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Would never hit my kids, but parents these days can't control them kids
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 12:32 PM Author: tantric theatre associate I support them beating their kids (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383020) |
Date: June 2nd, 2023 12:32 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask You seriously have never slapped your kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383024) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 12:34 PM Author: tantric theatre associate like a slap to the face? a slap with some force? no
i've slapped them on the butt to get them moving/to do something |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 12:36 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask Well that's great if your kids have never been out of line enough to warrant a face slap but mine have and I've done it.
whole thread is odd, physical violence has its place in everyday life. its not unique or special to humans. animals train their young with nips and shoves. and young kids are basically animals. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 12:41 PM Author: tantric theatre associate hitting a child is abusive behavior brother because they can't fight back, it's really no different than a human hitting a pet
the rules of the animal kingdom don't always apply to humans as you know
there are tons of tools available at your disposal to keep your kids in line that don't involve hitting
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:20 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker This is dumb, they're not supposed to fight back, it's supposed to be a punishment.
This is like saying it's unethical for the government to arrest people because they aren't allowed to retaliate or fight back. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:24 PM Author: Histrionic sick hell Keep in mind you're replying to a subversive kike (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383218) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:26 PM Author: dark embarrassed to the bone library you've already failed if your kids are so buckwild you have to beat them to bring them back in line. your kids are supposed to well behaved to begin with and able to be corrected with only a half stern look when they act up, as kids are wont to do from time to time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383229) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:29 PM Author: tantric theatre associate exactly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383240) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:46 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker Lol. LMAO even.
How many kids do you have? |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:50 PM Author: dark embarrassed to the bone library 1 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383324) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:51 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask rofl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383326) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:53 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383335) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:54 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker LMAO. I wish I could go back to those stress-free simple days (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383338) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:55 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383339) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:55 PM Author: dark embarrassed to the bone library to be fair i'm also only 1 person (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383340) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:57 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask you have a single kid and are unmarried and you're criticizing a nuclear family multi-kid household?
check your shit. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:59 PM Author: dark embarrassed to the bone library eh, you don't know anything about me. my family unit and extended family units run shit and dominate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383347) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:59 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask Raise good kids, use violence. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383349) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:00 PM Author: dark embarrassed to the bone library actually, i am convinced now brother. will slap the shit out of my kid and a few other peoples' kids later (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383351) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:08 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker Is this ruskie? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383365) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:10 PM Author: dark embarrassed to the bone library wtf does my voice give off weird desperate are country Russian plastic surgery women vibes? i'm an alpha male (tranny) with a non-traditional family unit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383371) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:37 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker Lmaoooooooooooooiooo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383551) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:59 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383348) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:38 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker 1 adult with 1 kid is easier to manage than 2 adults with 2 kids. The kids feed off each other's chaos. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383554) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:13 PM Author: razzmatazz gaping potus Even for XO this is one of the stupidest thing I've read. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383395) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:36 PM Author: Aquamarine floppy rigpig abusive because they can't fight back? 1. find that definition in a book, homo 2. they actually can fight back, queermo 3. fag |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:01 PM Author: tantric theatre associate you are the dumbest poaster here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383353) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:02 PM Author: Aquamarine floppy rigpig gay thing to say (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383356) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:14 PM Author: Outnumbered onyx genital piercing LMAO you have to get it together (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383179) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:18 PM Author: Histrionic sick hell I don't think you're supposed to slap kids in the face... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383193) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:25 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask Circumstances warrant different reactions. I was slapped a couple of times growing up. I know both of my parents were too.
I think I've only ever face slapped one of my kids. On the other hand I'm not sure I've even spanked one of them.
I am strongheaded, so are a lot of people in my family. We take a strong hand to control. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:44 PM Author: cerise faggotry hall "I think I've only ever face slapped one of my kids"
You struck a small child in the face just because you couldn't control your anger long enough to think of an alternative method of punishment.
You're a piece of shit for doing that even one time.
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:44 PM Author: tantric theatre associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383302) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:49 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask Violence in action.
You know my kid got picked on for a few days at school in elementary. I think the 4th day a few punches in the stomach (delivered in the bathroom) fixed that.
And he did on his own. Fixed his own problem through violence. Good job little guy. He learned it by watching dad. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:06 PM Author: tantric theatre associate No one is saying violence isn't sometimes necessary, it's about WHO is delivering the violence and the long-term ramifications for the child. My kids train a martial art and can probably beat the shit out of your kids even though I've never not once hit them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383362) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:12 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask did you just say your kid could beat up my kid?
what in the fuck. that is the single faggiest thing i have ever in my life heard or read.
congratulations i guess on your super-karate fighter kid. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:14 PM Author: tantric theatre associate no i'm answering your gay suggestion that dad being an abusive asshole somehow gave your kids superpowers to fight off a bully, sounds like a major rationalization (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383402) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:14 PM Author: excitant love of her life antidepressant drug I could beat up your kid (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383403) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 9:43 PM Author: Cerebral organic girlfriend native (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46384778) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 6:48 PM Author: Wine slap-happy candlestick maker field my oldest punched my youngest in the face and I slapped my oldest. That was the last time my oldest punched anyone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46384303) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:14 PM Author: Wonderful electric furnace locale (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383176) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:25 PM Author: Milky fantasy-prone water buffalo My parents hit me a lot and I turned out great! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383226) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:31 PM Author: razzmatazz gaping potus lol you have to beat them a little.
this is one thing blacks do right but whites stop them and then wonder why they keep getting mugged. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:32 PM Author: tantric theatre associate yes if there's one thing you can say about black kids, it's that they're well-behaved. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383246) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 6:25 PM Author: drunken partner every single one who is well behaved had an actual father in the home who beat them.
it's absolutely necessary for nigs |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:31 PM Author: zippy overrated nursing home travel guidebook I was visiting my older brother last weekend & his daughter got out of control & i hit her. It caused a big ruckus cause apparently "you don't do that" to a 19 year old 🙄 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383245) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:45 PM Author: cerise faggotry hall Where...exactly did you strike her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383306) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:40 PM Author: heady sienna skinny woman wagecucks Some kids need to be beaten. Others don't and it fucks them up. This is what very few understand (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383279) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:40 PM Author: tantric theatre associate hey babe just a sec, no now it's faggot TIME not faggot KIKE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383281) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:01 PM Author: black nowag exactly. you cant beat the shit out of your kids just to vent your emotions. But some kids dont have the natural fear/desire to please that makes them obedient without something physical what your parents did with you is a good starting point in figuring out what, if any, physical discipline your kids need. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:04 PM Author: Pink Swashbuckling Pocket Flask (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383360) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:09 PM Author: heady sienna skinny woman wagecucks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383369) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:11 PM Author: tantric theatre associate disparate treatment of one child vs another is a surefire way to build resentment and insecurity (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383379) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:16 PM Author: heady sienna skinny woman wagecucks doing nothing to discipline one child does even more to harm other children observing bad behavior go unpunished. it's the reason we have all these Antifa fucks attacking cops and expecting no reprisals and the reason inner city blacks feel like they can go buckwild whenever they want (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383422) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:17 PM Author: tantric theatre associate not employing violence is not doing nothing to discipline the child
you people fucking suck as parents apparently. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:21 PM Author: heady sienna skinny woman wagecucks you're a fucking idiot if you don't think any kids need to experience violence to avoid jail later in life (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383451) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:29 PM Author: cerise faggotry hall Yes, that's exactly what keeps people out of jail:
Getting the shit slapped out of them as small children. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:52 PM Author: ocher foreskin its hilarous how in the end chink/indian culture is proving to be the final solution for birdshits, it makes perfect sense since both preserved their cultures for thousands of years so their parenting traits etc must have something good behind them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383329) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 1:53 PM Author: rusted shaky pit karate I think that after seeing the results of the first American generation that haven't spanked their kids we should be resolved to beat kids on a regular basis IMO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383334) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:08 PM Author: lemon comical base boistinker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383366) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:03 PM Author: excitant love of her life antidepressant drug My parents never touched me after about 3yo or so They used psychological torture, much more effective |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 6:26 PM Author: drunken partner you're going to really like it here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46384252) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:14 PM Author: spruce stag film It's not about physical violence per se. It's about setting boundaries and enforcing them.
Kids need boundaries to feel safe and secure. They will push the boundaries until they meet granite. The problem is when parents don't say No, but let their kids keep pushing and never find granite. These parents are failing their kids. The pattern is: the kids keep pestering them, pushing them, until finally the parent blows up and loses her temper, or else relents and gives the kids what they want.
The correct approach is to say, "I told you once. If you keep pushing, there will be consequences", and then -- this is crucial -- to follow through with the consequences. Consistently. Every single time.
Physical violence is rarely necessary and then only in the limit. I swatted my kid on the butt ONCE, at age 4 or 5, not even hard obviously, but that's all it took to establish the precedent that when Dad says something, he really means it.
It's important to be dispassionate, not angry, explain why it is happening, and reassure them afterward you still love them. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:15 PM Author: tantric theatre associate Exactly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383415) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:28 PM Author: cerise faggotry hall "It's important to be dispassionate, not angry, explain why it is happening, and reassure them afterward you still love them."
FUCKING THIS.
So many assholes hit their kid simply because they're angry and can't think of another way of dealing with the problem other than hit them.
Then they take some form of sick pride by saying, "I'm raising my kids right! I got hit in the face and I turned out great!"
No, you didn't. You think it's acceptable to hit a small child instead of using your fucking brain to find a way to correct their behavior. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:30 PM Author: tantric theatre associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383508) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 3:18 PM Author: Milky fantasy-prone water buffalo I said I turned out great! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383727) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 4:01 PM Author: Useless Fighting Weed Whacker Business Firm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383877) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 2:31 PM Author: Pearly bateful blood rage Fantastic thread (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46383519) |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 8:17 PM Author: dun preventive strike I don't hit my kids, but I agree with that old Bill Burr joke that you should be able hit a woman once just so they can't act like you're not going to hit them. You need the threat of it.
My kids fucking know that I can't do anything to them. |
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Date: June 2nd, 2023 9:45 PM Author: Internet-worthy soul-stirring newt I’ll hit your kids if you’re too pussy to do it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5349588&forum_id=2#46384786) |