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I skipped the part about visas and apartment leases: 2. C...
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  05/23/25


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Date: May 23rd, 2025 12:28 AM
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I skipped the part about visas and apartment leases:

2. Cultural/Social Adjustment: The Biggest Hurdle

Language Proficiency: This is critical. While you might get by with English in Seoul, daily life will be significantly easier (and more fulfilling) if you learn Korean. Start learning now. Don't underestimate the challenge.

Hierarchy & Respect: Korean culture places a high value on age and seniority. Understand and respect these hierarchies in all interactions – work, social settings, etc. Formal language (존댓말 - jondaetmal) is essential.

Collectivism vs. Individualism: Korea is more collectivist than the US. Expect group harmony to be prioritized over individual expression sometimes. This can feel stifling if you're used to American individualism.

Social Etiquette: Learn basic etiquette – bowing, using two hands when giving/receiving things, table manners, etc. Making mistakes is okay, but showing effort goes a long way.

Relationships & Networking: Building genuine relationships takes time and effort. Be patient and persistent. Nunchi (the ability to read between the lines and understand unspoken cues) is important.

"Reverse Culture Shock": Even though you have Korean heritage, you've grown up American. You will experience culture shock in Korea, even more so than someone with no prior connection. Be prepared for it.

3. Emotional/Mental Wellbeing: The Inner Journey

Expect Disappointment: Your idealized vision of life in Korea might not match reality. Be prepared to adjust your expectations and be flexible.

Loneliness & Isolation: It's easy to feel lonely, especially initially. Make a conscious effort to connect with people – join clubs, volunteer, take classes.

Identity Issues: You’ll likely grapple with questions of identity - are you Korean? Are you American? Embrace the complexity and find your own place.

Homesickness: It will happen. Have strategies for coping (staying connected with friends/family back home, pursuing hobbies).

Mental Health Support: Research mental health resources in Korea. Finding English-speaking therapists can be challenging but is becoming more available.

4. Financial Planning: The Bottom Line

Cost of Living: Seoul is expensive, especially for housing. Research the cost of living in your desired location and create a realistic budget.

Salary Expectations: Research average salaries for your profession in Korea. They might be lower than what you're used to in the US.

Jeonse System: This is a unique Korean housing system where instead of paying monthly rent, you pay a large lump sum (the Jeonse) upfront which is returned at the end of the lease. This can be a significant financial burden.

Taxes: Understand Korean tax laws and how they will affect your income.

Savings & Emergency Fund: Have a substantial emergency fund to cover unexpected expenses or repatriation if necessary.

Potential Pitfalls to Watch Out For:

Romanticizing Korea: Don't base your decision solely on K-dramas or idealized portrayals of Korean life.

Ignoring Language Barriers: Underestimating the impact of language barriers can lead to frustration and isolation.

Assuming Cultural Understanding: Just because you have Korean heritage doesn’t mean you automatically understand Korean culture.

Burning Bridges Back Home: Don't completely cut ties with your life in the US until you are certain about your relocation.

Ignoring Job Market Realities: Securing a job can be difficult, especially without strong Korean language skills and local experience.

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