Is Whokebe cute?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886735)

he's not brad pitt but he's not ugly or anything.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886781)

i'm more into personalities, so a cute looking guy can be ugly to me if i don't like his personality. and like i said, i didn't get to really talk to him much.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886800)

is nyuug cool or what irl?

when will you have babby with your husband?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886573)

yes.

dunno.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886610)

also why retiring?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886615)

on monday we went to santa monica and hung out and then walked all the way the fuck down to muscle beach in venice. lots of lols on the way, for sure. highlights: scored free pot, took pic with idiot transgender showing off his naked manboobs (who got arrested a few hours later), played pickup basketball and won $40, did a "dine and dash", got some souvenirs, ate gelatto. then we went to Viper Room off Sunset and this guy gave me free tix so we didn't have to pay. band was cool. was even cooler while lit up on the skywalker we bought.

tuesday we had already decided to stay and were going to just go down to huntington beach area. turns out, the prof we both worked for ls used to work at pepperdine and he just happened to be in town. so we hung out with him and his new gf at their friend's house in marina del rey for a bangin house party. then we went out for dinner at Crustacean in bev hills and finished up crashing out at his gf's sister's house in pacific palisades.

wednesday: got up and raced back to hotel to pack. on the way out of town, we dropped by the Beverly Center for a little shopping. i got a few things and some nice sunglasses (i think i left mine at that malibu dood's house) and then we ate lunch at PF Chang's OFS YNY!!!!!

on the drive home not too far outside of Santa Clarita we saw the start of a huge wildfire. got pix. got home super late last night.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886704)

2. horrible service, got our order rong, ignored us, didn't refill our drinks or ask if we wanted another pitcher, had to get up and get own utensils, waited forever just to get the bill, waited another eternity for her to take our card.....

plus, we WERE HIGH and my hubby thought it'd be funny

he told me to leave a little early to take a pic of the sunset so i did and powerwalked away and never looked back. a couple minutes later i turned around and i see him running towards me, loling hysterically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886765)

You seem like a very cool person, but I am not sure if you are sensitive about light bashing - but your husband seems like the cheapest bastard I have ever met. No offense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886787)

Juvenile delinquent 14-year-olds dine and ditch.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887478)

I mean if it was a $300 check and some of us ordered 10 drinks that's one thing, but making the lady split the check 6 ways... I mean he's not exactly the poorest guy at the table.

I dunno dude.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886843)

we only had an ATM card on us. and some ppl ordered lots of drinks while we only ordered one. plus, one person there only ordered a beer and one al-a-carte taco and said that if he had to valet his car at the lounge, that would have been his last two dollars. so that person wouldn't be able to split it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886864)

If you dont want to split a bill evenly, you can put in less but still have it on one tab. Nutella or I would not have minded covering a little more since we ate most of the guac. But honestly it came out to less than $20 per person.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886889)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886913)

On the board I feel we are a little more free to bitch about insignificant things and do low level bashing. But if it bothers you I will drop it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886920)

anyways, it looks like we're going back to LA in a couple of weeks. if we all meet up again we'll bring a lot of cash.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886931)

last question. Did you actually dislike listen I've been drinking or is that transferred over from your hubby bashing him? I wasn't paying attention to that end of the convo most of the night but I heard some things that made me do a double take.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886949)

at that point i kicked him under the table to let him know to lay off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887029)

wtf?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15886944)

unlike most ppl, we don't pay for things like food on credit. that's just stupid. i'm not paying interest on something i am going to shit out 12 hours later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887003)

oh shit. J was right. you really are a moron.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887024)

listen, you spend ur money the way you want and we'll spend our money the way we want.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887098)

and you don't have to worry about your checking-account balance (or all the scams that debit cards allow banks to pull)

and you don't have to waste time looking for an ATM

and you don't end up looking like a moron on a message board

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887145)

Author: BlondieLaw23

why do that when you can just use ur bank card?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887063)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887082)

*free electronic bill pay

* if you've got money, just pay the bill when it shows up, or--if you're senile--consider auto debit from a high-yield account, where the balance is always big.

*annual fees are tiny (like $20/yr) and almost nobody pays them. if you somehow got hit with one, call customer service and complain. they comply, unless you live in the ghetto and have shit credit)

* people who have money like free money. therefore, they take advantage of CC rewards. HTH.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887201)

*digs trench*

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887081)

http://www.marketwatch.com/story/story/print?guid=A76A0F94-9331-43C1-BA63-67B9DBD89473

Feb. 10, 2010, 8:02 a.m. EST

Identity fraud nightmare: One man's story

Technology and the recession push ID theft and fraud to record levels

By Jennifer Waters, MarketWatch

CHICAGO (MarketWatch.com) -- Identity theft and fraud have ruined Dave Crouse's life.

In fewer than six months, some $900,000 in merchandise, gambling and telephone-services charges were siphoned out of his debit card. His attempts to salvage his finances have cost him nearly $100,000 and have bled dry his savings and retirement accounts. His credit score, once a strong 780, has been decimated. And his identity -- Social Security number, address, phone numbers, even historical information -- is still being used in attempts to open credit cards and bank accounts.

The new credit-card rules that go into effect on Feb. 26 are supposed to protect you, but will they? Here are four ways to watch what's in your wallet. Andrea Coombes reports.

"I have no identity," said Crouse, 56. "I have no legacy. My identity is public knowledge and even though it's ruined, they're still using it.

"It really ruined me," he said. "It ruined me financially and emotionally."

Crouse is among the 11.1 million adults -- one in every 20 U.S. adults -- last year who have the dubious distinction of breaking the record of the number of identity-fraud victims in the U.S., according to a recent study by Javelin Strategy and Research. That figure is up 12% over 2008 and is 37% ahead of 2007. The cost to the victims: a collective $54 billion.

"The odds have never been higher for becoming a fraud victim," said James Van Dyke, Javelin president and founder. "It's an easy crime to perpetrate, a crime that's almost impossible to catch when done in a sophisticated manner and a crime in which enforcement is very limited."

Endless paperwork

Crouse can attest to that. Once an avid fan of online shopping and banking, the Bowie, Md., resident would auction on eBay.com, download songs from iMesh.com and use his ATM card like a credit card.

He first noticed suspicious activity in his account in February of 2009 for small charges of $37 or $17.98. He had a full-time job then and was spending out of an account that generally held $30,000.

"All of a sudden it really got bad," he said. "In August the charges hit big time -- $600, $500, $100, $200 - all adding up from $2,800 to $3,200 in one day."

He called his bank immediately and started what began a tiresome process of filling out what he said finally amounted to about 20 affidavits swearing that he was not responsible for the charges. He said one day he filled out an affidavit about a charge and the next day the bank had accepted similar charges approaching $4,000.

"At that point I was going to the bank every day and looking at everything," he said. He had the time then. Five months before that he had been laid off his $180,000 a year construction-industry job.

Now he was in a double bind: His $2,300 a week net income had dwindled to $780 in unemployment checks every two weeks and his accounts were getting drained daily -- even after he closed his debit account.

He opened a new account at a new bank and the next day both accounts got hit with a $1,100 charge. The new bank told him it was keystroke malware that had likely done him in. Someone had hacked into one of the sites he visited regularly, his computer got infected and picked up all his personal information by tracking every key he struck.

While much of the fraud came from online purchases and at gambling sites, there were new accounts opened in different names but linked to his bank account. There was one purchase of a plasma TV from a Best Buy in Florida that was shipped to a Brooklyn. N.Y., address. In another case a woman in North Carolina was writing out checks tied to his account.

"It was nasty," he said, admitting that he even contemplated suicide. "I just couldn't take it. I didn't feel like a man anymore. I was violated and I didn't know what to do."

High-value targets

Identity thieves steal mostly through two means, according to Michael Stanfield, chief executive of Intersections Inc., a risk-management firm. They take an established address and phone number of an identity that "has some value," he said, like a doctor or a lawyer. In many instances, they can go to the Internet and acquire the matching Social Security number for as little as $50. They then have enough information to get an address changed with your bank account or a credit card account. They apply for new accounts as you.

Others take over existing accounts, Stanfield said, through keystroke malware that you -- and probably hundreds or even thousands simultaneously -- have picked up through the Internet.

Listening software then sits on your computer, perking up when you go to a bank site. It copies all your key strokes -- your user name, password, challenge question, account numbers, everything.

"You leave and the bad guy goes right back in behind you," Stanfield said. "We've seen examples where that has occurred and its gets fixed and a month later the computer gets cleaned out again and he becomes a new victim, even with a new account.

"It's a horrible event and it's happening every minute of the day to someone," Stanfield said.

According to Javelin, the number of fraudulent new credit-card accounts shot up to 39% of all identity-fraud victims in 2009 from 33% the year before. Fraud from existing credit-card accounts rose to 75%. New online accounts opened falsely more than doubled from 2008. The study also found that 29% of victims said new cell-phone accounts were opened deceptively.

No one is immune

Identity theft is indiscriminate, cutting across all age and income levels. But those most at risk are those who spend the most and that tends to be middle-income families. Those most likely to miss fraud are usually 18 years old to 24 years old, simply because they don't pay enough attention to their accounts and -- though most are technologically savvy -- they're not protecting themselves against the worst of technology through malware, viruses and Trojan horses.

"The more you transact, the more you're at risk because you leave a trail behind," Van Dyke said.

Criminals turn to in-store and online purchases to steal most often, accounting for four in 10 cases of fraud, according to Javelin. Some 20% of victims have had their information used to make phone or mail-order catalog purchases.

"A lot of these crimes are really a battle of who can get their hands on the most information," Van Dyke said. Remember too that not all identity fraud is committed by strangers. Last year at least 13% of all ID crimes were committed by someone the victim knew, like a family member or friend.

As for Crouse, the trouble extended into other areas of his life. He fell behind on paying bills -- though the mortgage on the house his ex-wife and two sons live in was kept current -- and racked up myriad late fees, higher interest costs and penalties. One son dropped out of college and another is reconsidering where he'll go because of costs.

In the meantime, he was having trouble finding work. With a doctorate degree in organizational psychology and a longtime veteran of contracting work at federal facilities like the FBI and the Secret Service, Crouse was getting high acclaim in interviews but no calls back. Finally one recruiter told him that companies were turning him away because his credit reports were so poor and his debt was mounting. As a result, his security clearance to work on government buildings was yanked.

"It affected me. It affected my livelihood. It affected my whole family," he said.

He finally found a job, though he took a significant pay cut because he lost his clearance. He figures he'll be 61 by the time he crawls out of the debt the fraud caused and is able to rebuild any kind of nest egg. He's sold many of his prize possessions, including a 1993 Corvette and assorted pieces of gold and silver. He uses coupons now, shops food sales, even eating things he doesn't like such as macaroni and cheese because they're cheaper.

"It's just like I'm back in college," he said.

His advice to others: Don't touch Web sites that offer free things or 30-day trials; never give out personal information; and always keep your receipts.

Don't become a victim

Javelin has recommendations for what it calls "prevention, detection and resolution" of identity fraud:

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Keep sensitive information from prying eyes. Request electronic statements, use direct deposit, don't put checks in unlocked mailboxes. Don't give out your Social Security number and secure all personal and financial records in locked storage devices or behind a password. Shred all sensitive documents.

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Prevent high-tech criminal access. Install antivirus software on your computer and keep it updated. Never respond to requests for personal or account information online or over the phone. Watch out for convincing imitations of banks, card companies, charities and government agencies. Don't divulge birth date, mother's maiden name, pet's name or other identifying and personal information on social media sites like Facebook, Twitter, LinkedIn, etc. Be creative with passwords and don't access secure Web sites using public Wi-Fi.

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Keep close watch over activity in existing accounts. Monitor bank and credit-card accounts weekly, even daily. Sign up for alerts to your phone or e-mail accounts. Javelin found that 43% of reported identity-fraud cases are spotted through self-monitoring.

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Keep close watch on new accounts. Monitor your credit and public information to spot unauthorized activity. Get those free credit reports and consider fee-based services that monitor those things for you.

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Resolve identity fraud quickly. Report problems to you bank, credit union, protection services and the police immediately. Make sure your financial provider offers zero-liability protection for debit and credit cards.

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(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15888089)

Date: August 26th, 2010 3:52 PM

Author: BlondieLaw23

it was a bank card with the VISA logo. spends like a cc.

unlike most ppl, we don't pay for things like food on credit. that's just stupid. i'm not paying interest on something i am going to shit out 12 hours later.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887003)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#16125406)

No one carried cash to pay whoever pays with a card?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887019)

we didn't have time to go to an ATM, since we were lost and lisa rowe's phone was dead so we couldn't call for directions.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1405823&forum_id=2#15887047)