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I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:17 PM Author: hot rusted striped hyena I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. We have always been in an open relationship: we met at a sex party. When we met I was always a bottom and he a top. Over time, however, he has become obsessed with bottoming. He never penetrates me, even in a group, and has starting expressing jealousy about the tops that I attract. I feel he is throwing our life away in pursuit of a pipe dream and I long to get back the dominant top that I married – a role he is suited for physically. He has been looking at escort websites, which I find depressingly inevitable. How can I wake him up to reality?
Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence and it can lead to a shift in a person’s power exchange preferences, usually temporarily. This is less likely to happen when partners switch, exchanging roles from time to time, but clearly that is not for you. It might be wise to relax about this and try to tolerate – even support – his period of exploration. In fact, dominance and submission are not so different; just polarised aspects of the same erotic style. So some tops frequently fantasise about bottoming but are not prepared to practise it – and vice versa. The top usually does most of the work: initiates, arranges the scene, toys and so on, so your husband may want a break from the responsibility. I can understand your disappointment and fear of losing your preferred sexual style, but people and relationships change and evolve over time so it would be best to talk patiently and lovingly with your husband – without reproaching or blaming him – about what he is feeling and the reasons for this change. You need to understand each other. Gently express your sadness about the potential loss you are facing. Then do your best to show that you love and support him. |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:21 PM Author: slimy grizzly blood rage dog poop Pipe dream. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47660999) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:38 AM Author: Black mad-dog skullcap mental disorder ran here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663327) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:28 PM Author: Cordovan sweet tailpipe lettuce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663850) |
Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM Author: Purple soul-stirring faggotry 'married' (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47660991) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 PM Author: buck-toothed vigorous plaza organic girlfriend (bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+ year age gaps) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665844) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM Author: Filthy Library Mods. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47660995) |
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:22 PM Author: vibrant jewess rigpig Time to man up, doobs (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47661001) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 AM Author: hot rusted striped hyena (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663105) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:41 AM Author: lascivious chestnut skinny woman totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663115) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: Bespoke brilliant mexican (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663857) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 AM Author: Wonderful Tantric Idiot GLOBAL ISLAM NOW (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663156) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:14 AM Author: hot rusted striped hyena Summon UES jew (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663220) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:31 AM Author: Fishy Pit top burnout tp (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663294) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:37 AM Author: hot rusted striped hyena How do you address it? I'm a top btw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663318) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:39 AM Author: Fishy Pit Prep (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663330) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:15 PM Author: frozen cyan corner trust fund (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665780) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM Author: Cream prole cumskin Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663757) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM Author: hot rusted striped hyena Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can get a conversation started (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663761) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:27 PM Author: lascivious chestnut skinny woman does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663845) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM Author: Bespoke brilliant mexican this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663855) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:33 PM Author: lascivious chestnut skinny woman my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental health issues until one day his health teacher talked about top burnout. realizing that he didn't *always* have to top was such a huge relief. there's so much social pressure on boys to dominate each other. toxic masculinity! ever since he started bottoming he's more relaxed and we're seeing a dramatic improvement in his grades. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663863) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:36 PM Author: histrionic disrespectful national Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn't very understanding (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663869) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:06 PM Author: Ultramarine razzle fanboi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47663953) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:50 PM Author: lascivious chestnut skinny woman honey i can't, my top burnout. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665876) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 PM Author: Maize galvanic chapel (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665892) |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:07 PM Author: medicated irradiated codepig "in pursuit of a pipe dream "
can someone explain |
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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:13 PM Author: hot rusted striped hyena (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2#47665769) |