What happened and background: He loves blowjobs. Like a lot a lot. So much so that he asks more than once a day. Usually, I oblige at least once a day because I know he loves them which is a turn on for me too, but lately, he’s been edging to prolong it. And not just a bit longer, I shit you not, I’m talking about over an hour regularly. A few nights ago it was literally 3 hours of blowjob.

Problems: 1) After around 30 minutes, my jaw starts to hurt which turns something fun into something painful. 2) even after the hour mark, he regularly thrusts so hard that I cant breathe or stop myself from gagging hard. Both exacerbated the longer the blowjob is, and he knows this, yet still consciously prolongs it.

Last night, he was so rough that actually threw up a bit of bile (so gross ugh sorry). I know he knew, but i was convinced to suck it up because he said he was close. 2 hours later, he was still going at the same pace.

At the 3 hour mark, he still hadn’t cum, but I had to stop him because I felt like I was gonna pass out. It was embarrassing and I felt gross (the puke), and completely drained. When I told him, he said that he didn’t realize it had been so long and then started saying self deprecating things and was distant so I ended up being the one to apologize.

The worst part, he later admitted to taking viagra beforehand without telling me because he wanted to prolong it. This upset me because it felt like he had already planned to push it despite the aforementioned issues. Also, 30 minutes after we stopped (and me throwing up again in the bathroom), no joke, he asked if I could give him another blowjob because he hadn’t cum yet, which I found baffling and genuinely inconsiderate. I said no, and he was sad the rest of the night.

Is this normal? I feel like a 3 hour blowjob is insane, but his reaction has me questioning myself. Is there a way to address it with him without hurting his feelings?

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