everything was set up perfectly. she's was willing, up for meeting tonight, and was cheerful and responsive every step of the way. but i think she might be a literal whore. i chickened out, burned my burner number and deactivated my account.
i've never been with a chick anywhere close to this hot. it just felt wrong. i'm such a loser. can't even pay for something good. i blew it, right?
Date: September 30th, 2015 10:49 PM Author: Excitant stead
right, and she was willing to do something longer term too. maybe i would've hated myself, but i also doubt i would've stopped at one time either. i guess that's when it becomes dangerous.
poaster above is accurate that my previous best is average/plain.
I doubt you would stop. Once you've done it once it would probably escalate and you'd get with this one multiple times, then start wondering about others and pretty soon be regularly fucking whores. I guess you're already on that road though given that you paid money for a SA membership(and it's not like they're cheap).
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:05 PM Author: Excitant stead
yeah, i rationalized paying for a one-month membership on the idea that it's the same price as a good sushi meal or upscale steak dinner and would be a taste of something different. but of course, it worked out almost too quickly and easily and i'm already at the brink.
I didn't know he was married when I wrote that poast, but I agree. Once you've fucked even ONE hot chick you'll never be satisfied with a 6 or lower, and even the 6 can be pushing it. Fucking an 8+ is a powerful experience for a d00d.
Date: October 1st, 2015 12:20 AM Author: massive appetizing sweet tailpipe
below 6 is where they start to get plain and pudgy. I'd rather jerk off than do that. A 6 is either thin and fairly plain with a hint of prettiness in the face, or avg to slightly overweight body with a nice face. That's what it takes to turn me on . . . at least some attractive aspect to focus on and the rest is not overtly objectionable.
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:14 PM Author: Excitant stead
shit, maybe i should try to salvage this, not think and just go for it and worry about the consequences later. otherwise i'm literally going to live life not having fucked a 7+, which seems ridiculous given my resources and opportunity here.
Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:19 AM Author: puce crawly telephone boltzmann
Nah, generic husband such as OP can ride this out as long as he's careful about it. He'll need to bang like half a dozen girls of this caliber or better, but eventually he will realize that they're all dumb coozes and a premium sex robot would be an upgrade. My only advice to OP if he's gone this far would be to actually go even hotter (i.e. dat 180 ass plus some 550+cc upgrades) and be willing to pay an unreasonable premium for the privilege, because that makes it much harder to do regularly/compulsively. Literally the best thing to do in this situation if you can afford it is to fuck one of your favorite pornstars.
But if he's already built a life worth living with a woman he cares about that's a completely different thing, and there's no reason to fuck that up feeling guilty about a typical male sex drive and sexual curiosity, as long as that drive/curiosity is properly managed. Marriage is a property transaction and the deepest possible trust relationship, but in a lot of cases there are just certain things you can't share, and it's really stupid that the American marriage template makes us feel so much guilt about that. Cheatmoing with whores is a selfish choice, but not really any more selfish than a woman who is spending large amounts of the combined assets of the marital estate on herself to deal with her own insecurities and problems that she doesn't feel safe sharing with her husband. Cheatmoing with IRL people like co-workers or old flames or whatever is a much greater betrayal (i.e. how women ALWAYS do it) and going to see a literal sex pro a few times can actually reduce the appeal and likelihood of IRL people.
LOL just saw this is three years old. SA has gone way downhill or this guy was obvious flame?
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:37 PM Author: Excitant stead
the ass is exquisite though. if she shows up as a fat then it's not happening. but i also think she might be hispanic, in which case it's not hard to believe that she's strapped for cash and willing to whore herself out to make ends meet despite being hot.
i still say it's an above-average face. sure, a lot of it is that she's like 21 and i'm in my 30s, but that's part of it. i'm not in the game for girls that age in my everyday life, and a surprising number of chicks on here that age have weird piercings or trashy tattoos across their chest (fucking millennials) - at least this one has maintained some natural integrity.
Date: September 30th, 2015 10:39 PM Author: Excitant stead
tbf i took the jack off advice that someone poasted here the other day right before chickening out. but now two hours later am beginning to regret it. wife sucking me off is also only good for like an evening.
then just do it, i promise you the next day you are going to be freaking out about your wife finding out or some dumb bullshit, who knows she may even find out and take 99% of your net worth in court
Date: September 30th, 2015 10:37 PM Author: Salmon Soul-stirring Pit
if you hate yourself this much for canceling you would probably hate yourself even more for going through with it. you gotta work on your psyche brother.
Date: September 30th, 2015 10:40 PM Author: Excitant stead
yeah that's pretty clear. first kid's on the way too and the reality of what's upcoming and out of my control is daunting. but there's no escaping it. certainly not like this.
Date: August 3rd, 2018 10:06 AM Author: puce crawly telephone boltzmann
The time savings alone, even if you can pull reasonably hot chicks via a typical organic pump and dump scheme, makes it completely rational CBA. The only thing that competes is an immediate zero cost bang tinder slore, and in that instance I would actually be WAY MORE worried about STD bc she's no doubt super crazy and does this all the time, probably rides 20 dicks a week bareback. A literal whore has a revenue stream to protect.
Date: September 30th, 2015 10:46 PM Author: Excitant stead
she agreed to meet me at a hotel but we were not going to discuss numbers until in person. i was theoretically willing to drop a hefty amount on this if necessary just as a one-time thrill, if nothing more, and then go from there.
I'm legitimately dating a girl from SA and it's been going really well. Never expected any $$$ and she's been a very low cost GF on average. Most of the time she comes over, we fuck, play video games, and watch some horror movies. Maybe take her out to dinner somewhere that costs $25-$40.
IMO SA is the best dating site bar none for a young attractive guy with $$$ because the average attractiveness of the girls is much higher, girls outnumber guys, and the guys are old and gross. There is no competition. Just put in your profile that you're looking to date normally and many chicks will go with it.
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:12 PM Author: Excitant stead
absolutely this. it's almost too easy if you're young and have $$$ to blow, and no matter the arrangement you end up at worst spending as much as you would on a traditional relationship anyway.
of course, the math doesn't quite work out for me since this would be extra on the side.
Date: October 1st, 2015 12:45 AM Author: massive appetizing sweet tailpipe
no, never anything even approaching that. she drives about 1.5 hours each way to see me and pays for that herself, and i pay when we go out and i buy video games i think we'll both like.
she basically worships me and treats me like a god, offers to do housework for me (but I won't let her), and treats me way better than any of the many girls i met on traditional dating sites.
we have more in common than any of the other 50+ girls i've met carefully combing OKC profiles, writing clever CL ads, etc trying to find a girl just like this. It's funny because I'm sure I spent at minimum hundreds of hours on the aforementioned endeavors, then met this girl completely at random (her profile didn't indicate all the shared interests and I was texting her and 3 other chicks simultaneously trying to decide who I was going to try to hook up with while I was in her town).
When I went back to her place she had a ton of Xbox games and a Deadgirl DVD, which is one of my top 5 movies but super-obscure and you can only get a DVD ordering online. So, I liked her right away but was reluctant to date her seriously because she's overweight and I'd never done that before. She's been buying chicken breasts and ON whey protein and has been lifting (down 8 lbs in a few months), so I agreed to be her BF. Never in my life have I seen a girl as eager to get in a relationship with me.
Date: October 1st, 2015 2:00 AM Author: massive appetizing sweet tailpipe
well yeah, that was the plan and then i met someone i really liked and went with it.
finding someone nice and attractive who shares my interests is almost impossible given that my main interests are video games, professional wrestling, anime, and horror movies (with a particular interest in serial killer/torture porn movies).
i made it a condition of dating her that she get in shape. she'll be really attractive in about 6 months. from my past experience i know training her and waiting for her to get fit is likely to be easier and faster than finding a suitable GF who is already hot. dating prospects are pretty limited in the small city i moved to anyway.
you act like i'm retarded for picking based on compatibility/personality rather than temporary body state, but it was a carefully considered and rational decision.
Date: October 2nd, 2015 11:34 AM Author: adventurous reading party
So you're legitimately dating a girl who has already displayed her willingness to engage in sexual relationships for monetary gain? Zero red flags with that one!
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:19 PM Author: Excitant stead
this is good advice. it's not that i'm at risk of falling in love with someone else. i really just want to experience a slampiece because, hell, why wouldn't you?
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:43 PM Author: metal den really tough guy
bro stop being a pussy cover your tracks and try it.
if you been banging average alices and below your duration of your existence a world of discovery awaits. you don't really like your life that much anyway so you might as well add some spice to it. amirite??
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:56 PM Author: Excitant stead
yeah probably, although by most rational metrics i live a charmed and entitled life. not sure what broke me. when i was a teen all i dreamed about was a loving wife, a nice house and raising a couple kids together. but somehow that changed.
Date: September 30th, 2015 11:57 PM Author: Excitant stead
ok, i followed up with a message suggesting alternative dates and she's read it. let's see if she's written me off as a flake or whether i fucking go for some sweet ass.
Date: October 1st, 2015 11:13 AM Author: Umber Contagious Tanning Salon Kitty
On the one hand this will likely be disastrous for your marriage. On the other, to go through life having never banged a moderately attractive girl....
Date: October 1st, 2015 1:07 PM Author: Excitant stead
as of this morning she hasn't responded. it's a new personal low to have blown my chances . . . with a literal whore. her cell # was lost too when i burned my burner # - i wasn't thinking clearly and didn't write it down. i know she's legit because her # was included in some online email to a prof. about summer studies. so she was real and spectacular and i didn't go through with it.
wish SA had been around before i got hitched. that way i could've fucked hot girls, gotten it out of my system, and then settled down. as it stands, everything is fine with the home life but i feel i've missed out on a critical life experience unless i do something really selfish and potentially destructive to my home life.
tl;dr - don't get into committed relationships until you've let everything else run its course.