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I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom
| Trip Point Telephone | 05/14/24 |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:17 PM Author: Trip Point Telephone I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. We have always been in an open relationship: we met at a sex party. When we met I was always a bottom and he a top. Over time, however, he has become obsessed with bottoming. He never penetrates me, even in a group, and has starting expressing jealousy about the tops that I attract. I feel he is throwing our life away in pursuit of a pipe dream and I long to get back the dominant top that I married – a role he is suited for physically. He has been looking at escort websites, which I find depressingly inevitable. How can I wake him up to reality?
Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence and it can lead to a shift in a person’s power exchange preferences, usually temporarily. This is less likely to happen when partners switch, exchanging roles from time to time, but clearly that is not for you. It might be wise to relax about this and try to tolerate – even support – his period of exploration. In fact, dominance and submission are not so different; just polarised aspects of the same erotic style. So some tops frequently fantasise about bottoming but are not prepared to practise it – and vice versa. The top usually does most of the work: initiates, arranges the scene, toys and so on, so your husband may want a break from the responsibility. I can understand your disappointment and fear of losing your preferred sexual style, but people and relationships change and evolve over time so it would be best to talk patiently and lovingly with your husband – without reproaching or blaming him – about what he is feeling and the reasons for this change. You need to understand each other. Gently express your sadness about the potential loss you are facing. Then do your best to show that you love and support him. |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:21 PM Author: Razzle son of senegal Pipe dream. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47660999) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:28 PM Author: aphrodisiac flushed institution (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663850) |
Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM Author: violent church building old irish cottage 'married' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47660991) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 PM Author: sable depressive (bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+ year age gaps) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665844) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM Author: seedy water buffalo Mods. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47660995) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:22 PM Author: odious jet haunted graveyard Time to man up, doobs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47661001) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 AM Author: Trip Point Telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663105) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:41 AM Author: Misunderstood rambunctious whorehouse totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663115) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: erotic overrated theater (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663857) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 AM Author: Confused haunting brunch stock car GLOBAL ISLAM NOW (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663156) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:14 AM Author: Trip Point Telephone Summon UES jew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663220) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:31 AM Author: cerise sweet tailpipe blood rage top burnout tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663294) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:37 AM Author: Trip Point Telephone How do you address it? I'm a top btw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663318) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:39 AM Author: cerise sweet tailpipe blood rage Prep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663330) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:15 PM Author: Know-it-all sooty ratface pisswyrm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665780) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM Author: Blue arousing therapy locus Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663757) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM Author: Trip Point Telephone Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can get a conversation started (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663761) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:27 PM Author: Misunderstood rambunctious whorehouse does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663845) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: erotic overrated theater this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663855) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:33 PM Author: Misunderstood rambunctious whorehouse my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental health issues until one day his health teacher talked about top burnout. realizing that he didn't *always* have to top was such a huge relief. there's so much social pressure on boys to dominate each other. toxic masculinity! ever since he started bottoming he's more relaxed and we're seeing a dramatic improvement in his grades. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663863) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:36 PM Author: Stirring Indirect Expression Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn't very understanding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663869) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:06 PM Author: soul-stirring chartreuse abode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663953) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:50 PM Author: Misunderstood rambunctious whorehouse honey i can't, my top burnout. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665876) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy prole factory reset button (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665892) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:07 PM Author: godawful violent round eye "in pursuit of a pipe dream "
can someone explain |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:13 PM Author: Trip Point Telephone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665769) |