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Lol at these match.com 30+ women IN THE FIGHT OF THEIR LIVES
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:05 PM Author: Charismatic Useless Brakes to find a suitable mate before teh eggs shrivel completely. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960847) |
Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:07 PM Author: silver odious telephone I wonder why some of them are on there. I've seen some really attractive 30+ women on there who are single. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960862) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:08 PM Author: soul-stirring jet-lagged legal warrant dey crazy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960866) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:11 PM Author: Chest-beating property ive met some very attractive for their age mid 30s women and they are truly crazy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960896) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:10 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy state All their immediate friends and possibles through friends are married. It's difficult to meet single people among a bunch of folks with two cars and a couple strollers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960890) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:40 PM Author: Khaki swashbuckling hell i think this is more likely (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961212) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:41 PM Author: Curious theatre + 1 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961223) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:43 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy state +2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961242) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:52 PM Author: Primrose shivering national This. All of my friends who still do online dating regularly fall into this category. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961849) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:13 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy state I'm from Wisconsin and know a lot of very traditional/religious people in Chicago, so that's a primary reason for my use of online dating (at the age of 26) as well. Most of my friends (and their friends) are engaged or married. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962114) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:18 PM Author: Scarlet cracking stage idea he suggested lots of Chicagoans married by 26? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962160) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:19 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy state At least my college friends who came here or are still in Wisconsin are.
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:20 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Yeah, most of my religious friends are married, and those who are in their later 20s/early 30s and are unmarried are very openly looking for a fast-track to marriage (not just any ol' LTR) using any and all methods. I met one of these types of guys a couple of years ago (30, unmarried, religious) and he was talking about what kind of wedding I would see myself having on our first date. Oddball.
Match.com has lost its appeal in larger cities. The novelty died a few years ago and while a lot of people have profiles up, that's not their primary method of meeting people. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:22 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy state A girl at my NYE party was going on and on and on about how much she hated online dating because it's so old and she feels like it's as much of a waste of time as meeting people in a bar used to be.
To which I answered, "Yeah, well -- Match.com and its competitors are just an online bar -- that's it. They help you meet people, and from there, just like in every day personal interactions, it's up to you to do good things with it."
Sadly, the idea that people who are dating online know what they want and are defined by having a profile that says "I'm looking for a relationship" has been thrown out the window in many ways. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:25 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Exactly - great way of putting it. The other sites that have a bit higher barriers to entry (like Eharmony) are probably better, or so I've heard. Match makes it free to put up a profile.
Online dating takes all of the interpersonal chemistry out of meeting someone, and people become slaves to their preferences. Dating becomes like a job interview and a lot of people on the more popular sites are looking to hook up - just like in a bar. Except at a bar you might actually toss away your superficial preferences when you meet someone who's fun to talk to and easy on the eyes. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:29 PM Author: avocado marketing idea "people become slaves to their preferences"
As opposed to slaves to happenstance? |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:30 PM Author: copper filthy doctorate principal's office "Slaves to their preferences" - that itself was a great way of putting it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962276) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:30 PM Author: bat-shit-crazy state I don't think it takes all of the chemistry out.
It just reverses a lot of the process and I think it does take certain types of people who are uniquely determined to find a person right for them to really benefit from the medium.
Typically, you meet someone and first you have the attraction/spark/chemistry and THEN you learn about them and try to fill in the gaps to see if the chemistry is a good long-term investment.
With online dating, you create these long lists of knowledge about another person and it's your duty and hope to turn these facts and details into a relationship with chemistry.
I do believe both are still successful methods, and in an ideal world, I would prefer to meet someone IRL to online. It just so happens I've seen great results online. I attribute it to hard work, honestly. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:55 PM Author: Primrose shivering national "With online dating, you create these long lists of knowledge about another person and it's your duty and hope to turn these facts and details into a relationship with chemistry."
You can't work to create chemistry (or maybe you can, I've just never done it or seen it happen). It's either there or it isn't. You can work to get to know someone better and have a better appreciation for their likes, dislikes and personality, but it won't be organic. I've seen great relationships start online or through set-up situations but these were people who really clicked from the start. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:57 PM Author: avocado marketing idea Which filter eliminates more people, the chemistry filter or the preferences filter?
Apply the stricter filter first. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:59 PM Author: Primrose shivering national This makes sense. If people have very strict preferences, are looking for a serious relationship, and would never seriously date someone who failed those preferences, then online dating is the preferred medium.
Most people I know have a much stricter chemistry filter in practice, though. For better or for worse. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:14 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house honestly, a lot of this chemistry shit is flame.
it's serves a useful rhetorical purpose for someone like you (i.e. a girl who pretends to be thoughtful and analytical) as a way to rationalize female capriciousness. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:16 PM Author: Chest-beating property "chemistry" is looking good and being kind of an asshole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962635) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:25 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Don't you ever just really enjoy being around someone or find yourself having a great time with someone? That's chemistry. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962727) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:28 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house sure
but no girl sees me from across the room and falls in love. im not bitter but i am ugly--which is kind of the point. i still manage to date and have relationships without immediately "clicking" with girls in the way that i think you mean. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:30 PM Author: Primrose shivering national "Clicking" is not a sexual thing. I've clicked with objectively unattractive guys and so have many of my friends. You're lucky in that girls are less focused on appearance. I'm talking about fun conversation and spending time together - not sexual chemistry (although that is important and not as related to physical attractiveness as you might think).
No one looks across the room and falls in love. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:32 PM Author: Chest-beating property i still have no idea what I'm supposed to have conversations with girls about. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962791) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:35 PM Author: Primrose shivering national OK, well the first conversation I had with my BF was about where we grew up (similar parts of the country), what sports we liked to play/watch, our childhood pets, and what led us to our current city.
A typical conversation with a guy that I'd have in a bar would be about (1) music we like to listen to (if a cool song comes on), (2) sports we like (if there's a sports game on or sports memorabilia on the walls), (3) where we went to college, (4) where we grew up, (5) hobbies we share or like, (6) places we've traveled to recently. Just basic stuff to ascertain if you have anything in common and if the person you're talking to has any personality at all. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:37 PM Author: Chest-beating property not a bad list, actually (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962832) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:36 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house i was exaggerating, but you were talking about immediately clicking or whatever. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962825) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:40 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Then I mis-spoke. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962865) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:42 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house odd for a computer program but ok. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962882) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:23 PM Author: Scarlet cracking stage idea he suggested what is the primary method of meeting people (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962226) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:14 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm Too greedy during their prime. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960921) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:19 PM Author: Cream unholy corner hissy fit TITmfCR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16960976) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:24 PM Author: exhilarant half-breed it's funny how much they have to settle when they come to the realization that it's now or never. i see so many accomplished, attractive girls in their early 30s who are marrying paunchy, balding 35-40 year-old guys who have steady $60k/yr jobs. those same girls wouldn't have given their spouses the time of the day when they were 23. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961035) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:29 PM Author: Chest-beating property Then again, these guys must know they're marrying women past their prime who fucked many different cocks when drunk, and barely knowing the name of the owner. Girls who can't bond or really love anyone because they've been fucked and chucked so much.
and it certainly doesn't matter how "accomplished" you are. Marrying for women is the best accomplishment. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:30 PM Author: sinister therapy new version you are like a caricature of a person (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961108) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:40 PM Author: Chest-beating property ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961202) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:42 PM Author: shimmering gas station I enjoy your comment and agree wholeheartedly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961228) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:56 PM Author: cobalt yarmulke LOL tcr. He's like a psychopathic, racist pensive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961326) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:30 PM Author: Chest-beating property white knighting a shrew? you can do better, bro. you can do better.
or if you'd like to point out where I was wrong, you can do that too. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:59 PM Author: carmine balding center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961343) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:31 PM Author: Chest-beating property i like the handle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961618) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:01 PM Author: Stubborn skinny woman philosopher-king Pensive flame is pensive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961359) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:33 PM Author: adulterous bespoke generalized bond You reek of insecurity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962802) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:22 PM Author: exhilarant half-breed cr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961011) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 6:58 PM Author: carmine balding center Most are insane (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961338) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:00 PM Author: Charismatic Useless Brakes ARe the younger girls on their pretty much insane too? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961350) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:02 PM Author: snowy locus i have met very few sane girls in my entire life. Most are insane, it's just varying degrees of irrationality. I have no clue why evolution has most of them so weird (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961370) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:07 PM Author: carmine balding center (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961404) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:16 PM Author: exciting garnet roast beef "I have no clue why evolution has most of them so weird"
do you still fuck them? q.e.d. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:18 PM Author: snowy locus bc of ass and titties, not their generally lame personalities (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961494) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:21 PM Author: exciting garnet roast beef that's how evolution works bro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961530) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:03 PM Author: Geriatric Knife Preventive Strike Credited man. That's why if you find a relatively sane one you snatch them up, if you're looking for a mate.
That said though, from what I have seen girls met online are noticeably more insane on average. This is based on a couple friends of mine who have had several long term gfs they met online. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:06 PM Author: metal grizzly mood sad thing is i wish i could get one of these 32 year old washed up bitches to be my wife. i am beta as fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961394) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:07 PM Author: carmine balding center Dude it's not hard. Those women are desperate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961408) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:09 PM Author: metal grizzly mood desperate enough to marry a 25 year old dood with no $$ and acne??? lol, i think not brother. if i could marry a hot 32-34 year old i probably would though. sex her for a decade and produce some kids and then divorce her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961421) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:30 PM Author: Charismatic Useless Brakes Just do proactiv, bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961609) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:30 PM Author: metal grizzly mood DIDNT WORK BROTHER, BUT TY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961614) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:32 PM Author: Chest-beating property hot 32 year olds dont want ugly, poor 25 year olds. They want ugly, non-poor 40 year olds. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961628) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:33 PM Author: metal grizzly mood I KNOW BROTHER, THIS WAS MY POINT (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961638) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:34 PM Author: snowy locus man it's only 15 years away you can hold out that long right? lololol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961645) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:35 PM Author: metal grizzly mood YEAH, PROBABLY BUT I WONT BE RICH THEN AND I WILL STILL BE UGLY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961656) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:35 PM Author: Chest-beating property oh wait Adidaswiss loves younger guys. but i don't know if she's hot. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961653) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:36 PM Author: metal grizzly mood EH, I DONT REALLY CARE THAT MUCH. IS SHE AT LEAST A 5??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961659) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:42 PM Author: Chest-beating property Adidas, we need a pic. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961717) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:07 PM Author: Geriatric Knife Preventive Strike love is in the air i think (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962556) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:34 PM Author: silver odious telephone Why do you have acne at 25? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961647) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:36 PM Author: metal grizzly mood I HAVE SHIT GENESE BROTHER, I AM ALSO REALLY SKINNY. IT SUCKS BROTHER (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961662) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:37 PM Author: silver odious telephone I stopped getting acne at like 17. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961668) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:37 PM Author: metal grizzly mood NOT EVERYONE IS AS GOOD AS YOU BROTHER, SORRY (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961671) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:40 PM Author: silver odious telephone Maybe change your diet. Start eating more fruits and veggies and lean meats and less junk food; you may also want to invest in a good multivitamin. Also, wash your face 2 times a day, drink plenty of water, and use a vitamin C facial masque like once or twice a week. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961700) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:41 PM Author: metal grizzly mood I HAVE TRIED THIS BROTHER, BUT TY. I HAVE BEEN ON ACCUTANE TWICE AS WELL. i just have really bad genes and will have this forever probably (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961710) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:46 PM Author: silver odious telephone Nah man. Something isn't right if you're still getting acne at 25. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961778) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:49 PM Author: metal grizzly mood lol, you are gd right something isnt right. my two ugly as fuck parents had sex, that wasnt right (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16961815) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:08 PM Author: Geriatric Knife Preventive Strike dont be so down on yourself brah. those measures will help your acne even if it doesnt go away completely. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962573) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:28 PM Author: metal grizzly mood ty brother, i just try to improve my life in the things i have some control over (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962764) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:42 PM Author: Geriatric Knife Preventive Strike Look on the bright side women don't care about looks nearly as much as guys do. So you have more control over what makes you attractive. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962886) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:53 PM Author: metal grizzly mood ty brother, i am poor though too. people generally like me ok, my personality is legit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962988) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:09 PM Author: rebellious trip hospital Do you wash your face? Make sure yoy wash at least once a day. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962071) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:10 PM Author: metal grizzly mood of course bro, i take about 10 showers a week (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962079) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:21 PM Author: ungodly coiffed shrine you seem like a really nice guy, larry. i like you and hope you get a gf and stuff. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963250) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 7:52 PM Author: Primrose shivering national I'm with CAC on this one.
I don't know any 30something female who has settled with a paunchy beta who she'd have given no time of day to in her 20s. It's one of those XOXO myths.
Relationships are kind of a crapshoot but most of the people I know who got married in their 30s to people that they met in their late 20s to early 30s seem happy with their partners, and if they're not happy with their partners it isn't because they settled. Shit's more complicated than that. Single people in their early 30s look for somewhat different things than single people in their early 20s, and a bit of betaness gets more prized as someone matures. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:11 PM Author: Scarlet cracking stage idea he suggested I actually know a couple 30something females who settled with guys they'd never date at 22. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962090) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:22 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Was this an instance of priorities changing and people making smarter decisions at 32 than at 22, or true settling? There's a fairly large difference between the two.
The girl who would only date indie rock musicians and trust fund baby hipsters at 22 may settle down with a banker at 31 but I don't think most people would call that settling. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:24 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm Every girls 30+ single girl you know got a banker, impressive. You should do Dos Equis commercials. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962229) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:26 PM Author: Primrose shivering national I was giving an example of a girl who made stupid decisions at 22 but wised up when she was in her 30s, but still could be considered to have married someone at 31 that she'd never date at 22.
You can put any stable profession in there for banker and it still would be the same. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:27 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm You just put out a ridiculous scenario that has a .1% chance of happening and used it as the exception that proves the rule. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962254) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:45 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Nah. Your scenario resonates a lot more with the XOXO anti-shrew set (who always love these kinds of threads), but I don't know any women who settled in the way that you're talking about who got married and actually stayed married. The only settler I know who actually made it to the altar got divorced within a year of marriage.
People who settle in the XO sense don't stay together.
Some people (both men and women) settle in the sense that the person they end up with might not turn them on the most or get their jokes the most, but they turn them on enough and there's enough mutual chemistry to make it work for the long-term. But no one settles in the sense that they end up with someone who does very little for them in any sense of the word. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:30 PM Author: Scarlet cracking stage idea he suggested Fine, it's not settling. but i would be very reluctant to pledge my life to someone who wouldn't date me when she was younger. who she wants at her prime is her true preference. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962279) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:41 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Perhaps, but people mature, grow up or get more realistic. I'd be similarly hesitant if I were in your shoes, but if you believe that people can genuinely change, or at least change their preferences, you should give people a free pass unless they prove you wrong.
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:44 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm A banker fiancée at 31 is not realistic for 99% of women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962393) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:46 PM Author: Primrose shivering national You're too hung up on the word "banker" when I just used it to illustrate a common stable (at least pre-ITE) urban profession as a foil of sorts to "unemployed trust fund hipster" or "wannabe rock star/artist". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962417) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:49 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm Those were your words, not mine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962441) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:56 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Would it have been better if I made him an accountant? Or specified that he was a mid or back-office financedood? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962499) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:58 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm Accountant would be the beta type they wouldn't give the time of day at 22 you stupid cunt. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962505) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:05 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Let's take an example. Judy is a 24-year-old female in a large city. She idealizes the hipster/fashion/creative scene and thinks guys in boring professions (including front-office banking, law and medicine) are too stuffy and establishment for her. Maybe she's rebelling against her dad or she just dislikes the blue-shirt army. Who knows. But after dating a bunch of wannabe artists and bohemian types with none of their own money she realizes that she's not getting fulfilled by these guys. So she splits the difference and eventually settles down with a mid-office financedood who plays in a cover band on weekends, or a veterinarian who writes poetry in his spare time.
People do settle in the sense that their priorities change. This causes preferences to mature or even become discarded as time goes on.
But if you look for 30something shrews settling, that's all you'll find. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:06 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm That's just fucking stupid. Only you would believe shrews UPGRADE as they get older. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962555) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:11 PM Author: Primrose shivering national They upgrade in the sense that they're now dating people who are more relationshippable. Whether that means they're more stable, or emotionally available, or whatever, I don't care. Single women in their 30s aren't so much looking for the fantasy fuck or the Prince Charming as they are looking for someone who is nice/cool, shares their values and is emotionally available even though they might be less exciting than the guys that might have excited them when they were in their early 20s.
People still have to meet a baseline attractiveness threshhold, which is pretty much "do I want to fuck this guy sober". |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:33 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm You are deluded and mentally ill. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962805) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:07 PM Author: Chest-beating property "or a veterinarian who writes poetry in his spare time"
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:47 PM Author: Scarlet cracking stage idea he suggested but he's no indie rock dood (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962423) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:26 PM Author: Scarlet cracking stage idea he suggested "the most interesting shrew in the world" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962247) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:14 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm "I don't know any 30something female who has settled with a paunchy beta who she'd have given no time of day to in her 20s." Of course not, IRL always has deus ex machina endings. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:27 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Most people I know want to end up with someone that they actually like and are somewhat attracted to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962252) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:27 PM Author: snowy locus "want" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962256) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:49 PM Author: Primrose shivering national True. When it comes to relationships, people usually do what they want unless they have external pressure (like family pressure) leading them into another direction. I've seen people try to settle for someone they were lukewarm about and it never really lasts.
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:17 PM Author: exhilarant half-breed god, ur such an awful poster. you're invariably wrong on every r-thread you opine on. you think your reality = everyone else's reality. trust me, it happens. and it's gonna happen to you, as well. otherwise, you'll end up a 40-something spinster with 3 cats (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962152) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:21 PM Author: avocado marketing idea "I don't know any 30something female who has settled with a paunchy beta who she'd have given no time of day to in her 20s. It's one of those XOXO myths."
Explain this, you stupid cunt:
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:54 PM Author: exhilarant half-breed 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963005) |
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Date: March 29th, 2011 3:43 PM Author: walnut dingle berry (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#17637681) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:23 PM Author: snowy locus lol. okay. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962221) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:28 PM Author: Stimulating Chapel Blood Rage lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962260) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:36 PM Author: Cruel-hearted concupiscible idiot ITT: OTR is right, as usual. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962337) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 8:58 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Yeah, it's pretty futile trying to convince them of anything other than what they want to see. It's like an inkblot - if they see a random couple who look to be in their 30s walking down the street where the woman is more attractive than the man, they'll assume the woman settled hard. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962503) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:02 PM Author: snowy locus i usually don't partake in the shrew hate around here (and to be frank, think it's bitter/beta) but you are flat out wrong on this one, it's not credited. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962533) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:08 PM Author: Primrose shivering national I'm not saying there's no settling going on IRL. I do think many people settle to some degree, but it's not to the overwhelming degree that the shrewbashers would have you think.
It's not like the vast majority of single thirtysomething females are getting married to people they find unattractive or otherwise undesirable for the sake of getting married or having kids (i.e. the "paunchy beta"). There's a baseline attraction and chemistry/values threshold that still has to be met even though people may care less about the superficial as they get older. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:20 PM Author: Chest-beating property The most attractive/successful guys are either attached or dating younger women when in their early 30's. Even an attractive girl in her early 30's will have to date somewhat lower than she would have to 5 years earlier. There aren't enough alphas to go around. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962674) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:27 PM Author: Primrose shivering national "Somewhat lower" is fine and reasonable to many people, but it's not the basement that the :Ds of this thread think it is.
And "somewhat lower" may even include many guys that we would have dated in our mid 20s. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:34 PM Author: Chest-beating property I'm middle of the road on shrewdom. I'm in my early 30's myself so I know plenty of early 30's women. They vary from the sex and the city -wannabe types to the ones that truly want to get married NOW. I think the girls that are smart and get better priorities find someone good, and the ones that refuse to "settle" in any way end up alone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962811) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:38 PM Author: Primrose shivering national I tend to agree with your last sentence, although I don't know many people who refuse to "settle" yet have relationships as a major priority in their lives. People who make something a priority generally find a way to make it happen in some way or another.
The people who go WAH WAH WAH I'M STILL SINGLE but focus most of their time on work, personal hobbies, family/friends, and other obligations that take up time will stay single for longer (not saying that's a bad thing - just that they're not prioritizing relationships as much as they think they are). |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:10 PM Author: Cruel-hearted concupiscible idiot xoxo's view of relationships and women aren't useful to apply to irl. its like everyone read the same bathroom book. the stuff i hear here i dont hear anywhere else (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962583) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:11 PM Author: Chest-beating property but you're always here though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962588) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:14 PM Author: Cruel-hearted concupiscible idiot and you are their king. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962624) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:17 PM Author: Chest-beating property As Tom Petty said, it's good to be king, but :D is no doubt the king of the shrew crew-bashers. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962651) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:13 PM Author: Primrose shivering national "its like everyone read the same bathroom book."
Yeah, I don't even know why I bother with this thread. I've said some of this stuff to my friends IRL (even some of my guy friends) and they're like "who the hell are these people". Of course I don't tell them it's XOXO: I just say "my cousin said this" or something like that. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:15 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house subtle "gk has irl friends" trolling (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962630) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:20 PM Author: Chest-beating property 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962682) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:25 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house my sister is 28 and more attractive than the overwhelming majority of xoxo shrews. she is freaking out about being single while all of her friends are getting engaged/married.
is this really xoxo flame? seems like a pretty standard irl situation.
ps
she is not settling yet. i will update xoxo when this happens. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:27 PM Author: big kink-friendly forum if your sister showed up in your room completely naked and begged you to plow her, would you do it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962741) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:29 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house doubt it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962770) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:29 PM Author: Primrose shivering national It's a pretty standard freakout, but the fact that she hasn't settled yet is more important than her freakouts. A good gauge of true desperation is to see what people do and who they start dating, not what they say.
Usually a freakout means "I can't find the kinds of people I actually want to meet", not "I'm not married yet". She also may have wacked-out preferences which guide her toward unavailable guys or guys out of her league. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:35 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house It's definitely both in her case.
She wants kids, etc. so it's not that unreasonable to be concerned about the ends and not just the means.
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:40 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Ok. I keep forgetting about the biological urge to reproduce.
Who does she usually date? Does she have a full social life now? If all of her friends are married or engaged it might be hard to meet eligible singletons. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:47 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house she recently moved to a different city.
but she's extremely social and probably has no trouble meeting people. she thought she was marrying someone a year ago and it blew up. then she dinged the next guy for looking good on paper but being kind of socially retarded and annoying to date.
so now she's A L O N E and unhappy about the situation. do not expect BIGSETTLING for in the near future, though. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:52 PM Author: Primrose shivering national OK, then a lot of her settling anxiety may be because not too long ago she thought she'd be set re: marriage and kids. She was in a marriage-track relationship which went to shit and probably had been out of the dating scene for a while. Understandable that she's unhappy about being alone since she hasn't been alone for a while. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962980) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:56 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house of course, the thing about single women not settling is that they're obviously not the ones who are inclined in that direction.
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:58 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Good point. The ones who arguably settled were the ones who pulled a "You'll Do" and got married at 24. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963046) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:04 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house i personally know four guys my sister could be married to.
and it's not like our social lives overlap; there might be a few more. maybe i should tell her to poast on xoxo to up her proposal count. can you put that shit on your CV? |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:06 PM Author: Primrose shivering national If my BF dumped me tomorrow, I know 3 or 4 guys who would be jumping for joy but I wouldn't date any of them - just not attracted. Maybe she's the same way with these guys. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963110) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:08 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house she dinged a friend who wanted to leave his fiancee for her. flew out to meet her and tell her he'd been in love with her for years.
im sure that was awkward. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:12 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Yeesh. I would have no idea what to do in that situation if the feelings weren't reciprocated. Was she with her BF at the time? How did she handle it? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963172) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:16 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house no, i think she was single.
she laughed when he asked her why they had never dated. reminded him he had been in a relationship the entire time she'd known him so it was not really her fault.
the guy's fiancee had banned him from seeing her. i suppose that was actually credited (if a little sad). |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:26 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Wow, did the guy and his fiancee end up getting married?
Her laughing is kind of bitchy, but kind of 180. I don't know if I'd have the balls to laugh at the guy. I'd probably just invite him in, have polite conversation and suffer through an awkward weekend without bringing up the reason why he came. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:09 PM Author: Chest-beating property how do you know all these guys would be jumping for joy, that seems a little presumptuous (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963134) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:11 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house tbf, there are more than a few desperate guys here on xoxohth.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963153) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:11 PM Author: Primrose shivering national These guys are very obviously attracted to me and apparently talk about me a lot to their friends. Who then tell me that so-and-so really likes me. These guys also ask a lot of Qs about my relationship compared to my other guy friends. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963159) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:12 PM Author: Chest-beating property so how does it work, are you creeped out by their obvious interest? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963169) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:13 PM Author: Primrose shivering national No, they're not creepydoods about it and I find it endearing. They've never been inappropriate with me and have respected my relationship.
I'm just not attracted to them. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:17 PM Author: Chest-beating property if you and bf ever break up, they will probably come on stronger about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963218) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:22 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Oh, I definitely know this. Kind of creeps me out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963263) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:30 PM Author: Chest-beating property do you assume that every guy who's friends with you wants to bang you or date you? I wonder if most girls assume this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963365) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:33 PM Author: Primrose shivering national No, I kind of assume the opposite. I.E. if the guy hasn't tried to bang me or date me yet, I assume he doesn't want to. And then we can be friends. It's much easier being friends with guys when there isn't that negative sexual tension there. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963412) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:37 PM Author: Chest-beating property If you're attracted to a girl you're friends with, cr is not to make the interest obvious, huh? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963465) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:40 PM Author: Primrose shivering national I'd think that if the guy met the girl and he was attracted to her, he'd try to sleep with her or date her instead of just befriending her through the extended social circle while watching his other friends/acquaintances try to date her or sleep with her.
My BF didn't mess around with trying to be my "friend" for very long before we started dating. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:17 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house your boyfriend shouldn't appreciate this.
guys wanting to bang you are not your friends. they might be part of your social circle, but you should not encourage them. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:22 PM Author: Primrose shivering national He's kind of like "meh". I knew them before he met me and I don't spend copious amounts of time with them. I don't do anything to encourage them but my BF isn't going to cause a scene with them. He has female friends that are interested in him and I just find it amusing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963257) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:34 PM Author: metal grizzly mood curious, what age range does she date??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962807) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:40 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house typically older.
last boyfriend was probably her age. but i dont know much about him since i didnt hear about it until after the breakup.
i dont think she has a strong preference |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:42 PM Author: metal grizzly mood so do you think she would prefer the 26-32 range though??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962880) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:48 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house more like 28-35 and probably less interested in students (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962957) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:54 PM Author: metal grizzly mood nice, this gives me hope that i can marry a 28 year old when i am 33 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962999) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:57 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house oc you could
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:59 PM Author: metal grizzly mood ty brother, acne should be better by then (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963058) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:02 PM Author: Primrose shivering national That's pretty standard and not at all weird. Shouldn't be a problem if you have all or most of your hair at its original color and you keep in shape.
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:04 PM Author: metal grizzly mood tyvm for your kindness brother. would the girl in that situation be ok with my virginity??? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963093) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:05 PM Author: appetizing bright step-uncle's house we're trying to fix his acne
it's a problem |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:07 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Oh, gotcha. It should clear up by then although I'm no dermatologist. I assume he's seen one. Has he tried medicines like Differin or Klaron? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963125) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:09 PM Author: metal grizzly mood yes, many. never give up though, seeing a diff one in a couple months (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963136) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:27 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Have you tried Eastern medicines? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963327) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:54 PM Author: metal grizzly mood no, i only like pills not any creams. i need something that works internally (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963651) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:56 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Why? I once had a random massive breakout that was so bad that (1) my secretary wanted to send me to the emergency room because she thought I got an allergic reaction and (2) the guy I had been dating fairly intensely for a few months quickly faded out. I got prescription creams that cleared it up right quick, like in a month's time. Within a week it began to look better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963669) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:57 PM Author: metal grizzly mood right, bc that was just a random breakout though. when you acne for over a decade, you need to address it internally to solve the problem. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963690) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:11 PM Author: Chest-beating property i know balding/unfit doods with cute gf's (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963154) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:24 PM Author: Primrose shivering national I do, too. But usually these guys either (1) make a good amount of money or (2) have pretty solid chemistry with the girl. In all of these situations the girl is attracted to the guy on at least some level. I've been attracted to unfit doods in the past. As long as they aren't chubby they're probably fine. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963293) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:28 PM Author: Chest-beating property everyone has somewhat different physical priorities. some girls care most about height, others don't care much. fitness, hair, muscles all vary in priority. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963350) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:33 PM Author: Primrose shivering national Same with guys to the same extent. Just look at the "rate this girl" threads here. Fitness, hair, height, tit size - no uniform preference.
But no girl will say "I prefer a balding/graying, out of shape, short dood with an average job and mediocre social skills". You can be one or two of those things as long as you're set on the others. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:05 PM Author: Chest-beating property I've dated 6-7 yrs younger pretty easily if I wanted (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963099) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:06 PM Author: metal grizzly mood ty, i wont be done with school until about 29 so i want a few years to work without being married but i dont want to marry an old either, you feel me?? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963115) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:08 PM Author: Chest-beating property oh i feel ya (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963127) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:10 PM Author: metal grizzly mood my brother, one love playa (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963147) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:22 PM Author: arousing magical cuckoldry cr,
my sister is 30 and she told me she's reading "aging gracefully" cause there's no more hope. tbf, she's a bit of a lunatic. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:06 PM Author: snowy locus hit it. The time is right to tap dat ass (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963113) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:34 PM Author: adulterous bespoke generalized bond More pathetic: the shrews or the basement virgins who obsess over them? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962810) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:46 PM Author: Geriatric Knife Preventive Strike Good lord I was just going to say this board and its posters are utterly weird and sad. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962942) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 9:45 PM Author: diverse out-of-control digit ratio i think on line dating is best for ppl over 40. There are no bars where over 40's can hang out and chat each other up, so the on line dating thing is good for them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16962919) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:19 PM Author: soul-stirring jet-lagged legal warrant i love threads that expose insecurities (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963235) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:42 PM Author: angry tripping party of the first part The sweet-revenge-on-the-girls-who-wouldn't-date-me meme never ceases to attract adherents on xoxo. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963526) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 11:20 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm 30+ women having to settle is an undeniable fact of life. 30+ shrews like you and GraceKelly going ad hominem over it shows how insecure YOU are. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963917) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 11:41 PM Author: angry tripping party of the first part I have no reason to be insecure about it D-dood. Something can both can have an element of truth AND be something certain posters relish because of the sweet revenge angle. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16964230) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 11:46 PM Author: aphrodisiac pisswyrm You got married at 30. You almost certainly settled. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16964269) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 11:51 PM Author: angry tripping party of the first part lolno
I've been dating my husband since I was 25 and since I met him I haven't even dreamed of marrying anyone else. I should be the posterchild for the guys on this board who think girls should wise up early. |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 11:25 PM Author: Stimulating Chapel Blood Rage the boomer chicks realized and accept you can't have it all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16963992) |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 10:36 PM Author: histrionic newt boistinker I met my girlfriend on a dating site, ladies, so there is hope for you yet!
*blank stare* |
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Date: January 3rd, 2011 11:45 PM Author: mustard cruise ship jdate is an even worse domain for shrews, hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1525183&forum_id=2#16964261) |
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Date: January 4th, 2011 12:02 AM Author: histrionic newt boistinker WTF would me or my GF be doing on JDate?
lol |