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Turned 40 today. Parents didn't remember. Friends called. Wife canceled dinner

Spoke to my folks, separately, for 10-15 minutes and neither...
swashbuckling hall
  11/21/25
Hey, happy birthday man! BTW, you are going to age 10 years...
bat-shit-crazy olive death wish rehab
  11/21/25
Thanks, man. What can I do to slow down aging aggressively? ...
swashbuckling hall
  11/21/25
TRT accelerates aging pathways
razzle senate
  11/21/25
Limit the amount of crap you eat. Don't neglect strength tr...
bat-shit-crazy olive death wish rehab
  11/21/25
and make sure your ass ejaculates daily. Metemucil should be...
Chestnut party of the first part
  11/22/25
Expected disco fries. Birthdays are for children. You’...
sable racy boistinker national security agency
  11/21/25
That's what I'm doing, man. Felt like the wife could have go...
swashbuckling hall
  11/21/25
wait, op is a man? i just assumed it was a 40yo married lesb...
Exciting drunken principal's office fanboi
  11/21/25
disco would never poast a thread like this. Also, op, hbd.
Nighttime Den Puppy
  11/21/25
Making a cake for you is already a huge lift. You’re b...
passionate generalized bond
  11/21/25
ty needed to hear this.
swashbuckling hall
  11/21/25
No one remembered my 40th birthday besides my parents, fianc...
Maize harsh lay dragon
  11/21/25
Nice. I remember the first birthday of mine that my parents ...
Nighttime Den Puppy
  11/21/25
hi i luv u if that's any consolation
contagious cobalt stag film
  11/21/25
What the fuck are you talking about? In any halfway respecta...
Rose Pervert
  11/21/25
Your xo bros are here for you. Were your kids excited fo...
Onyx Gas Station
  11/22/25
you have a wife and kids. I will probably blow my head off o...
godawful school
  11/22/25
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razzle senate
  11/22/25
buy bitcoin with the money your wife saved you and thank her...
chartreuse up-to-no-good bawdyhouse
  11/22/25
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purple yarmulke newt
  11/22/25
I did not even remember my 40th birthday.
razzmatazz point gunner
  11/22/25
I’ll stick up for OP. We have one side of the story, b...
supple free-loading theater stage
  11/22/25
i'll cosign on this. happy belated birthday, OP.
autistic range goal in life
  11/22/25
This is just what women are/do fundamentally
Zombie-like cyan theatre
  11/22/25
i remember my 40 birthday. we had concert tickets and i was ...
pearl hot hunting ground community account
  11/22/25
As a man, no one cares about you at all. If they pretend to,...
Histrionic insane sandwich
  11/22/25
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Zombie-like cyan theatre
  11/22/25
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poppy mildly autistic incel
  11/22/25
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house-broken lascivious jew school cafeteria
  11/22/25
How do you have kids and still think about yourself this muc...
adulterous indian lodge dingle berry
  11/22/25
happy birthday, Fat Teddy
silver meetinghouse persian
  11/22/25


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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:09 PM
Author: swashbuckling hall

Spoke to my folks, separately, for 10-15 minutes and neither of them remembered.

Had a bunch of my close friends reach out via text and two of them even called.

Mother in law called too.

Wife made a strawberry shortcake with our boys (my favorite) but made our family cancel dinner plans (she said I could take our 2 older kids if I wanted) because she felt tired and like our youngest was "coming down with something" so she said we should order dinner instead. She just didn't feel like going out at 6:30pm.

The boys made me a bracelet (Best Dad Ever) and she bought me some clothes and socks.

I was a complete asshole to her for canceling dinner and we got in a fight in front of the kids. I was being kind of a bitch about her canceling the dinner because I was looking forward to it. She called my behavior "bitchy" which obviously didn't go over well.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450829)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:11 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy olive death wish rehab

Hey, happy birthday man! BTW, you are going to age 10 years in the next 3 years...it's pretty fucking unreal. But at least they can't discriminate against you at work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450835)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:15 PM
Author: swashbuckling hall

Thanks, man. What can I do to slow down aging aggressively? I am not on TRT - should I be?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450851)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:17 PM
Author: razzle senate

TRT accelerates aging pathways



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450853)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:19 PM
Author: bat-shit-crazy olive death wish rehab

Limit the amount of crap you eat. Don't neglect strength training. Get a colonoscopy at 45. Ejaculate daily.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450857)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:08 PM
Author: Chestnut party of the first part

and make sure your ass ejaculates daily. Metemucil should be your new friend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452100)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:12 PM
Author: sable racy boistinker national security agency

Expected disco fries. Birthdays are for children. You’re a 40 year old man. Have a glass of whiskey or a garage beer and poast with your bros, you don’t need a dinner or whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450838)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:15 PM
Author: swashbuckling hall

That's what I'm doing, man. Felt like the wife could have gotten her ass out the door for my fucking birthday though. Birthdays are for children - I told her I didn't want to do anything and then she insisted on making these plans and I was so disappointed she wanted to stay in. She said "let's order instead" and, out of spite, I said no and skipped dinner.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450849)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:36 PM
Author: Exciting drunken principal's office fanboi

wait, op is a man? i just assumed it was a 40yo married lesbian with kids. i mean, nobody even coming close to that demographic description has ever poasted here, but that still seemed more plausible than the op being drafted by an adult genetic male.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450929)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:44 PM
Author: Nighttime Den Puppy

disco would never poast a thread like this. Also, op, hbd.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450942)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:26 PM
Author: passionate generalized bond

Making a cake for you is already a huge lift. You’re being a bitch imo

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450878)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:48 PM
Author: swashbuckling hall

ty

needed to hear this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450953)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:54 PM
Author: Maize harsh lay dragon

No one remembered my 40th birthday besides my parents, fiancee, and her parents, and my godparents. My fiancee and I share a birthday, so I just celebrate hers instead.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450980)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:58 PM
Author: Nighttime Den Puppy

Nice. I remember the first birthday of mine that my parents forgot. It was my 18th. Birthdays are for kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450993)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 10:59 PM
Author: contagious cobalt stag film

hi

i luv u if that's any consolation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49450999)



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Date: November 21st, 2025 11:33 PM
Author: Rose Pervert

What the fuck are you talking about? In any halfway respectable century, you’d already have been carved open in glorious battle, not whining about a missed birthday call from parents who can barely remember what day it is.

Happy b-day btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49451114)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:07 PM
Author: Onyx Gas Station

Your xo bros are here for you.

Were your kids excited for your birthday? My kids are very excited about their birthdays, which translates into them being excited for me for my birthday, which is 180.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49451965)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:09 PM
Author: godawful school

you have a wife and kids. I will probably blow my head off on 40th bday

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49451968)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 3:47 PM
Author: razzle senate



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:14 PM
Author: chartreuse up-to-no-good bawdyhouse

buy bitcoin with the money your wife saved you and thank her when you're 41

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49451979)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:37 PM
Author: purple yarmulke newt



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452030)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 1:43 PM
Author: razzmatazz point gunner

I did not even remember my 40th birthday.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452046)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:06 PM
Author: supple free-loading theater stage

I’ll stick up for OP. We have one side of the story, but that’s lazy behavior from a woman who is not trying as hard as she should be to make her husband happy and feel appreciated.

Just think of the number of times per week we suck it up and do shit that we don’t want to do to keep the paycheck coming and the family machine going. Nice to be acknowledged every once in a while and extremely hurtful to have it strongly suggested that your feelings don’t matter. Bro was looking forward to this family dinner all week. Life is all about managing expectations, but OP just wanted to spend his 40th with his wife and kids and she couldn’t get it together.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452096)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:20 PM
Author: autistic range goal in life

i'll cosign on this. happy belated birthday, OP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452119)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:37 PM
Author: Zombie-like cyan theatre

This is just what women are/do fundamentally

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452155)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:45 PM
Author: pearl hot hunting ground community account

i remember my 40 birthday. we had concert tickets and i was eager to leave early so i could see the opener. wife was on the couch casually filling out the census that had been laying around for weeks. i think it was the last day you could do it? she was taking forever. i asked her to please blow it off so that we could go, it was my 40th birthday for god's sake. she slammed it down, said fine let's go and got sour and didn't say a word to me for hours.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452169)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:53 PM
Author: Histrionic insane sandwich

As a man, no one cares about you at all. If they pretend to, it’s an act in furtherance of some other goal. This is often unconscious. You’ll never be able to be happy until you make full peace with this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452181)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:54 PM
Author: Zombie-like cyan theatre



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: poppy mildly autistic incel



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 3:03 PM
Author: house-broken lascivious jew school cafeteria



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 3:02 PM
Author: adulterous indian lodge dingle berry

How do you have kids and still think about yourself this much

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452199)



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Date: November 22nd, 2025 4:05 PM
Author: silver meetinghouse persian

happy birthday, Fat Teddy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5800936&forum_id=2:#49452344)