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parents really fucked me over when they made me move to the US
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:20 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction as a preteen.
they basically robbed me of the right of enjoying the life of an ordinary person, because it doesn't matter that i can speak accentless English and Mandarin, and am well versed in both cultures, i'm fundamentally different from the ordinary person in either country, to the point that i would never be able to find an ordinary life in either country fulfilling.
fuck my parents, fuck my life.
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:22 AM Author: Umber self-centered plaza just join a 3rd culture kid support grp. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542759) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:30 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction yea, i find it easy to connect with people with a similarly fucked up upbringing, but it's such a small fraction of the population. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542799) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 6:57 AM Author: razzle irate private investor There are lots of immigrants who came to the US as children. You seem dumb. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543281) |
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Date: May 6th, 2020 3:37 AM Author: gaped claret international law enforcement agency area bump for uvt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#40157920) |
Date: April 25th, 2012 2:21 AM Author: Orange hairy legs tanning salon different = special like mozart or bill gates breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542750) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:23 AM Author: obsidian big hospital cr, your average socially maladjusted bro is really a temporarily set-back Mozart. Nevermind that Mozart was an extraverted bro who slayed pussy like a beast. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542763) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:25 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction i just want an ordinary, but fulfilling life, but that's closed off to me, thanks to my parents.
i think this is also true for a lot of Asian Americans.
i met a middle aged American born Asian dood recently. he has a pretty good job, married a white woman, has a mixed son. he told me that he still doesn't feel like he belongs here. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:26 AM Author: amber outnumbered half-breed xoer blames uncontrollable factor for his social maladjustnent, story at 11 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542775) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:45 AM Author: learning disabled wrinkle well whatever the cause it sure as hell isn't transitory in his case (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542847) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:27 AM Author: Orange hairy legs tanning salon do u think this will affect ur 9-figure startup valuation (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542786) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:50 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard probably something like:
1. can't relate to the frat boy socializing. Not being able to tolerate alcohol doesn't help. Also asians emphasize piano more than team sports.
2. feel like you don't get more out of the sexual marketplace? |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:50 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction i drink fine.
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:52 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard then whats the problem.
korea seems like a high tech feudal society. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:57 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction fleet footed, don't want to put down roots at any one place, and no girl or job has been good enough to change that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542894) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:58 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard and how would staying in korea have helped? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542896) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:23 AM Author: Floppy ebony travel guidebook national security agency if you hadn't moved to the united states, you'd be dead. crushed by a truck. sorry, but i just checked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542761) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:23 AM Author: Comical theater don't feel alienated little brehlet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542762) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:24 AM Author: amber outnumbered half-breed so much wasted potential. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542766) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:29 AM Author: Magical pungent university giraffe no worries man, we all very special and different and out of place and alone. welcome to america. that just means you finally fit in. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542793) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:37 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction thanks breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542829) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:40 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard since i"ve seen your OKC profile.
:)
umm, what are your complaints? If I had to choose between China/Taiwan and the USA, I'd still choose the USA. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:44 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction u have?
how?
i don't mind living in the US, just want a change, because i've been away from Asia forever. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:47 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard When did you move?
You visited mine, so I saw yours.
In many ways I would have had an easier time in asia, and probably would have fit in better with the educational system over there than the USA. Like the whole white privilege thing? It applies to asians in asia. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:50 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction pretty sure i have anon browsing on.
there is no such thing as white privilege for Asians in Asia, because just about everyone else is also Asian. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:52 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard you actually paid for that shit?
clockhand? |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:53 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction anon browsing is free. i don't see people who visited my profile.
how many pictures did the profile that you think is mine have? |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:54 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard not free, man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542881) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:55 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction i added a question (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542883) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:57 AM Author: Yapping piazza you're wrong, it's free (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542890) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:06 AM Author: Glittery Vengeful Laser Beams Crackhouse Anon browsing is not free on OKC. lulz (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543291) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:57 AM Author: Yapping piazza above, GOS attempts to out UVT as this guy:
http://www.okcupid.com/profile/clockhand/photos
Date: April 25th, 2012 2:52 AM Author: Gross Old Sandusky
you actually paid for that shit?
clockhand?
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542865) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:59 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction "Came to the states to go to college ~5.5 years ago and did not speak English. I picked up the language so far, but still have an accent. Definitely working on it, and looking for someone to help me with it."
i came to the states 14 years ago, and i have no accent. so no, that's not me.
im also taller.
but that guy is not bad looking. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:00 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard dude in the profile drives a BMW. yeah. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542905) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:02 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction i can very easily afford a BMW, but it would be a dumb purchase for me given that i may not even be in the country in a year. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542907) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:03 AM Author: Orange hairy legs tanning salon 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542908) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:08 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard where do u think of going? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542920) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:09 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction somewhere in Asia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542923) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:09 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard that's it? job? purpose? just wander around in asia? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542926) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:10 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction knowledge and experience, i guess (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542930) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:12 AM Author: razzle irate private investor Haven't you been on the verge of moving to Asia for the last 2-3 years? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543345) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:04 AM Author: Yapping piazza all chinks look like shit and this one is far from an exception (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542911) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:07 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction he def gets more pussy than 90% of xoxoers tho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542919) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:11 AM Author: Yapping piazza more subhuman chink ass, yes (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542932) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:14 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction he is a lil short, but i'm sure he's gotten some white pussy too.
white girls are pretty easy when you are 6'0+ tho |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:16 AM Author: Yapping piazza not when you're azn; being azn is like removing a foot from your height (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542953) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:16 AM Author: pale hairraiser haunted graveyard true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542956) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:18 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction u seem madd breh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542963) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:29 AM Author: Yapping piazza okay maybe 6 inches. a 6' asian = a 5'6 white guy, in terms of fucking white women, all other shit being equal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543000) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:30 AM Author: Yapping piazza and actually it's probably more of a curve than a fixed number, a 6'6 asian definitely does not equal a 6' white. more like a 5'9 white. actually, he's probably just looked at in the same way that girls look at doobs. big goofy sexless thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543003) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:42 AM Author: Demanding lay antidepressant drug what a fucking whiner. just deal with it. everyone has their own unique experiences. choose your own path based on what feels right. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542843) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:48 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction gimme ur expat job then fgt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542856) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:53 AM Author: Demanding lay antidepressant drug lol, get a law degree and some cap mkts experience (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542872) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:54 AM Author: jet selfie dilemma love it or leave it, traitor! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20542880) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 3:50 AM Author: razzle irate private investor You're probably right. Aspie whiners fit in better in China than in the US. Just move back now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543067) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 4:00 AM Author: mildly autistic charismatic fortuitous meteor scourge upon the earth how was your upbringing so fucked up? how did it rob you of your life or whatever. I think lots of nerds are, unfortunately.. not just you. They don't focus on the social aspect of life, that's nothing particularly unique... just deal with it now, i guess. I know, i'm struggling with something similar.. didn't prioritize dating/social life in undergrad, and now feel like i missed out on my 20s. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543102) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:14 AM Author: razzle irate private investor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543349) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:18 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction it isn't the same thing as being socially inept.
i can turn on the social charm fine and come off as a "normal" in most situations, but it's harder to connect with people on a deeper level because our children/adolescence is so different from the ordinary person. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 4:43 AM Author: Green Cracking Idea He Suggested LOL of course uvt is crying like a bitch and megaposting about how it's all someone else's fault. Protip little breh, the problem is you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543197) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:00 AM Author: contagious infuriating base Pretty much like me, but I relate more to people from my homeland than to Americans. In the end I left the US, just a very different culture... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543285) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:21 AM Author: Umber self-centered plaza same with me.
at what age did u leave?
http://en.wikipedia.org/wiki/Third_culture_kid |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:27 AM Author: contagious infuriating base I left right after college, returned 2 years later for a bit of grad school, then left again, then returned for more grad school, and left again. Mid-way through college I decided to leave for Europe. You? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543302) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 7:57 AM Author: Umber self-centered plaza i left a couple years after college.
but i meant, at what age did u leave your home country? me at 11. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:06 AM Author: contagious infuriating base I was 9. Which continent? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543337) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:08 AM Author: Umber self-centered plaza south america but i rarely go there anymore. hang around asia. my ideal location would be oz. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543339) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:44 AM Author: contagious infuriating base What's OZ? Like the Wizard? Asia is cool, my bro left the US as well and settled there. I will probably go there once I have a family. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543384) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:49 AM Author: Umber self-centered plaza oz = australia (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543397) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:31 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction "TCKs are unlikely to work for big business, government, or follow their parents' career choices. "One won't find many TCKs in large corporations. Nor are there many in government ... they have not followed in parental footsteps".[21]"
"TCKs' sense of identity and well-being is directly and negatively affected by repatriation.[23]"
interesting. |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 8:26 AM Author: grizzly razzle-dazzle associate mad-dog skullcap lol nowag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20543358) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 1:37 PM Author: amber outnumbered half-breed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20544607) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 1:39 PM Author: thriller round eye twinkling uncleanness have you tried killing/having your parents killed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20544615) |
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Date: April 25th, 2012 2:30 PM Author: Bat shit crazy rambunctious legend alpha pretty much in the same situation. what do we do? was thinking of moving to another very diverse country like england or trinidad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20544927) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:20 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction i dunno. right now, i mostly just want to travel and "discover myself" whatever that means. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#20549720) |
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Date: April 26th, 2012 12:30 AM Author: Excitant dysfunction here is a small anecdote why this is crippling:
i basically don't have any belongings beyond the bare essentials to function, because i know i may have to move in a few months or a year, and it means i would have to throw out/leave behind anything that's too large, or anything that's unnecessary. my apartment is barely furnished, and i have no desire to furnish it because i know i will prob be gone relatively soon.
this carries over to work. my office is also largely free of any personal items, because deep down i don't think i will work here for very long. this is obviously a problem, because they expect you to act like you will be here for the long haul. fuck that.
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Date: May 6th, 2020 3:41 AM Author: Vibrant sienna ladyboy location why not go work in Shanghai or Taipei? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=1932584&forum_id=2#40157924) |
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Date: May 6th, 2020 3:43 AM Author: Vibrant sienna ladyboy location you can get decent, stylish furniture for cheap if you look around online or at a flea market. no reason not to have a couch and sofa chair in living room - can easily be had for under $1,000 total. for bedroom, get a bed and an ikea drawer. for kitchen, you can get a table and two chairs for less than $100. grand total for all this? under $2,000.
as for wall decorations, paintings and frames can easily be packed and shipped for minimal cost. you can do an accent wall in the living room on one saturday afternoon.
*BAM* your place looks decent, yet still minimalistic.
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