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Gradually bring up marriage after 5 years of dating (GraceKelly)
| Bat-shit-crazy crackhouse | 09/06/10 |
| Vigorous trailer park | 09/06/10 |
| Light arrogant psychic electric furnace | 09/06/10 |
| mildly autistic chocolate philosopher-king codepig | 09/06/10 |
| Vigorous trailer park | 09/06/10 |
| Laughsome brindle business firm deer antler | 09/06/10 |
| mildly autistic chocolate philosopher-king codepig | 09/06/10 |
| Blue Judgmental Idiot | 09/22/10 |
| Bat-shit-crazy crackhouse | 09/22/10 |
| Overrated theatre clown | 09/22/10 |
| Vigorous trailer park | 09/22/10 |
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:23 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy crackhouse Date: September 6th, 2010 11:14 AM Author: Daenerys_Targaryen (Just another blonde chick who likes black dudes)
Are you talking about the wedding or marriage itself?
I agree that when a guy is ready, he'll propose, but this puts a girl in a bad position if the guy loves the girl but has no idea if he'll ever be ready. I've seen girls sit through 5+ year long relationships with men who ended up never being ready. I'm not saying these girls got marriage insanity, but they broke up because the girl wanted marriage and the guy didn't.
There's an optimum point. Pressuring after a year and a half is silly. Gradually bringing up the issue after 5 years is prudent.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415748&forum_id=2#15977257)
Surprising that she's 30 and single. |
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:33 AM Author: Vigorous trailer park I meant that if it's been 5 years and the issue hasn't been raised yet, it would be stupid not to raise it.
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:34 AM Author: Light arrogant psychic electric furnace You're pretty pathetic, :D I have to say it's amusing to watch. |
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:36 AM Author: mildly autistic chocolate philosopher-king codepig i have to say ive always enjoyed OTR's talkings about relationships (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#15977409) |
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:37 AM Author: Vigorous trailer park TY.
It's fun to give advice on this stuff. Could be a case of the blind leading the blind, but I've spent about a third of my adult life in serious relationships, a third of it "dating" or in more casual relationships and a third of it single so I've seen a lot... |
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:38 AM Author: Laughsome brindle business firm deer antler you are ugly as FUCK. stfu and quit talking shit about asians (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#15977427) |
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Date: September 6th, 2010 11:39 AM Author: mildly autistic chocolate philosopher-king codepig im the one who has dated asians boy. (cuz im ugly as fuck and my own kind wont have me :(((((((() (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#15977430) |
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Date: September 22nd, 2010 12:21 AM Author: Blue Judgmental Idiot wtf, FALSE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#16109505) |
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Date: September 22nd, 2010 12:19 AM Author: Bat-shit-crazy crackhouse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#16109486) |
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Date: September 22nd, 2010 12:20 AM Author: Overrated theatre clown A year and a half isn't silly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#16109499) |
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Date: September 22nd, 2010 12:53 AM Author: Vigorous trailer park I wouldn't pressure after only a year and a half. I'd test the waters to see how he felt about the issue, but I wouldn't pressure the guy for a ring. Most people I know got engaged after 2-3 years and weren't thinking about marriage (at least out loud, to one another) after the year and a half mark. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1415780&forum_id=2#16109922) |