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Wife gets depressed when looking at FB friends taking trips
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:52 PM Author: hairraiser personal credit line piazza our HHI is ~$300k and we save $7-8k/month in savings/investment/retirement funds. she sees her "friends" on FB poast pics of their lavish trips and she gets depressed. she says these friends don't really have great jobs or come from rich families, so why can they take these trips and we can't (we do take about one trip a year)? I tell her it's because we are going to come out at the end in a better position because of our savings. I'm not sure if this is cr advice to give and maybe we should just spend like her "friends" do, at least they are enjoying life more (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509661) |
Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:55 PM Author: ebony spectacular digit ratio Remind her that several of them are literally having poop thrown on their chest by Saudi princes so they can take these trips (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509700) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:57 PM Author: Boyish step-uncle's house ugh women and social media (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509716) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:29 PM Author: glittery ruddy death wish toaster (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510450) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:58 PM Author: Hateful State my facebook is just constant 24/7 binge travel. it doesnt even look fun, but tbf im a straight man. once/year is more than enough. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34509722) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 1:59 PM Author: bronze trip mexican abode FB working exactly as designed
Only real way to combat this is to keep fucking her all the time, even when you dont want to, and get her pregnant. Then, after babby, keep fucking her all the time |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:17 PM Author: Domesticated garrison "we are going to come out at the end in a better position"
what do you imagine is your end |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:19 PM Author: hairraiser personal credit line piazza idk, I'm just saying we'll have more money than her "friends" when we're older and in a better position to retire comfortably relative to them (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510399) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM Author: Talented jet-lagged stead Jokes on you you're "retirement" is gonna get raped and pilaged to pay for the proles (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510601) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:22 PM Author: nofapping ceo she’s more depressed that you don’t lavish her with gifts of travel than that her friends are going places
she wishes you wanted to do those things with her, despite savings goals
she’s thinks other couples are happier than you two are
as another poaster noted: facebook doing just as intended — equating strategically shared snippets of life with reality |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:26 PM Author: arousing bearded mad cow disease How often do you travel? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510426) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:28 PM Author: nofapping ceo 0 these days
post meeting husband and pre-babby, one big trip and 3-4 long weekends to random cities in US each year |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:30 PM Author: arousing bearded mad cow disease Lol yuuuge PROLE tell (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510458) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:31 PM Author: nofapping ceo I’m a happy prole (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510463) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:40 PM Author: Flesh Crotch Round Eye (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510534) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:44 PM Author: arousing bearded mad cow disease Don’t you have any places in the world you want to see (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510557) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:46 PM Author: nofapping ceo sure, plenty - I am not chill enough to travel to those places with a baby/toddler, though
excited to take lots of trips with the kid when he’s older |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:24 PM Author: glassy corn cake stag film lol.
women are so fucking retarded. how can it be that they know how to play the facebook game, but can't recognize when others are playing the same game? |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:32 PM Author: cerebral ape That's what gets me too. But some of them really do believe that they're exaggerating and that everyone else is doing it naturally. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510470) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:39 PM Author: White 180 Stock Car Space I've discussed this before on the bort. Your message is correct but make sure u present it persuasively. I work up spreadsheets on savings n investments, how much we'll have in x years, how much the 20k we'd blow on Somme safari would be worth in x years, and we hold regular summits to recommit to our shared savings goals. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510524) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:42 PM Author: frum heaven LMAO at marriedmos holding "summits" so their wives don't bankrupt them with their whims (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510548) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM Author: White 180 Stock Car Space A rational discussion to set and refocus goals is good for everyone involved, including me. I could go cop an m5 tonight, no sweat. I'd love to. Having a shared plan that we are both responsible for helps me avoid agonizing over retarded shit like that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510582) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM Author: White 180 Stock Car Space It's good for both of us, brother. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510587) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:54 PM Author: hairraiser personal credit line piazza true. she does understand the importance of saving but just hates how we worked so hard to get where we are today just to live the same type of lifestyle as her "friends" who haven't. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510633) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:59 PM Author: White 180 Stock Car Space Throw her a bone bro. Send her for a spa day or something. She can take some pics and it won't break the bank. Then get back to stacking cheddar. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510665) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:48 PM Author: Umber church building striped hyena you can go on trips and have fun without spending that much money (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510592) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 4:03 PM Author: nofapping ceo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510697) |
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Date: October 23rd, 2017 3:50 PM Author: cerebral ape Couldn't you add another trip? You're banking quite a bit each month. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34510604) |
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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:15 AM Author: High-end Thriller Public Bath This.
Wife is seeing everyone's highlight reel. Their life is (generally) no more exciting then hers.
My ex used to do this all the time, despite us going on many Vegas weekends, trips to Napa/Maui, etc. Nothing was ever enough for her to "compete" with her friends. She would get pissed when I didn't want to "compete" with them. |
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Date: October 24th, 2017 12:09 AM Author: Exhilarant Poppy Private Investor Lettuce yep, you will be able to bank all that money while grinding and not having fun when youre young, and hope that one of you dont beceome sick and die or unable to travle when you are 60-65 years old like that guy from UP :) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3772417&forum_id=2#34514613) |