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as a male did you ever have a "mentor" at a job

like other than your family members did any older male ever ...
crusty senate
  11/18/25
very first job was a corpo job in mfh jewish guy was assi...
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  11/19/25
of course
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A lot of boomers did
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most well-adjusted people at larger companies have older mor...
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After boomers became old enough to be “mentors,”...
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yes, i also try to mentor younger doods, they all end up CSL...
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you should be happy for them if they do
crusty senate
  11/18/25
its like watching ur son hit a home run
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best thing i did when i went solo at 29 was rent space with ...
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  11/18/25
goy or jews?
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  11/18/25
we are all jews
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u ever get to play w kai?
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  11/18/25
the xo story
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Why do you say they were shit at business? Why is your f...
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They are all crim def only and dont know how to price servic...
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  11/18/25
nice! are you able to bring them on as co-counsel now, or th...
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  11/18/25
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  11/18/25
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  11/19/25
biglaw boomers like me -- had 1 jew and 1 goy boomer help me...
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  11/18/25
yeah he was a good dude. he probably got more out of it t...
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nebbish jew?
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Yea, twice and it was 180. Thought this was normal
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when i started LOL they assigned me two mentors a faggot bir...
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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:54 AM
Author: crusty senate

like other than your family members did any older male ever bother to try to teach you something or help you along with your career at a young age?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440188)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:58 AM
Author: rose jet-lagged hospital pervert

very first job was a corpo job in mfh

jewish guy was assigned as my "mentor". he was just like the stuff i wrote about it in "dinner with andre" thread. Fake goy name, two first names. Taller and almost passing. Neurotic and sarcastic and quippy

one day i didnt wear a belt. I was 22 and didnt know shit about corpo-wear i guess. He grabbed my elbow and tried to parade me around office, announcing "this kid has no belt"



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440193)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:59 AM
Author: Pearly Death Wish

IME the most disgusting kikes are the ones with two first goy names

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440200)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 7:28 AM
Author: Curious pearl property boistinker

Matthew Thomas Shapiro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443220)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:07 AM
Author: comical sapphire site dingle berry

of course

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440225)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:10 AM
Author: Confused giraffe principal's office

A lot of boomers did

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440238)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:18 AM
Author: Bisexual Station Voyeur

most well-adjusted people at larger companies have older more experienced guys at work who look out for them and try to help them out. terms like “mentor” are a product of the workplace being commandeered by careerist women and emasculated over-earnest evangelical types.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440256)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:30 AM
Author: Startling Narrow-minded Trust Fund Hell

just some older bros helping out younger bros. none of that faggy woman shit.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440277)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 11:57 AM
Author: brilliant school mental disorder



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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:06 PM
Author: Flesh Really Tough Guy Locus



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:12 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster



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Date: November 19th, 2025 12:33 AM
Author: Brass Frisky Prole Cuck



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:23 AM
Author: Aqua vibrant keepsake machete lodge

When I first started out, I had people that would try to take advantage of me and get me to do their work for them.

After awhile, I built relationships that have lasted and those folks have looked out for me, I guess.

I sacrificed a lot when I was younger and look where it has led me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440263)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:28 AM
Author: unhinged cuckoldry

After boomers became old enough to be “mentors,” the protege is always female I guess.

doodikoff thought he had a mentor but it was just a boomer who was like “how’s your Firm you started in march 2020 going, champ?”

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440271)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:32 AM
Author: Trip Emerald Clown Casino

yes, i also try to mentor younger doods, they all end up CSLGing and mooning over me haha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440281)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:45 AM
Author: crusty senate

you should be happy for them if they do

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440309)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:01 AM
Author: Trip Emerald Clown Casino

its like watching ur son hit a home run

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440329)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Slippery Amber Theatre Hunting Ground

best thing i did when i went solo at 29 was rent space with 5 solo dudes age 50-70 including a former ausa and law professor. they were great about bringing me as co counsel, talking through cases and feeding me scraps. 10 years later i think i make more than all of them now because they are shit at business

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440333)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:05 AM
Author: fluffy volcanic crater

goy or jews?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440335)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:32 AM
Author: Slippery Amber Theatre Hunting Ground

we are all jews

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440400)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: fluffy volcanic crater

u ever get to play w kai?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440411)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 11:56 AM
Author: vigorous queen of the night parlor

the xo story

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440612)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 7:22 AM
Author: Pearly Death Wish



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443214)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:21 PM
Author: frum sandwich area

Why do you say they were shit at business?

Why is your firm much more profitable?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49441810)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 7:52 PM
Author: Slippery Amber Theatre Hunting Ground

They are all crim def only and dont know how to price services and get stuck in cases. I do crim and pi and hired staff to handle the administrative shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49442180)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:13 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster

nice! are you able to bring them on as co-counsel now, or throw them scraps - like have the tables turned - or are they retired and whatnot now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443257)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:08 AM
Author: vigorous queen of the night parlor

summon: doodikoff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440341)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: unhinged cuckoldry

https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&mc=145&forum_id=2

https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4848906&mc=138&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440354)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 1:31 AM
Author: Wonderful Trailer Park

Thanks for poasting the second one, I had never seen that gem

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443006)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: fluffy volcanic crater

biglaw boomers like me -- had 1 jew and 1 goy boomer help me with the ropes when i was a junior. mostly how to navigate the bullshit and politics and helping run interference for me to avoid bad partners

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440353)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:41 AM
Author: Black center

yeah

he was a good dude. he probably got more out of it than me - i was a stellar employee - but he did a lot out of genuine goodwill to help me and do what was best for me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440425)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 11:55 AM
Author: Dashing home

when i was young my uncle mentored me to suck his cock

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440609)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:22 PM
Author: frum sandwich area

Surprised I had to scroll this far down to find tales of sexual exploitation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49441815)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 12:51 PM
Author: Marvelous heaven

Yes but he had a tiny book and I went down with the ship

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49440805)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:01 PM
Author: mind-boggling orange psychic becky

Yes, lucked out and started working for one older partner in a niche regulatory practice. Taught me everything I know and now he’s semi retired and I inherited all of his big institutional clients.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49441730)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:14 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443259)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:02 PM
Author: ivory laughsome sanctuary

At my first job it was policy to give every new hire a "mentor." I suspect I got assigned mine because we shared a certain sociocultural identity.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49441737)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:20 PM
Author: Trip Emerald Clown Casino

nebbish jew?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49441802)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:21 PM
Author: Stubborn stag film

Yea, twice and it was 180. Thought this was normal

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49441808)



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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:59 PM
Author: Vivacious Smoky Degenerate

I had one great mentor who was a former practice group head and came up under a leading lawyer in my field. He was fantastic and I’m still in touch occasionally even though he’s retired. My fatal mistake was that I trusted he would still have the juice to get me made partner. He did not. Ironically, I also worked closely with the young gun partner who took over for him. He didn’t go to bat for me to make partner (at a v10 firm where it’s impossible to make partner in my group), and I left the firm. The younger guy left for a different firm and I’m still friends with him and might give him business. I vacillate between being resentful that I didn’t make partner to being happy that I am a client now with a 10x better life. (I now personally manage ~$20MM in legal spend per year and these cockroaches are all on my nuts to get business.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49442801)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:15 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443261)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 12:28 AM
Author: Bistre fragrant plaza

Yes. They taught me what I know, protected me in the storm, stood as beacons of excellence and integrity in the darkest hour. I would die for them.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49442964)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:14 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster



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Date: November 19th, 2025 12:46 AM
Author: Brass Frisky Prole Cuck

yes. had a couple dudes who really helped me out when i was young and stupid and didn't understand the world. thankfully they are all still alive and we talk regularly.

hopefully the younger guys i deal with now will in turn help me stay in touch after i've mostly powered down to read books all day.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49442973)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:13 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443258)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 7:30 AM
Author: Razzmatazz Partner

when i started LOL they assigned me two mentors a faggot birdshit and an AZNguy cause these were the only two "diverse" ppl in the firm

got raped by both of them, now gay

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443222)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:06 AM
Author: Alcoholic lascivious travel guidebook corn cake

Lol no. I come from stock that is smart but blue collar at best and outright criminal at worst. I didn't even know to apply for college until people were talking about getting rejected or accepted in high school

I have mentored a ton of people now, though, including fellow c-level executives. The world is fucking crazy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443250)



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:15 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster



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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:28 AM
Author: Lime gas station toaster

love this thread about bros (occasionally) helping bros.

i had guys who i learned a lot from, but i never managed to turn it into the quasi-son, golden child thing that you see some guys pull off. which was my fault, because when i was younger, i had a bit of an anti-authoritarian streak, would be the junior complaining about bullshit deadlines or work/projects that made no sense, would sometimes correct the boss, and am too autistic to let certain things go.

maybe the guy i learned the most from was close in age and more of a colleague/slight boss, with more natural charisma than i've ever seen - seeing that up close was an education.

and honestly now, i've got a senior lady boss with a super high-powered background, who overtly talks about "mentorship" and mentoring me specifically, and it's great. even though xo consensus is that lady bosses are to be avoided, she's 180 so far and seems to like me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2в#49443268)