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Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:32 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: As most of you know I'm off SA and on the normal dating apps and currently have a fairly full roster. Started dating one of them a little more seriously. But she's 40 year old. With that said she's supermodel hot and we get comments in public consistently about how pretty she is, "lucky guy", etc.
Been out with her twice and she spent the night last night but still no sex. I'm guessing she's making me wait till 3rd date but she slept naked in my bed all night.
Or am I just totally done here and should move on to the other app chicks because 1) she's 40 and 2) no sex yet and i should be utterly humiliated. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:50 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump how have you "been out with her twice" but "get comments in public consistently"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899566) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:52 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: every time we're out together its happened multiple times. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899575) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:56 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump YOUR SAMPLE SIZE IS TWO (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899586) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:00 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: Correct but it wasn't like a one off each time. It was multiple times at the restaurant, multiple times walking down the street. On our first date the waiter kept commenting about what a lucky guy i was to be out with a women so beautiful. He was also mildly autistic so there was that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899603) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:09 PM Author: sam hyde inseminating boner police's mouth via gjr why is she single at 40? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899637) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:11 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: excellent question. I actually have mutual friends with her ex who she was with for approx 3 years. But he was australian and moved back to australia. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899646) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:10 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump Are you disgustingly hideous such that there is a large contrast? People are not going up to Chad multiple times a night saying "hey man, nice girl" regardless of how hot she is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899639) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:13 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: I don't get laid based on my amazing good looks. I get laid based on personality and knowing how to make chicks laugh and have fun.
I've always said I don't clean up on the dating sites in terms of matches but when i do match my conversion rates are off the charts both in terms of landing dates (and future dates) and typically getting laid.
I'm relatively tall (6'1") bald (short shaved head) and am relatively slim but am in decent enough shape as I'm super active even when im not going to the gym consistently.
I actually dated a girl in LA who was a bit of a train wreck when i left my wife for 6 months approx 3 years ago. That girl was also a smokeshow at my age range and that was the only other time I got a lot of comments. "Whatever you're doing bro keep it up to have a girl like that on your arm"... and shit like that.
That girl still talks about how great we were and how everyone "loved us together". |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 6:38 PM Author: Pierbattista Pizzaballa And 100 percent (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899958) |
Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:34 PM Author: sam hyde inseminating boner police's mouth via gjr http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719256&forum_id=2#48896251 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899327) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:57 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899407) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:34 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) how the fuck did she sleep naked next to you but <><><>NOSEX<><><>?!
i had a chick pull this one my once and she later told me she wanted me to rape her. i told her i'm not pushing past a verbal "NO" in this political environment and certainly wouldn't recommend you do it. but i wouldn't be surprised if this is what she was hoping for. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:54 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: no she's not that type re: rapey fantasies. That part has been pretty clear.
She was falling asleep on the couch and i was like lets go to bed, we can watch this in bed. She goes ok! hops into bed takes pants off asks for a tshirt i bring it to her she gets naked, puts tshirt on and climbs under covers.
Then she's like oh man i dont have contact stuff so i was like no prob i can doordash. I doordash contact solution so we're like laying in bed together without clothes on but nothing really starts up because im waiting to run down to meet the doordash guy.
He gets there 10 mins later, i run down, come back up and she's already completely passed out. Climbed back into bed came up behind her she backed her ass up into me but was clearly asleep, so i kinda just passed out with my hand on her ass.
Woke up this morning with a boner and clearly pushed it into her back and she kinda backed up into me again but there was no real sexual intention behind it, no moaning or groaning, grinding of the dick or repositioning of it.
It def wasn't giving me vibes to continue moving forward and i'm fairly certain she would have been down to fuck last night if she wasn't so tired. So I'm guessing 3rd date. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:58 PM Author: Trump is the first woman President (TT6) just rape and see, but leave no clear marks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899410) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:06 PM Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,; These SA whores have miscalibrated your ability to detect signs and you’re probably expecting to cut to the chase way too quickly at this point. A non-whorish woman, particularly a super hot one, is definitely kino-escalating if she feels a hard dick behind her and pushes her ass cheeks up against it. This is like the scene in Meaning of Life. Give her a kiss, SA pumo! Nuzzle the nape of her neck. Stroke her arm starting at her wrist and keep going up until you’re next to her tit, then stroke that. If she doesn’t actively stop you that’s an invitation to keep going. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899432) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:20 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: yeah this was going down on the couch before we moved, i had my arm around her and she literally put my hand on her tit.
But it was along the lines of so sleepy hold me.
I'll seal the deal next time but i think you're right, super hot chicks that aren't whores def aren't fucking on the first date and her sleeping naked next to me was already a pretty big step for date 2. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:22 PM Author: gibberish (?) Sleepy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899481) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:09 PM Author: gibberish (?) no she's not that type re: rapey fantasies. That part has been pretty clear.
Lol |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:51 PM Author: Diamond Dallas Trump Trust Me. I Know These Things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899572) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:16 PM Author: white dating coach with an asian wife Not to go full rapepill meme or anything but yeah gunnerattt is right she just wanted you to take her. Like come on dude sleeping in your bed naked lol
You're prolly just nervous cuz she's so hot. We all would be. You just gotta trust your instinctual urges and RAPE |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:21 PM Author: gibberish (?) Bro she's not like that. Trust him, it's pretty clear. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899480) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:25 PM Author: white dating coach with an asian wife "We are NOT having sex tonight, okay? I do NOT want you to rape me in a consensual and controlled environment. I want to be COMPLETELY CLEAR that I do NOT want this" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899493) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:26 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: lol i knew this response was coming so thanks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899496) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:44 PM Author: gibberish (?) Of course, just doing the thankless (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899548) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:24 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: So I'm a HUGE believer in basically all chicks have rape fantasies, like to be choked etc. BUT maybe not this chick.
Here's why... We were in my kitchen and i had my arms around her from behind and kinda had my arms crossed in front her neck and i kinda pulled her toward me from behind that way where she was like kinda trapped in a very light headlock type situation... This sounds worse than it was.
But out of the blue she was like "omg can you please not do that, no choking." I was like oh shit im sorry i was just playfully grabbing you and she was like no i know you didn't mean anything by it, it just freaks me out.
She appeared slightly shaken. Like clearly she's been in some situation where some dude was much more agressive with that, maybe trying to have sex with her or something and she still had some PTSD from it.
She like slammed a glass of wine afterward and i could see she was a little shaken up which was weird because it was a pretty innocuous thing i've done with plenty of chicks where you kinda bear hug them from behind but over the shoulders.
I was like "ok clearly you had a bad experience somewhere along the line, message received."
She was super apologetic after a few mins like "sorry i totally know you didn't mean anything by it and were just playing around, it just freaks me out."
So after that i was probably significantly less aggressive than i normally would be. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:28 PM Author: Traditional Latin ass She should have kids almost finishing high school at her big age lol at doing all this teen bullshit at age 40. Grey pubes and all. Disgusting society (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899499) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:29 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: She had NO pubes. Everything was completely waxed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899504) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:30 PM Author: white dating coach with an asian wife Oh brother. Abort, abort. Not worth the trouble as a friend with benefits. Obviously she's got some hangups
I'm sure you've banged more chicks than me and your instincts are probably telling you the same thing. But she's super hot so you still want to try. Idk maybe it's worth, use your best judgment. But in my experience chicks are either down for fun and open sex or they're not |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:34 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: im debating dating this woman more seriously. But you may be right that maybe the sex isn't great and i should just cut ties. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899518) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:47 PM Author: white dating coach with an asian wife You obviously have a lot of options so if you're willing to wait this long then she's probably hot enough for it to be worth it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899560) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:33 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) these mildly-traumatized chicks usually will want RAPE once they get comfortable with you. although with that reaction she might be an actual rape rape victim and not be down with it. although it's odd she felt comfortable enough sleeping next to you naked on the second date if that's the case.
i bet she just doesn't like that particular thing or just needs to be comfortable with you first but will eventually want you to manhandle her in other rape-like ways. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:36 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: This was more my read, i mean it's second date back to my house where we're way more physically touchy and kissing then we were last time so it's still new.
This morning she was kept saying thank you for how comfortable she was and how accommodating i was. So it was almost like a test of whether i would get rapey or not. Probably failed that one because "thank you for making me feel so comfortable" feels an awful lot like "thank you for being my best friend and looking out for me".
But then she was also kissing me this morning sooo. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:42 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) should've fucked her this morning!
if it was a test for rape is was probably a hopeful one that you failed. but i don't blame you, i failed in a similar way i mentioned, and i wouldn't start groping a chick sleeping (or fake-sleeping) on the second date in 2025 because even though she probably wants it 99% of the time that 1% oopsie could be very bad news.
i'm sure you'll feel her more on date three and will definitely fuck her. so many times i've tried to read tea leaves in these situations but birdbrains are inscrutable and retarded in their signaling sometimes. judging by her energy this morning at least she doesn't seem to think you're a pussy for not raping her (i've had that too!) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:44 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: No she seemed pretty stoked i didn't get rapey and had no qualms about my boner in her back. I even was like "fuck you keep making my boner come back" and she just kinda laughed and was like "sorry?". But no real moves to progress beyond that.
So I think she just moves slower than the sluts ive been fucking. She was definitely way more touchy with me last night. She was taking the lead kissing me, grabbing my arm, hands etc so she's very clearly still interested. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:48 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) being that touchy + "sorry teehee?" further indicates to me that she wants to pretend to be oblivious so that you make a more aggressive first move. unless she's an autistic alien there's no way getting into bed naked and being that touchy isn't a clear signal for sex.
i trust your read is better since you were there and do just fine but that's my two cents with the information provided. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:48 PM Author: gibberish (?) Please forgive me, but I have to add the obligatory 'she went home and got railed by her chad construction bro neighbor who acted with wanton disregard to consensual expectations' post. Carry on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899563) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:54 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: Dropped her off this morning at 10 am. Chad's probably already over there. FMA (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899579) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 7:11 PM Author: gibberish (?) She likes you more and this is totally the last time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48900015) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:30 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) oh ok. then "no sex" seemed to imply she didn't want to have sex. it seems that she would down to fuck but just passed out in the interim. i assumed she got naked and once you made a move she said no. you just never made a move because she feel asleep. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899509) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:38 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: That's correct we were laying there naked with each other pressed up against each other and i was kissing her neck and shit but then doordash arrived and when i got back upstairs 3-5 mins later she was completely passed out.
So yeah i think she was down but then the moment passed and then this morning she probably just felt a little hungover and gross. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:44 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) unless she was wasted this sounds like a "tee hee i'm sleeping don't rape me hehe" situation. 3-5min, on a second date, after getting her warmed up, and with food coming?
as i said elsewhere i don't blame you for not going for it in 2025 + her reaction to the bear hug. but i bet that's what she wanted. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:01 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: She was def wasted. She had 2 cocktails at dinner and then she drank almost an entire bottle of white wine at home. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899607) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:04 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) ah i assumed she wasn't because that would make me reluctant to make a move even if she stayed conscious. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899613) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:11 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: yeah she was but that was also why she was passing out (super tired already plus booze), so that was part of why i wasn't more agressive.
Usually when you're making out things escalate pretty quickly, but with her it's more romantic dating rather than fuck the shit out of me... idk basically a born again virgin over here and i should probably just be dunn here. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 4:16 PM Author: novus homo (gunneratttt) i dont think you did anything wrong even if she did want you to be more aggressive. with the bear huge and culture generally its prudent to be careful (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899664) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 2:57 PM Author: Darnell how much older are you? would be very hard to be a divorced 40-something guy and pursue a woman my age, no matter how hot she is.
i would choose a 27 year old 7 over a 40 year old 9 |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:06 PM Author: .....;;,,.........;.;.;.;.,;,;,;.;.;,; Agreed but I think the OP’s trying to have both right now, which is CR less than a year out from divorce. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899437) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:28 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: I thought this too. But after going on a number of dates with chicks in the 25-29 age range versus the 30-35 age range i kinda prefer the older chicks. Just so much more life experience and shit in common.
I'm 40 also, so she's exactly my age.
This chick in particular has her shit together... But yeah she's 40 but also likely way out of my league.
Whenever we walk down the street, go to a restaurant, etc ppl are commenting on how attractive she is, how beautiful she is, etc. Walking back to my place from the restaurant two different ppl were like damn bro you're a lucky guy or some shit to that effect.
It was weird to be a part of. Really hot chicks really do live in a completely alternate reality. It's something you always inherently know but it's still weird to experience first hand. |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:02 PM Author: Trump Tariffs Can Do No Wrong (TDNW) you’re a mess dude
she obviously sees you as the mark that you are. the younger chicks don’t get it but she does |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:25 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: ? Mark for what? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899492) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:08 PM Author: Trump is the first woman President (TT6) let her know that you are not going to see any women and you are ok to wait until she is ready, but in the meantime you will have sex with some bros just to keep you calm (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899441) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:25 PM Author: ....:::..:....:::..:...;;;..;...:.:: Brother... why do you think i even need to explain 100% straight sex with some clean cut bros to any female. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899494) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2025 3:32 PM Author: He flexed his right muscle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48899514) |
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Date: May 3rd, 2025 8:44 AM Author: Pierbattista Pizzaballa By 2025 standards you are now in a marriage track relationship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5719642&forum_id=2#48900885) |