Girl texted "Ya sure u like me?" WTF does that mean?
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:04 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
For context, she came to the first date wearing an extremely ill-fitting bra, and it made her boobs look bad. I was distant (and quite disappointed) but then I realized-- note that men are stupid fucking idiots sometimes-- that it was the bra-fit and not her boobs that were weird, so the "chemistry" returned. I explained the reason for my distance was that I was turned off, but now that I realized what the story was (bad bra, not bad boobs) I wasn't anymore. I expected to get slapped or just to have her walk away, but she took my forwardness extremely well and agreed, "yeah, this bra sucks. I only wore it because it's laundry day."
I was really afraid that I had hurt her feelings by being so forward and brutally honest, and even though the date went pretty well, I didn't expect to get a second one.
One day later, she texts me asking if I really like her? Is this good or bad? Did I eff up or hurt her feelings?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13031996) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:09 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
Really? I thought I was being douchetastic in telling her, on a first date, that I was turned off by her ill-fitting bra. I was tactful about it, but there are some things that it's impossible to say tactfully.
The reason I did it is that I'd rather take a 90% chance of failing for being too forward, then be turned-off and weirded out and have 100% chance of failing on chemistry.
She confirmed that she has "normal" breasts. She was like, "yeah, this bra splits my boobs and it looks horrible". Splitting wasn't the only problem; it also pushed her boobs so high that her cleavage went up to collarbone and it looked like a fat person's chest-- on a girl who has an otherwise perfect body.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032056) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:11 PM Author: Underhanded thirsty hell
considering that she bothered to respond at all and then responded with what she did she's definitely interested.
girl's want to be thought of as pretty, they spend way more time trying to look good than guys do. she was probably insecure when he was standoffish at first, and then relieved that he does find her attractive
seriously send the text the other guy recommended. come over so i can show you or something along those lines.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032079) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
I sent. "Yeah. Why wouldn't I?"
Alpha or beta?
I am trying to ignore the whole thing about me having been a douchebag. Second date, I will kiss her.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032099) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM Author: Underhanded thirsty hell
why wouldn't i is pretty beta
come over so i can show you would probably have led to sex
you need to be dominant. its instinctual for women to like a commanding personality
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032111) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:14 PM Author: Mauve house-broken stage organic girlfriend
lame.
she has a million thoughts as to why you wouldn't. she's fishing for compliments, and you're showing yourself as the typical oblivious dood.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032114)
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:16 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
So it would be alpha to give the compliments?
I told her that she has the most beautiful face I've ever seen (and I wasn't lying).
If she had a mediocre face, I'd probably have just let the date play out. However, she was gorgeous, brilliant, and with a great personality. Had to get to the bottom of the one thing that was bothering me.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032129) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:20 PM Author: Underhanded thirsty hell
read this
http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115219&mc=3&forum_id=2
if you have a dog and you constantly give it praise and treats for no reason it will begin to think it is the alpha. it takes your submissive praise and gifts as a sign of weakness. praise and treats should be only given after someone does something you want them to.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032175) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:33 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
What should I have done?
Let myself be turned off, not create "chemistry", and never see her again?
I admit that I'm a douchebag for caring about something so superficial, but I think radical honesty was the best tack.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032329) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:40 PM Author: orange point friendly grandma
I think I am losing this argument, because I'm coming around to your side.
We're missing the connection at the point of what we can imaginatively excise from our conscious attention. I could easily have given her the benefit of the doubt; perhaps you could not.
The more I think about it, TTIWWOP.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032403) |
Date: October 19th, 2009 9:05 PM Author: mint beady-eyed kitty
Tell her "Come over so I can show you"
do it pussy
She wants to see you and let you show her you like her.
DO IT PUSSY
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032005) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:24 PM Author: Mauve house-broken stage organic girlfriend
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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032219) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:26 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
Pourquoi?
I like to be a mix of alpha and beta. I think being too far in either direction is bad.
I try to treat everyone with respect and kindness (beta) but I have hard-line values (such as honesty) that nothing gets in the way of.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032242) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:36 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
How do I not fail?
I don't want to be this way. Somehow I fucked up and was still lucky, but I can't count on that forever.
I don't run "asshole game" because I'm already enough of a jerk without it. I actually try to be nice and it works, because it moderates my natural jerkness.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032359) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:38 PM Author: mind-boggling lemon headpube
wait, with no mutual friends?
and it doesn't depend on that person's privacy settings?
Do tell!
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032387) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:43 PM Author: mind-boggling lemon headpube
I PROMISE I won't report it. You can edit it five seconds later.
Oh lord please I need to see my ex and the new chick he's with.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032440)
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:07 PM Author: mint beady-eyed kitty
either
a) a beta
b) an alpha throwing a major neg to score big time next time
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032036) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:13 PM Author: mint beady-eyed kitty
::POINTS LEAFBLOWER IN YOUR FACE::
Que? OH SORRY NO SPEAKA ENGLISH, yoo BETA
::resumes blowing leaves::
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032103) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:34 PM Author: mind-boggling lemon headpube
yeah.
this thread is proof that sometimes treating a chick with honesty, just like you would one of the bros, can be effective.
I can totally imagine one of my exes acting like this. He would deliver in such a dorky and lame manner that I would never take offense.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032339) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:40 PM Author: mind-boggling lemon headpube
I bet she's attracted to your dorkiness.
On the other hand, she wasn't excited enough about you to even wear a nice bra.
Maybe your Kramer-like honesty turned things around.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032402) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:52 PM Author: mind-boggling lemon headpube
doesn't matter.
you turned it around somehow. That's even better. Good job.
The guys you don't like at first who manage to win you over somehow are the best ones.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032556) |
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Date: October 19th, 2009 9:50 PM Author: Godawful heaven goyim
They're naturally large, and the bra both bisected them due to high underwire, making it look like there were fat deposits under them, and pushed them up very high on her chest, so it looked like she had a fat person's chest. I couldn't figure it out, because she was beautiful everywhere else. Severe cognitive dissonance.
Once I figured out it was a bad bra, it stopped being a problem. However, I'm a fucking idiot (and a boob-newb, having dated mostly small-breasted women without cleavage) and it took me some time (like 30 minutes) to realize the score.
I'm glad I talked with her about it, as brash as that was, rather than silently turning her down. Could have made a huge fucking mistake.
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1115199&forum_id=2#13032530) |
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