Date: October 29th, 2012 7:46 AM Author: Bateful Site Ratface
so many fucking amazing opportunities. i've met more VCs and angels, etc. in one month than all my years in the US combined.
and the nightlife is 180. so many extremely high quality asian girls that basically don't exist in the US. i'm starting to see an objective 9, medical student at Beida somewhat regularly, but i'm prob still gonna get some whenever i can.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:18 AM Author: Bateful Site Ratface
NYC is the most interesting city in the US still though, but yeah, there are other cities that are just insanely credited for 25-30 year olds both careerwise and pussy wise.
Shanghai is another good choice from what ive heard.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:27 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
Dude almost any emerging market is infinitely more fun than NYC. I never wanted to move to NY. 40% taxes, competition up the ass for every single position, late hours, 2 week vacations (and you look lazy if you take it all), paying insane cover charges/fees for clubs where it's mostly all men gunning for shrew olds/fats. There is really nothing remotely appealing about any of this. I make more money (13% flat tax), live in a 1 bedroom in the city center for $1200, work less, have 4 weeks of vacation plus a ton of public holidays (took a month off to go to Africa, another 3 weeks over winter break), and INSANELY nice girls everywhere, with like 3-6 chicks in my portfolio at any given time. Yeah, I really envy the guys making less money, less vacation, and chasing fats/old indebted shrews in NYC...
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:35 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
So the chicks who gun for the expat lifestyle over the NY lifestyle are cooler than chicks who want to go to NY? I can buy this. The girl who wants to do banking in HK seems a hell of a lot more interesting than the girl who wants to just go on Wall Street.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:54 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
agreed 100%. if I hear an American accent from a chick I lose all interest. western european women are almost always very ugly as well. there was even an article in moscow in an expat magazine titled "I am not a lesbian, but I've learned to eat pussy here" about a western shrew who couldn't get any guys. Western men ditch their women for the locals, and local guys don't even bother with the expat chicks. I look at single expat women here and wonder if she had sex within the last year even.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:54 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
"the few expat women or western women that are of similar quality have extremely unreasonable expectations and price themselves out of the market."
DESCRIBE these expectations. Do they just have the expectation to date a white dood who makes the kind of money they make? I find it very difficult to believe that a dood would rather date a local chick that he has nothing in common with over an expat chick who has a lot in common with him, assuming attractiveness was held constant. Maybe I'm just a simple bro who wants to have a conversation with his wife about college football and other normal stuff at the end of the day, but I don't get this whole dating locals shit. Unless you're dating just to smash, in which case carry on.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:59 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter Subject: Expat Life Is A Sexual Feast For Men And Famine For Women
--> "’I want you to understand something,’ she says. ‘I'm not a lesbian. But I've been reduced to licking pussy.’”
This isn't the original article, but that's the quote. Usually these chicks are ASS ugly/fat + dress like men and yet gauge themselves as if they are still in the UK/Ireland/US/Germany, etc, where women are pretty damn hideous in general. I mean it's like a different species comparing a Russian chick and a Brit, and yet some fat/ugly British chick will think you have to chase her ass and be "romantic" to her, wine and dine her, when you wouldn't sleep with her even when absolutely shitfaced as you have 5+ local women you can call and bang.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:01 AM Author: Bateful Site Ratface
i mean, you've seen all the shrew bitches on this board. they all expect some 6'3", rugby playing, alpha dood with perfect jawlines and shit making 500k, even though they are rapidly aging 4's and 5's themselves.
compare to the local women: you have objective 8/9ish, early-mid 20's, well educated, feminine as fukk women who are happy as fuck to find an expat guy who is somewhat well put together.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:08 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
yeah I forgot to add the feminine as fukk part. chicks in Moscow are thin, hot, and dress so damn sexy + act feminine. compare that to the expat fatty or ugly who dresses in jeans+sneakers and acts all entitled. she might as well be a dude, that's about as sexy as she is on the local market to straight guys.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:18 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
"they all expect some 6'3", rugby playing, alpha dood with perfect jawlines and shit making 500k, even though they are rapidly aging 4's and 5's themselves."
And all of the pumos here are banging 8+ CGWBTs who did cheerleading at an SEC school. I don't think that 29, Rina, Nutella, TexASS, Bluesmoke or Ryder are married to or have claimed to have dated the kind of dood you describe.
I am early 30s and I'd rather settle down with a woman around my age, and there are plenty around my age who haven't fallen apart. If I find a mature chick in her early/mid 20s, even better, but it's not necessary. Being able to talk with a woman is paramount. I'm pretty sure my views are normal.
I'm not saying there aren't some 180 local women, but in light of the language and cultural barrier I'd rather stick to my own kind. All of this strong preference for local talent smacks of "she's hotter and has lower standards", which is just perfect for insecure betas I guess.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:24 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
Is Timothy also Asian?
What about culture? I'm a native speaker of English but I'm completely culturally different from a Brit or a New Zealander.
I'm just curious. From what I see about the kinds of white doods who jizz all over Asia is the FILTH acronym (which I got from a British friend of mine): failed in London, try Hong Kong. In other words if you failed with women in your home city, you go to Asia.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:27 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
Not Asian and originally from the area, so I click better culturally as well. However, I've seen MANY very happy expat doods who seem to do ok with chicks who don't know what Seinfeld is or the rules of baseball. My bro is not Chinese but is having a blast there.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:31 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
"However, I've seen MANY very happy expat doods who seem to do ok with chicks who don't know what Seinfeld is or the rules of baseball."
Do they have anything in common with the girls they date? From personal experience, the one thing that makes relationships with people from other countries different is that you're from two completely different cultures. It's not just baseball versus cricket (although having a common cultural frame of reference is an underrated predictor).
I'm not just talking about fucking. What makes expat men want to date and marry these women, instead of just fucking a ton of chicks and then going back to NY or London to marry a nice hometown girl (who may even be Asian in ethnicity but is culturally Western)?
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:38 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
I'm pretty sure that Nathan Adrian and the chick Nick Lachey married are culturally Western despite being ethnically Asian, breh.
I am as white as they come and the Asian girls I knew from high school and college were pretty culturally Western in that they were indistinguishable from the whites socially. The hot ones were on the cheerleading or field hockey teams and got invited to all of the cool parties, they joined the "white" sororities in college, and basically acted indistinguishable from the white girls except they had better metabolisms and base tans. I don't even know if they all were fluent in Mandarin, Korean, Japanese, or whatever language.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:36 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
Many Western women think more about their career than anything else. A number of men, myself included, would prefer a woman who placed more importance on the family. I would say that the emerging markets chicks are more family-oriented, definitely. And as was raised by Gangnam, the locals aren't dumb, they are very very smart in many cases (certainly in Moscow).
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:42 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
I'm not saying the locals are dumb. I have a few friends abroad and have visited them. If I moved to Hong Kong (where I visited my friend) I would be completely indifferent between a hot expat chick and a hot local chick who was from a wealthy family and was educated abroad somewhere like Duke or Wellesley and has the same career path as the expat chicks. I don't think I would consider dating a local chick of middle class (local middle class, not American middle class) origin who never left.
Never been to E. Europe. I know that MGU is a kickass school but I still don't know how much I would have in common with an educated girl who never left the country.
As for career versus family, I prefer a girl who focused on her career when she was younger but will devote that same focus to her family when she has kids. The time to focus on your family is not when you're fresh out of college and are unmarried and childless.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:44 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
Oh I've never dated a chick who hasn't at least traveled to a number of countries. I prefer well-rounded chicks. If I weren't repulsed by American women, I would imagine I would prefer one who has at least lived abroad (and not on some gay junior year study abroad in Spain thing).
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:52 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
Imagine you met an American expat female who was thin, had an 8 face, was thin and works out a lot, makes the effort to look a little more polished when she leaves the house, and wants to stay at home to take care of the kids once she has them but in the meantime is fine putting in the hours at her job to put away as much money as she can for her future family (send her kids to private school, afford full-time nannies and such).
How would she do in the dating marketplace compared to the locals?
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:28 AM Author: Bateful Site Ratface
Timothy is russian.
We were both born outside of the US, so there are some cultural differences with the locals, but it's not like we are completely strange to it, and whatever genuine cultural differences there are, the women here find them to be extremely endearing for the most part.
Date: October 29th, 2012 9:33 AM Author: floppy yapping institution
That makes sense. I'm still completely baffled as to how a complete expat would want to seriously date or marry one of these kinds of women, given the language and cultural barrier. I can understand finding Asian or Russian chicks hot, but there are plenty of Americans of Asian or Russian heritage who grew up in a typical American suburb, were members of the Homecoming court in high school, joined a sorority in college and so on.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:36 AM Author: Orange university laser beams
wow man you really changed. i hope u make it back soon bro.
i agree for the taxes but not having to sleep with one eye open and worrying about disease/bugs/shitty rooms/etc.
And not everyone makes less than you. I agree if you're at 160k or below you're not having a great time but for those clearing 250k+, tbh NYC is a blast. Basically you have to be able to afford it and you won't find anyone hating on NYC who clears even close to that (earl, nutella, etc.)
as for fat shrews in nyc? come on bro, ur really stooping here. nyc has plenty of babes.
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:48 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
Changed? I've wanted to leave the US since 2000, and I've only returned for schooling. I never had any desire to stay there and didn't recruit for US positions/never worked there. Not sure, maybe you're confusing me with someone? I prefer living in Europe, but after experiencing Moscow vs. London, I definitely prefer Moscow/emerging markets (my bro does as well and has been in China for 4 years). $250k in NYC is $150k after taxes, which is what I am making now in Moscow essentially, except my apartment is $1200 and I make like 15x the average salary of the people here. The women are greater in quantity and quality as well (I've never even been friends with American chicks, can't stand them at all).
Date: October 29th, 2012 8:51 AM Author: Titillating travel guidebook trump supporter
He is a Managing Director of a US branch selling cosmetics, shampoo, etc to the Chinese. Worked in Silicon Valley making six figs and NYC before, hated both, now is super happy.