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Girl and I were all set to go out until... (BIG TWIST)
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:13 PM Author: Disturbing french chef ...she tells me two of our mutual guy friends want to come over to my place too.
No.
She then suggested we get together at the apartment of one of those guy friends.
NO. I explained how I could see her with them any day and our agreement was for just us to go out and do anything.
She said sorry, and that she couldn't really do anything tonight.
What's with people? Women especially. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:14 PM Author: Metal Parlour Knife Women dont like you. You're creepy and a loser. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907332) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:15 PM Author: Disturbing french chef She doesn't think I'm either of those. But it's clear she likes those other guys more. (She's been to my place alone before too.) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907343) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:16 PM Author: Metal Parlour Knife Best-case scenario: she finds you completely unappealing, sexually non-threatening
Worst-case scenario: she thinks your are creepy |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:17 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I think the best case scenario might be right. Her ways of flirting with me are straight off the elementary school playground -- before sexual attraction exists. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907371) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:18 PM Author: Metal Parlour Knife it boosts her ego to flirt with you and mold you like putty in her hand, then she goes to a male she actually wants to fuck (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907381) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:20 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Well at least I didn't agree to have them over and DOMINATE me in my own apartment right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907391) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:20 PM Author: Metal Parlour Knife whatever helps you sleep at night (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907401) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:24 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Thanks (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907431) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:55 PM Author: grizzly laser beams preventive strike this, so much this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907734) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 1:00 PM Author: Disturbing french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911199) |
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Date: April 1st, 2013 3:42 PM Author: Disturbing french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22917427) |
Date: March 30th, 2013 5:13 PM Author: Swashbuckling Dead Striped Hyena Church HMMMMMMMM THIS IS A TOUGH ONE (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907326) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:29 PM Author: Disturbing french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907489) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:13 PM Author: submissive toilet seat lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907327) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 2:14 PM Author: Mustard talented associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911452) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:15 PM Author: clear autistic hissy fit you're creepy to her and doesn't want to be alone with you? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907342) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:16 PM Author: Disturbing french chef We've done things without other people involved, including in my apartment. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907348) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:18 PM Author: Chestnut Hunting Ground anal? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907375) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:18 PM Author: Disturbing french chef No. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907377) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:19 PM Author: appetizing out-of-control rehab pisswyrm tcq (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907387) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:08 PM Author: Mustard talented associate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908221) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:20 PM Author: appetizing out-of-control rehab pisswyrm She wants to try a gangbang, but is too shy to come out and ask for it.
Her original plans were for all 4 of you to hang out, get drunk, and then just let it do what it do. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:23 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Heh, she likes to fuck. But I doubt it (and I don't think you believe it either).
Our original plans were to spend the day together. She texted me in the morning saying she's tired; OK, I get it. So was I, it's cool. I suggested something more laid back tonight or even later in the week. But she wanted to cook at my place. I said sure and asked her to bring a movie. To confirm I sent her a message saying "Going to the store now. Get our stuff?" That's when she dropped the "[two other guys] want to come too." It would be more fun, she said. Reminded her that my kitchen is small and that's when she suggested the other guy's apartment. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:31 PM Author: appetizing out-of-control rehab pisswyrm She likes to fuck, just not you.
No girl is dumb enough to think that a guy would be OK with the thought of bringing MOAR CAWK to a date.
If she really wanted YOUR shlong, then she never would've came up with such a bullshit blow-off. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:36 PM Author: Disturbing french chef She seemed sincere in thinking it would be more fun. I don't think she thought I'd say no to the proposals (since it would be saying no to seeing her). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907563) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:38 PM Author: appetizing out-of-control rehab pisswyrm 1. You said "No"
2. In response, she asked, "Well let's go to their place."
3. Again you said "No"
4. As a result, she cancels the date.
???
5. Someone is gonna PROFIT tonight. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:44 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Yeah, 'we're including other people on the day we agreed to do stuff.' When I said no she said she can't spend time with just me tonight. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907643) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:54 PM Author: appetizing out-of-control rehab pisswyrm Yup, you need to send a txt to those Bros and say, "Congrats on tonight". (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907730) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:11 PM Author: ruby garrison doctorate (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909406) |
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Date: April 27th, 2015 7:11 AM Author: Cyan really tough guy Is this the origin of the heh meme? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#27768929) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2015 6:13 PM Author: plum space Lololol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29023574) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2015 6:31 PM Author: Outnumbered Ticket Booth 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29023694) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2015 6:34 PM Author: histrionic idea he suggested yes it is (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29023711) |
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Date: July 31st, 2015 4:56 PM Author: purple french box office new version Date: March 30th, 2013 5:23 PM Author: ''''"'"""''' (dooberstein)
Heh, she likes to fuck. But I doubt it (and I don't think you believe it either).
Our original plans were to spend the day together. She texted me in the morning saying she's tired; OK, I get it. So was I, it's cool. I suggested something more laid back tonight or even later in the week. But she wanted to cook at my place. I said sure and asked her to bring a movie. To confirm I sent her a message saying "Going to the store now. Get our stuff?" That's when she dropped the "[two other guys] want to come too." It would be more fun, she said. Reminded her that my kitchen is small and that's when she suggested the other guy's apartment. |
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Date: July 31st, 2015 5:01 PM Author: orange very tactful community account goal in life 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#28451604) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 8:35 AM Author: Exhilarant buck-toothed kitty how does this not have like 50 blank bumps? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027237) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 9:02 AM Author: plum space (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027312) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 9:48 AM Author: painfully honest depressive It stands better on it's own (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027484) |
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Date: November 12th, 2015 3:35 PM Author: dashing internal respiration (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29167947) |
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Date: April 8th, 2016 3:08 PM Author: Adventurous blue macaca quadroon http://i.imgur.com/YLUyX4t.jpg (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#30229897) |
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Date: April 26th, 2016 4:25 AM Author: vibrant property heh (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#30348241) |
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Date: April 26th, 2016 4:33 AM Author: racy dilemma liquid oxygen (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#30348257) |
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Date: August 16th, 2019 2:10 PM Author: dark lay coldplay fan (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#38697041) |
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Date: April 16th, 2022 6:53 PM Author: marvelous marketing idea set Heh. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#44353330) |
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Date: April 20th, 2022 2:10 AM Author: multi-colored resort clown (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#44371173) |
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Date: April 16th, 2022 6:55 PM Author: razzmatazz lake stain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#44353337) |
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Date: April 12th, 2023 12:22 PM Author: sienna thriller gaming laptop legend (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#46175874) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:39 PM Author: odious place of business lol did you really say "that was not our agreement" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907593) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:43 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I said, "The point of going out is for us to spend time doing whatever. I can see you in a group any day. It's cool if you don't want to right now but I need to know so I can respond to people wanting to go out tonight."
She said, "Okay, yeah, I can't really tonight then, I'm sorry."
"If you want to follow through with it t some point then let me know." |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:44 PM Author: clear autistic hissy fit lol "follow through with it" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907645) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:45 PM Author: Disturbing french chef She hasn't responded to that last one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907658) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:45 PM Author: odious place of business ugh, dood. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907653) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:46 PM Author: Disturbing french chef It could have been 10x worse dood I mean right this is Doobs we're talking about here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907662) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:49 PM Author: odious place of business lol true. in the future "nah that's cool, don't really feel like going there, i'm just gonna meet up with [those other people]. talk to you tomorrow." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907692) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:51 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Why do you think she wanted to include those other dudes? I know she has screwed one and they were quasi-dating for awhile. Not sure about the other one but probably the same deal and I'm less aware of their past. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907710) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:52 PM Author: clear autistic hissy fit lol at wasting time w/ this bitch; she's probably fucking him/them this isn't your type of girl; move on |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:53 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Except I think she is my type of girl. But why don't you think she is? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907723) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:55 PM Author: clear autistic hissy fit bc youre an awkward idiot and this chick is loose and fucks loads of doods lots of girls like awkward (but endearing, cute) idiots like you; find one of them |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:57 PM Author: grizzly laser beams preventive strike doobs isn't endearing awkward though. He is "should have a restraining order filed against him" awkward. No girls like guys who may want to flay their skin off and turn it into a raincoat. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907756) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:59 PM Author: Disturbing french chef yeah good pt but I haven't seen evidence of those girls existing
Probably should have tried to talk with the chick last night who came up next to me and said "wow. you just look so classy right now." My response was the IRL equivalent of 'kthxbai.' |
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Date: April 1st, 2013 8:52 PM Author: curious kitchen That wasn't a compliment. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22919267) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:55 PM Author: appetizing out-of-control rehab pisswyrm </thread> (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907735) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:57 PM Author: submissive toilet seat I think it's pretty obvious that she had second thoughts about hanging out with you 1 on 1 because you might get the wrong idea and think that the hanging out was a date. So, she tests the waters by inviting other guys either to see if you're cool hanging out as friends or to just get out of the date.
Plus she has a history with one of the other guys.
I would move on. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:00 PM Author: Disturbing french chef We've done 1 on 1 stuff in the past. Not sure why it's different now.
Maybe those guys did want to come. But they wouldn't have known about it unless she told them. (If she even did at all.) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:03 PM Author: clear autistic hissy fit it's "different" now bc, get this, women are emotional, flaky, change their minds 5 times a minute; are you new to women/dating? the key is to not give a fuck about this and move on dood; eventually one wont "change her mind" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907792) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:04 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I'm VERY new to women/dating. I've never had a girlfriend and have probably only been on three first dates and one second. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907802) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:05 PM Author: clear autistic hissy fit yeah, stop contacting this chick (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907809) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:10 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Backstory: I had stopped contacting for awhile, deleted number from phone, etc. Then we ended up spending two days together last week and went out to eat for breakfast one morning. I figured my ignore-schtick had paid off. We agreed to do something today. At a party last night she was leaning into me, her whole body.
Then it all went south around lunch time today. Number deleted. Again. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:12 PM Author: crawly boltzmann should have made a move last night (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907849) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:14 PM Author: Disturbing french chef One of the other dudes was there too actually. They came together which was weird but I blew it off as being friends. Still I didn't want to get into his territory if he was already there for the night. That's why I let her lean against me but didn't pull her in tighter. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907861) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:13 PM Author: khaki meetinghouse She was flirting with you in front of him so that he would pound her even harder last night. HTH. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908247) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:15 PM Author: Disturbing french chef It was actually when he wasn't around. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908263) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:15 PM Author: khaki meetinghouse That's what you think (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908266) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:00 PM Author: crawly boltzmann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907776) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:53 PM Author: Cordovan lascivious house boistinker lol nope
the best response to cancelled dates is no response at all. then if she really needed to cancel (unlikely, women dont have shit to do), she would apologize and reschedule. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:19 PM Author: Disturbing french chef She at least apologized. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909075) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:23 PM Author: Cordovan lascivious house boistinker that doesn't mean shit
you coerced it out of her.
also with no rescheduling, the apology is basically mocking you. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:32 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Since then she has said maybe next weekend. But I'm making other plans regardless. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909175) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:02 PM Author: Cordovan lascivious house boistinker "maybe next weekend"
fuck your life brah
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Date: March 30th, 2013 5:56 PM Author: Big glassy selfie Why even pretend to be heterosexual doobs? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907738) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:02 PM Author: Beady-eyed unholy public bath consider killing yourself. you will never understand how and why normal human do things. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907788) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:05 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Life is kinda weird through my lens. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907806) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:23 PM Author: abusive vigorous twinkling uncleanness base 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909108) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:06 PM Author: odious place of business seems like there's a twist parody thread in here somewhere. i'll work on it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907811) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:08 PM Author: Deep Cruel-hearted Hell She doesn't want to give you the wrong idea; she's not interested. She also seems like she might, given the chance (if she hasn't already), use you. The fact that she invited two other guys to your apartment is evidence of this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907823) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:11 PM Author: Disturbing french chef She gives me the wrong idea until the last second. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907848) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:13 PM Author: Deep Cruel-hearted Hell Sucks man, but girls are flaky. You will learn this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907856) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:14 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I should have learned this awhile ago. Not like this is the first time it's happened to me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907864) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:08 PM Author: Motley faggotry next time a girl does this to you, decline the invitation and say you're going to do something else. don't act like it's a big deal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907825) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:09 PM Author: odious place of business (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907830) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:11 PM Author: Disturbing french chef That's what I did, right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907846) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:14 PM Author: odious place of business yeah kind of except the exact opposite (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907862) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:15 PM Author: Disturbing french chef lol I didn't make it a big deal at all (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907865) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:19 PM Author: odious place of business dood you launched into a philosophical discussion about the purpose of hanging out, then demanded to know whether she would agree to your scholarship. further, by giving her the option instead of just saying "nbd i'm gonna hang out with x," you let her apologize and make you look pathetic. at some point tonight she's gonna say "i feel bad i blew off doobs to hang out with you" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907887) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:24 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I guess I felt an apology was in order so correcting her, or saying "nah it's NBD" didn't cross my mind. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22907903) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 6:34 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Also tyft post.
But she's not gonna say/think that wtf? |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:08 PM Author: ivory contagious milk "then demanded to know whether she would agree to your scholarship" is 180.
Doobs, I think maybe you should try a slightly less attractive girl. Without sound harsh, maybe try a girl form whom there's less competition. (also, i'll throw in the obligatory joke here---try a girl for whom there's less competition and who won't be missed when she inevitably goes missing).
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:12 PM Author: Disturbing french chef wait to do this until moved into new city though? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908244) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:15 PM Author: ivory contagious milk nah, man. start trying now. do you know any girls who'd be attractive except they're 20-30lbs. overweight? see if one of them wants to hang out.
you'd be amazed at what you'll put your dick in if you get drunk enough. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:17 PM Author: Disturbing french chef not who like me enough
There's a girl who I know likes me, I'm absolutely positive, but she's attached to a bf and is religious (conservative Jew). |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:22 PM Author: ivory contagious milk well, just keep your eyes open for someone who might be a little more easily attainable then. and, of course, make sure the windows of your van are blacked out.
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:26 PM Author: vivacious market Maybe try for lower-hanging fruit than the religious Jewish girl with a bf. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908311) |
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Date: April 1st, 2013 8:55 PM Author: curious kitchen i loled (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22919287) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 7:59 AM Author: narrow-minded casino fortuitous meteor ljl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027166) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:24 PM Author: vivacious market This is so obvious. She is not sexually attracted to you. She was afraid you would get the wrong idea if she was alone with you. Your reaction confirmed her apprehensions.
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:59 PM Author: Disturbing french chef But we've been alone before. Probably on real dates -- where we've gone and I've paid, where she has come over and we've cooked together. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908504) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 5:07 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap you know how some college kids sell plasma for weed money? others go on pretend dates so they don't have to pay for meals. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22912330) |
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Date: April 1st, 2013 8:56 PM Author: curious kitchen ty for reminding me of how i made drug money in ug (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22919289) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 7:59 PM Author: Disturbing french chef 180
She's asking me for the recipe for the meal we made before since she liked it so much. Now she's going to cook it for those two dudes. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:08 PM Author: ivory contagious milk seems like a waste of time on her part since she'll obviously be feasting on cock tonight. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908553) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:10 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Great imagery.
She's upset that she can't find the ingredients I bought. And I'm glad. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:17 PM Author: submissive toilet seat You should bring them to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908595) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:18 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Right! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908601) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:20 PM Author: odious place of business don't respond (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908608) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:25 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I'm helping her out but not getting specific. She asked if I remembered what it's called and my response was, "It had a mirepoix and chicken. Maybe try French chicken." Also told her I had the thing committed to memory. Nah, it's bookmarked. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908645) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:27 PM Author: odious place of business i have a serious suggestion for you:
http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=cKUvKE3bQlY |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:29 PM Author: Disturbing french chef 180.
But I AM doing the opposite. Real, nice guy me wants to say "yeah here's the link call me with any questions, some parts were a little tricky." |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:30 PM Author: odious place of business the exact opposite of helping her with her stupid chicken thing is not kind of helping her with her stupid chicken thing. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908668) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:40 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Told her I'm making duck frites now and she seems jelly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908735) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:44 PM Author: odious place of business are you going out with other people? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908765) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:22 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Yeah with another dude. He's more aspie than me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909099) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:25 PM Author: odious place of business to the extent you keep texting her, i would tell her you're heading out instead of telling her about the food you're making alone because she ditched you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909122) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:26 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap 10 bucks says he'll drink alone while broadcasting on tinychat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909135) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:29 PM Author: odious place of business i've never been on tinychat, what's it like man? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909151) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:30 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap mostly just doobs on camera while everyone calls him a fag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909158) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:31 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I think she knows or might infer that I'm going out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909167) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:39 PM Author: odious place of business i would try to casually mention you're going out, but that's just me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909217) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:29 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap LOL (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908659) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:39 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap lose your virginity yet? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908723) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:40 PM Author: Disturbing french chef no (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908732) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:41 PM Author: cracking godawful affirmative action total freind zone (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908740) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:41 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I've been resigned to this for awhile actually. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908742) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:46 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap 'a while' should be two words the way you're using it, aristotle (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908781) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 8:48 PM Author: startling becky She views you as so strongly inferior and asexual that she never consider the possibility of anything romantic coming up during your previous one on one interactions. It finally occurred to her that this might be what you're after, so she tested you then bailed in disgust. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:21 PM Author: Disturbing french chef "bailed in disgust"
I don't think that's how people feel when they realize someone finds them attractive. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:03 PM Author: startling becky That's exactly how women feel when they find out a guy they're extremely turned off by is hitting on them. The problem isn't that you were attracted to her. It's that you viewed her as enough of an equal to try for it. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:02 PM Author: ivory contagious milk tell her you're sending her the recipe and then BAM!: Dickpic
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:02 PM Author: ivory contagious milk poast a pic so we can rate her (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908915) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:05 PM Author: house-broken shrine mad-dog skullcap (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22908941) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:20 PM Author: Disturbing french chef You've seen her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909086) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:30 PM Author: odious place of business (doobs) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909161) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:59 PM Author: ivory contagious milk well, if you're as awkward around girls as you claim then you should definitely try going a little more downmarket. she was pretty attractive iirc. reasonably attractive girls usually don't want for male attention, so you're operating in a pretty competitive environment.
have you told her your curtains match your carpet? maybe that'll get her going. |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:13 PM Author: ivory contagious milk what movie were you guys going to watch?
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:20 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Flight (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909083) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:53 PM Author: ivory contagious milk Do you think she's watching it with those other doods, or do you think they're showing her porn to get her warmed up? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909308) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:57 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Why are you doing this? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909324) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:01 PM Author: ivory contagious milk i'm just joking, man. i know what you're going through sucks. that's the way i deal with this type of situation, with jokes. it's either laugh or cry, right?
Edit: echoing some of the other poasters itt, she definitely sounds like the type of girl who'd use you. i think you should delete her number again and move on. plenty of fish and all that.
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Date: April 1st, 2013 8:58 PM Author: curious kitchen be harsher
doobs has had enough chances to learn how to be normal enough |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:36 PM Author: Talking Stimulating School Cafeteria Crotch time to jerk off (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909200) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:38 PM Author: Disturbing french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909208) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 9:58 PM Author: cowardly son of senegal gaping Shitdoobs, do you approach women normally? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909327) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 1:49 AM Author: Disturbing french chef I don't approach women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22910425) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 10:14 PM Author: Wonderful Trailer Park Main People this thread is painful to read (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22909413) |
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Date: March 30th, 2013 11:05 PM Author: ivory contagious milk it really is. it's a good cautionary tale about the dangers of getting too into any one girl, though.
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Date: March 31st, 2013 1:49 AM Author: Disturbing french chef (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22910428) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:14 AM Author: Pea-brained carnelian whorehouse voyeur lol. yeah man, you totally blew her off and acted like it was nbd. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22910063) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 11:18 AM Author: ivory contagious milk Any update? Did she get in touch again after asking for the recipe? You hangin' in there ok? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22910909) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 11:22 AM Author: Disturbing french chef She asked for the recipe and where I got the special pasta. Then I told her I was making duck frites and she said she wanted duck, I told her she should make it next weekend, she said she has never made it before and so I offered to show her. She said maybe, but her mom might be coming up next weekend to visit. And I think that's it...can't double check since I deleted messages.
Doin' fine though. Had a pretty big tab at a bar last night. Also: It's Opening Day! |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 11:48 AM Author: ivory contagious milk glad to see the bishes don't got you down. her behavior really was quite rude and classless. you're better off without her.
you're a natinals man, right? |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 11:56 AM Author: Disturbing french chef Help it sink in. Is agreeing to do something and then wanting to invite other people rude/classless? Or just woman technique for wanting to get out of a date-y thing? She really switched at the last minute.
Oh fo sho. I'll say they win 100+ games. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:02 PM Author: ivory contagious milk the well bread thing to do, once she had agreed to the date, would have been to follow through on it and maybe cut the evening short with a plausible excuse.
and yes, inviting other people along to something you've been invited to (and has been clearly described as just the two of you) is incredibly rude.
i think it was her attempt at getting out of a "date-y" thing, but it was ham-handed and classless. you should cut her out of your life. not as some tactic for eventually fucking her, but because she's not worth bothering with. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:05 PM Author: Disturbing french chef When she contacts me in the future how should I respond? Be short and to the point? No innuendo, nothing flirty at all of course.
Also I wonder what the other guys were thinking, first when she told them about our plans and then when I backed out but she ended up cooking anyway. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:09 PM Author: ivory contagious milk they probably thought you were hoping to fuck her and she wasn't that interested in you. it could be worse---going anyway would've been incredibly beta.
if i were in this situation i'd never initiate contact with her and if she contacted me i'd be polite but brief and always have some plausible excuse for why you can't meet up with her.
there's no reason to be nasty or short with her, just blow her off in a polite, distant way.
(of course, there's always the ATD option but something tells me that won't be an option in this case). |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:12 PM Author: Disturbing french chef do you think there's any possibility she wanted to be around three guys she likes (to varying degrees but enjoys nonetheless) because of her attention craving? why be around one guy who likes you when you can be with three. she said it would be more fun to cook with and for more people. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911024) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:18 PM Author: ivory contagious milk it's possible, but if this is true then you've got no chance. best case scenario she's not into you enough to forgo an evening without attention.
in her mind an evening with them > the chance of hooking up with you. that's never a good sign when they think that.
your problem, and i sympathize, is that you like the girl too much and are trying to come up with justifications for her shitty behavior.
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:21 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I won't initiate contact again and look forward to the day I leave this city and her behind.
But I know she'll initiate contact again at some point and it will be hard for me to turn down a chance to actually be with her 1 on 1 again. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:24 PM Author: ivory contagious milk why? so you can go through this again?
you picked out a city yet? |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:25 PM Author: Disturbing french chef I'm applying to things in lots of cities. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911069) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:06 PM Author: Aggressive Police Squad Dood, why did you respond to this girl about the recipe? The ONLY correct response after she was like "Uhhh no sorry" was to ignore her. Now you've successfully let her (1) reject you completely and (2) make her feel like she's not the bad one and that she's still in control because you are still buddies.
More generally, WTF is wrong with you? Almost each step her was a mistake. At the beginning you should have said something like "Hey hon, no worries, not really up for a big group thing tonight. Have fun with your friends - maybe we'll reschedule sometime soon." Every time I have done this to a girl she is silent for a little while and then makes an effort to see me.
Rule #1 bro, do NOT converse with girls who have made clear that they don't want to sleep with you. Do not waste time on "friend" activities. These girls will NEVER introduce you to other girls because they want to be in control. It just trains you to be a moron around girls. Most of us learned this in high school, seems like you are a little late to the game here, bro. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:16 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Tbf, I didn't respond with the recipe and was pretty cold IMO when she asked for details. (See the, "It had a mirepoix and chicken. Try French chicken." comment, after she asked for the name of it.) Of course the recipe was bookmarked but I told her it wasn't. When she showed me a screenshot of it I said "looks right." I did not go out of my way to help.
Rest of your post seems credited.
I knew not to waste time on a friend activity which is why I turned the group thing down. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:21 PM Author: ivory contagious milk i know you think you weren't being helpful about the recipe, but the other poaster is right---this was not really a good response. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911058) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:45 PM Author: cowardly son of senegal gaping no no no no no. you did not sound cold and in control there. you sound like a whiny pouting faggy bitch being passive aggressive and sulking in response to her behavior, which absolutely confirms to her that she did the right thing in not interacting with you.
step one. delete her number.
step two. approach other women.
step three. repeat step two OVER AND OVER.
DO NOT RESPOND TO HER. she already proved to you that she has no respect whatsoever for your needs or desires. why would you continue to feed her the attention she wants when she's utterly unwilling to reciprocate? |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:47 PM Author: Disturbing french chef One is done. Two and Three - OK.
Never respond to her? Really? It's not like I won't see her a few times over the next month before graduating. I don't want it to be awkward. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 2:21 PM Author: cowardly son of senegal gaping say hello politely, excuse yourself, and go talk to another girl. preferably a hotter one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911496) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 2:31 PM Author: Disturbing french chef What about texts? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911545) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 2:36 PM Author: cowardly son of senegal gaping what part of no response do you not understand? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911579) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 2:54 PM Author: ivory contagious milk TCR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911656) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:20 PM Author: ivory contagious milk this is cr advice. especially the part about them not wanting to see you hook up with other girls. girls are weird like that--they don't want to fuck you, but can't stand the idea of someone they've got control of hooking up with someone else.
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:21 PM Author: Disturbing french chef Tempted to change Fb status to "in a relationship." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911055) |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 12:22 PM Author: ivory contagious milk lol, that probably has a better chance of working than being friendly to her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911061) |
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Date: April 1st, 2013 9:01 PM Author: curious kitchen I get the feeling you might actually do this.
Don't. |
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Date: March 31st, 2013 3:01 PM Author: swollen ratface this thread again? how many times does doobs have to get friendzoned before he gets a clue. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#22911690) |
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Date: July 31st, 2015 5:09 PM Author: histrionic idea he suggested i didn't even know you could bump a thread this old (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#28451658) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2015 6:22 PM Author: diverse degenerate LOL. what a creepy faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29023618) |
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Date: October 22nd, 2015 6:29 PM Author: histrionic idea he suggested (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29023675) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 8:32 AM Author: narrow-minded casino fortuitous meteor Real confidence booster knowing Doobs was being friend zoned while I was banging Catholic sluts in high school. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027228) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 9:15 AM Author: Mint razzle nibblets church building Styling on doobs is not a fucking accomplishment, buster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027353) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 9:20 AM Author: narrow-minded casino fortuitous meteor Not if you see a little shred of Doobs himself in yourself. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027376) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 9:23 AM Author: Mint razzle nibblets church building You're overthinking this man. Do some acid at a music festival (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027384) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2015 9:50 AM Author: painfully honest depressive Doobs demonstrated an astounding level of autism itt (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=2217254&forum_id=2#29027489) |
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