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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: startling vermilion location

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: slippery hairraiser parlour



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Lemon school gaping

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: Vivacious Roommate Garrison

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43672650)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: startling vermilion location



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Ebony laughsome alpha

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: internet-worthy senate

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: racy naked market

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: ivory property



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Grizzly splenetic church building



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: Cobalt dilemma foreskin



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Electric dun trailer park

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: bateful brass legend hairy legs

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: White son of senegal macaca



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Insanely Creepy 180 Selfie Sex Offender



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Filthy Puce Theater

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: Ebony laughsome alpha

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: crimson odious toilet seat

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: dead demanding point stock car



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: impressive garnet national death wish

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Disturbing Talking Antidepressant Drug House

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: Lascivious friendly grandma

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Copper Boistinker Locale

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Insanely Creepy 180 Selfie Sex Offender



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: thriller wine spot wagecucks

live fast

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Haunting brunch

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Rusted Filthpig Private Investor



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: slippery hairraiser parlour

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: gaped poppy address mood



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: startling vermilion location



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Rusted Filthpig Private Investor

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: gaped poppy address mood



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: sadistic blood rage abode

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: startling vermilion location



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: Canary shrine dingle berry

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: charcoal metal school cafeteria trump supporter



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Saffron flirting pistol messiness



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Soul-stirring telephone

Absolutely credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#46052486)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2/#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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