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IN THE THREAD, NASC EXPLAINS FEMALE PSYCHOLOGY
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:28 PM Author: French deer antler voyeur Go!
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:30 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Women fuck men with high social value. You have low social value, as do I. We are left unfucked. If we do somehow manage to get a woman, she will cuckholdpwn us with a higher value male. That's women in a nutshell. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019716) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:33 PM Author: talking magical codepig this is one aspect of female psychology, perhaps the most important as well. However, one important thing about the female psyche is that contradition is not a problem to it, so you can use various other aspects of the female psyche to turn it on itself and confuse it, rendering the female momentarily open game. Once you have managed to squeeze your way in, if you so desire, its relatively easy to flip her "I must keep this man at all costs" switch. Even if you are a male with little societal value. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019747) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:34 PM Author: Frisky arousing school This is the opposite of buyer's remorse. This is an ego driven failure to admit a mistake. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019768) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:44 PM Author: French deer antler voyeur hahahahaha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019877) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:34 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Intriguing, where can I learn more about this trickery? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019771) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:40 PM Author: talking magical codepig basically it boils down to the females need to ahve attention. Many men think that ignoring women is the best way, and while for some desirable men that works, for the majority of men the best strategy is a periodic alternation of attention and ignoring. All women desire some amount of attention from all guys, get her to start to get used to your attention and then withdraw it. Wait a good amount of time where her withdrawal symptoms are greatest and then relieve it. She will often confuse this relieving of withdrawal pain with love, even if she doesn't really desire you at all. And with the female psyche, confusing soemthing with love actually then turns it into love (because with the female psyche, how something feels ultimately decides what that thing is) and causes her "keep the man at all costs" instinct to turn on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019844) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:42 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Ah, yes, I've heard of this. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019853) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 6:43 PM Author: Underhanded crotch laser beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5022923) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:42 PM Author: Frisky arousing school credited intermittent reinforcement is the most powerful of course, chicks use it to bond men to them, too |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:46 PM Author: talking magical codepig except it only works for chicks on men if the man is very attracted to begin with. The thing about women is that this can work even if she wasn't really interested in you at first. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019907) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:48 PM Author: Frisky arousing school This is true The one chick I was irrationally hooked on was at least a 7.5. She played me like a fucken salmon. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:49 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry A 7.5 ain't that bad to get hooked on, dood. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019952) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:49 PM Author: talking magical codepig yes, I've had this happen to me. And the crazy part is that it doesn't help to know that its happening. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019958) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:49 PM Author: Cerise casino genital piercing unfortunately, this is probably true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019954) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:51 PM Author: Fear-inspiring Really Tough Guy Brunch yasfrat (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019972) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:15 PM Author: racy lay Please define. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020156) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:57 PM Author: Crimson base This is true. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020030) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:05 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020085) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 6:41 PM Author: Underhanded crotch laser beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5022901) |
Date: February 7th, 2006 1:30 PM Author: talking magical codepig The first thing that you need to realize is that women don't think like you. Guys always say they don't understand women, because for some reason they assume that they think in the same basic manner. Guys tend to think in logical ways, even if its flawed logic (as it most often is) there is some attempt at logic. Once you replace this assumption with empirical data gathered from observation and interaction, I think anybody can understand women. Women think in recondite feelings and emotions that are often contradictory (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019717) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:32 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre one truism is that nothing matters more to her than how she feels at this exact moment (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019733) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:33 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Exactly. This is why it's so easy for women to cheat. It's not that they don't love you, but they have such strong feeling at a given moment they can't help themselves. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019753) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:36 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre yeah. the whole "i'm worth it!" crap. this is why i hate women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019791) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:46 PM Author: well-lubricated misanthropic boltzmann business firm you paint with too wide of a brush. i have many faults, but i can swear to anyone and everyone, that i will never cheat b/c it's wrong. and that feeling would override any feeling at some given moment. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019913) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:48 PM Author: talking magical codepig yes, there are certainly some women that have a general feelirule (what I term rules for women, since they are primarily emotionally based) that prevents cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019943) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:53 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry jakki, you are a very sweet girl, and you may be part of the .01% of women worth a shit. I heart you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019994) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:56 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre maybe you're different, but honestly, i bet even you would sleep with some stud and cheat on a bf/husband, if your emotions said to. this is the nature of women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020018) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:15 PM Author: Sable gunner This isn't true for everyone. There are a select few females that think rationally more often than emotionally, and can control themselves. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020155) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:17 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre honestly, i strongly suspect that you are one of those. you seem to use your brain more than most any woman i've talked to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020170) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:25 PM Author: Sable gunner Thank you. And I get feedback from other people in my life that leads me to believe this as well, though they often don't put it as nicely as you have. To many who know me I am "cold, unfeeling, and selfish." Many of them mean that in a derogatory way, because I won't indulge their irrationality, but I take it as a compliment. I detest people who let their emotions rule their lives and can't see more than twenty-four hours into the future. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020233) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:46 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre the brain of a man with the body of a hawt chick. you cannot lose there. i hate hysterical women. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020442) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 3:05 PM Author: Sable gunner Most guys are turned off by my assertiveness/non-girlieness. Luckily I found one that isn't, and he's found out just how feminine I can be. :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020676) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:47 PM Author: well-lubricated misanthropic boltzmann business firm absolutely 0 chance. because it would be wrong to him and b/c i couldn't respect myself either if it did that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020448) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:33 PM Author: talking magical codepig one thing does matter more, my friend. The nagging suspicion that all women have that they will die alone. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019761) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:37 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre they dont give a sh1t. if they have feelings that say "cheat on Jim and get it on with Joe," they'll do it and not think twice. they're just thrown around by their emotions with no direction or thought. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019796) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry So? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019807) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre so, dont fall in love with one or trust one. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019821) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:39 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019832) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: Frisky arousing school Guys are equally likely/unlikely to do this. This might just fight your mental expectations of chicks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019813) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:39 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Incorrect. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019826) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:40 PM Author: Frisky arousing school Men are more faithful than women?!? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019838) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:42 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry yup (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019861) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:44 PM Author: talking magical codepig this only happens if the woman:
A) feels like you will give her another chance or you won't find out
B) Feels like Joe can give her a greater gurantee of status and a higher probability of not leaving her with old age
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:57 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre no. that's how a man would think. women do not think. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020029) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:59 PM Author: talking magical codepig that was why "feel" was the key word. They don't actively think about it. They may cover-up rationalize it by things like "I just don't feel loved anymore" or "he sparked something in me that I haven't felt in a long time" or various other trite sayings.
Women have long term and short term feelings. You seem to only focus on their short term feelings. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:02 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre the feelings just gyrate wildly from moment to moment and the woman follows them wherever they go. i doubt they have any long-term ones. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020068) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:03 PM Author: Frisky arousing school Why do you say this? edit: give an example. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:07 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre okay. i asked a girl out a few years ago. i found at, afterwards, that she had a boyfriend (she told me). at first, she said no, for this reason. then, later that very morning, she came over and said yes (after crying and dithering, she later told me, and being unable to decide). then, later the *same day*, she cried some more, changed her feelings, and decided not to go out with me.
then, a few days later, she did go out with me.
not a single thing changed other than her silly emotions. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:10 PM Author: Frisky arousing school Subject: Loving Spoonful: happens to guys as well Did You Ever Have To Make Up Your Mind lyrics:
{Refrain 1} Did you ever have to make up your mind Pick up on one and leave the other behind It's not often easy and not often kind Did you ever have to make up your mind
{Refrain 2} Did you ever have to finally decide Say yes to one and let the other one ride There's so many changes and tears you must hide Did you ever have to finally decide
Sometimes there's one with big blue eyes, cute as a bunny With hair down to here, and plenty of money And just when you think she's that one in the world You heart gets stolen by some mousey little girl
And then you know you'd better make up your mind... {Refrain 1}
Sometimes you really dig a girl the moment you kiss her And then you get distracted by her older sister When in walks her father and takes you aside And says, "You better go home, son, and make up your mind"
And then you bet you'd better finally decide...
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:12 PM Author: talking magical codepig This sort of proves what you were denying. THis is a vivid example of how women have long term feelings (staying with her boyfriend).
Women have a very difficult time putting their feelings in ordinal ranks, and thus you can often confuse them into a heap of indecision. This doesn't mean that these long term feelings don't exist though. It jsut means that its very hard for a woman to give them a precise ranking at any specific point in time. Over the long run, some feelings will more consistently get her to decide oen way rather than the other, and can thus be said to be the stronger feelings, but in any specific case, its just as imprecise (and quite analgous to) quantum mechanics. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:14 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre i dont think so. she gets one feeling "i love my bf, i want to stay with him." five minutes later, she says "i want Don's big italian sausage in my vag." then the "no, i love my bf." it's ridiculous. and she acted on exactly what she felt at the moment, changing her mind over and over. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020152) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:18 PM Author: racy lay I like you, but there's a VERY good reason why this isn't a "Don Barzini explains the female psyche" thread. You're arguing about a topic that you know nothing about, as your posts clearly illustrate.
Women are not completely random. NASC is trying to explain the method behind the madness. If you listen rather than argue, you might learn something. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:24 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre i just dont think there is any real method. this is why women brazenly cheat on men who provide for them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020217) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:26 PM Author: racy lay Some women don't, but it's as much about the man as it is about the woman. Men can prevent women from cheating. As long as you convince yourself that it's unavoidable, you're guaranteed to be a chump who gets cheated on. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020242) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:26 PM Author: talking magical codepig often this is because the man isn't giving the woman enough attention. The attention whore drive is one of the strongest emotional drives that any woman has. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020246) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:27 PM Author: racy lay Women do love attention. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020252) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:33 PM Author: motley sneaky criminal reading party I'll admit that this drive exists and is very strong. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020300) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:39 PM Author: talking magical codepig and its the closest thing to a universal in female psychology there is. The others can vary a great deal (as you often show), but the attention whore drive is at least 99% present. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020362) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:18 PM Author: Dead pervert Is it rape if she changes her mind mid-coit? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020180) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:19 PM Author: Frisky arousing school The Cal Supreme Court says it is. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020183) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:25 PM Author: talking magical codepig you're letting your frustration with the situation cloud your ability to see the dynamics of the situation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020227) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:27 PM Author: Crimson base It a twist, I think don is being irrationally emotional about the situation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020248) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:06 PM Author: talking magical codepig no, as I keep telling you, biological clock fear ticks loudly for all women and is one of their strongest feelings. It is also the single most long term feeling they have. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020093) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:08 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre but they still dont *think*. one day, they decide to get married so they can satisfy the biological clock feeling. tomorrow, she'll cheat and jeopardize the marriage to satisfy her feelings for some poolboy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020105) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:11 PM Author: Frisky arousing school like this happens life is not like desperate housewives hth |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:12 PM Author: talking magical codepig
Date: February 7th, 2006 1:44 PM Author: NASC (http://www.lawschoolnumbers.com/display.php?user=nascjacket)
this only happens if the woman:
A) feels like you will give her another chance or you won't find out
B) Feels like Joe can give her a greater gurantee of status and a higher probability of not leaving her with old age
(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019885)
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:15 PM Author: Frisky arousing school pool boy =/= higher status (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020154) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:26 PM Author: Crimson base OK, then I guess it is option A.
Also, "social status" is not easy to define--it's not just who is the most influential, richest, etc.--projecting confidence projects an image of high social status, which is why that is such a key in attracting women. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:28 PM Author: talking magical codepig its a subset of option A, obviously.
Its also usually due to her attention whore drive not being satisfied. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:18 PM Author: Sable gunner I think that it is a human problem in general, and not limited to women (of course, they do fall prey to this much more than men do). People let their emotions rule their lives and they make self-destructive decisions based on impulse rather than rational thought. This applies to both men and women. Men may be more rational, but they still manage to fuck up their lives because they can't control their urges, sexual or otherwise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020174) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:20 PM Author: Frisky arousing school exactly (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020191) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:25 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre true. men are not always rational. i think they tend to it more though.
that doesnt necessarily make them better people. a man might rationally decide that killing his wife is a good idea, for example. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:28 PM Author: Sable gunner Well, he wouldn't "rationally" decide it, but he might rationalize his decision. Men are really good at coming up with reasons for what they do, but sometimes the actual cause is just as silly as what provokes a woman. I have little respect for anyone who acts that way, male or female. It is just that I haven't met any other women like myself, and I have met many men, and I really believe that most women aren't capable of reason like men are. Some are, but most aren't, and some men aren't either. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020262) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:32 PM Author: Dark electric dopamine fucking whores. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019742) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:33 PM Author: Frisky arousing school Women think more like guys than you suspect. Only their basic premise is different: they have the pussy - we want it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019755) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:35 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Wrong. They think entirely differently. Entirely. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019777) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:36 PM Author: talking magical codepig While the second part of your sentence is certainly true, and often plays in, I doubt the veracity of the first part. Women go about their mental lives in fundamentally different ways. While all women occasionally use their logical abilities and some women are as logical as men, both of these are the exception to the rule. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019785) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre WRONG. women do not *think* at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019810) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: silver faggot firefighter titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019818) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage this thread is primarily bullshit.
i will tell u how women think. they don't. they are just like men in the sense that they just do whatever makes them happy. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:38 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry So battered women actually like it? Fucking lying bitches. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019815) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:42 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre of course. why do you think they go back with the guy over and over?
i tried to help a girl who was getting beaten once. she's still with the guy, entirely of her own volition. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:55 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage tcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020010) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:57 PM Author: talking magical codepig no, they don't like the actual battering. They like that a guy who is "so much better than them that they can beat them" likes them. Its a fucked up downward cycle. It primarily plays off the "keep the guy at all costs" emotional apparatus and also the low self-esteem apparatus. The "my love will fix him" emotional apparatus often comes into play as well, but not always. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020034) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:04 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre i think they just love being subjugated, "put in their place." it's stupid but i think that's the reality. they love it.
and yes, they stupidly believe they can "change him." |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:08 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage god, yes. this is true. lol
my roommate is a lesbian, and her big, butch puerto rican girlfriend is married to some other lesbian from france.
the pr chick beats the shit out of my roommate to the point where she has black eyes and scratches and shit, curses her out, tells her she cheats on her IN ADDITION to her being married to this other woman, and my roommate crawls the fuck back to her and eats her pussy every week. it is vomitrocious.
some people just are attracted to drama.
the "he beats me because he loves me" thing is so cliche, but so true in the eyes of these women. they honestly think that the more a man treats them like shit, the more he must love them. "if he didn't care, he wouldn't do this..." etc.
and nothing makes a woman happier than the idea that she is loved. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:13 PM Author: talking magical codepig its also the fear that she *might not* love her and doing anything she can to make sure that she does love her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020144) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:21 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage maybe i should abridge my statement to "nothing makes a woman happier than the idea that she could be loved." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020198) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 3:04 PM Author: talking magical codepig no, I think you were on to something. But its the contradictory of these two feelings that makes the emotional impact of they dynamic so strong. On the one hand she feels loved, but on the other she is intensely afraid that she isn't loved or that the love could be lost. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020666) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:15 PM Author: Shivering home mood Holy shit.
I think it's time to stage an intervention. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:20 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage i tried. she stopped talking to the puerto rican for two and a half weeks and got a good job. then, the puerto rican came over w/o invite and cried and ate my roommate out, and she's been over every other night since.
oh yes, and she also stopped talking to all of her friends since then. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:16 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre yeah. they WANT you to be controlling. in the past, when i was *not* controlling of a woman (like, telling her which friends he could see, etc.) she'd get mad and think i didnt care about her.
it's like a dog or a little kid. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:39 PM Author: Frisky arousing school I must credit wydo's response. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019831) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:40 PM Author: Drab Mad-dog Skullcap So, you cheat on your boyfriend? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019840) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:56 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage i <3 my sugar baby and my sugar baby <3s me.
don't hate, honey. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:41 PM Author: Clear Soggy Affirmative Action DING! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019847) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:41 PM Author: bull headed fiercely-loyal messiness set Doing whatever makes you happy actually requires a lot of thinking. We are better at it than you, which is why you spend most of your lives cleaning our urine off the toilet seat... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019848) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:43 PM Author: Frisky arousing school but not without bitching endlessly about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019869) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:43 PM Author: Dashing duck-like theatre yes. they do what their emotions say to do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019870) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:51 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house titcr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019977) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:47 PM Author: Clear Soggy Affirmative Action Ladder theory. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019930) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:52 PM Author: talking magical codepig while the ladder theory is often accurate, there are many ways to get around it. Part of a hidden assumption that the ladder theory makes is that men do not understand the the female psyche.
Also, the ladder theory overly subscribes to the "asshole approach" whereas a combination of the nice guy and asshole approach works best. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:54 PM Author: Frisky arousing school Minimum 10% asshole. If you're 100% nice, this plays into women's lack of self-esteem: "Since I know I'm not worth this much attention, this guy must be a loser." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020003) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:55 PM Author: talking magical codepig yes, certainly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020013) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:48 PM Author: Dead pervert Actually, this is accurate advice. A+ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019937) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:50 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house his knowitall attitude is so annoying. but i guess he already knew that b/c he is atune to female psychology (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019966) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:51 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Ugly chicks need to be fed compliments. This isn't widely discussed because no one gives a shit about ugly chicks and it hurts your game with hot ones. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019982) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:58 PM Author: At-the-ready Red Station Blood Rage :D...u r wise beyond ur pussy acquirement. stupid bitches need to be told they are smart.
ugly women need to be told they are beautiful.
whores need to be told that their past doesn't matter.
knowing these things will get u into a woman's panties quicker than a heartbeat. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:01 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry haha ty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020055) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:54 PM Author: talking magical codepig in my defense I was asked to have a "knowitall" attitude in this thread. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019999) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:56 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house the fact that you answered means you believe you could handle it moron. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020024) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:00 PM Author: talking magical codepig I don't go out of my way to insult you. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020053) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:30 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house and so i cant complain about you? what? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020280) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:37 PM Author: talking magical codepig complaining about me is entirely different from going out of your way to call me a moron. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020341) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:39 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house i guess youve moved on from your knowitall mode to your selfrighteous mode (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020352) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:40 PM Author: talking magical codepig I'm not being self-righteous, its just annoying that you go out of your way to insult me. I'm sorry you don't care for me, but I don't see what good it does to constantly exclaim how much you don't like me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020377) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:41 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house if that so then what good do you see in constantly responding w/ the same tripe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020385) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:47 PM Author: talking magical codepig because its civil to respond to someone who responds to you.
I'd like it if you cared for me, but obviously its something that has to do with you disliking my core personality, so obviously there isn't anything I can do about it.
I guess I'll jsut start ignoring you then? |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 4:49 PM Author: Gaped twinkling property generalized bond Aren't you the bitch who used a different moniker to make complimentary remarks about one of your own posts? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5021751) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:17 PM Author: light hall windowlicker back off bitch. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020168) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:30 PM Author: jet-lagged excitant turdskin house defending your boyfriend online. how sweet. i am sorry that your fat ass has such low self esteem that you have to date someone like him. i pity you (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020275) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:32 PM Author: light hall windowlicker hahaha online boyfriend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020288) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:40 PM Author: Shivering home mood LOL! (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020370) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:58 PM Author: Frisky arousing school but his knowitall attitude causes samantha to respect nasc, bc he backs it up with knowledge. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020041) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:50 PM Author: Dark electric dopamine NASC I need your expert advice, email me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019970) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:53 PM Author: talking magical codepig okay still homerj@gmail.com? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019992) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:02 PM Author: Dark electric dopamine hjs80@hotmail.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020069) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:51 PM Author: Dead pervert NASC, i need your advice, too. seriously. can i email you my question? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5019980) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 1:54 PM Author: talking magical codepig yeah, nascjacket@gmail.com (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020004) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:01 PM Author: Dead pervert sent. don't worry, this is an utterly douchey problem/question. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020060) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:05 PM Author: talking magical codepig replied. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020082) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:07 PM Author: Dead pervert replied (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020099) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:13 PM Author: Dead pervert finally went through. gmail sucked ass for a second (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020143) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:21 PM Author: Dark electric dopamine sent (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020197) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:49 PM Author: maniacal comical coldplay fan OK, so how about some practical tips here. My last serious relationship was doomed because I try to be as rational as possible and I couldn't respect her emotional thought processes. What's a guy to do? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020481) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:51 PM Author: talking magical codepig deal with her emotional thought process. It sucks, but you have to make concessions to it for it to work. You have to occasionally do irrational things and allow irrational behavior. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020508) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:51 PM Author: Crimson base Remember when you were five and you used to pretend that your megatron toy was actually transforming into a cannon and flying across the sky to shoot optimus prime?
Use that for guidance. |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:52 PM Author: talking magical codepig much better than my explanation, 172. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020522) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:55 PM Author: maniacal comical coldplay fan Guidance is, I outgrew that because it was silly. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020558) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 2:57 PM Author: talking magical codepig the thing is that there is no good solution. You can't just turn her into a dude with titties and vag. I mean snakes on a fucking plane. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020582) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 3:07 PM Author: maniacal comical coldplay fan ...or CAN i? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020696) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 3:08 PM Author: talking magical codepig the switch has never been achieved in the history of western civilization. Many have tried, none have succeeded. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5020717) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 3:47 PM Author: maniacal comical coldplay fan Fuck. I'm far too stubborn about this stuff. There's no way I'll manage to have a successful relationship for the next decade. Maybe once the fear of dying alone sinks in I'll change. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5021172) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 4:23 PM Author: Crimson base That's sort of what did/is doing it for me. Terrible. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5021540) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 4:11 PM Author: salmon old irish cottage faggotry Emotions are much easier to manipulate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#5021422) |
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Date: February 7th, 2006 4:52 PM Author: Gaped twinkling property generalized bond Dearest Susie,
I’m not sure if this is the correct way to go about telling you the things I must tell you. If it were possible, it would be preferable to tell them to you face to face. However, I think at this point, I couldn’t look into your eyes without regaining a sort of hope, that you will see, renders me unable to say this to you.
Susie, I adore you. You know this, if you don’t it is only because you won’t let yourself believe it. Fulfillment is not the correct word, but it is as close as I can come in a single word to describing the feeling of looking over to my side of the bed at Eight A.M. and seeing you breathing gently there. Why do I adore you? I don’t know. I know I love talking to you, I think you’re beautiful, I feel like you understand me, I think of you as my intellectual equal. All these things are certainly true, but they could be true of a great many women. What scares me but what makes me think its real, when very few of my feelings in life have been real, is that I cannot explain or rationalize why I feel like I do about you.
I think you like me. I think that maybe even had the circumstances been different we may have dated longer or even gone so far as being boyfriend and girlfriend. But I know you don’t feel as I do and under no circumstances will you, no matter how much I hope for the opposite to be true. I know a girl doesn’t tell a guy she wants to be with that she will not exclusively date anybody and then proceed to exclusively date somebody else. I know a girl doesn’t invite a guy she wants to be with to hang out with her and her boyfriend. I don’t blame you for these things, on the contrary, without them I may have deluded myself much longer.
I want for us to be friends. I honestly do. I don’t need for us to be friends, in fact it is probably the last thing on earth that I do need. But I want it. I have to realize some things if it is to work though. We can’t be alone together. I think we both knew at the time and we certainly both know by now that us going to Richmond for dinner is a terrible idea. I want it so much, but I want it under different circumstances. I actually would like it under these circumstances, but I also know how easy it is for me to begin deluding myself again with thoughts that there is a chance for there to one day be an us. I think we both know that us sleeping in the same bed together is a terrible idea. It is a very odd feeling, knowing that the thing that has made you the happiest you’ve been in a long time is also the last thing in the world you need. Your feelings want to lash out at your logic. It’s not healthy.
I’m never going to be happy or comfortable around your boyfriend or boyfriends or guys you are dating. I like xxxx, he’s a cool guy, if I felt differently about you I might even hope that you two would get more serious. I don’t want to hang out with him or have a drink with him or even talk to him. I certainly don’t want to do any of that with you there.
I hope none of this hurts you. That’s the last thing I want. I’m sorry that I am the way I am and that all this is even necessary. I don’t want you to think any of this is your fault, not that you would, but you might and its not. I will probably be weird for a while and I hope that if I’m distant that doesn’t hurt you. I don’t think you have any idea how much I want to be doing the opposite of what I’m doing now. Maybe what I’m doing is way too emo or maybe its psycho, but it is who I am and I think that if I owe you anything it is to be completely honest with how I feel about you.
I just don’t think I will get over you if I keep seeing you so much. Just when I think I’m over you, I can look at you and realize I’m not. Maybe if I forget for long enough I won’t be able to remember. I’m not saying that I don’t want to see you at all, but it can’t be as much and it can’t be in a very personal way.
Susie, I’ve meant everything I’ve ever said to you. I don’t know of anybody else that I can say that about. And I mean everything I am saying now. I adore you and I’m sorry that by some cruel trick of fate I’ve fallen for you. This is hard on me, but the saddest part is that having to shut you out from being a true friend. I know it’s not fair to you. I’m not entirely sure how much our friendship has meant to you, but I get the feeling at times it has meant a lot. I’m so sorry that I have to shut a good portion of that out. I’m sorry that I will probably never be able to watch you put on lipstick without wanting to immediately mess that lipstick up. I’m sorry that I’ll never be able to see you with another guy without wishing I were in his place. I’m sorry this had to happen to you.
Sincerely,
NASC |
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Date: December 10th, 2006 1:59 AM Author: talking magical codepig bump (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=355025&forum_id=2#7184358) |