also gjr was insane and over time it became clear she had legit bpd. bp disappeared and gjr spent a couple years doing increasingly obvious thirst traps to tempt him until she eventually gave up. but my title is referring to phase 1 of the bp x gjr romance.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527187&forum_id=2#47651157)

I don't necessarily entirely blame him, BPD is outright impossible to manage in a woman with the tools that men have available to them now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527187&forum_id=2#47651166)

but her pollyanna days were 180. the goat imo was when cslg got her to consider flying out to la. he was doing pretty obvious "yeah you and bp could come out, you and i can go to lunch while bp checks out my office!"* flirting shit and gjr took the bait. from then on he'd imply he had a threeway with gjr. which, in spacepornian fashion, she would vehemently deny for 100 out of 300 poasts in a thread.

poor bp. imagine your bpd chick openly being a lolcow on xo when you are apart and then having to deal with her bpd insanity when you're together. which probably had a healthy dose of "WHY DIDN'T YOU TELL ...,...,...,,..., I DON'T DO SCAT PLAY!" i've never been more happy to see a guy get off the bort.

*very roughly paraphrased, if anyone has a link the that exchange i'd love to reread it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527187&forum_id=2#47651186)

the bpd ex i'm referring to is the one i told you about where we broke up, four months later she's engaged, she calls me on her engagement night and declares her love, her fiancé finds her texting me twice, she comes over and fucks me for two days straight, he finds out about that, then i never speak to her again (aside from her stalking me on some social media), and then they got married. oh and he left his wife for her. total time from meeting to marriage ~1 year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5527187&forum_id=2#47651215)