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Theory: attachment disorders warp the dating market

Most people with secure attachment styles (2/3rds of the pop...
united states post office (retired)
  04/21/18
MODS!!!
typical lib pundit
  04/21/18
Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.
fscknut
  04/21/18
I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of t...
united states post office (retired)
  04/21/18
scholarship
''"''"''"''"
  04/21/18
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spaceporn2525
  04/21/18
MGTOW
White Power HVAC, LLC.
  04/21/18
hahahahaha holy shit
Bird Stomper
  04/21/18
the dating market creates attachment disorders
''"'"''"
  04/21/18
Chicken and the egg
united states post office (retired)
  04/21/18
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CharlesXII
  04/22/18
What is an “attachment disorder”?
Oh, you travel?
  04/21/18
anything other than MGTOW
Punctuation Monica
  04/21/18
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united states post office (retired)
  04/21/18
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'''''''"'"
  04/21/18
I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people...
.,.,,.,..,.,.,:,,:,..,:::,...,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.
  04/21/18
can you elaborate on attachment styles? i think i am also...
Deranged tinder pumo
  04/21/18
There's a million resources on attachment styles in relation...
united states post office (retired)
  04/21/18
Behold!
CapTTTainFalcon
  04/21/18
garbage dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3r...
HoldUpHoldUpWhat
  04/21/18
Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no ...
extremely online guy
  04/22/18
cr only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around ...
HoldUpHoldUpWhat
  04/22/18
credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. al...
lawdads8
  04/22/18
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Thanks Mario! But our partner is in another castle
  04/22/18


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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:37 AM
Author: united states post office (retired)

Most people with secure attachment styles (2/3rds of the population) pair up with one another and stay together for a very long time. They are off the dating market quickly. These are the people in long lasting, happy marriages.

The remaining one third remain in the dating market as sluts, shrews, strippers, incels, mgtows, chads, and everyone else who see sex far more as pleasure than as a connection. As a result, most people in the dating market are constantly playing out their scars created from early childhood and insecure attachment disorders. If you've been online dating for more than a year, chances are you're dating crazy people but you are crazy yourself. For the most part, you're all doomed and will forever live in a mental hell.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35886912)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:45 AM
Author: typical lib pundit

MODS!!!

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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:25 AM
Author: fscknut

Yeah pretty much. This is why I'm fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35887489)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: united states post office (retired)

I'm pretty sure I'm avoidant and want to fix this. One of the best ways to do so is to find someone who can securely attached, but they're becoming more rare as I get older

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891655)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 2:42 AM
Author: ''"''"''"''"


scholarship

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:54 AM
Author: spaceporn2525



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Date: April 21st, 2018 5:03 AM
Author: White Power HVAC, LLC. (whitepowerhvacllc@stormfront.org)

MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:28 AM
Author: Bird Stomper

hahahahaha holy shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35887333)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:32 AM
Author: ''"'"''"

the dating market creates attachment disorders

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35887345)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:13 PM
Author: united states post office (retired)

Chicken and the egg

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891659)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:37 AM
Author: CharlesXII (CharlesXII)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 8:58 AM
Author: Oh, you travel?

What is an “attachment disorder”?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35887403)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 9:00 AM
Author: Punctuation Monica

anything other than MGTOW

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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:14 AM
Author: united states post office (retired)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:16 AM
Author: '''''''"'"



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 AM
Author: .,.,,.,..,.,.,:,,:,..,:::,...,:,.,.:...:.,:.::,.


I would be surprised if your figure for proportion of people with secure attachment styles was right. It's also a staggeringly vauge concept, to the point were even those to whom the binary distinction applies are still going to have relationship ending psychological tendencies

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35887985)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:21 PM
Author: Deranged tinder pumo

can you elaborate on attachment styles?

i think i am also avoidant, i tend to reach for flaws in a person (or even in myself) as a reason to reject them. i push them away to see whether they come back, and i do this repeatedly until they don't come back, and then i feel sad about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891695)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:33 PM
Author: united states post office (retired)

There's a million resources on attachment styles in relationships. I would google it and read the clinical/psychological articles rather than any shitty buzzfeed links

https://en.m.wikipedia.org/wiki/Attachment_theory

https://www.atlantacenterforcoupletherapy.com/relationships-the-avoidant-style/

https://blogs.psychcentral.com/imperfect/2017/03/avoidant-attachment-style-change/

https://www.google.com/amp/s/www.psychologytoday.com/us/blog/the-mysteries-love/201503/how-change-your-attachment-style%3famp



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891742)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:23 PM
Author: CapTTTainFalcon

Behold!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891705)



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Date: April 21st, 2018 11:35 PM
Author: HoldUpHoldUpWhat

garbage

dating market and other forces operate on your 2/3rds

LJL

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35891751)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 1:38 AM
Author: extremely online guy

Not bad other than your statistics are retarded and make no sense

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35892325)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:02 AM
Author: HoldUpHoldUpWhat

cr

only makes sense insofar as women getting passed around on tinder get real fucked up

otherwise, worthless poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35892435)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 2:06 AM
Author: lawdads8 (0x122FE543166A7B3f26D5131495083fD653d4CBD2)

credited, but a little extreme w/ the last two sentences. also, a lot of people who were nerds or without social skills in high school/college "reliving" their youth and having lots of random hookups, chasing validation in their 20's on hookup apps

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35892458)



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Date: April 22nd, 2018 10:29 AM
Author: Thanks Mario! But our partner is in another castle



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=3955566&forum_id=2#35893347)