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I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. ...
Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/14/24
Pipe dream.
Godawful Temple Electric Furnace
  05/14/24
ran here
indigo pocket flask step-uncle's house
  05/15/24
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aromatic pea-brained hell
  05/15/24
'married'
Fuchsia vibrant stock car
  05/14/24
(bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+...
Cyan At-the-ready Piazza Messiness
  05/15/24
Mods.
gaped sex offender market
  05/14/24
Time to man up, doobs
Narrow-minded Big Library
  05/14/24
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Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/15/24
totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.
tripping concupiscible base
  05/15/24
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Blue Hairless Mad Cow Disease Windowlicker
  05/15/24
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multi-colored space
  05/29/24
GLOBAL ISLAM NOW
Alcoholic Half-breed
  05/15/24
Summon UES jew
Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/15/24
top burnout tp
cheese-eating federal azn queen of the night
  05/15/24
How do you address it? I'm a top btw
Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/15/24
Prep
cheese-eating federal azn queen of the night
  05/15/24
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Wonderful nudist scourge upon the earth toaster
  05/15/24
Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence
Arousing Meetinghouse
  05/15/24
Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can ge...
Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/15/24
does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my...
tripping concupiscible base
  05/15/24
this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw
Blue Hairless Mad Cow Disease Windowlicker
  05/15/24
my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental heal...
tripping concupiscible base
  05/15/24
Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn'...
Peach marvelous church liquid oxygen
  05/15/24
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Excitant abnormal address preventive strike
  05/15/24
honey i can't, my top burnout.
tripping concupiscible base
  05/15/24
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walnut irradiated ticket booth
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Ruby trip chapel
  05/29/24
"in pursuit of a pipe dream " can someone exp...
autistic charismatic abode
  05/15/24
The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom
Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/29/24
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Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/15/24
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Mauve supple bawdyhouse
  05/29/24
this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.
tripping concupiscible base
  05/29/24


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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:17 PM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. We have always been in an open relationship: we met at a sex party. When we met I was always a bottom and he a top. Over time, however, he has become obsessed with bottoming. He never penetrates me, even in a group, and has starting expressing jealousy about the tops that I attract. I feel he is throwing our life away in pursuit of a pipe dream and I long to get back the dominant top that I married – a role he is suited for physically. He has been looking at escort websites, which I find depressingly inevitable. How can I wake him up to reality?

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence and it can lead to a shift in a person’s power exchange preferences, usually temporarily. This is less likely to happen when partners switch, exchanging roles from time to time, but clearly that is not for you. It might be wise to relax about this and try to tolerate – even support – his period of exploration. In fact, dominance and submission are not so different; just polarised aspects of the same erotic style. So some tops frequently fantasise about bottoming but are not prepared to practise it – and vice versa. The top usually does most of the work: initiates, arranges the scene, toys and so on, so your husband may want a break from the responsibility. I can understand your disappointment and fear of losing your preferred sexual style, but people and relationships change and evolve over time so it would be best to talk patiently and lovingly with your husband – without reproaching or blaming him – about what he is feeling and the reasons for this change. You need to understand each other. Gently express your sadness about the potential loss you are facing. Then do your best to show that you love and support him.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:21 PM
Author: Godawful Temple Electric Furnace

Pipe dream.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:38 AM
Author: indigo pocket flask step-uncle's house

ran here

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:28 PM
Author: aromatic pea-brained hell



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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: Fuchsia vibrant stock car

'married'

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 PM
Author: Cyan At-the-ready Piazza Messiness

(bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+ year age gaps)

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: gaped sex offender market

Mods.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:22 PM
Author: Narrow-minded Big Library

Time to man up, doobs

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 AM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:41 AM
Author: tripping concupiscible base

totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663115)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: Blue Hairless Mad Cow Disease Windowlicker



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: multi-colored space



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 AM
Author: Alcoholic Half-breed

GLOBAL ISLAM NOW

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse

Summon UES jew

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:31 AM
Author: cheese-eating federal azn queen of the night

top burnout tp

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:37 AM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse

How do you address it? I'm a top btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:39 AM
Author: cheese-eating federal azn queen of the night

Prep

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:15 PM
Author: Wonderful nudist scourge upon the earth toaster



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Arousing Meetinghouse

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663757)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse

Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can get a conversation started

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:27 PM
Author: tripping concupiscible base

does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663845)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: Blue Hairless Mad Cow Disease Windowlicker

this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663855)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:33 PM
Author: tripping concupiscible base

my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental health issues until one day his health teacher talked about top burnout. realizing that he didn't *always* have to top was such a huge relief. there's so much social pressure on boys to dominate each other. toxic masculinity! ever since he started bottoming he's more relaxed and we're seeing a dramatic improvement in his grades.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663863)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:36 PM
Author: Peach marvelous church liquid oxygen

Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn't very understanding

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663869)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:06 PM
Author: Excitant abnormal address preventive strike



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:50 PM
Author: tripping concupiscible base

honey i can't, my top burnout.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665876)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 PM
Author: walnut irradiated ticket booth



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Ruby trip chapel



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:07 PM
Author: autistic charismatic abode

"in pursuit of a pipe dream "

can someone explain

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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:09 PM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse

The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47700990)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:13 PM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: Mauve supple bawdyhouse



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:07 PM
Author: tripping concupiscible base

this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47700987)