for various parenting reasons but thanks nonetheless.
As part of a three step discussion I had with him the next day, I explained that she’d had some bad thing happen to her so her mind was not right. I did that so as to make sure he has a firm grounding in the importance of understanding, and some sympathy thet might flow from that.
Part two was explaining that she had been fiired because regardless of her mental problems there’s a right way to treat people w d both of us deserved to be treated properly.
Part three was explaining thst the owners want to have dinner with us at another retaurant because they know it was wrong and hurtful and they want to make the hurt up to us.
To do what you suggest would be inappropriate in my opinion because it would inject safety concerns generally, and part of my job is to make him feel safe so he can prosper without fear drawing up his energy. To suggest that there is somehow some nexus of concern while in the presence of his own father would not accomplish that and would only confuse him. |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 10:14 PM Author: white soggy locale She was right. He isn't your kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45766769) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 10:20 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen Bringing a kid to a bar seems ill advised under any circumstances. The whole thing stinks. What makes him think the waitress was actually fired? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45766803) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 11:21 PM Author: white soggy locale I went to a casino with my wife this weekend and my impression was it would be great if we could bring our kid. She would love the flashing lights and everything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45767174) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 11:23 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen Ok but I'd still like to know why he's claiming the waitress was fired. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45767183) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 11:51 PM Author: white soggy locale The owner just told him that to shut him up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45767314) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 11:20 PM Author: provocative sound barrier Suspended! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45767154) |
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Date: October 8th, 2023 1:26 PM Author: passionate lemon dopamine indirect expression (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#46902288) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 1:38 PM Author: provocative sound barrier (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764291) |
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Date: January 9th, 2023 2:43 PM Author: big honey-headed legal warrant stage mentally ill thread all around (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#45764627) |
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Date: March 3rd, 2023 2:38 PM Author: irradiated ebony whorehouse roommate Threads like this show the real horror of who and what SpacePorn is. You can't unsee it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#46006156) |
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Date: March 17th, 2023 9:53 PM Author: Stimulating fuchsia liquid oxygen Two month check-in. My prediction is still true. ty to whoever bumped. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5267678&forum_id=2)#46067055) |
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