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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:46 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge You’re past the peak and it’s all downhill from here hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677908) |
Date: May 20th, 2024 6:47 PM Author: galvanic mauve bawdyhouse skinny woman most men at 40 look like complete and utter shit trust me. though they do tend to have more confidence + money. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677910) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 9:39 PM Author: yellow provocative degenerate theatre OP said SMV, not physical appearance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678330) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:46 AM Author: crystalline heady shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679081) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:52 AM Author: Insecure hall *pushes up glasses* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679092) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:32 PM Author: comical resort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47681457) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 1:45 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683558) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:04 PM Author: Bistre Church *chuckles slightly*
*casts a long glance at the gun on the table next to him* |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:49 PM Author: Insecure hall yes people are commodities (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677916) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 6:01 AM Author: Excitant clear parlor half-breed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678937) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:51 PM Author: Titillating pit hairy legs Men are within 1 SD of their individual peak value at any age from 16-55 if they are sub 15% bodyfat. The issue for men is much less maximizing what they have and much more the reality of hypergamy, which is that women left to their own devices have no sexual interest in the bottom 95-97% of men in pure SMV, and 90+% of men who secure a long term female partner do it primarily as resource providers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677921) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:55 PM Author: frisky arousing corner gay wizard This hits me like a pile of books every time I see it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677936) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:48 AM Author: crystalline heady shrine men need to understand that women aren't primarily driven by physical appearance in the way that men are. the issue here is that men expect women to think and be like men, but they aren't.
if you're not some jacked chad you should be very happy women value personality, status, resources, etc. more than looks. |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:52 AM Author: Insecure hall Women aren’t sentient (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679091) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:57 AM Author: crystalline heady shrine and the sooner a man realizes this the happier he'll be (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679094) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:04 PM Author: Indigo shivering gas station 180! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683607) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:51 PM Author: erotic razzle-dazzle house rigor VERY few men have a higher SMV at 40 than at every earlier point in their lives (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677922) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:53 PM Author: Titillating pit hairy legs Based purely on looks, yes. But factoring resource potential 40 year olds are competitive with many men who are at the peak of their aesthetics, especially if the 40 year old is also not fat and reasonably tall (ie 6’ or taller). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677927) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:54 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677930) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:55 PM Author: erotic razzle-dazzle house rigor LMAO no. The vast majority of men will find it easier to hook up with a 22 year old woman at age 25 than at age 40 and it's not even close (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677933) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:56 PM Author: Insecure hall (guy poasting from 2009) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677939) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:04 PM Author: idiotic fiercely-loyal roast beef This is only because you have more daily exposure to 22 year olds when you're 25 than when you're 40.
But go start making moves on your 21-year-old babysitters when you're 37 and you'll immediately see that your success rate is higher than it ever was when your were in your 20s. |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:08 PM Author: dashing fortuitous meteor stead 180 advice going to try this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677953) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:10 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677957) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:23 PM Author: Dark haunting native 180% agree. They don't want a 25yo fuckboi when they can have a daddy who knows how to really lay the sheetrock ... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677997) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:26 PM Author: Salmon Massive Stage Turdskin You don't do this so how do you know? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678008) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:50 PM Author: frisky arousing corner gay wizard His college-age daughter works as a babysitter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678042) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:57 PM Author: Insecure hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678054) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:54 PM Author: Dark haunting native Easy as long as you are not short, fat, or bald. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678050) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:05 PM Author: Bistre Church *Hundreds of Poasters suddenly logging off in rage* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684766) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 9:44 PM Author: Tantric dead church building codepig sounds like you have some good stories to tell about babysitters, tell us (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678354) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 10:53 PM Author: Flatulent Organic Girlfriend Legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678549) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:06 PM Author: Bistre Church *Unzips and takes a seat* (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684768) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:05 PM Author: Bistre Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684764) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 6:55 PM Author: Salmon Massive Stage Turdskin (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47677934) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:32 PM Author: idiotic fiercely-loyal roast beef And very few lsat-takers make exactly a 150, statistics masterman. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678013) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:50 AM Author: crystalline heady shrine incorrect. if you stay somewhat in shape and hold down a somewhat decent job it is trivial to fuck and suck women 10+ years younger than you. meanwhile a 40 year old women is as marketable as green hamburger. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679087) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:00 PM Author: Plum Ladyboy Mad Cow Disease ?
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:25 PM Author: Maize Milk Elastic Band what is my sexual mating value? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678002) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:33 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge extremely low (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678016) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:40 PM Author: Effete chapel preventive strike (39 y/o) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678025) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:44 PM Author: Red Balding University flaem you can make it at any age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678028) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 7:47 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (she said, voice quaking, suppressing panic) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678032) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:01 PM Author: Red Balding University I've met a few women at the office who are making it every day (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678063) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:06 PM Author: Bistre Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684769) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:15 PM Author: Henna zombie-like state quadroon glad fucktarded inconsistent cumskins are making the trillionth iteration of this thread in 2024 whilst accusing nyuug of being "repetitive"!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678098) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:20 PM Author: Red Balding University that seems like the opposite of "inconsistent" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678103) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:20 PM Author: Henna zombie-like state quadroon lol@ this retarded fuck getting irate at my receipts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678104) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 8:23 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678111) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:51 AM Author: crystalline heady shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679089) |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 10:48 PM Author: concupiscible kink-friendly main people Aristotle recommends 35-37 as the best age of marriage for the husband, 18 for the wife (Pol. 7.16).
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Therefore it is fitting for the women to be married at about the age of eighteen and the men at thirty-seven or a little before80—for that will give long enough for the union to take place with their bodily vigor at its prime, and for it to arrive with a convenient coincidence of dates at the time when procreation ceases. |
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Date: May 20th, 2024 10:54 PM Author: Flatulent Organic Girlfriend Legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678552) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:38 AM Author: Red Balding University married a little before 80 tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678886) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:52 PM Author: Supple amethyst station new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680762) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:33 AM Author: histrionic sex offender old irish cottage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47678912) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:51 AM Author: crystalline heady shrine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679090) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 10:23 AM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47679421) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 8:06 PM Author: Tantric dead church building codepig (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684587) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:42 PM Author: appetizing plaza Male SMV factors include Face, looks, money and status (exhaustive list). I believe you are correct. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680705) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:44 PM Author: crystalline heady shrine lmfao at an exhaustive list not including Height (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680718) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:45 PM Author: appetizing plaza Yeah this is important and worth mentioning on its own if face is, but in my head it's a subcategory of looks. You're right though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680726) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:50 PM Author: crystalline heady shrine "how far away is his face from the earth when he is standing?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680756) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:01 PM Author: appetizing plaza lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680820) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:27 PM Author: Red Balding University (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47681414) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:07 PM Author: Bistre Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684771) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:48 PM Author: pale 180 gaping double fault as much as I would like to believe I haven't reached my peak yet, this is flame middle-aged sadsacks tell themselves to justify blowing up their marriages before they die alone or married to a worse woman than the one they started with (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680747) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 4:53 PM Author: crystalline heady shrine marty hart is a good example. gets a ton of pussy but winds up alone after his marriage blows up. the difference is only that marty's career fell apart after his divorce.
if a man's SMV is based in large part on his success. age doesn't factor in until he's visibly old. |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:00 PM Author: pale 180 gaping double fault I've seen men whose careers don't blow up when they get divorced think because they pulled off a few affairs they can lock down a better wife blow things up and then end up in this situation
as a man, it's hard not to judge yourself by your success with women, and being in a monogamous relationship takes that away from you, but huh maybe people are supposed to do that and you should follow the BIBLE and not your DICK |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:07 PM Author: crystalline heady shrine i agree. also being married is also a SMV status/success signal for a woman. most men have experienced how women seem to be more into them when they're dating someone else.
i certainly don't think guys should cheat or leave their wife. only that age isn't a huge factor for women until a certain point. you're right that men often do overestimate their SMV when they're married thinking it'll be the same if they got divorced. a lot of women are interested in them *because* they're married, and will lose interest once you're they're not and/or demonstrate their lack of loyalty by getting divorced for no good reason.
the tale of a guy leaving his wife only to come back begging when the homewrecker loses interest is common tale for a reason. |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 6:15 PM Author: Tantric dead church building codepig sadly cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680999) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:08 PM Author: Bistre Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684774) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 5:18 PM Author: seedy razzle legal warrant A woman in my family in her 50s just recently got married to a millionaire software developer in his 60s. Definitely not over for women at 19. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47680877) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 10:38 AM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge are you aware of a concept called a "bell curve"? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47682976) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 1:44 PM Author: seedy razzle legal warrant It's true that Asians do tend to be on the eastern side of those. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683556) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:03 PM Author: crystalline heady shrine brandon weeden got drafted in the first round at 28 years old. you can make it at sport at any age, champ! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683601) |
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Date: May 21st, 2024 7:31 PM Author: silver nubile stain piazza Men at 40 probably attract lower quality women but a wider range, so I wouldn't say that's a higher SMV. A 40 year old will find it easier to get women in the 30-50 range than a 22 year old man, but he'll find it a lot harder to get women in the 18-25 range. So can the 40 year old get more women? Yeah, but he can't get as many good women |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 10:50 AM Author: concupiscible kink-friendly main people and just for the record, Jerry Seinfeld was 37 when he dated 17 year old Shoshanna -- almost exactly the ages that Aristotle recommended.
https://x.com/MediumSizeMeech/status/1706033291676074453 |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:19 PM Author: Stirring blue forum dingle berry lol at engaging consuela on a topic like this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683640) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:20 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683645) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:26 PM Author: stimulating dilemma (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683666) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:30 PM Author: scarlet hot corn cake karate God help me if I'm posting here at 40+ years of age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683673) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:46 PM Author: Plum Ladyboy Mad Cow Disease (90% of poasters 20 years ago) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683725) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 9:09 PM Author: Bistre Church (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47684777) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 2:50 PM Author: unholy national Women peak well before 18 but social values in this country don’t allow that to be acknowledged. Age of consent laws in most of Europe and Latin America make it more clear. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5530768&forum_id=2#47683733) |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 8:20 PM Author: opaque hospital trump supporter mid to late thirties is probably more accurate for a guy who's in shape and has kept his hair.
what's the point of this poast? |
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Date: May 22nd, 2024 8:24 PM Author: Umber aphrodisiac indian lodge for entertainment, what's the point of any post
oh and to make posters feel better when they go through their mid-life crisis and get divorced |