I'll still tell the story I was gonna tell if you were him: cslg tried to kiss me last year after spending hours bragging about fucking his early-20s client (behind his wife's back).  dude is depraved, his need for validation endless

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482169)

I also spent the whole time talking about the guy I was in love with; I could not have been clearer that I wasn't into him (cslg)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482251)

not even a "glad you're safe" or "thanks for coming out" smdh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482324)

probably should have been more clear

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482266)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482336)

I didn't even mean it in a rude way... it was a genuinely incredulous laugh.  I was taken aback bc I know and like his wife so why tf would I have any desire to help him cheat???  and also bc I had spent the whole time talking about the guy I was into and hadn't given any indication I'd be interested in cslg

I don't remember how explicitly I'd expressed my disapproval of the cheating when he told me about the other woman – it's not like I would've lectured him, so I probably just rolled my eyes disapprovingly or whatever – but it's ridiculous how he's so depraved he just assumes ppl are cool with that shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482377)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482393)

I think that #1 and #3 ultimately collapse to the same thing.  his need for validation and sexual novelty probably make it so that he has some level of ongoing desire for every decent-looking woman he's ever been friends with or associated with

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482408)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482413)

at least it wasn't someone more physically imposing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482423)

We need you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48482444)

you share just as much about your life on here

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48483657)

Like if TSINAH came out here and took me out to beers, the next day I wouldn’t post OMG TSINAH was such a dork lol.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485120)

If it were something evil or whatever that's different. But the motivation behind this seems more like a humblebrag.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485374)

yes they're "open" but he also went into detail about how she doesn't know about his then-ongoing thing with client

and obviously when he tried to hit on me, it's not like he'd gotten prior permission or anything

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485380)

he's like 40 and married bro

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485454)

no

no

yes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485462)

also, I could not care less about the age of the girl he was cheating with.  xo has this whole narrative of women being jealous of younger women – esp when older guys are dating them – but I've never experienced that.  I spent my early 20s dreading getting old, but I've actually gotten increasingly confident as years have gone by.  it helps that I've found my style and learned to dress in a way that shows off my good traits.

(right now I'm heavier than I'd like to be, but that's temporary)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485399)

If it were just some random poaster who keeps their IRL private, I would agree with you. But in this case, it is an outed poaster who is a shameless attention whore that literally brags about his womanizing. To me, the only thing TBTP did wrong was waiting until after MPM to share this story. This is some of the best content creation of the year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48489547)

I generally agree, but I lost respect for him for the cheating thing discussed above and also what I said here: https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5654194&forum_id=2#48485352

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5653773&forum_id=2#48485469)