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Girl texted "Ya sure u like me?" WTF does that mean?
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:04 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal For context, she came to the first date wearing an extremely ill-fitting bra, and it made her boobs look bad. I was distant (and quite disappointed) but then I realized-- note that men are stupid fucking idiots sometimes-- that it was the bra-fit and not her boobs that were weird, so the "chemistry" returned. I explained the reason for my distance was that I was turned off, but now that I realized what the story was (bad bra, not bad boobs) I wasn't anymore. I expected to get slapped or just to have her walk away, but she took my forwardness extremely well and agreed, "yeah, this bra sucks. I only wore it because it's laundry day."
I was really afraid that I had hurt her feelings by being so forward and brutally honest, and even though the date went pretty well, I didn't expect to get a second one.
One day later, she texts me asking if I really like her? Is this good or bad? Did I eff up or hurt her feelings? |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:04 PM Author: mustard french chef she wants to bone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032001) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:09 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Really? I thought I was being douchetastic in telling her, on a first date, that I was turned off by her ill-fitting bra. I was tactful about it, but there are some things that it's impossible to say tactfully.
The reason I did it is that I'd rather take a 90% chance of failing for being too forward, then be turned-off and weirded out and have 100% chance of failing on chemistry.
She confirmed that she has "normal" breasts. She was like, "yeah, this bra splits my boobs and it looks horrible". Splitting wasn't the only problem; it also pushed her boobs so high that her cleavage went up to collarbone and it looked like a fat person's chest-- on a girl who has an otherwise perfect body. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business tell her to send you a nude pic right now and you'll give her your honest opinion. then post it here (of course). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032069) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM Author: mustard french chef considering that she bothered to respond at all and then responded with what she did she's definitely interested.
girl's want to be thought of as pretty, they spend way more time trying to look good than guys do. she was probably insecure when he was standoffish at first, and then relieved that he does find her attractive
seriously send the text the other guy recommended. come over so i can show you or something along those lines. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I sent. "Yeah. Why wouldn't I?"
Alpha or beta?
I am trying to ignore the whole thing about me having been a douchebag. Second date, I will kiss her. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM Author: mustard french chef why wouldn't i is pretty beta
come over so i can show you would probably have led to sex
you need to be dominant. its instinctual for women to like a commanding personality |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business lame.
she has a million thoughts as to why you wouldn't. she's fishing for compliments, and you're showing yourself as the typical oblivious dood.
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:16 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal So it would be alpha to give the compliments?
I told her that she has the most beautiful face I've ever seen (and I wasn't lying).
If she had a mediocre face, I'd probably have just let the date play out. However, she was gorgeous, brilliant, and with a great personality. Had to get to the bottom of the one thing that was bothering me. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:18 PM Author: mustard french chef dude you are failing really hard right now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032150) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:18 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Not that it surprises me, since I fail at most social endeavors, but why do you say this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032156) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:20 PM Author: mustard french chef read this
http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115219&mc=3&forum_id=2
if you have a dog and you constantly give it praise and treats for no reason it will begin to think it is the alpha. it takes your submissive praise and gifts as a sign of weakness. praise and treats should be only given after someone does something you want them to. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business typical insecure girl bullshit. you're doing something right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032004) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM Author: Navy circlehead headpube tcr. this is about all we can ever know about the female psyche (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032017) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:06 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown lol. I don't know what to make of telling a girl on your first date that her bra doesn't fit well and that it's a turn off.
Evidently, your crass insult worked. She wouldn't have texted otherwise. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:17 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I didn't mean it as a "crass insult". I was trying to be 100% above-board honest.
I am a tactless, brutally honest, ass, but I don't go out of my way to hurt peoples' feelings. I would try to avoid hurting peoples' feelings if I didn't value honesty more. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:23 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown Honesty and rudeness, while not coextensive, are often the same. There are certain things one does not say in certain contexts. "Pardon, but the fit of your bra is offputting" is one obvious example. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032206) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:25 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal It's a nicer thing to do that than to not date a girl because of something like that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032228) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:30 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown That's like saying, "It's nicer to throw a pie in someone's face than it is to shit in their pie and let them eat it." On that level, you have a point. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032295) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:33 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal What should I have done?
Let myself be turned off, not create "chemistry", and never see her again?
I admit that I'm a douchebag for caring about something so superficial, but I think radical honesty was the best tack. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown This doesn't distance you from the shit-in-pie analogy. It merely appends, "What should I have done, *NOT* thrown the pie in her face? Then I'd *HAVE* to shit in her pie! I mean, I know myself, and it's either a pie in the face or shit in the pie." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032365) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I can't control what I am physically attracted to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032385) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:40 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown I think I am losing this argument, because I'm coming around to your side.
We're missing the connection at the point of what we can imaginatively excise from our conscious attention. I could easily have given her the benefit of the doubt; perhaps you could not.
The more I think about it, TTIWWOP. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:42 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I should have given her the benefit of the doubt. The thing is that I'm extremely sexually inexperienced and have never dated a woman with large breasts, so I'm intimidated by them.
At first, I was afraid they really looked like that, because I didn't know any better. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:46 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown You sound like a good dood. Are you a new poster? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032475) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:47 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Perennially new. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032486) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:48 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown Suppose you won't share other monikers, will you?
At any rate, I hope things work out with this big-titted siren. |
Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM Author: Free-loading garrison hominid Tell her "Come over so I can show you"
do it pussy
She wants to see you and let you show her you like her.
DO IT PUSSY |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM Author: mustard french chef TITCR
seriously |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:06 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business i agree this would probably be well-received (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032019) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: mustard french chef it's extremely credited, though i don't think op will take the advice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032030) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:18 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I'm not going to text her that, but I'll definitely turn up the heat on the next date. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032153) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:24 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business B E T A |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:26 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Pourquoi?
I like to be a mix of alpha and beta. I think being too far in either direction is bad.
I try to treat everyone with respect and kindness (beta) but I have hard-line values (such as honesty) that nothing gets in the way of. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:33 PM Author: mustard french chef man almost everything you say leads me to believe you fail at relationships. relationships with girls are not the same as relationships with your waitress/boss/flight attendant. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032332) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal How do I not fail?
I don't want to be this way. Somehow I fucked up and was still lucky, but I can't count on that forever.
I don't run "asshole game" because I'm already enough of a jerk without it. I actually try to be nice and it works, because it moderates my natural jerkness. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:45 PM Author: mustard french chef seriously read the thread i posted above. alphaness is not about being a jerk. its about BODY LANGUAGE, not real language. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032461) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:06 PM Author: crystalline travel guidebook hall who the FUCK tells a girl something like that? ahahaha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032023) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: Navy circlehead headpube alpha move in the end tho, all things considered (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032033) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:08 PM Author: crystalline travel guidebook hall yeah i'm glad it worked out
i just can't imagine how one would approach telling a girl something like that lol |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:20 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I did my best to be tactful.
I am a FUCKING idiot. You are extremely beautiful and the reason I was turned off originally is that your bra made your boobs look really weird. Now that I've run the numbers in my head and am pretty confident that they're normal, I'm not turned off anymore. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:23 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon run the numbers?
did you tell her that? |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:27 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Of course not. I said, "I assume they're normal." She said they are. Tonight I found a way into her facebook pictures (little-known exploit) and looked at them. They're fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032257) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:31 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon little know exploit?
wtf? |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:34 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal There's a way to see the FB pictures of some profiles. I don't describe it because I don't want to lose it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032342) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:35 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon of course there's a way to see the fb pics.
wtf are you talking about? |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Of someone not in your network and not an FB friend of yours. A random person in Missouri, even. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032366) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon wait, with no mutual friends?
and it doesn't depend on that person's privacy settings?
Do tell! |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:43 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Sorry. If I did, it'd get fixed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032429) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:43 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon I PROMISE I won't report it. You can edit it five seconds later.
Oh lord please I need to see my ex and the new chick he's with.
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:46 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal If you [do something] you sometimes get to that person's "Pictures of" page. It works maybe 1 time in 10, alas.
A much creepier one I found in the summer of 2008 allowed you to import all of another person's apps to your wall. That one was fixed, presumably. (I don't know if it still works, though I doubt it, since I discovered it by accident and it was too creepy for me to try again.) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:52 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon How do you get the member id? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032550) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:00 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Search the person. When you to get the "X only shares certain information with everyone" page, the URL is:
http://www.facebook.com/search/?q=<<<Fname>>>+<<<Lname>>>&init=quick#/profile.php?id=<<<person's ID>>>&ref=search&<<<otherstuff>>> |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:06 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon edit: nevermind (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032674) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown XO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032034) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: Free-loading garrison hominid either
a) a beta
b) an alpha throwing a major neg to score big time next time |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1075328&mc=67&forum_id=2#12636970 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032075) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM Author: Free-loading garrison hominid ::POINTS LEAFBLOWER IN YOUR FACE::
Que? OH SORRY NO SPEAKA ENGLISH, yoo BETA
::resumes blowing leaves:: |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business now she thinks he only cares about her looks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032037) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:08 PM Author: mustard french chef meh. i don't think so. if he showed up on the first date with one leg longer the other or some weird shit about him she'd be turned off too.
i think girl's want to be thought of as pretty, they spend way more time trying to look good than guys do. she was probably insecure when he was standoffish at first, and then relieved that he does find her attractive |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:09 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business what kind of bra makes a girl's boobs look deal-breakerish? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032059) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM Author: mustard french chef http://ezinearticles.com/?Training-Bras&id=125554 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032065) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business but 12 year olds are hawt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032072) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal It pushed her breasts into a weird oblong shape. The underwire was high and bisected them, so it looked like she had massive fat deposits under them (not the cute tiny rolls that normally come with large breasts). It also pushed her boobs up to her collarbone so it looked like she had a fat person's chest, even though her body was otherwise perfect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032087) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:12 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business girl has issues leaving the house like that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032096) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal She was coming straight from work. It's forgivable.
Long-run, I only care what they look like naked. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: Ultramarine mind-boggling dilemma people who are hurt typical aspie behavior (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032039) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM Author: titillating sneaky criminal indian lodge seriously. this schtick is mildly entertaining, though. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032085) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:16 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Yeah, basically. I was Aspie in my teens but am normal now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032134) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:25 PM Author: Shimmering theatre place of business how did you overcome? what would have helped? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032239) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:28 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Moved to New York where I can fail socially a zillion times and never have it catch up with me. Made some good friends through aggressively getting out there. Now have a normal social network of very interesting people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032273) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:35 PM Author: Internet-worthy Abusive Doctorate Round Eye oh sup pensive (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032352) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I am insulted. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032391) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:44 PM Author: Internet-worthy Abusive Doctorate Round Eye whatever you say mike. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032441) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:08 PM Author: Impertinent public bath elastic band she has a penis (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032048) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM Author: Curious azure mediation lol flame? you were 'distant' on a first date and then told her it was because you were disappointed in her tits? nice (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032071) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM Author: exhilarant insanely creepy den She should have slapped you and walked out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032086) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:12 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown ti, oc, tcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032098) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I agree.
As I said, it was a 90% chance of failing by pissing her off vs. 100% chance of being distant and failing on "chemistry". |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:19 PM Author: Ungodly field therapy text back: Who is this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032162) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:24 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Fuck that. I'm a tactless social retard. I don't try to hurt people, because I do it so much naturally.
Aspie game, bitches. The most natural kind there is. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:26 PM Author: fragrant home Fuckin weirdo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032247) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:28 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal No disagreement there.
Again, it was a utilitarian calculation. Better to take a 90% chance of weirding her out or upsetting her than a 100% chance of the date failing on "no chemistry" and her feeling rejected. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:29 PM Author: Ultramarine mind-boggling dilemma people who are hurt radical honesty can pay off big time (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032280) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:30 PM Author: Internet-worthy Abusive Doctorate Round Eye barzini? that you? |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Skinny, average-looking (6.5) version of him. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032314) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:29 PM Author: Internet-worthy Abusive Doctorate Round Eye titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032285) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:31 PM Author: Marvelous hospital antidepressant drug Thank you for making the freaks I go out with look somewhat normal. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032306) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon Oddly enough, I've treated guys like this and they respond well to it too. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032315) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM Author: Domesticated crawly clown We aren't chicks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032322) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:34 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon yeah.
this thread is proof that sometimes treating a chick with honesty, just like you would one of the bros, can be effective.
I can totally imagine one of my exes acting like this. He would deliver in such a dorky and lame manner that I would never take offense. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal My ex-girlfriend said the thing she admired most about me was that I treated people basically the same, regardless of social class, gender, age, et cetera. I was like, "shouldn't all people do the same?" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032383) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:40 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon I bet she's attracted to your dorkiness.
On the other hand, she wasn't excited enough about you to even wear a nice bra.
Maybe your Kramer-like honesty turned things around. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:44 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal On "wasn't excited enough", I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032445) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:52 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon doesn't matter.
you turned it around somehow. That's even better. Good job.
The guys you don't like at first who manage to win you over somehow are the best ones. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:01 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Thanks.
I think she appreciates my directness and honesty (she's foreign-born). I'm glad to have found someone who can handle, much less enjoy, it. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:08 PM Author: Razzmatazz Zombie-like Quadroon "she's foreign-born"
i knew it. american chicks have issues. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:15 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal I agree 100%. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032795) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:55 PM Author: Vermilion startling sound barrier yeah, that's sweet. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032577) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:04 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal In high school, I was never sure who the high- and low-status people were. It was always changing and I couldn't figure it out, so I just hung out with the people I liked.
Thing is, I've never, ever been afraid to sit with the "unpopular kid" or to stand up for him, because I will bring his reputation up rather than him bringing mine down. That said, I'd never sit down at a table of unpopular kids because I don't want to become part of "that group" in others' eyes. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal Any time. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032316) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:46 PM Author: fragrant home I'm confused as to how her boobs looked so weird that you were no longer attracted to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032482) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:50 PM Author: judgmental rehab son of senegal They're naturally large, and the bra both bisected them due to high underwire, making it look like there were fat deposits under them, and pushed them up very high on her chest, so it looked like she had a fat person's chest. I couldn't figure it out, because she was beautiful everywhere else. Severe cognitive dissonance.
Once I figured out it was a bad bra, it stopped being a problem. However, I'm a fucking idiot (and a boob-newb, having dated mostly small-breasted women without cleavage) and it took me some time (like 30 minutes) to realize the score.
I'm glad I talked with her about it, as brash as that was, rather than silently turning her down. Could have made a huge fucking mistake. |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:01 PM Author: fragrant home ok. now I get it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032629) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:04 PM Author: disgusting spectacular knife Seriously killself. This flame sucks. Please stick to one moniker so I can ignore you more easily. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032653) |
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Date: October 20th, 2009 10:44 PM Author: Provocative mexican forum what do you think it means? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13041800) |