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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:44 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field csb
not sure why, but i just think he is a fucking turd |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:48 PM Author: mauve dead shrine how DARE you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361283) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:48 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field ? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361287) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:49 PM Author: mauve dead shrine csb is my FRIEND (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361293) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:50 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field oh, sorry
(to hear that) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:51 PM Author: mauve dead shrine Well that's okay man i mean as long as you're a big enough person to apologi -- NOW WAIT JUST ONE MINUTE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361313) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:49 PM Author: Marvelous bistre puppy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361297) |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 10:48 AM Author: Excitant Yellow Stead (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14369660) |
Date: March 11th, 2010 1:46 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes Oddly enough, i don't think there's any posters i hate right now. The Rowan vs Blue Smoke showdown really put things in perspective.
I wouldn't want to be stuck in an elevator with TMF though. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:47 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field describe this showdown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361275) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:47 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage what rowan vs bs showdown???? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361277) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:52 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1246940&mc=118&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361325) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:58 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field showdown? more like meltdown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361383) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:02 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes oooooh snap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361413) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:14 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage lol. smoke and rowan both look terrible in that thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361586) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:20 PM Author: Vivacious henna point They usually are so mature and civilized amirite (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361677) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:23 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater the funny part was reading it thinking BS was being a paranoid psycho, but then rowan kept confirming all the accusations BS made (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361702) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:30 PM Author: fuchsia histrionic legend credited (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361808) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:32 PM Author: vigorous mad-dog skullcap jew explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361827) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:33 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage or like how Rowan, in telling BS how self centered she was by making everything about her, tried to make the whole conflict about her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361837) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:33 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I don't think that's really fair. She thought that Beta's, BPM's, and so on's attendance at a party meant something about her. I'm personally completely fed up with her, but that's in part because of the bullshit that's been going on for the last couple weeks, and is not really what happened with anyone else. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361841) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:36 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge No. You were a complete bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361872) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:37 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone menage liquid oxygen this is right, it was a little off putting to see our level headed rowan clearly off her rocker (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361885) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:38 PM Author: Vivacious henna point She was sassy and servin' it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361900) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:38 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge Yeah, she was being a total cunt, and she is IRL IMO. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361901) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:48 PM Author: vigorous mad-dog skullcap jew Rowan is never level headed. its always been a cover up for her jealousy and insecurity and lack of intelligence. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362017) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:42 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater i just meant in the sense that i thought you two were totally cool, so when she's like "you don't come to meetups because you hate me, you didn't even congratulate me in the UVA thread" i thought she was just being a psycho again like the antmatic/BPM thread. but then you would be like "yeah, meetups with you can suck sometimes, yeah i didn't post in the UVA thread cause i'm pissed at you, etc" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361946) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:46 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge Who the fuck are you people? U meet in real life? Do you have no friends from college? People expect to be congratulated for getting into festering UVA? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361979) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:47 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater no, they don't meet in real life. that's the problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362001) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:49 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge Don't they have Facebook? Why choose this forum? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362022) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:47 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt Ok, yes, the congrats thing was very bitchy on my part.
Look, there are only so many times I can spend 3 hours debating the Arkansas issue, or to hear her detail all of her boyfriend problems and then have her reject everyone's input and decide that the issue is that no guys like her. Would you like to spend an evening in a Blue Smoke thread? She's great to hang out with otherwise and of course she has a right to support, but it's hard to do that constantly and then have someone not even be able to remember that you're moving or taking a bar exam or changing jobs until it's been mentioned three times.
Add in to that that everyone has a job and a life and other friends. XO meetups have never been the main part of anyone's life, or something that's done every week. People have always skipped. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:49 PM Author: Vivacious henna point LOLOLOL Take it offline before you regret saying all this shit. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:50 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I don't regret saying any of this. She and I aren't friends anymore, and if you guys want to think I'm an evil cunt for wanting to have some boundaries, you're welcome to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362047) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:52 PM Author: Vivacious henna point Well no fucking shit you don't regret saying any of this RIGHT NAO. I am talking about in the future.
You are so dense and stubborn Rowan. It is almost impossible to converse with you. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:53 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge Aren't you a 30 year old lawyer? You get into petty arguments with CHILDREN. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362072) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:53 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor I don't think you understand. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362082) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:56 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge Explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362118) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:55 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes tbf, blue smoke isn't a child. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362112) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:21 PM Author: Thriller Tanning Salon Community Account She's an old. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365082) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:17 PM Author: Comical dysfunction ....why are you trying to revive this?
i dont get it
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:33 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt People didn't seem to understand my position and I got drawn into explaining it further. I think that you and I have basically discussed all we can, and don't want to engage in any kind of endless flamewar if that's what you're concerned about. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365171) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:39 PM Author: Comical dysfunction is this why you turned *another* thread into a discussion about this?
for someone who claims not to want to discuss it you seem to really enjoy...discussing it. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:44 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt Like I said, it seemed others misunderstood my points. As with everything on the board, it's hard to see people talking about you without responding. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365237) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:50 PM Author: Comical dysfunction rather than just restating your points you turned yet another thread into a 100+ post discussion of what happened. and i wasn't even posting! you are really understating how much you enjoy the attention i think. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365284) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:57 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt Can we concede there's a good bit of attention-whoring going on on both sides here? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365318) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:11 PM Author: Comical dysfunction i swear to god that i had no intention of ever mentioning this incident again. you were in tinychat last night and i said nothing about it to you, bpm or anyone else (even when bpm tried to goad me into talking about it)
i guess you two find this amusing or something but it's pretty hurtful to me and now that i understand what was going on (you really did dislike me and were trying to avoid me) i don't see what more there is to discuss. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:24 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt No one finds this amusing, BS. I'm angry and hurt as well, which is why I've been doing the internet equivalent of yelling at you for two days. You're not the only one who has feelings about things.
I don't (or at lesat didn't until extremely recently) dislike you. I was annoyed by your behavior and didn't want to be around you as often as before. That's not quite the same thing. I don't think anyone else involved with this dislikes you period. BPM seems to regard you as a friendly acquaintence and is confused that you expect so much of her, and Beta thinks you're a friend appears genuinely hurt by your reaction. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:52 PM Author: Comical dysfunction then why would you come on this thread, badmouth me, and announce that we're not friends anymore? maybe im being dense again but i dont understand why you're being so...mean
my purpose was never to make you look bad or discuss this in front of others. i really wanted to know what was going on. but now, after things are over you are discussing what you dislike about me in much more detail than you would ever discuss with me and even trying to dissuade others from ever wanting to meet me ("would you want to spend all night in a blue smoke thread?") maybe i have been sheltered or have just been lucky to befriend some nice people but i cant remember the last time anyone was so mean to me.
and you admitted you haven't liked me for a while anyway so i dont see what you're hurt about. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:12 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt Again, from my perspective, you've been being mean and hateful since last Saturday, and probably since the day before the bar.
I have a great deal of trouble believing that. You started by being mopey when you heard I was having a party. You were mopey when someone posted a thread about it the next morning - on one you acted outraged towards every participant. You knew the people you blew up at well, and didn't need to do any of this on threads that involved me if you didn't want to make a point.
That was rhetoric for chrissakes. It was expressing what's annoying about the discussions.
Again, this isn't a black and white thing. There was the point where we weren't going to be that close because you didn't care what I had to say and were going to call names afterwards, and the point where being around you was kind of stressful, and the point where you were being mean for the sake of being mean when I had mostly been ignoring you. The last one is what makes me angry. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:17 PM Author: Comical dysfunction wow
ok |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:09 AM Author: Excitant Yellow Stead "Again, this isn't a black and white thing."
ITT, Rowan furiously tries to conceal her racism. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:52 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater lol, yeah i'm with you. i'm really just saying it was funny to read it without knowing there was some actual tension there. between that and the BPM shit, BS seemed completely nuts.
and yeah BS is a friend, but i can't read threads where she talks about her life. i imagine it's terrible irl. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:00 PM Author: appetizing toaster tank was BS in town for the meetup? just clarifying. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362173) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:02 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt No. If she were, she would have been invited. She's angry that people came to the meetup but didn't hang out often enough with her last fall and winter during her visits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362198) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:20 PM Author: Navy Odious Travel Guidebook Kitty Cat "Would you like to spend an evening in a Blue Smoke thread?"
tytytyty |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:15 PM Author: Comical dysfunction ...
why didn't you just tell *me* this rather than badmouthing me behind my back and then posting it on xoxo?
this is what i really don't get
also i didn't forget all those things you told me. your plans have changed a lot and as i said, you never respond to my communication (such as much text asking you how the bar went)...how am i supposed to keep up with all this stuff? |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:32 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt You're right that I should have told you this more directly. I'm not good at that, and you haven't been very receptive to hints. I've tried to back out of these discussions several times in person, once in text, and a couple times on the phone by telling you that I'm not the best person for you to ask for advice. You generally respond by saying you just want feedback and then going back to the subject. But yes, I should have been more direct, and I'm sorry about that.
It would also have been better if you had been more direct with individuals this fall about being disappointed with them not showing up, rather than waiting until several months later. I had no plans to discuss this on the board or to discuss it at all, and I ignored your complaints about my party for nearly a week before losing my temper. I regret that I said anything at all. I hadn't meant to.
The specific thing I was referring to was this fall, when I had to tell you at three different meetups that I was looking for jobs elsewhere. You were shocked every time, and I had to give you the same explanation each time, which quickly turned into the usual discussion of how you miss New York.
I often don't respond to your calls because they're generally to talk about one of your problems (I literally can't think of a call that wasn't about either that or directly related to meeting up), and sometimes I'm not up for it.
You sent your text at midnight when I was out with my boyfriend. Given the fight before the bar and my then state of drunkenness, I didn't have anything nice to say in response, and thought it was prudent to ignore it. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:37 PM Author: Comical dysfunction i really think you're exaggerating how much i forgot about your life. i knew for a long time that you were switching jobs. how could i not? almost everyday there's a thread discussing whether you were fired or what city you were moving to or whatever.
i just don't understand why you took my absence today to post a bunch of mean stuff about me that wasn't even required.
finally, i didn't say anything to individuals this fall because it takes time for patterns to develop.
in general though i am just shocked by your capacity for meanness, particularly in front of the entire board. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:43 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I don't know, perhaps you are aware of what's going on in my life. But you're not able to be responsive to it, and it doesn't feel like you have any interest in my life when I have to explain to you to the millionth time why I'm tired of New York, or when petty interpersonal issues come up the day before a major exam (that you had heard about the night before).
I've been pretty shocked at yours as well. You've either been fabulously dense or fabulously vindictive to try to make an issue out of old quarrels in the middle of a huge transition, in public ways, and involving other people. You've been trying to provoke a response by publicly declaring that people aren't your friends anymore. Are you really that surprised that the one you got was angry rather than apologetic? |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:49 PM Author: Comical dysfunction i didn't expect it to be angry because i asked you a few times what was wrong and instead of just telling me like an adult you talked about me behind my back and were passive-aggressively mean. then when you finally decided to just tell me what was wrong instead of telling me in private you tell the board a bunch of things that you never had the courtesy to tell me directly, at a time when i could have perhaps tried to change the behavior that you considered troublesome.
at one point i really did consider you a friend, in a way that i didn't feel towards any of the other posters with the exception of beta. the frustration i expressed was just sadness that you clearly never felt the same way about me.
in any case i'd appreciate it if you refrained from posting more things about me, please. thank you. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:56 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt But you weren't asking what was wrong this time, not even publicly. You didn't even take it up with others privately. You declared other people to not be your friends anymore simply for attending a party I threw. That's an incredibly hostile move, since you're basically asking people to only hang out with one of us. You were also making a dramatic issue out of the friendship thing the day I was trying to pack and study last minute. Did your friends do things like that the night before your LSAT testings, or your TFA interview? Would you have been in a calm, test-ready state of mind afterwards?
I thought we were quite close friends at one point. Then we drifted in somewhat different directions, and somewhere along the line, that became something that felt an awful lot to me like being used as a complaint board. I had hoped we could be more casual friends (like I am with most people on the board), and when that didn't work out, I had hoped we could just kind of let things drift apart.
For all the problems between the two of us, a lot of this is overreaction on your part. There's really only one person here besides you who I hang out with on any kind of a regular basis. The rest I run into every three or four months, and we're all fine with that. You and I didn't even hang out constantly in the good old days. How many big meetups were there, even? |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:09 PM Author: Comical dysfunction actually i did take it up with them privately. i know it appears to others like one day i just decided to go crazy on everyone but this has obviously been brewing for a long time. i would much rather have discussed it in privately obviously. i don't see how discussing this on the board could possibly do me any good.
the thing with bpm was me getting really frustrated and blowing up, in an admittedly childish way. i just didn't see why someone who (imo) does not consider me a friend would bother to pretend to be one on the board.
also you continue misstating the problem. i don't care if other people hang out with you. my problem was that they made really flimsy excuses about their reasons for not hanging out with me, which appeared even more false in light of their willingness to go to this meetup. and it's really only two people. beta i think accepted that we're not friends anymore; bpm thinks trying to rile things up are funny and clearly doesn't care either way.
what's most sad about all of this is that i think things could have been nipped in the bud months ago if you had just told me you felt i was complaining too much and not being attentive enough to you. i guess it's my fault for not picking this up but i guess i assumed we were close enough that you would...tell me if you had a problem with me, so your insistence that you didn't just threw me off. also your complaining about me to other people was really hurtful to me. i'm sure i haven't always been a perfect friend but i really think you have treated me in a way i never treated you. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:20 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt Then why did you do it publicly? The problem from your point of view may be that, but from mine, it's that you have such sour grapes that you resent me and anyone who wants to spend time doing anything fun with me.
It could have been more pleasant, but I don't think it would have changed anything. I had had a feeling for a long time that you mostly wanted someone to listen to your problems and sympathize, and didn't care much about who that person was, for a long time. The breaking point for me was that text conversation where I kept telling you I didn't have an answer for you (because I'd already given you my opinion previously and you disliked it) and you kept pressing.
When you contacted me this winter, I thought it was a bit like this, though less severe. It wasn't like we were ever going to go back to hanging out regularly - we lived in different cities and had established we would for the foreseeable future. It seemed like another attempt to air your problems and have people listen. So I told you things that were true (that people really don't hang out twice a week, and that others were often just busy with their own lives and that you misperceived this because you were on vacation). I also did tell you what I told you here at the end, in milder form - that the discussions about boys and Arkansas can get pretty old. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:02 PM Author: Comical dysfunction "it's that you have such sour grapes that you resent me and anyone who wants to spend time doing anything fun with me."
and you accused me of being self-centered? no rowan it is not about you and my desire to keep people away from you. if you remember, i first introduced you to beta and actually convinced him that you were ok to meet and would not out him. and if you remember when clearly threw a meetup i was sad then as well. it really isn't about you. if there had been a huge meetup that you didn't attend my reaction would have been the same.
to answer your first question i did it publicly because a)bpm kept trying to talk to me and i was annoyed with her and b)when i saw beta post in that thread i was really just shocked because he's so averse to meeting people
no if you had told me you had a problem with me i would have just not attempted to hang out with you anymore. again this is probably me being naive but i sorta thought "hmm maybe she really is just busy whenever i want to schedule a get-together." also sometimes clearly and i would be going out, clearly would mention inviting you, and i'd say "well i already asked her and she says she can't come" and miraculously you would appear after clearly asked you. honestly i didnt know what was going on. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:21 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt But that's the same thing. If you resent meetup, you're basically telling me (and everyone else) that we can't socialize with other posters anymore. That's ridiculously unfair, especially since you saw me four times since you left for Arkansas, and I believe you may have seen other people a couple of times too. There was even a large meetup during one of the times you were here.
Also, given that I planned this particular event and that it was a special occasion for me and the last time I'll see many of these people, I think you should have anticipated that I'd take it personally that you didn't want the event to occur. You're sensitive to even the slightest insult or hurt. Why does it surprise you that someone else might take offense to things too?
So why did you decide to be a bad sport on the announcement thread, or call out nyuug for making a post, or clearly for having a boyfriend? Why did you bitch about it in tinychat the night of the party? Your reaction to this wasn't limited to calling out two people.
How would that have stopped this? You'd still be resentful about there not being enough meetups when you were back, and you'd still mind that people came to my event last week. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:30 PM Author: Comical dysfunction again, my problem wasn't with people hanging out with others, but not hanging out with me. i don't want people not to socialize with other posters, i just wish the people who claim to be my friends would socialize with me as well
i didn't expect you to be offended because you clearly didn't give a shit about me. i tend not to care when people i don't give a shit about have problems with me.
when did i call out nyuug for making a post? lol he hasn't posted in like a year. i asked him when he returned, i wasn't attacking him for attending your meetup. i talk to him all the time on aim, saw him a few times in ny and have absolutely no problem with him.\
and as for clearly i didnt know she had a bf. again i wasn't attacking her for hanging out with you. she sent me an email congratulating me about uva, i intend to reply to it and we hung out several times in ny. i have no problem with her, bel, terrian and so forth. you are really being extremely self-centered.
if you had told me that you were purposely avoiding me i would have obviously not been confused when you were willing to go to other people's meetups but not mine. and yes i suppose i would still be angry with bpm and beta but that wouldn't have anything to do with you. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:43 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt But you didn't take it up with them when they didn't hang out with you. Instead, you decided to make a big deal about the fact that they attended an event that occurred months after the fact. The pattern was apparently clear before the last two weeks, given your posts over the winter. You might not have cared what the event was, but the only result that would have pleased you was no one showing up. You honestly don't see how its unkind and hostile to wish that someone else's party is a failure, even if that person isn't your best friend?
I think you're being pretty dishonest here. You talked shit in tinychat the night of the meetup, and your series of "Since when" posts had a point behind it other than wanting to catch up. You were pissed and you wanted everyone to feel bad that they went to my thing when they didn't go to yours. You said as much in your posts.
But aren't you claiming it has nothing to do with me now? The result is the same. My going away ended up being about you being hurt, not me seeing my friends for the last time. That's a crappy thing to do whether someone's your pal or not. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:51 PM Author: Comical dysfunction lol my posts to clearly and nyuug had nothing to do with you. god. ask them if i have ever been hostile or mean to them. i haven't. and obviously i don't have a problem stating when i have a problem with someone. likewise i've never said anything to terrian, bel or whoever else attended. again, these people didn't shun me when i was in ny. i think you have a tendency to assume that everything resolves around you but this just isn't the case here. you want me to be angry at everyone who attended your event, rather than just you three, so that this can be about you.
given what you have said about me behind my back, why should i have cared how successful your meetup was ? i mean, you admit you dislike me, were ignoring and i know you badmouthed me to other people when i asked you several times to tell me what the problem was. you have done some pretty shitty things to me over the years and i never brught them up with other people. i don't see why you expect me to show you respect that you've never shown me. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 11:00 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt You were initially claiming it wasn't about me at all. I'm not saying that you were pissed at everyone about coming. I'm saying you made a huge deal about the fact that there was a party in the first place, well before you knew Beta came or anything like that.
I have done things that you're right to resent. But you've been using me for years, and you're going out of your way to be rude and shitty when you could have easily ignored the event. You're angry when you're wronged. Why are you surprised that I react similarly?
And this will be my last post, because I think we've both covered the fact that each things each other is a bitch thoroughly. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 11:12 PM Author: Comical dysfunction what? how was i using you? i think i have been a pretty good friend all things considered. i mean when you had no one to watch your cat i honestly would have left my house at 4AM to get your keys from you and come to the city everyday to check up on her.
also, you've added to your list of things you've done to me recently by telling terrian stuff that was private and shouldn't have been mentioned. another poster is mad about you for that as well. you have done this in the past and you have done some actively mean things to me.
all things considered, i dont think asking two people why they went to your meetup and not mine is the huge injustice that youre making it out to be. |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:00 AM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I'm basically someone for you to air your complaints to and occasionally a sofa to sleep on. You like to go out a lot and I was helpful to you with that, but it's been a long time since there was really any back and forth between us.
I have a big mouth when I'm drunk. You and others may be rightly mad at me for that. If you or others no longer wish to socialize with me because of that, so be it.
I don't think that's an accurate summary of what your behavior has been. |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:04 AM Author: Comical dysfunction god you can't even apologize for spreading my business around to other people? it's ok because you were drunk? would it be ok if i got drunk and told a bunch of people things you told me not to divulge?
and you saying that i was "using you for years"...wow just wow. i can't see how a sane person could interpret it as being like that. |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:11 AM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt No, I'm sorry for that. I wasn't sure if you wanted to fight about it or something. It's not ok, and I'm acknowledging that I'm guilty of it.
That's how I've perceived much of our relationship in the last year or so, yes. I'm a convenient person for you to take along to meetups and for you to vent to and for you to kill some time with when you're waiting for your dates to start, but not someone whose life actually interests you very much when there's a pause and it's time for me to talk. Say what you will about me, I've spent an awful lot of time talking and thinking about you and the things that are going on in your life. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:45 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy translucent kitty When guys swiftly type long emotional screeds like the ones above this, it looks absolutely insane. This is one of the things I love about girls. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14366438) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 11:04 PM Author: self-absorbed soul-stirring stage halford I don't think all girls do a good job at this stuff. I wish Rowan would give out more tips on how not to be a douche. God knows I need them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14366634) |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:24 AM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage christ man i cant read this anymore. really fucking happy im not a chick. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14367772) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:36 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone menage liquid oxygen credited (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361882) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:36 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone menage liquid oxygen everyone came off terribly. bpm 'i was doing laundry so i couldnt go out' lololol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361876) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:38 PM Author: Vivacious henna point She saved it at the end with her "fat day" comment. lolol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361896) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:40 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor and my skinny jeans were dirty, jfc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361918) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:41 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone menage liquid oxygen if you're gonna bring out the BIGLAUNDRY as an excuse you might as well cut the shit and just say 'i dont like you. bai.' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361931) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:41 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor jfc. you can't understand because you're a boy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361937) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:44 PM Author: Vivacious henna point Skinny jeans are supposed to be dirty. Isn't the whole shtick to pretend like you are a poor? |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:45 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor what? No, I like them clean.
what? |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:42 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt She came back on a monthly basis for about six months, and spent 3 or 4 weeks straight here when she hurt her ankle. She wasn't working, and for awhile was drunk texting people around 11-12 a couple nights a week to ask if they wanted to meet up. That's late, it's hard to get things together then, and people do have lives and jobs and boyfriends. We never had meetups twice a week when Smoke lived here.
BPM almost never comes to things and isn't all that buddy buddy with most xoxoers, so it's not out of line if she doesn't want to come all the time. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:45 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage so basically your a faggot? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361975) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:48 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage jk. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362014) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:48 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I guess. It sucks that it's apparently XOXO247 or never meet anyone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362015) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:52 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage huh? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362067) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 11:27 PM Author: Comical dysfunction btw i didnt expect you to hang out with me 247
and you are *really* understating how much you hang/hung out with xoxo posters. i wouldnt have thought it was odd if you weren't hanging out with posters 4/5 nights a week. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 11:37 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt But I don't. I hang out with clearly occasionallybecause she lives basically next door to me and had dinner with nutella a couple times before she left, but even those two girls would tell you that I go for a month or two at a time without hanging out.
I hadn't seen BPM since the summer, hadn't seen Beta aside from the time we briefly saw him, hadn't seen nyuug since god only knows when, hadn't seen bel and rach since the summer, and so on. The people whose friendship you care about the most are the ones I don't see much either. We certainly don't have big meetups all the time.
If you're referring to what I think you're referring to, that's not exactly a meetup type friendship. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:46 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes honestly, Blue Smoke came across as childish. You came across as mean. BPM came across as oblivious and flakey. It has an almost rock paper scissors dynamic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361984) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:46 PM Author: fuchsia histrionic legend 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361991) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:48 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362009) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:49 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt That seems fair. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362034) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:53 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater lol titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362085) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:58 PM Author: house-broken ocher kitchen dog poop Quality. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362141) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:58 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor you mean BPM came across as wrongfully unfriended. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362145) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:00 PM Author: Vivacious henna point Is there a Chinese word for moon faced retard? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362169) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:03 PM Author: french rigpig sneaky criminal "xue bao chai" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362215) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:09 PM Author: aqua diverse church preventive strike 180
Though, I think of her more as "Xi Ren".
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:11 PM Author: french rigpig sneaky criminal I think of myself more as Ximen Qing. With you as my pageboy in the study, Ch. 42 of JPM. Fair? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362320) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:15 PM Author: aqua diverse church preventive strike I've never read JPM. Though, I can guess what you are referring to.
I think of myself as Zhang WuJi in Yi Tian Tu Long Ji , HTFH. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:06 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes I don't think it's unfair for Blue Smoke's feelings to have been hurt by your showing up to other people's meetups and not to hers, especially factoring in her sensitivity and the excuses that you used.
That said, I think she overreacted. I think had I been in a similar situation, the most dramatic reaction I would have had would have been a "Well that's kind of shitty" thought that I would have kept entirely to myself.
She beats you in the RPS game. You beat Rowan because you never came across as truly mean-spirited, just oblivious to the fact some one's going to negatively interpret excuses like a bad hair day or whatever it was you used. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:06 PM Author: Flesh crackhouse fanboi awesome (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362259) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:07 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I'll accept your verdict. It's pretty clear I'm never going to win this, and perhaps I'm totall in the wrong.
I think this is the end of me meeting xo posters. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:09 PM Author: Flesh crackhouse fanboi tbf i think it was merely a strategic mistake on your part. it could have been about blue smoke being nuts but you made it about her being a bad friend first. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362286) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:09 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I wasn't exactly thinking strategy. She's been needling me and trying to make me feel bad for the last couple weeks, and I'm stressed and hurt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362301) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:13 PM Author: Flesh crackhouse fanboi imo you were in the right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362354) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:11 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes I would say you beat Blue Smoke in the RPS game, so it's not that you're totally in the wrong, but you're not totally in the right either. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362329) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:12 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater don't say that, you're just meeting up with the wrong posters. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362347) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:08 PM Author: buff learning disabled milk stage (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362282) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:08 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor oh come on, you don't even need an excuse to not go to some meetup someone plans a few hrs in advance. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362283) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:09 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362285) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:25 PM Author: Abnormal abode way off the subject, but didn't want to start an unnecessary thread--sorry about causing all that static in tinychat last night. i was half-drunk and dealing with outdated technology. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362498) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:25 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt Oh, not a problem at all. People didn't like it, but I don't think anyone assumed it was a personal fault. Glad you came by and said hello! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362511) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:26 PM Author: Abnormal abode tyty...it was mind-blowing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362515) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:27 PM Author: appetizing toaster tank MY FUCKING EARS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362523) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:34 PM Author: stubborn church building mother how DARE you sir, how DARE you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362588) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:25 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes No, I agree with you and I don't think Blue Smoke should be punishing or berating you or whatever she's doing for not going. That said, had the fight just been contained between you two, I would have ultimately sided with BS because you seem to have no concept that your decisions and excuses that you use for those decisions can have an impact on some one.
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:00 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone menage liquid oxygen absolutely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362164) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:02 PM Author: Flesh crackhouse fanboi you do have your moments (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362205) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:20 PM Author: Comical dysfunction lol you are being such a bitch
why are you posting the details of my spraining my ankle?
i have never ever posted about some of the stupid shit you've done while drunk.
you are a mean person and i have never been mean to you...i don't know why you're doing this. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:37 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt You have been pretty mean to me in the past few weeks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365196) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:43 PM Author: Comical dysfunction no i haven't i just said that i sprained my ankle. in any case there are many things you have done drunk that i am sure you would not want posted on the board. i have always shown you the courtesy of not discussing these things on the board, even when angry at you because i thought it was just...agreed upon implicitly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365233) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:45 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt That's true. I hadn't been aware it was sensitive and had thought you'd mentioned that part. I'm sorry for that and can edit if you think it would be helpful (the discussion is long, and I don't think people noted that part of the conversation much). That part was merely insensitive rather than unkind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365256) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:48 PM Author: insecure area what do you mean put things in perspective (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361280) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:51 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes I mean the whole thing seemed so silly. Even though, in most of my past feuds, I was 80% playing around anyway, seeing two other posters really go at it made it seem like such a waste of time.
I'd probably level 80 by now if not for this. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:50 PM Author: Poppy Irradiated Potus what type of elevator? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361307) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:25 PM Author: house-broken ocher kitchen dog poop Shoes. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362508) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:37 PM Author: Fragrant angry business firm affirmative action whokebe still posts (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361890) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:57 PM Author: house-broken ocher kitchen dog poop But imagine the great convo we could have! I can probably shit on every single significant life choice you've made in the 30 minutes we're together! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362140) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:48 PM Author: Adventurous honey-headed mad cow disease range Hate is such a strong word, dawg. I probably dislike Lisa Rowe, though not really. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361281) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:48 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor no one i really hate, but there're def ppl i wouldn't meet up with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361288) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:51 PM Author: jet yapping heaven dragon oh hai FRIEND! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361315) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:58 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor stop being sensitive. i have met up with you everytime asides from when you wanted to meet up close to holidays. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361389) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:02 PM Author: jet yapping heaven dragon I am not sensitive about it. just giving you a hard time for being ape, despite being FRIEND. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361424) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:54 PM Author: vigorous mad-dog skullcap jew J. and Rowan.
That's about it. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:58 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field why? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361385) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 1:59 PM Author: vigorous mad-dog skullcap jew J. is a worthless piece of garbage who deserves to be dead.
Rowan is just annyoing and really dull but thinks she's brilliant because she got a 170 |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:05 PM Author: flatulent national knife 120 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361456) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:03 PM Author: provocative demanding becky J. is good people. Don't hate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361430) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:05 PM Author: vigorous mad-dog skullcap jew No, no she isn't. She's malicious and spiteful for no good reason. She's an all around loser. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361451) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:38 PM Author: Fragrant angry business firm affirmative action She's malicious and spiteful for no good reason.
lol pot meet kettle |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:19 PM Author: Vivacious henna point cool thread faggot. Why don't you start a new thread ranking your FRIENDS in order of importance. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:21 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field i dont have any FRIENDS on here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361681) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:30 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge This is likely a good sign in real life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361813) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:51 PM Author: Vivacious henna point I will take you under my wing and you will be my FRIEND. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362053) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:26 PM Author: Thirsty Scourge Upon The Earth Office were u "youdontknowmystead" circa 2004? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361751) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:27 PM Author: mauve dead shrine nope. this is the only moniquer i've ever had, brotankhamun (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361772) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:38 PM Author: laughsome violet native pisswyrm im glad MDP is back!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365203) |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:01 AM Author: mauve dead shrine good to be back, FRIEND :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14367603) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:29 PM Author: mauve dead shrine OOOOOHHH this gets me SO RILED UP!!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361793) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:31 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field i lolt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361823) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:32 PM Author: electric giraffe indian lodge Terrible response. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361834) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:30 PM Author: Vivacious henna point This is true though, to be honest. People should admit this as the first step to getting better. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:38 PM Author: embarrassed to the bone menage liquid oxygen Any poster who neglects to click numbers on their turn in that Swedish IQ game (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361899) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:42 PM Author: Beady-eyed bearded cuckold depressive No one comes to mind. Sorry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361945) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:47 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field i love how the BS vs. Rowan debacle is pumping up my thread count (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14361994) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:47 PM Author: Beady-eyed bearded cuckold depressive Gettin it done man, YNY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362004) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:50 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field I'LL HAVE MY 100-POST THREAD, IN THIS LIFE OR THE NEXT!!! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362043) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:55 PM Author: Beady-eyed bearded cuckold depressive Pretty sure this should get you to 100 dooder. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362105) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:56 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field we did it!!!
i love manipulating women's insecurities to get what i want |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 2:50 PM Author: Exhilarant Jet-lagged Public Bath Dopamine CARBOZO (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362045) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:00 PM Author: appetizing toaster tank probably just the box and le chic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362167) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:05 PM Author: french rigpig sneaky criminal you were writing some mean shit about clarissa in that one thread that was mysteriously beleted (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362244) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:18 PM Author: appetizing toaster tank clarissa and i have had our differences. so have estrada and i, dooberstein and i, etc.
don't hate them tho. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:05 PM Author: Talented library hey youre right they're all in here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362242) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:08 PM Author: Territorial geriatric field lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362273) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:09 PM Author: french rigpig sneaky criminal >:-(
I saw what you rated me. Next time learn the difference between REPLY and REPLY ALL |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:30 PM Author: stubborn church building mother surprisingly few people - no one comes to mind really. It must be my decline of interacting with you fucks.
edit: ALSO, wtf is going on upthread? good lord I missed a shitshow |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:31 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes post game analysis of the BPM + Rowan vs Blue Smoke fight. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362573) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:33 PM Author: stubborn church building mother yeah, I'm going back and reading through the original snafu, sounds like srs busness (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362581) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:34 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes internet fights are my favorite spectator sport. i used to play, but i'm mostly retired now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362587) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:35 PM Author: stubborn church building mother this one is more fascinating because it stumbled onto irl shit. but then again, all the good ones do.
it's a shame you're retired from it, i feel old saying "those were the days" but you get the idea. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:33 PM Author: flatulent national knife synopsis? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362584) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:36 PM Author: stubborn church building mother I think J. summed it up nicely as a game of Rock Paper Scissors. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362603) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:44 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes You're better off reading the thread, because my memory is poor and makes up shit half the time anyway and I only read through it once.
http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=1246940&mc=123&forum_id=2
But if you don't feel like investing the time, I remember it going something like:
- BPM is mad at Blue Smoke for being mad at her.
- Blue Smoke is mad at BPM because BPM never comes to her meetups, using excuses like needing to shampoo her arm hair, but yet found time to come to ROWAN'S meetups.
- Rowan is mad at Blue Smoke for bringing her into this mess and for generally acting like a child. Rowan performs a fatality move, rips Blue Smoke's heart out and eats it in front of everyone.
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:46 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor rofl i'm not mad, i just think it's ridic. also i epilate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362736) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:47 PM Author: stubborn church building mother ty for teaching me a new word (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362746) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:48 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor OFS (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362754) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 3:57 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes I don't think you come across badly for not going to Blue Smoke's meetups.
I think you come across badly for not going to her meetups, using flimsy, vain filled excuses and then, most importantly, acting surprised when Blue Smoke interprets this to mean that you don't like her. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:07 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater my take is BPM and rowan both don't like BS all that much anymore and BS can tell. BS called them both out. rowan confirmed it and now everyone thinks she's a bitch, while BPM is being more passive aggressively bitchy by acting like BS is crazy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14362927) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:13 PM Author: Very tactful internet-worthy people who are hurt I would say that this is kind of what's happened to me and BS. We've grown apart, and had a few bad points over the last year.
I don't think BPM and BS hung out much, though I may be mistaken. BPM is certainly more innocent than I am here. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:16 PM Author: Magical duck-like whorehouse I think you're being too hard on yourself. I don't know exactly what's transpired between the two of you, but she has clearly decided to alienate people who have tried to be her friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363035) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:12 PM Author: Comical dysfunction lol i was so right about you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365422) |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 12:44 AM Author: Comical dysfunction hello beta
you should read this thread and realize i wasnt making anything up |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:20 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater a side point, BS was truly annoying about your meetup. yesterday she was trying to act like she only mentioned it once or twice. i think you're both innocent, BS is annoying and it seems like she's been trying to have this fight (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363077) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:27 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes While I don't agree that Rowan is "innocent", I don't think she should get hung up on people not siding with her 100%. Blue Smoke sounds like a dramatic child and I don't think many people would want to deal with that.
Oddly enough, the only reason I imagine Rowan came off looking bad in that thread is because she looks so great the rest of the time. Had it been anyone else, the pettiness and the cattiness wouldn't have been as shocking and people would have dismissed it as deserved. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:18 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes possible. I interpreted it as BPM never putting much thought into whether or not she liked BS, never put much thought into the meetups, never put much thought into her excuses, never put much thought into Blue Smoke's reaction to her excuses....all of which is probably indicative of a more healthy life than most people have here.
I still find it annoying that she refuses to recognize the social implications of her actions and excuses. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:25 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor you've got to be kidding me. are you kidding me. have you been to an xo meetup. have you seen an xo meetup thread. half the replies are flame that never show, jfc. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363126) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:32 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes I flew to New York once and met 3 posters, so yeah, I guess. It wasn't a big party or anything.
No one is saying you have any obligation to attend Blue Smoke's meetups and not hurt her feelings. I'm saying you seem downright willfully oblivious that flimsy excuses and dodging invitations is going to make people assume you don't like them, whether it's true or not, dramatic or not or whatever. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:34 PM Author: indigo casino fortuitous meteor ok your conclusion is shit if i have been to 5+ of her meetups already. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363241) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:42 PM Author: Aphrodisiac useless brakes Not necessarily, not if you dodged a long string of them in a row and used flimsy excuses for all.
For instance, I had a friend who suddenly started making excuses every time I called to see if he wanted to hang out... I don't think I'm as sensitive or insecure as Blue Smoke so I didn't make a big deal about it or even particularly care that much, but gradually my invitations became fewer and fewer until they stopped altogether because I assumed he didn't like me anymore or found something better to do or something.
I'm really kind of tired of this though. You did nothing wrong aside from refuse to recognize that there will be consequences from this kind of behavior. Since you don't seem to care much about Blue Smoke anyway, I don't understand why you just can't accept the consequences of her not liking you instead of running around and calling her crazy and acting like you have no clue about anything. |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:48 PM Author: french rigpig sneaky criminal did the J.-bot get a new emotionchip installed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365271) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:14 PM Author: Cerise motley trump supporter How has Lisa Rowe not been mentioned yet? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363012) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:53 PM Author: heady maize mediation half-breed blow me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365804) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:14 PM Author: Poppy Irradiated Potus I tried to read this thread, and now I've got a headache. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363018) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:30 PM Author: Charcoal Concupiscible Selfie IT DOESN'T MATTER IF YOU HAVE A HEADACHE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363192) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 4:35 PM Author: stubborn church building mother ugh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14363251) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:53 PM Author: Poppy Irradiated Potus tyvmft boy toy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365294) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:53 PM Author: Poppy Irradiated Potus not it sexy boy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365293) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:23 PM Author: dark cracking black woman ohnoes is a dumbass
Don't hate, but dont have much respect for bothered, J, or antmatic either |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:40 PM Author: Fishy Coiffed Pozpig House lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365213) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:45 PM Author: flirting white sex offender immigrant (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365253) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 8:46 PM Author: Drab racy site I need to step my poasting game up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365260) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 9:55 PM Author: Bateful bawdyhouse cuckoldry LOL @ op. I think he takes this internet forum too seriously. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365837) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:00 PM Author: rough-skinned partner theater this post is funny (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14365888) |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 1:03 AM Author: Territorial geriatric field no, i really don't. i just hate you for reasons i can't put my finger on. i would probably kick your ass irl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14367621) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 10:43 PM Author: Magenta sadistic mexican mr jinx!!!!!!!!111111 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14366426) |
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Date: March 11th, 2010 11:05 PM Author: Bat-shit-crazy translucent kitty PSA - because of the constant repetition of "invitations" in this thread, control-f "ITA" gets a lot of hits. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14366653) |
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Date: March 12th, 2010 12:58 AM Author: Disturbing godawful school holy shit man, the intensity level in here is pretty concerning. everybody's gotta coooool out (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1247635&forum_id=2#14367578) |
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