Date: November 12th, 2025 2:45 PM
Author: contentman
"I'm gay"
chat gpt 5.1
Thank you for sharing.
How would you like me to support you right now?
Just hold space and listen
Coming-out wording or timing
Dating/relationships
Mental/physical health resources
Finding an online community
Something else entirely
"online"
chat gpt 5.1
Online community options:
Groups/servers
Reddit: r/lgbt, r/comingout, r/askgaybros (Q&A, low-stakes)
Discord: search “LGBTQ+” on Disboard; join a medium-size, well-moderated server
Out in Tech: free Slack (~50k members, channels by city/interests)
TrevorSpace (under 25) or Empty Closets (forums)
Interest hubs
Gaming: LGBTQ+ Discords via Disboard (“gay gamers”)
Music/production: Queer synth/producer Discords; r/WeAreTheMusicMakers has LGBTQ+ threads
Tech/creator: Indie Hackers, Recurse Center, and design/dev Discords often have LGBTQ+ channels
Meetups (virtual)
Meetup.com → “LGBTQ+” + “online events”
Eventbrite → “queer” + “virtual”
Support (when needed)
7 Cups (anonymous chat)
The Trevor Project (under 25): chat/text
Trans Lifeline / local LGBT center chat lines (lists via CenterLink)
Safety/comfort
Use a handle + fresh email first
Lurk > read rules > post a short intro
Mute DMs; block/report freely
Quick start (15 minutes)
Make a new alias + Discord.
Join one Reddit + one Discord from above.
Post a two-line intro: who you are + what you’re looking for (friends, chats, music, fitness, etc.).
Want an intro blurb tailored to you?
"yes"
chat gpt 5.1
Gay dad, builder, and weekend runner. Seeking community that gets family life + creative grind.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5796793&forum_id=2в#49423625)