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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner
  04/20/26
you are brown
Fluffy university newt
  04/22/26
lmao
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  04/20/26
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Hilarious arrogant queen of the night potus
  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
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opaque thirsty internal respiration
  04/22/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
Arousing center sweet tailpipe
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
Topaz galvanic chad den
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
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  04/20/26
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Topaz galvanic chad den
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
Impressive church building
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
Impressive church building
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
Topaz galvanic chad den
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
Arousing center sweet tailpipe
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
Topaz galvanic chad den
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
Impressive church building
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
Topaz galvanic chad den
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
Topaz galvanic chad den
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/21/26
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mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner
  04/22/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
Impressive church building
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
bonkers brunch deer antler
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
rose rebellious crotch house
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
snowy alcoholic patrolman toilet seat
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
Ruby mentally impaired theatre community account
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
Crimson diverse people who are hurt
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
razzle halford school
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
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ivory hairraiser giraffe
  04/20/26
you only live once
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  04/21/26
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razzle halford school
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
razzmatazz sooty hall
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
razzle halford school
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
bonkers brunch deer antler
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Internet-worthy Heaven Trust Fund
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
Wonderful friendly grandma
  04/21/26
So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.
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  04/21/26
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  04/21/26
everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be pu...
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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner

You're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830090)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 7:06 AM
Author: Fluffy university newt

you are brown

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833725)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: fighting mad cow disease

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830062)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Exhilarant private investor pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830065)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: awkward cuckold



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830621)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: Exhilarant private investor pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830067)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: Hilarious arrogant queen of the night potus



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830076)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: concupiscible cerise area

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830620)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:47 PM
Author: opaque thirsty internal respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49834882)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: Arousing center sweet tailpipe

Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: Topaz galvanic chad den

getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: primrose indian lodge quadroon

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Topaz galvanic chad den



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830623)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: Impressive church building

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: Impressive church building

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: Topaz galvanic chad den

guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: Arousing center sweet tailpipe

Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: Topaz galvanic chad den

not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: Impressive church building

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: Topaz galvanic chad den

our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: Topaz galvanic chad den

cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832209)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 6:56 AM
Author: mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833721)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: Impressive church building

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: bonkers brunch deer antler

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: rose rebellious crotch house

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: snowy alcoholic patrolman toilet seat

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: Ruby mentally impaired theatre community account

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: Crimson diverse people who are hurt

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: razzle halford school

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: dashing sex offender stock car

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: ivory hairraiser giraffe



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49830660)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: walnut water buffalo candlestick maker

you only live once

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831303)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: Slap-happy space

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831439)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: Pink know-it-all indirect expression



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831448)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: razzle halford school



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832081)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: razzmatazz sooty hall

get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: razzle halford school

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: bonkers brunch deer antler

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Internet-worthy Heaven Trust Fund

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma

She can’t breed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49832323)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:59 PM
Author: flickering ladyboy scourge upon the earth

So why on earth would you do this? Get a new one.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833432)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 PM
Author: Exhilarant private investor pozpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49833449)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 4:40 PM
Author: mind-boggling carnelian lodge gunner

everyone who responded earnestly to this thread should be put in hospice. 180 thread, btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49834864)



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Date: April 22nd, 2026 5:53 PM
Author: Wonderful friendly grandma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2#49835150)