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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: dashing haunting site She met Adam Rubin for their first date at a dive bar booming with March Madness basketball. He wasn’t the kind of guy she’d ever imagined for herself. With a gold necklace and a well-manicured goatee, Rubin helped run an HVAC company on Long Island and expressed an interest in golf. But he seemed to really care about his family. And he made her laugh.
By the time they had sex a few months later, Millender had identified Rubin as a man she could have a baby with, at least as a co-parent, if not as a husband. So when the moment came to reach for a condom, she said, she told him he could skip that step.
“You should just know, I’m not on birth control,” she said, then age 39. “And at this point in my life, if I get pregnant, I’m keeping it.”
After that, Millender grew increasingly sure of what she wanted. With the women of her Bed-Stuy book club, she collaged a vision board to inspire her year ahead, pasting a photo of herself and Rubin beside the words “Take Control” and “Lead Him to Greatness.”
https://www.nytimes.com/2026/05/24/us/ivf-embryos-custody.html |
Date: May 24th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: dashing haunting site She’d settled on that age in her mid-20s as what she called a “drop-dead date” for finding a husband. Entering the work force with an Ivy League degree, she’d decided to take the advice of her mother, who had started a family right out of school. “Don’t get married young,” her mom had always said. “Men can come later.”
By her 30s, Millender figured, a good one would probably show up. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:52 PM Author: dashing haunting site She gave dating her best shot. At age 26, she recalled, she hyped herself up in a Craigslist ad, announcing that she would be strolling through the Container Store in Midtown Manhattan from 7 to 8 on a Tuesday night. “Go find the prettiest girl in the store and introduce yourself,” she’d written. She wanted to engineer the kind of meet-cute you would see in a rom-com. To find a handsome stranger who would sidle up to her shopping cart, then bewitch her with his intellect and wit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898420) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:56 PM Author: iridescent razzmatazz wrinkle bitches shld be put in cages (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898708) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:30 PM Author: dashing haunting site Her quest for Handsome at the Container Store ended tragically (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898965) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:54 PM Author: dashing haunting site The Torah instructs Jews to impress its teachings upon their offspring, he wrote — a task he would not be able to complete if his child was a stranger. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898423) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: dashing haunting site Millender — who made more than three times as much money as Rubin — asked her husband to move out of the brownstone she’d lived in for 16 years before they got married. When he refused, she moved into an Airbnb and returned to N.Y.U. alone to freeze a new batch of eggs — ones she planned to fertilize with sperm from a donor. For three months, she watched British period dramas and ate Häagen-Dazs out of the container while she injected herself with ovary-stimulating hormones, lonelier than she’d ever felt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898428) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 8:23 PM Author: shaky vivacious parlor ratface I'm interpreting "returned to N.Y.U. alone to freeze a new batch of eggs" here as they put her in a single in the dorms for three months. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899056) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 8:26 PM Author: smoky boiling water Incredible stuff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899062) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:57 PM Author: Clear messiness point By the time they had sex a few months later, By the time they had sex a few months later, By the time they had sex a few months later, By the time they had sex a few months later, |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 1:58 PM Author: dashing haunting site Honestly that's the way it should be. But you just know she one night standed for dozens of chads before meeting this guy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898434) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:46 PM Author: Transparent up-to-no-good dopamine station why is this the part that bothers you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898687) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:08 PM Author: dashing haunting site By the end of the arguments, Millender felt hopeful that the Brooklyn civil court judge was going to rule in her favor. The judge, Theresa Ciccotto, dismissed Rubin’s arguments about his religious objections as a Jew, then zeroed in on a claim by Millender’s lawyer that he had previously offered to sell the embryos to his wife.
“And that’s despite what the Torah says,” the judge said. “Does the Torah say anything about buying them, selling?”
Rubin’s lawyer said that selling the embryos was not his client’s “intention,” and Rubin later told The Times that he “never instructed my counsel to offer the embryos for sale.” |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:10 PM Author: dashing haunting site “If there is anything that the court finds to be truthful and credible, it is plaintiff’s sense of urgency in having children due to her advancing age,” Judge Theresa Ciccotto wrote. “However, defendant can always start a family at any time, with someone else.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898457) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:12 PM Author: dashing haunting site “I knew you were selfish, but not this immoral,” Rubin texted Millender after they got the judge’s decision, referring to her conduct during the divorce.
“There is nothing immoral about choosing life,” Millender responded. “That is always what we said we would do. And I have kept my promise to God.”
“It is potentially life, there is no nefesh,” Rubin said, referring to the Hebrew term for “soul.”
“You know what we agreed and God does too,” she said. “I will leave you to His mercy.” |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:17 PM Author: dashing haunting site Millender began taking her I.V.F. medications right away, preparing her body for the embryo. Adamant that Rubin would not rob her of her joy, she invited her doula, her lawyer and her closest friends to a “pre-transfer party.” Over oysters and soft cheeses — things she wouldn’t be able to eat while pregnant — she raised a glass to her “tribe” and the awesome strength of women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898470) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:21 PM Author: dashing haunting site “Very happy for you. Congratulations,” said Judge Ciccotto, who had granted custody to Millender. “I know how important this was. Believe me, I know.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898479) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 2:23 PM Author: dashing haunting site Two weeks later, Rubin filed a restraining order against Millender and asked a judge to order her to stay away from him. He accused his wife of demonstrating “irrational behavior” since they started the divorce, citing offenses like hosting a Memorial Day barbecue at their house after she had moved out and leaving a book on his bed. The title: “Why You Will Marry the Wrong Person.”
Millender didn’t care. Let Rubin accuse her of harassment. Let the lawyers subpoena her doctor and examine her medical records. Her baby was inside her uterus. No ex-husband could change that. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 3:14 PM Author: dashing haunting site Millender believed in a woman’s right to end her pregnancy. But she was also a practicing Catholic. Ahead of their I.V.F. procedures, she said, she and Rubin had agreed to do everything in their power not to “waste life.” Now, he wanted to get rid of their embryos. And she had to say, that seemed a lot like he was trying to kill her children. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898573) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:16 PM Author: blue resort All this reproductive science is amazing, but it's also playing god.
It's not a ridiculous position to think that these embryos are alive / their children / etc. People just don't want to contemplate it because it opens up a lot of other uneasy questions. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:19 PM Author: iridescent razzmatazz wrinkle ljl at what a trash society the US is, wtf are they printing that shit abt not using a condom, its furking vapid garbage, sharia law now furk amerishits (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898647) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:33 PM Author: Multi-colored church When he refused, she moved into an Airbnb and returned to N.Y.U. alone to freeze a new batch of eggs — ones she planned to fertilize with sperm from a donor. For three months, she watched British period dramas and ate Häagen-Dazs out of the container while she injected herself with ovary-stimulating hormones, lonelier than she’d ever felt.
Whatever it takes to have a child, she reminded herself.
Once that procedure was over, Millender said, her doctor explained just how long the odds were: The doctor knew of no cases in which eggs frozen at age 44 had resulted in the birth of a baby. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:47 PM Author: lavender flickering fanboi garrison Should be required reading for all female college freshmen
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:54 PM Author: iridescent razzmatazz wrinkle it wont matter they are braindead girlpower girlbosses and u are a bigot for even poasting this im reporting u to FBI rape hotline jfc do better XO is an abomination against women (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898705) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 10:06 PM Author: dashing haunting site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899230) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:48 PM Author: cobalt affirmative action location Trvth Nvke: allowing women to unilaterally control the creation of life is Evil (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898691) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 4:51 PM Author: Transparent up-to-no-good dopamine station LMAO, what does she think golfing and Machu Pichu are:
“Go sit somewhere and golf,” she’d told him. “Go climb Machu Picchu.” |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:29 PM Author: dashing haunting site Hmmm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898963) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:02 PM Author: pontificating wine masturbator Can’t believe I’m the first to point out SHE GOT LATHAMED!
https://www.linkedin.com/in/emillender |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:10 PM Author: Soul-stirring boltzmann There are just literally not as many men who want babby as there women who want babby-- about 85% of women but only 75% of men become parents. Stories like this are inevitable. It's kind of fucked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898924) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:12 PM Author: cobalt affirmative action location It's actually the opposite now. More men under 40 than women under 40 want children
This stereotype is outdated. Women never wanted kids. They only ever had them because men forced them to have them |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:13 PM Author: Soul-stirring boltzmann What surveys are you looking at? I've seen them all. It's true that if you ask *childless* people whether they want children, then a higher percentage of men than women say they want children. But at every age cohort and in aggregate, more women than men are already parents. So it's simultaneously the case that women are more likely than men to be parents but among the childless women are more likely to say they want to stay that way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898933) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:39 PM Author: cobalt affirmative action location I think that you should think a little harder about whether or not more women than men being parents indicates that more women than men want kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898981) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:44 PM Author: Soul-stirring boltzmann ? What people actually do is a pretty big fucking clue as to what they want. If you ask people what they want, they'll pretend to be interested in documentaries in reality they watch reality TV slop. Which would you give more credence do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898986) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 8:19 PM Author: dashing haunting site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899048) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 8:33 PM Author: Hyperactive partner karate women hate their kids and hate men and other women
maybe 3-5% of births are from legit loving women globally who wanted the kid for righteous purposes
most people are born the products of prostitution, lust, rape, incest, boredom, vanity, fear or some other life denying purpose like getting welfare benefits or baby trapping a guy for $ |
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Good to see a new poaster around here who is redpilled on women |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 9:34 PM Author: Transparent up-to-no-good dopamine station (very online guy) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899171) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:32 PM Author: dashing haunting site Your conclusion doesn't follow from those statistics. Are you retarded? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898968) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:44 PM Author: Soul-stirring boltzmann no u (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898988) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:33 PM Author: dashing haunting site Throughout most of history fewer men than women became parents. But it doesn't indicate what you think it does–fitter better men had/have babies with multiple women while closer incles remained childless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898970) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:11 PM Author: Soul-stirring boltzmann she collaged a vision board to inspire her year ahead, pasting a photo of herself and Rubin beside the words “Take Control” and “Lead Him to Greatness.”
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Collaged an Inspirational Vision Board tp |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:26 PM Author: out-of-control office water buffalo How am I the first to catch this obvious xoxo catnip?
Millender’s friends accused her of being too picky. She preferred the word “intentional.” She imposed no minimum height or salary requirements, she would remind them.
Translation: At least 6' with a $200k salary or GTFO. |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:33 PM Author: dashing haunting site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898972) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:30 PM Author: ruddy effete school place of business The Jewish ex-husband and his Jewish lawyer seem like fun people (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898966) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:34 PM Author: dashing haunting site And this is an example of a relatively "chill" prole Jew, not an uptight professional Jew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898973) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 7:42 PM Author: ruddy effete school place of business It's weird because the ex has nothing to gain economically at this point. What is motivating him to agree all of these racked up legal bills for outside the box motions and TROs and appeals? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49898984) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 8:20 PM Author: dashing haunting site Hoping she pays him more to stop. Also the article mentions he wanted to sell the embryos (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899049) |
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Date: May 24th, 2026 8:22 PM Author: Cheese-eating abode mad-dog skullcap Great thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49899054) |
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Date: May 25th, 2026 8:29 PM Author: dashing haunting site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49900865) |
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Date: May 26th, 2026 1:33 PM Author: dashing haunting site (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49902252) |
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Date: June 7th, 2026 8:41 PM Author: Melancholic Personality Archetypes With the women of her Bed-Stuy book club, she collaged a vision board to inspire her year ahead, pasting a photo of herself and Rubin beside the words “Take Control” and “Lead Him to Greatness.” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5868737&forum_id=2,#49921118) |
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