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parents really fucked me over when they made me move to the US
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:20 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate as a preteen.
they basically robbed me of the right of enjoying the life of an ordinary person, because it doesn't matter that i can speak accentless English and Mandarin, and am well versed in both cultures, i'm fundamentally different from the ordinary person in either country, to the point that i would never be able to find an ordinary life in either country fulfilling.
fuck my parents, fuck my life.
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:22 AM Author: Exhilarant Hunting Ground Cruise Ship just join a 3rd culture kid support grp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542759) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:30 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate yea, i find it easy to connect with people with a similarly fucked up upbringing, but it's such a small fraction of the population. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542799) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 6:57 AM Author: purple volcanic crater lodge There are lots of immigrants who came to the US as children. You seem dumb. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543281) |
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Date: May 6th, 2020 3:37 AM Author: Autistic sooty trump supporter bump for uvt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#40157920) |
Date: April 25th, 2012 2:21 AM Author: Salmon immigrant different = special like mozart or bill gates breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542750) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:23 AM Author: Mewling khaki marketing idea faggot firefighter cr, your average socially maladjusted bro is really a temporarily set-back Mozart. Nevermind that Mozart was an extraverted bro who slayed pussy like a beast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542763) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:25 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate i just want an ordinary, but fulfilling life, but that's closed off to me, thanks to my parents.
i think this is also true for a lot of Asian Americans.
i met a middle aged American born Asian dood recently. he has a pretty good job, married a white woman, has a mixed son. he told me that he still doesn't feel like he belongs here. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:26 AM Author: Carmine stage associate xoer blames uncontrollable factor for his social maladjustnent, story at 11 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542775) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:45 AM Author: boyish party of the first part philosopher-king well whatever the cause it sure as hell isn't transitory in his case (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542847) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:27 AM Author: Salmon immigrant do u think this will affect ur 9-figure startup valuation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542786) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:50 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol probably something like:
1. can't relate to the frat boy socializing. Not being able to tolerate alcohol doesn't help. Also asians emphasize piano more than team sports.
2. feel like you don't get more out of the sexual marketplace? |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:50 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate i drink fine.
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:52 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol then whats the problem.
korea seems like a high tech feudal society. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:57 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate fleet footed, don't want to put down roots at any one place, and no girl or job has been good enough to change that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542894) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:58 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol and how would staying in korea have helped? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542896) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:23 AM Author: histrionic confused black woman if you hadn't moved to the united states, you'd be dead. crushed by a truck. sorry, but i just checked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542761) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:23 AM Author: Impertinent appetizing tanning salon goal in life don't feel alienated little brehlet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542762) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:24 AM Author: Carmine stage associate so much wasted potential. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542766) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:29 AM Author: Diverse Property no worries man, we all very special and different and out of place and alone. welcome to america. that just means you finally fit in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542793) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:37 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate thanks breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542829) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:40 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol since i"ve seen your OKC profile.
:)
umm, what are your complaints? If I had to choose between China/Taiwan and the USA, I'd still choose the USA. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:44 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate u have?
how?
i don't mind living in the US, just want a change, because i've been away from Asia forever. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:47 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol When did you move?
You visited mine, so I saw yours.
In many ways I would have had an easier time in asia, and probably would have fit in better with the educational system over there than the USA. Like the whole white privilege thing? It applies to asians in asia. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:50 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate pretty sure i have anon browsing on.
there is no such thing as white privilege for Asians in Asia, because just about everyone else is also Asian. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:52 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol you actually paid for that shit?
clockhand? |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:53 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate anon browsing is free. i don't see people who visited my profile.
how many pictures did the profile that you think is mine have? |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:54 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol not free, man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542881) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:55 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate i added a question (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542883) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:57 AM Author: green plaza gunner you're wrong, it's free (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542890) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:06 AM Author: insanely creepy national security agency Anon browsing is not free on OKC. lulz (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543291) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:57 AM Author: green plaza gunner above, GOS attempts to out UVT as this guy:
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/clockhand/photos
Date: April 25th, 2012 2:52 AM Author: Gross Old Sandusky
you actually paid for that shit?
clockhand?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542865) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:59 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate "Came to the states to go to college ~5.5 years ago and did not speak English. I picked up the language so far, but still have an accent. Definitely working on it, and looking for someone to help me with it."
i came to the states 14 years ago, and i have no accent. so no, that's not me.
im also taller.
but that guy is not bad looking. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:00 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol dude in the profile drives a BMW. yeah. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542905) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:02 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate i can very easily afford a BMW, but it would be a dumb purchase for me given that i may not even be in the country in a year. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542907) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:03 AM Author: Salmon immigrant 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542908) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:08 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol where do u think of going? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542920) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:09 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate somewhere in Asia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542923) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:09 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol that's it? job? purpose? just wander around in asia? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542926) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:10 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate knowledge and experience, i guess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542930) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:12 AM Author: purple volcanic crater lodge Haven't you been on the verge of moving to Asia for the last 2-3 years? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543345) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:04 AM Author: green plaza gunner all chinks look like shit and this one is far from an exception (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542911) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:07 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate he def gets more pussy than 90% of xoxoers tho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542919) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:11 AM Author: green plaza gunner more subhuman chink ass, yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542932) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:14 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate he is a lil short, but i'm sure he's gotten some white pussy too.
white girls are pretty easy when you are 6'0+ tho |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:16 AM Author: green plaza gunner not when you're azn; being azn is like removing a foot from your height (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542953) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:16 AM Author: disturbing pink pistol true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542956) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:18 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate u seem madd breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542963) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:29 AM Author: green plaza gunner okay maybe 6 inches. a 6' asian = a 5'6 white guy, in terms of fucking white women, all other shit being equal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543000) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:30 AM Author: green plaza gunner and actually it's probably more of a curve than a fixed number, a 6'6 asian definitely does not equal a 6' white. more like a 5'9 white. actually, he's probably just looked at in the same way that girls look at doobs. big goofy sexless thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543003) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:42 AM Author: Avocado electric theater stage what a fucking whiner. just deal with it. everyone has their own unique experiences. choose your own path based on what feels right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542843) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:48 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate gimme ur expat job then fgt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542856) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:53 AM Author: Avocado electric theater stage lol, get a law degree and some cap mkts experience (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542872) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:54 AM Author: Vibrant federal indian lodge fanboi love it or leave it, traitor! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542880) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:50 AM Author: purple volcanic crater lodge You're probably right. Aspie whiners fit in better in China than in the US. Just move back now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543067) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 4:00 AM Author: ultramarine racy base double fault how was your upbringing so fucked up? how did it rob you of your life or whatever. I think lots of nerds are, unfortunately.. not just you. They don't focus on the social aspect of life, that's nothing particularly unique... just deal with it now, i guess. I know, i'm struggling with something similar.. didn't prioritize dating/social life in undergrad, and now feel like i missed out on my 20s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543102) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:14 AM Author: purple volcanic crater lodge (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543349) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:18 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate it isn't the same thing as being socially inept.
i can turn on the social charm fine and come off as a "normal" in most situations, but it's harder to connect with people on a deeper level because our children/adolescence is so different from the ordinary person. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 4:43 AM Author: Mildly Autistic Sanctuary LOL of course uvt is crying like a bitch and megaposting about how it's all someone else's fault. Protip little breh, the problem is you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543197) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:00 AM Author: lavender crackhouse Pretty much like me, but I relate more to people from my homeland than to Americans. In the end I left the US, just a very different culture... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543285) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:21 AM Author: Exhilarant Hunting Ground Cruise Ship same with me.
at what age did u leave?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_culture_kid |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:27 AM Author: lavender crackhouse I left right after college, returned 2 years later for a bit of grad school, then left again, then returned for more grad school, and left again. Mid-way through college I decided to leave for Europe. You? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543302) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:57 AM Author: Exhilarant Hunting Ground Cruise Ship i left a couple years after college.
but i meant, at what age did u leave your home country? me at 11. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:06 AM Author: lavender crackhouse I was 9. Which continent? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543337) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:08 AM Author: Exhilarant Hunting Ground Cruise Ship south america but i rarely go there anymore. hang around asia. my ideal location would be oz. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543339) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:44 AM Author: lavender crackhouse What's OZ? Like the Wizard? Asia is cool, my bro left the US as well and settled there. I will probably go there once I have a family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543384) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:49 AM Author: Exhilarant Hunting Ground Cruise Ship oz = australia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543397) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:31 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate "TCKs are unlikely to work for big business, government, or follow their parents' career choices. "One won't find many TCKs in large corporations. Nor are there many in government ... they have not followed in parental footsteps".[21]"
"TCKs' sense of identity and well-being is directly and negatively affected by repatriation.[23]"
interesting. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:26 AM Author: lascivious gay wizard lol nowag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543358) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 1:37 PM Author: Carmine stage associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20544607) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 1:39 PM Author: dashing pit becky have you tried killing/having your parents killed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20544615) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:30 PM Author: Chartreuse lay juggernaut pretty much in the same situation. what do we do? was thinking of moving to another very diverse country like england or trinidad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20544927) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:20 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate i dunno. right now, i mostly just want to travel and "discover myself" whatever that means. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20549720) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:30 AM Author: Comical Theatre Degenerate here is a small anecdote why this is crippling:
i basically don't have any belongings beyond the bare essentials to function, because i know i may have to move in a few months or a year, and it means i would have to throw out/leave behind anything that's too large, or anything that's unnecessary. my apartment is barely furnished, and i have no desire to furnish it because i know i will prob be gone relatively soon.
this carries over to work. my office is also largely free of any personal items, because deep down i don't think i will work here for very long. this is obviously a problem, because they expect you to act like you will be here for the long haul. fuck that.
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Date: May 6th, 2020 3:41 AM Author: Silver odious site new version why not go work in Shanghai or Taipei? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#40157924) |
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Date: May 6th, 2020 3:43 AM Author: Silver odious site new version you can get decent, stylish furniture for cheap if you look around online or at a flea market. no reason not to have a couch and sofa chair in living room - can easily be had for under $1,000 total. for bedroom, get a bed and an ikea drawer. for kitchen, you can get a table and two chairs for less than $100. grand total for all this? under $2,000.
as for wall decorations, paintings and frames can easily be packed and shipped for minimal cost. you can do an accent wall in the living room on one saturday afternoon.
*BAM* your place looks decent, yet still minimalistic.
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