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If the Jane Doe from Steubenville were your daugher...
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Date: March 18th, 2013 8:51 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler How ashamed of her would you be? I know that those boys shouldn't have done what they did to that girl and that they behaved in an inappropriate and ungentlemanly fashion. But I just couldn't help thinking when I read about the case that this girl's dad must be so ashamed to have a daughter that was treated like such a sex toy.
If that were my daughter, it's not exactly like I would think that the only way to return her honor would be to make her die with dignity, but it would take me a long time to look at her again.
It's called personal responsibility, kids. None of the more sober girls were treated in that manner. And there must have been something about this girl's particular reputation that compelled those boys to do that to her instead of treat her with more respect. |
Date: March 18th, 2013 8:51 PM Author: Peach cuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841172) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 8:52 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets also, folks, just a friendly reminder that rape culture totally isn't a thing (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841175) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 8:54 PM Author: Provocative infuriating fat ankles Um, libs and feminists have basically foisted the rape culture on us. This is the obvious outcome of the "sexual liberation" shitlibs fought so hard for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841190) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 8:59 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler This.
Behave like a lady, and you will be treated like one. This Steubenville case is a far cry from that poor woman in India who got gang raped and died in a Singapore hospital. |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:21 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets what you're describing is rape culture (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841321) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:23 PM Author: Twinkling glittery factory reset button address What would you do if you found out your daughter drank booze until she blacked out? You wouldn't punish her at all? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841327) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:24 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets i don't think punishing her would be constructive if she had been raped, no. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841338) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:24 PM Author: Twinkling glittery factory reset button address What if she wasn't raped? What if she just wound up blacked out and you found her unharmed? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841342) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:26 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets why are you asking? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841353) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:27 PM Author: Twinkling glittery factory reset button address I'm trying to gauge your views on her behavior outside of the context of the later events.
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:30 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets i don't think getting blackout drunk is healthy or wise, but i'm not sure if punishment is the right way to deal with a teenager doing it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841370) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:32 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler I don't necessarily think "you get what you deserve for being irresponsible" is the right way to go about doing things, but I would clearly emphasize how shameful her behavior is, how this reflects poorly on not only her but on our family, and despite how unfortunate it is that those boys did those kinds of things to her, she did learn a valuable life lesson and should not shift the blame to others. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841378) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:28 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler So, basically, a floozy gets so sloshed that she allows a bunch of jocks to treat her like an amusement park and you're not saying that her parents should just stand aside like she were some angel who just happened to be walking down the street. minding her own business, and got raped by a pack of rabid wild men?
If she just came home with a bad hangover and you found out that she was acting like a drunk, promiscuous tramp at this party, what would you do? |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:28 PM Author: Drunken Laughsome New Version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841362) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:31 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets this is rape culture you're describing, yes. the idea that there are worthwhile victims and worthless victims. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841374) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:34 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler If this were anything other than rape, people wouldn't have a problem with this idea.
Contrast this:
A woman parks her Volvo in her garage, closes the garage door, alarms the garage door, and goes to bed. She wakes up to find some savant thief has stolen the car during the night.
With this:
Some bro parks a Lamborghini on the street in the South Bronx at 2 AM, leaves the keys in the ignition, and forgets to lock the car. When he gets back to the parking spot, the car is gone.
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:23 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler So I guess taking responsibility for your actions and acting with some semblance of personal dignity and self-respect is "rape culture", amirite?
If my daughter, at 16, drinks so much booze that she passes out and lets her classmates humiliate her, I'd be appalled with her behavior and I'd also severely question what other shit she got up to that made her classmates disrespect her.
A funny thing, it is, that none of the sober girls got 'assaulted' at this party. |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:25 PM Author: smoky ungodly nibblets no, not at all. but that's why everyone on this bort is doing anything and everything but asking the rapists to take responsibility for their actions. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841343) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:29 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler If they were my sons I'd want them to take responsibility for their actions. I'd reprimand them for behaving in a foolish and uncouth manner. I'd ground them, take away car privileges, and so on. I may even ask them to apologize to the girl. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841368) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:32 PM Author: federal insecure box office gracekelly, you are mentally ill (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841381) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 8:57 PM Author: federal insecure box office some real disturbed individuals on this here bort (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841200) |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:10 PM Author: Azure locale deer antler C'mon. If some dumbass parks a lamborghini in the South Bronx and leaves the keys in the ignition and it's not there when he gets back, people have no problem calling him a dumbass.
But if some girl gets so drunk she can't stand and some hooligans decide to take some lewd photos of her, it's RRRAAAAAAAAPE!
Seriously. If that were my daughter, I would be very tempted to kick her out of the house for the shame she brought upon this family. |
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Date: March 18th, 2013 9:13 PM Author: federal insecure box office oh this is gracekelly running deranged misogynist flame. carry on (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22841273) |
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Date: March 20th, 2013 3:47 PM Author: Light histrionic genital piercing spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#22851287) |
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Date: May 19th, 2013 10:26 PM Author: Provocative infuriating fat ankles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#23232856) |
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Date: May 19th, 2013 10:26 PM Author: Curious Chad Brunch Honestly I can't even imagine what it must be like having a daughter in this day and age (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#23232865) |
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Date: May 19th, 2013 10:28 PM Author: Provocative infuriating fat ankles http://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=2255466&mc=12&forum_id=2 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#23232876) |
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Date: May 19th, 2013 10:34 PM Author: Curious Chad Brunch Can kinda understand sex selective abortion (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#23232925) |
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Date: May 19th, 2013 10:37 PM Author: Useless kitty She's guilty of getting drunk.
That's it. So in so far as being disappointed in my son or daughter for drinking, yeah.
I've done it, pretty much everyone I know has done it.
People like you deserve to be violently raped multiple times, btw.
I would, however, abandon a son who behaved as those young men did. |
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Date: May 19th, 2013 10:38 PM Author: Sepia milk Frankly, what happened to her was a foreseeable consequence of her behavior, just like...if you walk around showing a lot of money, odds are you will be robbed. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2209089&forum_id=2#23232962) |