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37 year old guy's dating "sweet spot": 33-38 (GraceKelly)
Date: May 31st, 2010 2:05 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend Date: May 31st, 2010 1:00 PM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
37's *later* 30s.
Girls in the 28-32 age group who have the highest dating market value can still do well within their age group without having to go older. To maximize quantity as well as quality his target age group should be 33-38.
http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1325985&forum_id=2#15125912 |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:07 PM Author: Jade roommate rehab That's a little high. I'd say 30-35 would be the group he'd have best results with, though. There are a lot of women who won't date guys who are 10 years older. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126485) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:08 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend lol @ 27 yo girls having options (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126488) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:11 PM Author: Olive Comical Internal Respiration Rowan has almost no options (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126502) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:50 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete It seems like she does well enough for herself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131800) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 12:55 AM Author: Amber menage bwahahahahahaha! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#18218550) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:42 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I guess it depends on a lot of factors. I was thinking more about the average 37-year-old in a normal city.
Depending on looks, career, money, location and other factors the guy could target 28-32 successfully.
He'll have good options in the 30-35 age group but he'll be competing with younger guys for the most attractive single women in their late 20s and early 30s, and not many girls in that age group are keen on going almost a decade older. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:44 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend "attractive single women in their late 20s and early 30s" does not compute |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:44 PM Author: drab crawly crackhouse do ppl actually think about this shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15130946) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:45 PM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Bitter 30 year old lawyers who haven't been able to lock down a single marriage proposal think about it almost constantly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15130966) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:47 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete Locked down one in my mid 20s and dinged the guy. HTH.
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:51 PM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Like many other things you say, this is a probably a lie. HTH.
I miss when you'd whine about how your desire to become a pampered suburban housewife seemed remote because no decent guys would wife you. The new self-confident and satisfied iteration of your board persona is kind of even more soulless and artificial than your old posting style, which was open about your deep disappointment and frustration with your station in life. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:58 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete Many decent guys wanted to date me but I wasn't interested in any of them. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:02 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Your posting is a study in delusion and contradiction. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131949) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:50 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete To some degree. Honestly, if I meet an attractive guy that I get along with and I find out he's in his late(r) 30s it's a bit of a turnoff. When I was in high school or college, if I found out a guy was younger than me I was similarly turned off. Most of the time I got over it, sometimes I didn't. I don't know many people in their late 30s so the idea of finding one sexually attractive is like finding a woman sexually attractive. I can objectively look at an attractive woman and think she is beautiful but there's no desire there to have sex with her.
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:51 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend You aren't 18 anymore. You can no longer "shoot for the moon." Bits of turnoffs are now just the price of admission. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131017) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:55 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete There are bits of turnoffs about every person. The thing with age is that not only is the person likely to be less physically attractive but there is a time-in-your-life difference which may cause a disconnect between the two people. Even stuff as simple as reminiscing about common TV shows and songs from your childhood can remind the two of you that you grew up in different generations.
Maybe I know an atypical group of people in this age group, but none of the single girls from 28-32 (or even older) have any problems dating men around their own age. Some may prefer older men for reasons of their own (or may end up with someone 5+ years older) but I haven't at all noticed that single women in this age group have little options with men around their own age, especially in larger cities where the good ones aren't likely to be taken. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:06 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib "but none of the single girls from 28-32 (or even older) have any problems dating men around their own age"
The more desirable guys in that range usually aim for 20-25. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:09 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I don't disagree but since it's rather impolite to ask the age of someone you just met you find a lot of men in the 28-32 age group meeting and liking women in the same age group.
You meet someone, talk to them, realize that you want to see them again. You're curious about their age but by the time you realize you like them and are attracted to them it doesn't matter as much as you thought it did.
I see this playing out as a strict preference much more on dating sites than IRL. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:19 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib yeah for the last couple years it has been one undergrad girl from OKC after another for me, with a few 23-24 grad students mixed in.
I'm glad ur happy, being half asian helps with the age issue. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:21 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete And how old are you?
I find that online dating helps if you really want to screen for age (or other factors) but I can't see why someone in college would need to resort to it to get dates. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:25 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib just turned 30.
my big issue is intelligence and youth. easy to find smart girls my age at bar events and work, but not young and smart.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:22 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested how old are you? And why would any attractive college girl be on OKC? it seems that only desperate chicks would risk others seeing their profile or wouldn't be able to meet a guy at college. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132172) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:31 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib lots of attractive undergrads are on OKC.
Let's look at their immediate IRL options:
immature undergrads their own age poor grad students with roommates random dumb drunks at college bars.
OKC is so much like facebook it has very little stigma. and the younger you go, the more natural it seems.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:41 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested college girls want the most high status guy at their college usually though or maybe a law or MBA student. Most don't actively look outside it seems, though seniors or girls in big cities like NYC are probably different. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132394) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:48 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete This.
The hottest girls in college weren't the ones who were looking outside college for dating, unless it was to date a recent graduate or a friend from their non-college social circle (high school, friends of parents and so on).
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:57 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib i didn't say i'm dating the hottest
i won't troll you about how 28yo women are all fugs, but i find a normal 21yo hotter than 95% of 28 year olds and 99% of 35yos.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:52 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib there really aren't too many "high status" doods at UC and Cal State schools. nor are the MBA programs any good. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132523) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:53 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete That's true. I was thinking that you were talking more about finding USC sorority women on OKC - that's much less likely to happen. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132541) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:58 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested yeah, at the directional schools and commuter schools a late 20's guy can probably clean up. Ditto with girls at NYU or Fordham, etc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132593) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:59 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib yeah agreed. USC is much more a rich dumb kid's school though. i strongly prefer smart girls, and even the rich ones prefer UCLA. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132612) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:03 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete Maybe 15 years ago, but not so much now. USC and UCLA are pretty equal. A 1999 USC grad is much more likely to be dumber than a 1999 UCLA grad. Not really the case for the 2009 grads.
Either way, I doubt a USC or UCLA sorority woman would be on OKC, and it doesn't look like OKC's capturing your target "young and smart" audience. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:16 AM Author: lascivious prole LOL, USC isn't even close to equal. They changed the way they report their USNews rankings and that helped somewhat. Basically, if students take more than one SAT (which they all do), USC combines the top scores from different sections to come up with a new SAT number that the kid never actually got.
Also, its reputation scores are shit. Anybody from California knows that USC is more like UCSB or UCSD than UCLA. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:14 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib i agree the culture gap between UCLA and USC has narrowed but the stereotypes are still fairly true.
my girl is on a full ride to UCLA and has a high GPA. i don't know about the average on OKC, but their questions make it very easy to screen out dumbs.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:23 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested everything about USC screams sleazy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132863) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:12 PM Author: Startling heady garrison 28-32 is actually this guy's perfect target. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126520) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:50 PM Author: Startling heady garrison Why would I be flaming? I'm not agreeing with GraceKelly, dipshit. I said 28-32, not 33-38. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126858) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:57 PM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza Still too old. Dude is rich, not your average Joe. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126918) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:32 PM Author: Startling heady garrison That's ridiculous. I'm 29 and I don't want to date an 18-year-old. Fuck and chuck, sure. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127172) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:45 PM Author: Startling heady garrison No. You're just really weird and aspie. I have nothing in common with high school students. I'd fuck one, sure. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127291) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:33 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den yup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127182) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:34 PM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza Aren't you supposed to be female? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127192) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:36 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i am. i'm agreeing that guys 29 yrs old probably shouldn't consider 18 yr olds for serious relationships. too much of an age/maturity gap. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127216) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:37 PM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza Lulz, no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127224) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:37 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127230) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:39 PM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza You have no idea what the maturity levels and personalities are like of the people involved.
In any event, lol @ the idea that 35 year old guys are "too mature" for all these girls. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:44 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i thought this was just in general, not a specific couple we're talking about. in general, most 35 yr olds would probably NOT treat an 18 yr old seriously. I was dating a 27 yr old player type of guy when I was 21 and he said i was too 'immature' for him and just saw me as a P&D situation (i recognized this though and as i didn't want to be 'played' i didn't have sex with him.) in retrospect, i was probably more mature than him in some ways. but guys will just see pretty younger girls as an 'easy' prospect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127285) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:46 PM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza This is a sign of a lack of maturity in the guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127300) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:00 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib "but guys will just see pretty younger girls as an 'easy' prospect."
No, the average single woman my age is much more willing for a NSA bang than the average college girl.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:11 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I agree, but the issue isn't whether one age group is more open to NSA sex. It's whether guys in their later 20s are more likely to view a 22 year old or a 28 year old as relationshippable.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:13 AM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza 22 year old. At 28 you realize she's aging and might be settling for you so the 22 year old is a better bet for a serious relationship. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132099) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:24 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete If you think of it that way (i.e. the 28-year-old is settling for you and doesn't so much like you for who you are) then sure.
I had a conversation with two of my superiors the other day about this. Both are married men in their late 30s. One married an older woman and the other married a woman around his age who keeps in excellent shape. The former was giving me the advice to date younger guys and couldn't understand why a guy my boyfriend's age would date a 22-year-old (his last GF was 22 or 23). The latter explained to him that a lot of men prefer that age gap/age group.
I think men are split on the issue like women are. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:28 AM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza Well yes, some men are stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132232) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:07 AM Author: lascivious prole Men are split on the issue like people are split on whether the holocaust happened. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132700) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:24 AM Author: Alcoholic Station Shitlib I disagree, I view someone 6-10 years younger as more likely to be compatible with me for a LTR than someone my age.
I'm in California though, we are not so extreme on the late average marriage age as NYC.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:26 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete What are you disagreeing with? My point was that 28-32 year old men would differ on whether the 22 year old or the 28 year old would be more relationshippable.
You and Fish fall on one side of the spectrum but I've seen many guys fall on the other. They date younger girls for a while but end up marrying a girl their age. Something like that. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:47 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested For LTR? it would depend on the quality of the girl. The 28 yr old could certainly be better if she's hot, mature and would make a good wife/mother. I'd probably prefer 26-27 on average and I'm in that age group. 22 would have to show uncommon maturity for an attractive American girl her age. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132463) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:46 PM Author: Startling heady garrison You're immature and not very smart so you'd probably get along with a teenager. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127297) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:46 PM Author: Anal hairy legs piazza Yes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127302) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:47 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i'm actually quite mature and got a good enough LSAT score to qualify me to be intelligent. hth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127311) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:54 PM Author: Startling heady garrison I was talking to Fish not you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127372) |
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Date: June 11th, 2011 12:55 AM Author: Amber menage DT is an awful, seriously delusional poster. she's on par with rasqie (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#18218548) |
Date: May 31st, 2010 2:16 PM Author: Narrow-minded Principal's Office Macaca Single women over 25 are almost always ugly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126547) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:16 PM Author: Red factory reset button there is no XO topic that the women troll harder against than the age issue. their disconnection from reality on this subject is constantly amusing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126553) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:36 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend They also think a law degree and 160K debt bumps them UP a few points. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126723) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:09 AM Author: lascivious prole I mean, you're right, but there's no need to be a dick about it. Imagine if you wanted to be an accomplished person but you knew by doing so you would actually be making yourself less attractive. Life's really unfair. I guess that's the trade-off for being able to get laid whenever you want and being able to have multiple orgasms. But then they have to spit out kids too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132724) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:46 PM Author: Provocative hilarious location sex offender I wish more of them would troll for dating a few years younger (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126810) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:47 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den who cares... i'm 25 and attractive, but i date older guys and can date younger guys if i wanted too. i get hit on by all ages... (unfortunately.) but I tend to like guys who are more mature & have their shit together, and confidence. if we have chemistry and he's still goodlooking, i'd date a guy in his mid-30s no problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126828) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:49 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i'm not h.ryder. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126839) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:51 PM Author: Sinister nibblets h. ryder prefers 50 and 5 to all ages in between right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126868) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:50 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend " i get hit on by all ages... (unfortunately.)" Poor you, getting all that attention and validation. You will cry the day it stops. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:59 PM Author: Dun galvanic pervert titmfcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126937) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:51 PM Author: Olive Comical Internal Respiration so confident yet so pumo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126865) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:51 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i'm a former promotional model and hotter than probably 99% of this board, and retiring hth. so in other words, i really don't give a shit what you think, but the fact is that attractive girls in their mid-20s DO have options - but some prefer dating older men for different reasons. this is pretty standard knowledge - why xoxo tries to troll against it is so stupid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126872) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:54 PM Author: Olive Comical Internal Respiration i don't care about the rest. just tell me why you're pumo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126893) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:55 PM Author: Red factory reset button lol @ ur RAGE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126906) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:27 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den the age thing here is ridic. and really degrading to women. esp those who are in good shape & take care of themselves... saying they basically are ugly after x age by virtue of their age is just ridiculous. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127127) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:29 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend Don't derive self worth from your looks then, bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127143) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:30 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i don't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127159) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:39 PM Author: Red factory reset button this has to be a guy pretending to be a retarded chick. posting style is too hilarious and stupid to be real. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127251) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:45 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den really, that's funny because i find 99% of the posters here also too 'stupid and hilarious' to be real. i wouldn't want to meet most of you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127290) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:07 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete The guys are projecting. They live for the fantasy of being able to slay a bunch of twentysomething CGWBTs all the way up until their forties by virtue of their biglaw salary.
Their description of male and female dating preferences re: age is so overwhelmingly inconsistent with my IRL experience it's shocking. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:57 PM Author: Cordovan aromatic telephone oh wow, a real promo model. we're honored. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126925) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:58 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend what's a promo model (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126932) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:46 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "the fact is that attractive girls in their mid-20s DO have options - but some prefer dating older men for different reasons"
I don't think anyone is trying to troll against younger women and older men, but the preference isn't as universal as you make it out to be. Most people I know (friends, acquaintances, co-workers) who are in serious relationships are dating someone within 5 years of their age. Those who are dating someone older (both men and women) have partners who are very physically fit and look younger.
For every girl in her mid to late 20s who prefers older men and is open to guys in the mid to late 30s age group there is another girl who will consider the same guy too old. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:47 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend So you reject him. And get older. Tick tock. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15130975) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:55 PM Author: beta razzle-dazzle brunch trump supporter So half of them are available. Not bad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131063) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:48 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I worded that inartfully. I don't think the breakdown is 50-50. It's more like this:
Around 25% (or less) of mid-20s girls prefer dating a guy in his mid 30s to dating men closer to their age.
Around 30% of mid-20s girls would be open to dating a guy in his mid 30s IF there was an attraction there (which can be a fairly big "if", depending on the particular guy).
Around 45% (or more) of mid-20s girls have a much stronger preference for guys within 5 years of their age. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:13 AM Author: beta razzle-dazzle brunch trump supporter So there are millions and millions of hot 20 year old's who would date him. Why would he settle for a 35 year old again? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132762) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:14 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I don't know, but there are many 35-year-olds that are "settling" for other 35-year-olds out there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132779) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:26 AM Author: beta razzle-dazzle brunch trump supporter Most settled when they were in their 20's. Give them a few more years to divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132890) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:10 AM Author: lascivious prole Fuck me, this HAS TO BE a new meme. I'm a former promotional model, lololol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132737) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:53 PM Author: Narrow-minded Principal's Office Macaca LOL, you're lying about everything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126886) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:56 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den believe what you want, i really don't care. i'm retiring from this site anyway, was just on here for travel tips re. Rome. hth. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126913) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 2:59 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend top 1% attractiveness AND well traveled. Is there anything you can't do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15126934) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:21 PM Author: Sinister nibblets not really well-traveled if she hasnt been to rome yet you silly prole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127082) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:22 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den yeah, i'm not well traveled at all. hence i came here for input. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127090) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:22 PM Author: Sinister nibblets well learn a bit more about the world and i'll consider fucking you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127092) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:25 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den LOL 'consider'... why am i called a 'pumo' on here? i just checked up the term on urbandictionary.com and it means a combination of "punk" and "emo". i don't get it. are people on here so retarded that they can't find a better adjective? |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:42 PM Author: Red factory reset button decent quality flame work right here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127270) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:44 PM Author: Sinister nibblets yeah for sure (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127287) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 3:46 PM Author: arrogant canary idiot den i'm not flame but really i don't care. that's the beauty of having a 'pumo' identity. lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15127295) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:11 AM Author: lascivious prole does this site show up if you google 'travel tips' or something?
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:48 PM Author: pale exciting haunted graveyard address what is the average age difference? about 3 years? assume a desirable guy in his mid-30s can buy another five if he wants, and he probably will (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15130979) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:49 PM Author: Smoky Market Police Squad if she's old enough to drink, she's over the hill
For real though I think Rowan's suggestion of 30-35 was best realistically. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:53 PM Author: beta razzle-dazzle brunch trump supporter For a rich guy? No way. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131050) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:55 PM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead A good-looking 37 year old with money, security, and personality can probably go as young as he wants if he keeps shopping around.
An average looking guy with average finances can probably go a 4-5 years younger without compromising on too much if he shops around and looks for younger women.
An ugly and poor 37 year old should take what he can get. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:55 PM Author: pale exciting haunted graveyard address this seems mostly right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131073) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 10:59 PM Author: beta razzle-dazzle brunch trump supporter Most people on here will be moderately rich, bad personality, and ugly. What can they get? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131124) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:00 PM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend a failed 37 year old guy can do better than a failed 37 year old woman (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131134) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:05 PM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead It's a scale, not strict categories. Say, an ugly midlaw partner with a typical lawyer personality? Quite a bit lower, again, depending on what he'll compromise on.
And as :D notes, the door remains open for men as time marches on. Women have to be like 1/10,000 good-looking or rich in order to have the same kind of options. Not necessarily fair, just how society seems to work. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:43 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "A good-looking 37 year old with money, security, and personality can probably go as young as he wants if he keeps shopping around."
I'll agree with this. Not many girls in the 18-26 age group would date a guy this old but there are still a critical mass of gold diggers and daddy issues girls to keep him happy. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:45 PM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Not all chicks willing to date an attractive, charming older guy with cash have mental issues or extreme greed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131742) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:50 PM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "Willing to date" =/= "prefer to date".
I'd be willing to go on one date with an attractive, charming older guy in his mid to late 30s under certain circumstances. |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:57 PM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Point? You asserted that any woman in that age range who would go down that road is either a greedy cunt or has issues. You're 30, so you dating guys in their late 30s is not strange in the least. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131895) |
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Date: May 31st, 2010 11:59 PM Author: pale exciting haunted graveyard address but she can date hot 25-year-olds who have secure income streams and are desperate to ring her. why would she settle? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131909) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:01 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Good point. I heard she looks very young for her age and has a really great group of friends, so sky's the limit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131936) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:03 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I'm half azn. Why is it so surprising that I might actually look young for my age given my genetic makeup? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15131979) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:02 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "You're 30, so you dating guys in their late 30s is not strange in the least."
So does everyone on XO know my birthday? I was unaware that I turned 30. Either way, if I have enough success dating men in the 28-32 age group (or even younger), what incentive do I have to go older when that's clearly not my physical preference? My BF (private equity, Ivy grad, college athlete) could probably get the pick of the 22-23 year old CGWBTs but he's with ME. An "aging NYC azn female". Bam. No reason to specifically target the oldboys here. I'm ambivalent about kids so the biological clock isn't a concern of mine.
"You asserted that any woman in that age range who would go down that road is either a greedy cunt or has issues."
She's more likely to be one than the women who prefer guys around their age or the women who don't care about age. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:16 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead 1. Remarkable consistency with answering posts with personal details/boasting rather than substance. Truthful or not, your personal examples never do anything to actually strengthen your assertions. The point is that women in your age and position date guys that age all the time, whether or not they're settling, which is the assumption that you make and constantly bristle against whenever this topic is discussed. Your reactions telegraph massive security that is somehow tapped by the topic.
2. 30 pretty much looks like 30, even for Asians. The issue is more whether you're aging well. No matter what, it's certain that you don't look substantially younger than your age once you're in your late 20s. Almost no women do.
3. You're 30 or older. In a thread a long ways back, somebody pinned your by linking posts, as well as your contradictory statements on the matter.
4. Your speculating and sidestepping on this issue is hilarious. At first you assert that any woman who would date guys at that age is damaged in some way, now you're couching it as just "more likely." The point of the post was that if a guy is attractive and appealing in most ways, he has a wide range to choose from and many younger women are going to be completely open to dating him. It's your weird reactions/insecurities on this topic that lead you to state that any woman who would make that age jump has some kind of problem. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:34 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete 1. Since I haven't engaged in large-scale empirical studies on this topic I only have personal anecdotes to go off of. I don't know if any of us have engaged in a major, widespread study about age preferences in heterosexual dating so we're all going off personal anecdotes.
2. I definitely look older now than what I did when I was 20. Maybe I look like what a girl in her late 20s to early 30s is supposed to look like and the girls who did all of the fake tanning, smoking and drugs are being artificially aged. And maybe, by virtue of my genes, I look better than most white girls my age. Whatever. The point is that I haven't had the need to "go older" to get a serious BF, Rowan hasn't, and so forth.
"The point of the post was that if a guy is attractive and appealing in most ways, he has a wide range to choose from and many younger women are going to be completely open to dating him."
I wasn't disagreeing with this. I was calling into question the QUALITY of the women on the way lower end of the eligible age spectrum if they would be interested in a man in his late 30s. I include things like gold-digging or mental instability/co-dependence as factors which affect a woman's quality.
I have a BF who is one year younger than me and is probably more preftigious than anyone who poasts here. As far as I'm concerned I have no problems dating in my desired age group and that's all that matters to me. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:44 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead "I wasn't disagreeing with this. I was calling into question the QUALITY of the women on the way lower end of the eligible age spectrum if they would be interested in a man in his late 30s. I include things like gold-digging or mental instability/co-dependence as factors which affect a woman's quality."
So again, your argument is that only women lacking in quality could possibly be into this. More sweeping statements that tacitly enforce the thing you always troll for in these threads - guys can only attract younger women with problems.
"I have a BF who is one year younger than me and is probably more preftigious than anyone who poasts here. As far as I'm concerned I have no problems dating in my desired age group and that's all that matters to me."
TY. This post exemplifies several of your standard compulsive responses to anything you don't like on XO: personal boasting, slamming of dudes on XO, and relating the issue entirely to yourself, when in fact your personal experience is both dubious and not really the topic at hand.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:51 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "This post exemplifies several of your standard compulsive responses to anything you don't like on XO: personal boasting, slamming of dudes on XO, and relating the issue entirely to yourself, when in fact your personal experience is both dubious and not really the topic at hand."
I don't see anything wrong with talking about personal experiences and preferences on dating threads, or relating the broad statements made in these threads back to your personal experiences. Everyone seems to be doing the same. And how am I boasting? Since when is it boasting for a 29-year-old girl claiming to date a 28-year-old guy with a similar education and career path?
Some of you dudes deserve to be slammed.
How is my personal experience dubious?
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:05 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead Let's boil down what's been said:
Me and other dudes: Guys can date younger if they've got things going on for them
You: Yes, true, but those girls are all headcases or golddiggers
Guys: Not really, personal experience and obvious social truth indicate otherwise
You: My personal experience is that I don't HAVE to date older guys, my friends don't either, my boyfriend is more prestigious than all of you, and my age.
Guys: So?
You: *repeats some garbled mash-up of previous statements
And your statements are dubious because you contradict yourself on XO all the time. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:13 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "And your statements are dubious because you contradict yourself on XO all the time."
About what do I contradict myself? I've never contradicted myself about the basic facts I've stated ITT.
"Yes, true, but those girls are all headcases or golddiggers"
I think I clarified from "all" to "most".
But I do think that most American/Western girls in their early to mid 20s who have a preference for men in their early to mid 30s or older are more likely to be gold diggers or have certain self-esteem/relationship issues than women who don't care about age or prefer men closer to their age.
Finding yourself drawn to an older man is different than having a broad preference for older men. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:16 AM Author: Red factory reset button "Finding yourself drawn to an older man is different than having a broad preference for older men."
please tell me when the fuck anybody has asserted this to be the case? |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:21 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested why would you go younger than your own age group? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132165) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:38 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete If I'm attracted to the guy and we get along I don't care what his age is.
Same reasons as to why I'd go older than my age group, but given my personal tastes it's much more likely that I'll go younger than my desired age range than older. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:15 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested 30 year old woman plus mid to late 30s guy is not uncommon at all, you'd be lucky to get this "one date" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132123) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:41 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I know it's not uncommon but that's not the default, go-to age group for most single girls I know in their late 20s to early 30s.
And many of the guys I know in their later 30s (even those with money and looks) are open to dating women their age. I only know this because I see them dating and getting engaged and married to women their age.
Where age becomes an issue is in terms of the timeline - a younger girl has a longer timeline and doesn't want to settle down as quickly and this can be attractive to guys who also aren't ready to settle down.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:48 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead "And many of the guys I know in their later 30s (even those with money and looks) are open to dating women their age."
Point? The fact that some men prefer this isn't mutually exclusive with the fact that many want to go younger. Again, you completely miss the point being made because for whatever reasons, you take this personally. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:52 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete And many of you take it personally when someone mentions that many women in their early to mid 20s are not willing to date older men! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132528) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:59 AM Author: burgundy indecent circlehead How does this excuse your weirdness? If you start spouting racist banter, is it cool because lots of dudes on XO are racist? You're like a little kid. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132608) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:06 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested yet ironically, you were at that age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132689) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:08 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete Not as old as mid 30s!
And I was in law school so more of my peers were of varying ages than they are now. Older doods didn't seem as...different. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:56 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested I'm referring to your attitude that you'd go on "one date" with a charming attractive guy in his mid to late 30's as if it was some kind of favor to him. This hypo guy can date most women your age and doesn't need your favor. 36 or 37 is not an autoding for a 30 yr old woman in most cases. She may generally not date guys that are 36 or 37, but that has more to do with who she meets and hangs around with, etc. Even Rowan will go about that high IIRC.
A guy in his late 30's doesn't marry a woman his age unless he's forced to. Ticking is way too loud. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:01 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete " She may generally not date guys that are 36 or 37, but that has more to do with who she meets and hangs around with, etc."
And that has a lot to do with who I meet and hang out with as well. i don't know many people who are 36+.
"his hypo guy can date most women your age and doesn't need your favor."
Yeah, but "most women my age" includes a wide variation of quality (as men judge quality).
"I'm referring to your attitude that you'd go on "one date" with a charming attractive guy in his mid to late 30's as if it was some kind of favor to him."
I'm sure that if another girl my age were substituted in, the guy might be doing the favor to her by agreeing to this hypothetical date. But not all women are created equal.
The bottom line is that if someone (man or woman) is having enough success with their desired age group, why move to a less desirable age group? And, for me, late 30s is much less desirable than late 20s (all things equal). |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:12 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested it seems like age is really a big factor for you. It's not so much for me. I mean for LTR purposes I guess I have a range of about 10 years and if she's in that range it all depends on other factors. You seem much more rigid.
when you think women your age see a guy as "older"? 3 yrs? 5? 8? |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:20 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "when you think women your age see a guy as "older"? 3 yrs? 5? 8?"
I think it depends on the woman's circle of friends. If she's used to socializing with people 5+ years older than her then she's going to see that as "normal" and men her age as "younger".
"it seems like age is really a big factor for you."
It is, but that's probably just tangentially related to my personal preferences. I like babyfaced guys and don't like the "rugged man" look. So I never saw the appeal to older-looking men. All of the XO trolling against older women and for larger age gaps has made me a bit stubborn in these threads, I do admit. And part of me thinks it's an ego thing - I feel like a guy is more "prestigious" if he's younger than a certain age. Like I feel like I can get any 35+ guy that I want, so the idea of dating one of them becomes much less appealing. I like the idea of being able to get and keep guys that could easily date attractive younger women. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:30 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested "I think it depends on the woman's circle of friends."
in your circle. I know you've claimed to have a bunch of hot/smart friends, when does a guy's age become a factor at all? Is it 5 yrs older? a little more than that?
"I feel like a guy is more "prestigious" if he's younger than a certain age. Like I feel like I can get any 35+ guy that I want, so the idea of dating one of them becomes much less appealing."
the classic pink cadillac schtick is back I see |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:34 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete It's not schtick. It's actually how I feel. I'm just admitting it.
"when does a guy's age become a factor at all? Is it 5 yrs older? a little more than that?"
All across the board, but we all agree that if you like someone and are attracted to them it's not that big of a deal. I agree - liking someone, connecting with them and all of that trumps any prestige factor.
If there's a specific girl you want to date and she is younger, go for it. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 2:29 AM Author: ocher aphrodisiac idea he suggested "If there's a specific girl you want to date and she is younger, go for it."
obviously. My thinking was more trying to get into a woman's mind when she thinks about this. A woman who is age-conscious. Like what kind of age difference between your friend and her bf would surprise you - that kind of thing. Or what kind of age difference might be somewhat of a disadvantage for the guy. You said yourself your friends recoiled at the pics of one of your friends and her husband who was much older.
Seems to me that up to 5-6 years is no big deal at all, and larger differences than that can be more of an obstacle. Not saying i won't go for it; this is more about generalizations. E.g. is a girl 8 yrs younger much more likely to autoding you than a girl 5 yrs younger, or 3 yrs younger, etc. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 2:59 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "Like what kind of age difference between your friend and her bf would surprise you - that kind of thing."
Depends on the ages of the people involved. I would be very shocked if one of my 28-29 year old male friends started dating someone in the 18-22 age group (sorry, TMF) unless there was some common tie between them like grad school.
A 28-32 year old girl dating 7-10 years older isn't weird but because there's such a variation between how both men and women look at that age and also between what stage of your life you are in, this kind of age range creates some incongruous couples.
As for late 20s guys (your age group), it's a mixed bag. Many 23-year-olds hang out with a bunch of 28-32 year olds as well as with people their own age so interacting with people 5+ years older isn't odd at all. Look to see if a girl's friends and acquaintances are mainly around her age. This will give you a good idea as to what age group she sees herself fitting best in.
"E.g. is a girl 8 yrs younger much more likely to autoding you than a girl 5 yrs younger, or 3 yrs younger, etc."
I'd agree with this, but keep in mind that many girls' age prejudices (including mine) have much more to do with attraction and preftige than how long you've been on this earth. Some girls think that older, accomplished, polished men are the more "preftigious" catch. Other girls aren't attracted to the bald, gray or weathered look.
I also keep referring to the time-in-your-life issue. An older man in his mid 30s might be divorced or have kids. A 28-year-old girl who still parties with a bunch of mid 20s to early 30s people might find it hard to relate to this person whereas a 23-year-old who's been a bit through the school of hard knocks might find him more relatable than people her age. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:27 AM Author: Red factory reset button itt: for the 27 thousandth time, OTR gets bent out of shape when XO discussed the basic social truth that guys can and do date much younger all the time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132218) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:36 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete Just trying to add a bit of realism here. Not all guys can date much younger, not all girls want to go much older, and if you expect that your mid 30s will be filled with hot, young poon you might be unpleasantly surprised. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132343) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:40 AM Author: Red factory reset button who said all guys can date younger or that all girls are willing to go older? you're strawmanning the argument like a little kid. i don't recall anybody suggesting that any guy can expect to fuck unlimited college-age chicks when he's in his 30s either. can you make a responsive statement or just modify everybody else's position to something ludicrous and then attack it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132381) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:47 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete "i don't recall anybody suggesting that any guy can expect to fuck unlimited college-age chicks when he's in his 30s either."
That's the typical XO fantasy, though.
Why do you think there's so much age trolling and age-related hostility toward the single women on this board who are older than a certain age?
Honestly, as an unmarried woman in that age all of this "30-year-old women are hags with no options" does affect me, mostly because it doesn't comport with what I've experienced or witnessed.
All I'm trying to say is that women have varying attitudes toward age, and from what I've experienced, so do men. And depending on the particular person in question, his or her ability to date within a desired age range is dependent on so many other factors besides their own age.
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:51 AM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend Women alone in their 30s 99% of the time have severe mental problems that warrant hostility. Then you combine this with the xo female delusion of her options. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132519) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:53 AM Author: Red factory reset button "That's the typical XO fantasy, though."
lol, pathetic response and doesn't explain your shitty strawmanning in the least. deferring to some kind of XO "basement virgins coveting money in the hopes of getting laid one day" stereotype to justify how brutally lazy and off-base your comments are is comically weak.
"Why do you think there's so much age trolling and age-related hostility toward the single women on this board who are older than a certain age?"
clearly it gets a rise out of dumb posters like you. all the same, you can't explain away your bullshit responses to arguments that aren't being made by whining about trolling elsewhere on the board.
"Honestly, as an unmarried woman in that age all of this "30-year-old women are hags with no options" does affect me, mostly because it doesn't comport with what I've experienced or witnessed."
clearly it does affect you because you go fucking bananas in all these threads, much more so than rowan or anyone else, and they're almost always targeted for ridicule, where as you just stick your nose in when you see it because it apparently chaps your ass so badly.
"All I'm trying to say is that women have varying attitudes toward age, and from what I've experienced, so do men. And depending on the particular person in question, his or her ability to date within a desired age range is dependent on so many other factors besides their own age."
which is basically what most of the dudes in this thread said. congratulations. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:54 AM Author: Beady-eyed church organic girlfriend well said pumo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132562) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:56 AM Author: Sapphire bipolar school PWNED (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132582) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:39 AM Author: Maroon pea-brained coffee pot Pink Cadillac deserves more criticism for her viewpoint that it's fine to go along with a friend setting her up to have a date with a "backburner option" while she's in a serious long term relationship with a guy she really likes.
The age thing matters far less than her twisted way of justifying her thoughts and actions. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:54 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete What's wrong with wanting to have options in case the guy dumps me?
Like everyone on this board is saying, I'm aging and don't have the time to languish in singlehood! |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:07 AM Author: Tripping Cerise Azn this is a rare post from you that doesn't contain sickness inducing, over the top, DHV. gj. Unless your second sentence is supposed to be facetious, then killself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132701) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:24 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete The second sentence is half facetious but I do approach relationships nowadays with a much more businesslike fervor whereas before I just didn't give a shit and figured these aren't the kinds of things you can plan or game. I view being single with much more trepidation than I used to, partly because it takes so long to find someone that I actually respect enough to date seriously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132872) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 12:55 AM Author: Sapphire bipolar school Got-damn On_The_Run is fucking dumb as bricks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132571) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:05 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete I never claimed to be smart. Fortunately I'm pretty and that's what counts! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132679) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:06 AM Author: Sapphire bipolar school Pancake-assed Azn lawyer near approaching 30s? Lol, yes indeed, some guys will certainly go for that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132691) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:21 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete Enjoy your CGWBT's sagging tits and crumbling face! Looks like she shouldn't have smoked all of those menthols and hit the tanning bed all those times! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132850) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:23 AM Author: Sapphire bipolar school Please don't pretend you wouldn't murder a truckload of kittens with your bare hands if god promised to make you a proper white girl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132866) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:31 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete And what would that do for my dating prospects? I don't see the hot mixed girls doing any worse than the hot white girls with the same pools of men. I went to a warm-weather university known for its hot chicks and the mixed girls dated the same guys as the attractive white girls. Even among my preferred demographic (preppy, anglo guys) I don't see my ethnicity being an attractiveness issue. For every dude who isn't attracted to me because I'm not his type there are just as many dudes who prefer me because I am their type. And there are a shit ton of dudes who think hot is hot and don't really have a set type! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132943) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:33 AM Author: Sapphire bipolar school Yeah I definitely didn't strike a nerve with that one . . . lol. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15132951) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 1:35 AM Author: exhilarant black stage keepsake machete If anything, I am more ashamed of the white side of my heritage than the azn side of my heritage.
The concept of the self-hating azn is just ridiculously offensive to me. I don't get my pants in a bunch about racist shit but this one strikes a nerve. |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 2:27 AM Author: Tripping Cerise Azn You are flame, but let's pretend for a second that you are real. You are one of a few individuals where their other character flaws overshadow even something as egregious as self-hate/auto-racism. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15133303) |
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Date: June 1st, 2010 3:08 AM Author: beta razzle-dazzle brunch trump supporter There are plenty of girls like this. But they usually try to hide their despicable nature. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1326046&forum_id=2#15133553) |
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