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Girl texted "Ya sure u like me?" WTF does that mean?

For context, she came to the first date wearing an extremely...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
she wants to bone.
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
Really? I thought I was being douchetastic in telling her, o...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
tell her to send you a nude pic right now and you'll give he...
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
considering that she bothered to respond at all and then res...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
I sent. "Yeah. Why wouldn't I?" Alpha or beta? ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
why wouldn't i is pretty beta come over so i can show you...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
lame. she has a million thoughts as to why you wouldn't. ...
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
So it would be alpha to give the compliments? I told her ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
dude you are failing really hard right now
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
Not that it surprises me, since I fail at most social endeav...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
read this http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=111...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
typical insecure girl bullshit. you're doing something right...
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
tcr. this is about all we can ever know about the female ps...
Floppy Fluffy Partner
  10/19/09
lol. I don't know what to make of telling a girl on your fi...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
I didn't mean it as a "crass insult". I was trying...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
Honesty and rudeness, while not coextensive, are often the s...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
It's a nicer thing to do that than to not date a girl becaus...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
That's like saying, "It's nicer to throw a pie in someo...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
What should I have done? Let myself be turned off, not c...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
This doesn't distance you from the shit-in-pie analogy. It ...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
I can't control what I am physically attracted to.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
I think I am losing this argument, because I'm coming around...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
I should have given her the benefit of the doubt. The thing ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
You sound like a good dood. Are you a new poster?
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
Perennially new.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
Suppose you won't share other monikers, will you? At any ...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
Tell her "Come over so I can show you" do it pu...
talented black striped hyena
  10/19/09
TITCR seriously
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
i agree this would probably be well-received
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
it's extremely credited, though i don't think op will take t...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
I'm not going to text her that, but I'll definitely turn up ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
B E T A
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
Pourquoi? I like to be a mix of alpha and beta. I think b...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
man almost everything you say leads me to believe you fail a...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
How do I not fail? I don't want to be this way. Somehow I...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
seriously read the thread i posted above. alphaness is not ...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
who the FUCK tells a girl something like that? ahahaha
Ungodly Multi-colored Pozpig Hairy Legs
  10/19/09
alpha move in the end tho, all things considered
Floppy Fluffy Partner
  10/19/09
yeah i'm glad it worked out i just can't imagine how one ...
Ungodly Multi-colored Pozpig Hairy Legs
  10/19/09
I did my best to be tactful. I am a FUCKING idiot. You a...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
run the numbers? did you tell her that?
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
Of course not. I said, "I assume they're normal." ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
little know exploit? wtf?
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
There's a way to see the FB pictures of some profiles. I don...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
of course there's a way to see the fb pics. wtf are you t...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
Of someone not in your network and not an FB friend of yours...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
wait, with no mutual friends? and it doesn't depend on th...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
Sorry. If I did, it'd get fixed.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
I PROMISE I won't report it. You can edit it five seconds l...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
If you [do something] you sometimes get to that person's &qu...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
How do you get the member id?
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
Search the person. When you to get the "X only shares c...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
edit: nevermind
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
XO.
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
either a) a beta b) an alpha throwing a major neg to s...
talented black striped hyena
  10/19/09
http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1075328&mc=67&...
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
::POINTS LEAFBLOWER IN YOUR FACE:: Que? OH SORRY NO SPEAK...
talented black striped hyena
  10/19/09
now she thinks he only cares about her looks
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
meh. i don't think so. if he showed up on the first date w...
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
what kind of bra makes a girl's boobs look deal-breakerish?
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
http://ezinearticles.com/?Training-Bras&id=125554
hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon
  10/19/09
but 12 year olds are hawt
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
It pushed her breasts into a weird oblong shape. The underwi...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
girl has issues leaving the house like that.
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
She was coming straight from work. It's forgivable. Long...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
typical aspie behavior
free-loading wagecucks
  10/19/09
seriously. this schtick is mildly entertaining, though.
histrionic submissive theater stage stock car
  10/19/09
Yeah, basically. I was Aspie in my teens but am normal now.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
how did you overcome? what would have helped?
glittery unhinged marketing idea
  10/19/09
Moved to New York where I can fail socially a zillion times ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
oh sup pensive
stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate
  10/19/09
I am insulted.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
whatever you say mike.
stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate
  10/19/09
she has a penis
clear painfully honest rehab codepig
  10/19/09
lol flame? you were 'distant' on a first date and then told ...
Self-centered garrison
  10/19/09
She should have slapped you and walked out.
useless well-lubricated ape
  10/19/09
ti, oc, tcr
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
I agree. As I said, it was a 90% chance of failing by pi...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
text back: Who is this?
Fragrant shivering hospital athletic conference
  10/19/09
Fuck that. I'm a tactless social retard. I don't try to hurt...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
Fuckin weirdo.
fantasy-prone ticket booth fanboi
  10/19/09
No disagreement there. Again, it was a utilitarian calcu...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
radical honesty can pay off big time
free-loading wagecucks
  10/19/09
barzini? that you?
stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate
  10/19/09
Skinny, average-looking (6.5) version of him.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
titcr
stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate
  10/19/09
Thank you for making the freaks I go out with look somewhat ...
Curious coffee pot
  10/19/09
Oddly enough, I've treated guys like this and they respond w...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
We aren't chicks.
exhilarant jet round eye
  10/19/09
yeah. this thread is proof that sometimes treating a ch...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
My ex-girlfriend said the thing she admired most about me wa...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
I bet she's attracted to your dorkiness. On the other han...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
On "wasn't excited enough", I'm going to give her ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
doesn't matter. you turned it around somehow. That's e...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
Thanks. I think she appreciates my directness and honest...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
"she's foreign-born" i knew it. american chick...
Ultramarine philosopher-king
  10/19/09
I agree 100%.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
yeah, that's sweet.
mischievous titillating stead haunted graveyard
  10/19/09
In high school, I was never sure who the high- and low-statu...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
Any time.
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
I'm confused as to how her boobs looked so weird that you we...
fantasy-prone ticket booth fanboi
  10/19/09
They're naturally large, and the bra both bisected them due ...
Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank
  10/19/09
it's pensive fwiw.
stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate
  10/19/09
ok. now I get it.
fantasy-prone ticket booth fanboi
  10/19/09
Seriously killself. This flame sucks. Please stick to one mo...
self-absorbed ebony ratface nursing home
  10/19/09
what the hell?
confused impressive cuckoldry national
  10/19/09
...
Emerald organic girlfriend
  10/20/09
what do you think it means?
Marvelous seedy brunch
  10/20/09


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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:04 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

For context, she came to the first date wearing an extremely ill-fitting bra, and it made her boobs look bad. I was distant (and quite disappointed) but then I realized-- note that men are stupid fucking idiots sometimes-- that it was the bra-fit and not her boobs that were weird, so the "chemistry" returned. I explained the reason for my distance was that I was turned off, but now that I realized what the story was (bad bra, not bad boobs) I wasn't anymore. I expected to get slapped or just to have her walk away, but she took my forwardness extremely well and agreed, "yeah, this bra sucks. I only wore it because it's laundry day."

I was really afraid that I had hurt her feelings by being so forward and brutally honest, and even though the date went pretty well, I didn't expect to get a second one.

One day later, she texts me asking if I really like her? Is this good or bad? Did I eff up or hurt her feelings?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13031996)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:04 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

she wants to bone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032001)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:09 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Really? I thought I was being douchetastic in telling her, on a first date, that I was turned off by her ill-fitting bra. I was tactful about it, but there are some things that it's impossible to say tactfully.

The reason I did it is that I'd rather take a 90% chance of failing for being too forward, then be turned-off and weirded out and have 100% chance of failing on chemistry.

She confirmed that she has "normal" breasts. She was like, "yeah, this bra splits my boobs and it looks horrible". Splitting wasn't the only problem; it also pushed her boobs so high that her cleavage went up to collarbone and it looked like a fat person's chest-- on a girl who has an otherwise perfect body.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032056)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

tell her to send you a nude pic right now and you'll give her your honest opinion. then post it here (of course).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032069)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

considering that she bothered to respond at all and then responded with what she did she's definitely interested.

girl's want to be thought of as pretty, they spend way more time trying to look good than guys do. she was probably insecure when he was standoffish at first, and then relieved that he does find her attractive

seriously send the text the other guy recommended. come over so i can show you or something along those lines.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032079)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I sent. "Yeah. Why wouldn't I?"

Alpha or beta?

I am trying to ignore the whole thing about me having been a douchebag. Second date, I will kiss her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032099)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

why wouldn't i is pretty beta

come over so i can show you would probably have led to sex

you need to be dominant. its instinctual for women to like a commanding personality

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032111)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

lame.

she has a million thoughts as to why you wouldn't. she's fishing for compliments, and you're showing yourself as the typical oblivious dood.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032114)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:16 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

So it would be alpha to give the compliments?

I told her that she has the most beautiful face I've ever seen (and I wasn't lying).

If she had a mediocre face, I'd probably have just let the date play out. However, she was gorgeous, brilliant, and with a great personality. Had to get to the bottom of the one thing that was bothering me.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032129)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:18 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

dude you are failing really hard right now

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032150)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:18 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Not that it surprises me, since I fail at most social endeavors, but why do you say this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032156)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:20 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

read this

http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115219&mc=3&forum_id=2

if you have a dog and you constantly give it praise and treats for no reason it will begin to think it is the alpha. it takes your submissive praise and gifts as a sign of weakness. praise and treats should be only given after someone does something you want them to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032175)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

typical insecure girl bullshit. you're doing something right.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032004)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM
Author: Floppy Fluffy Partner

tcr. this is about all we can ever know about the female psyche

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032017)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:06 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

lol. I don't know what to make of telling a girl on your first date that her bra doesn't fit well and that it's a turn off.

Evidently, your crass insult worked. She wouldn't have texted otherwise.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032021)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:17 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I didn't mean it as a "crass insult". I was trying to be 100% above-board honest.

I am a tactless, brutally honest, ass, but I don't go out of my way to hurt peoples' feelings. I would try to avoid hurting peoples' feelings if I didn't value honesty more.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032146)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:23 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

Honesty and rudeness, while not coextensive, are often the same. There are certain things one does not say in certain contexts. "Pardon, but the fit of your bra is offputting" is one obvious example.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032206)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:25 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

It's a nicer thing to do that than to not date a girl because of something like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032228)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:30 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

That's like saying, "It's nicer to throw a pie in someone's face than it is to shit in their pie and let them eat it." On that level, you have a point.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032295)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:33 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

What should I have done?

Let myself be turned off, not create "chemistry", and never see her again?

I admit that I'm a douchebag for caring about something so superficial, but I think radical honesty was the best tack.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032329)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

This doesn't distance you from the shit-in-pie analogy. It merely appends, "What should I have done, *NOT* thrown the pie in her face? Then I'd *HAVE* to shit in her pie! I mean, I know myself, and it's either a pie in the face or shit in the pie."

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032365)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I can't control what I am physically attracted to.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032385)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:40 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

I think I am losing this argument, because I'm coming around to your side.

We're missing the connection at the point of what we can imaginatively excise from our conscious attention. I could easily have given her the benefit of the doubt; perhaps you could not.

The more I think about it, TTIWWOP.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032403)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:42 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I should have given her the benefit of the doubt. The thing is that I'm extremely sexually inexperienced and have never dated a woman with large breasts, so I'm intimidated by them.

At first, I was afraid they really looked like that, because I didn't know any better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032422)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:46 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

You sound like a good dood. Are you a new poster?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032475)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:47 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Perennially new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032486)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:48 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

Suppose you won't share other monikers, will you?

At any rate, I hope things work out with this big-titted siren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032498)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM
Author: talented black striped hyena

Tell her "Come over so I can show you"

do it pussy

She wants to see you and let you show her you like her.

DO IT PUSSY

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032005)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

TITCR

seriously

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032013)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:06 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

i agree this would probably be well-received

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032019)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

it's extremely credited, though i don't think op will take the advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032030)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:18 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I'm not going to text her that, but I'll definitely turn up the heat on the next date.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032153)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:24 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

B

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032219)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:26 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Pourquoi?

I like to be a mix of alpha and beta. I think being too far in either direction is bad.

I try to treat everyone with respect and kindness (beta) but I have hard-line values (such as honesty) that nothing gets in the way of.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032242)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:33 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

man almost everything you say leads me to believe you fail at relationships. relationships with girls are not the same as relationships with your waitress/boss/flight attendant.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032332)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

How do I not fail?

I don't want to be this way. Somehow I fucked up and was still lucky, but I can't count on that forever.

I don't run "asshole game" because I'm already enough of a jerk without it. I actually try to be nice and it works, because it moderates my natural jerkness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032359)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:45 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

seriously read the thread i posted above. alphaness is not about being a jerk. its about BODY LANGUAGE, not real language.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032461)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:06 PM
Author: Ungodly Multi-colored Pozpig Hairy Legs

who the FUCK tells a girl something like that? ahahaha

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032023)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM
Author: Floppy Fluffy Partner

alpha move in the end tho, all things considered

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032033)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:08 PM
Author: Ungodly Multi-colored Pozpig Hairy Legs

yeah i'm glad it worked out

i just can't imagine how one would approach telling a girl something like that lol

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032053)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:20 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I did my best to be tactful.

I am a FUCKING idiot. You are extremely beautiful and the reason I was turned off originally is that your bra made your boobs look really weird. Now that I've run the numbers in my head and am pretty confident that they're normal, I'm not turned off anymore.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032179)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:23 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

run the numbers?

did you tell her that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032200)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:27 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Of course not. I said, "I assume they're normal." She said they are. Tonight I found a way into her facebook pictures (little-known exploit) and looked at them. They're fine.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032257)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:31 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

little know exploit?

wtf?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032309)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:34 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

There's a way to see the FB pictures of some profiles. I don't describe it because I don't want to lose it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032342)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:35 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

of course there's a way to see the fb pics.

wtf are you talking about?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032351)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Of someone not in your network and not an FB friend of yours. A random person in Missouri, even.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032366)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

wait, with no mutual friends?

and it doesn't depend on that person's privacy settings?

Do tell!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032387)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:43 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Sorry. If I did, it'd get fixed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032429)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:43 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

I PROMISE I won't report it. You can edit it five seconds later.

Oh lord please I need to see my ex and the new chick he's with.



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032440)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:46 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

If you [do something] you sometimes get to that person's "Pictures of" page. It works maybe 1 time in 10, alas.

A much creepier one I found in the summer of 2008 allowed you to import all of another person's apps to your wall. That one was fixed, presumably. (I don't know if it still works, though I doubt it, since I discovered it by accident and it was too creepy for me to try again.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032479)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:52 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

How do you get the member id?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032550)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:00 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Search the person. When you to get the "X only shares certain information with everyone" page, the URL is:

http://www.facebook.com/search/?q=<<<Fname>>>+<<<Lname>>>&init=quick#/profile.php?id=<<<person's ID>>>&ref=search&<<<otherstuff>>>

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032625)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:06 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

edit: nevermind

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032674)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

XO.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032034)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM
Author: talented black striped hyena

either

a) a beta

b) an alpha throwing a major neg to score big time next time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032036)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

http://autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1075328&mc=67&forum_id=2#12636970

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032075)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM
Author: talented black striped hyena

::POINTS LEAFBLOWER IN YOUR FACE::

Que? OH SORRY NO SPEAKA ENGLISH, yoo BETA

::resumes blowing leaves::

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032103)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

now she thinks he only cares about her looks

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032037)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:08 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

meh. i don't think so. if he showed up on the first date with one leg longer the other or some weird shit about him she'd be turned off too.

i think girl's want to be thought of as pretty, they spend way more time trying to look good than guys do. she was probably insecure when he was standoffish at first, and then relieved that he does find her attractive

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032052)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:09 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

what kind of bra makes a girl's boobs look deal-breakerish?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032059)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM
Author: hairraiser bat-shit-crazy temple quadroon

http://ezinearticles.com/?Training-Bras&id=125554

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032065)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

but 12 year olds are hawt

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032072)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

It pushed her breasts into a weird oblong shape. The underwire was high and bisected them, so it looked like she had massive fat deposits under them (not the cute tiny rolls that normally come with large breasts). It also pushed her boobs up to her collarbone so it looked like she had a fat person's chest, even though her body was otherwise perfect.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032087)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:12 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

girl has issues leaving the house like that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032096)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

She was coming straight from work. It's forgivable.

Long-run, I only care what they look like naked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032116)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM
Author: free-loading wagecucks

typical aspie behavior

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032039)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM
Author: histrionic submissive theater stage stock car

seriously. this schtick is mildly entertaining, though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032085)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:16 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Yeah, basically. I was Aspie in my teens but am normal now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032134)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:25 PM
Author: glittery unhinged marketing idea

how did you overcome? what would have helped?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032239)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:28 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Moved to New York where I can fail socially a zillion times and never have it catch up with me. Made some good friends through aggressively getting out there. Now have a normal social network of very interesting people.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032273)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:35 PM
Author: stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate

oh sup pensive

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032352)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I am insulted.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032391)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:44 PM
Author: stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate

whatever you say mike.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032441)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:08 PM
Author: clear painfully honest rehab codepig

she has a penis

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032048)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:10 PM
Author: Self-centered garrison

lol flame? you were 'distant' on a first date and then told her it was because you were disappointed in her tits? nice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032071)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM
Author: useless well-lubricated ape

She should have slapped you and walked out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032086)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:12 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

ti, oc, tcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032098)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I agree.

As I said, it was a 90% chance of failing by pissing her off vs. 100% chance of being distant and failing on "chemistry".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032106)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:19 PM
Author: Fragrant shivering hospital athletic conference

text back: Who is this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032162)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:24 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Fuck that. I'm a tactless social retard. I don't try to hurt people, because I do it so much naturally.

Aspie game, bitches. The most natural kind there is.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032211)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:26 PM
Author: fantasy-prone ticket booth fanboi

Fuckin weirdo.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032247)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:28 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

No disagreement there.

Again, it was a utilitarian calculation. Better to take a 90% chance of weirding her out or upsetting her than a 100% chance of the date failing on "no chemistry" and her feeling rejected.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032266)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:29 PM
Author: free-loading wagecucks

radical honesty can pay off big time

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032280)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:30 PM
Author: stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate

barzini?

that you?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032297)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Skinny, average-looking (6.5) version of him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032314)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:29 PM
Author: stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate

titcr

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032285)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:31 PM
Author: Curious coffee pot

Thank you for making the freaks I go out with look somewhat normal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032306)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

Oddly enough, I've treated guys like this and they respond well to it too.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032315)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM
Author: exhilarant jet round eye

We aren't chicks.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032322)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:34 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

yeah.

this thread is proof that sometimes treating a chick with honesty, just like you would one of the bros, can be effective.

I can totally imagine one of my exes acting like this. He would deliver in such a dorky and lame manner that I would never take offense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032339)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

My ex-girlfriend said the thing she admired most about me was that I treated people basically the same, regardless of social class, gender, age, et cetera. I was like, "shouldn't all people do the same?"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032383)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:40 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

I bet she's attracted to your dorkiness.

On the other hand, she wasn't excited enough about you to even wear a nice bra.

Maybe your Kramer-like honesty turned things around.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032402)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:44 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

On "wasn't excited enough", I'm going to give her the benefit of the doubt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032445)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:52 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

doesn't matter.

you turned it around somehow. That's even better. Good job.

The guys you don't like at first who manage to win you over somehow are the best ones.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032556)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:01 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Thanks.

I think she appreciates my directness and honesty (she's foreign-born). I'm glad to have found someone who can handle, much less enjoy, it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032633)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:08 PM
Author: Ultramarine philosopher-king

"she's foreign-born"

i knew it. american chicks have issues.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032705)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:15 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

I agree 100%.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032795)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:55 PM
Author: mischievous titillating stead haunted graveyard

yeah, that's sweet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032577)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:04 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

In high school, I was never sure who the high- and low-status people were. It was always changing and I couldn't figure it out, so I just hung out with the people I liked.

Thing is, I've never, ever been afraid to sit with the "unpopular kid" or to stand up for him, because I will bring his reputation up rather than him bringing mine down. That said, I'd never sit down at a table of unpopular kids because I don't want to become part of "that group" in others' eyes.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032652)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:32 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

Any time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032316)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:46 PM
Author: fantasy-prone ticket booth fanboi

I'm confused as to how her boobs looked so weird that you were no longer attracted to her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032482)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:50 PM
Author: Bisexual Diverse Love Of Her Life Tank

They're naturally large, and the bra both bisected them due to high underwire, making it look like there were fat deposits under them, and pushed them up very high on her chest, so it looked like she had a fat person's chest. I couldn't figure it out, because she was beautiful everywhere else. Severe cognitive dissonance.

Once I figured out it was a bad bra, it stopped being a problem. However, I'm a fucking idiot (and a boob-newb, having dated mostly small-breasted women without cleavage) and it took me some time (like 30 minutes) to realize the score.

I'm glad I talked with her about it, as brash as that was, rather than silently turning her down. Could have made a huge fucking mistake.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032530)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:52 PM
Author: stirring pungent friendly grandma doctorate

it's pensive fwiw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032552)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:01 PM
Author: fantasy-prone ticket booth fanboi

ok. now I get it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032629)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:04 PM
Author: self-absorbed ebony ratface nursing home

Seriously killself. This flame sucks. Please stick to one moniker so I can ignore you more easily.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032653)



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Date: October 19th, 2009 10:19 PM
Author: confused impressive cuckoldry national

what the hell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032838)



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Date: October 20th, 2009 10:42 PM
Author: Emerald organic girlfriend



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13041786)



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Date: October 20th, 2009 10:44 PM
Author: Marvelous seedy brunch

what do you think it means?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13041800)