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rsf you'll make it bro and get a 180 gf on the rebound
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:36 AM Author: Claret Talented Azn Nursing Home (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964536) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 12:03 PM Author: transparent kitty depressive mmmm yeah you suck RSF's cock , such it rillll good boi (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964807) |
Date: May 27th, 2025 10:37 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage I have a number of seemingly 180 gfs currently the issues are whittling them down and deciding if it's even worth having another relationship vs just doing hood rat shit w bros and knocking a non-wife up. TY for the vote of confidence though friend. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964538) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:44 AM Author: Violent stag film nibblets If you have a number of gfs lined you, u are doing it wrong. hth (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964565) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:45 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Explain (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964569) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:48 AM Author: Violent stag film nibblets focusing on several means you will make shitty decisions by comparing them against each other when you should look at each independently and how she matches with you. plus when you are comparing multiple women, you will over rate looks. as long as the girl is attractive, you will not be happier with a more attractive girl compared to an attractive girl who is a slightly better fit for you. hh, hth
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:49 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Not going to just commit to the first one that comes along, especially during summer. I wouldn't say there is "focusing" going on or that there are "several," I am "seeing" to some degree a few dozen. This is just going to be a BUCKWILD summer, then we'll see. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964582) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:50 AM Author: Violent stag film nibblets focus on none/have fun with many = ok when you are ready to focus, don't compare/talk to many. hth hh |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:52 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Yea i'd agree with that, but new to freedom and summer isn't the time to jump into another serious relationship or at least not going to plan to. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964589) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:52 AM Author: citrine arousing love of her life you're looking in the wrong places (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964588) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:52 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage I'm not looking for another serious relationship immediately at all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964591) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:59 AM Author: Violent stag film nibblets grinder is great for hook ups no strings attached. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964604) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:07 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Soo CR (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964619) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:46 AM Author: cheese-eating resort cr.
i'm guessing rsf is just going through some post-divorce "fuck women" shit. but actually having kids with this attitude is likely to result in kids that resent the father and side with the mom. |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:35 AM Author: mind-boggling dopamine (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964696) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:46 AM Author: Claret Talented Azn Nursing Home 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964572) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:47 AM Author: citrine arousing love of her life don't do the latter (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964574) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:29 AM Author: Swashbuckling Umber Giraffe Half-breed (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964669) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:34 AM Author: mind-boggling dopamine Wrong approach brother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964694) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 10:58 AM Author: abnormal khaki den ITT: paymos coping (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964602) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:01 AM Author: Vivacious Alcoholic School rsf have you considered being the next Bachelor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964610) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:09 AM Author: transparent kitty depressive dont u have to be somewhat attractive to be on that show? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964622) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:19 AM Author: Vivacious Alcoholic School Only if you're a chick, men just need money (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964646) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:21 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage I don't think that is true at all, if you want to just lock down a girl and be a beta provider sure. If you want to sling it around and smash a lot of girls you need to be attractive, charismatic and ideally TALL. $ doesn't do anything for a one night stand you pick up in a bar. The $ line is largely pumo cope. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964649) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:34 AM Author: Vivacious Alcoholic School We're specifically talking about being on The Bachelor. Look at some of the men who have been The Bachelor (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964692) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 11:36 AM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage i've never seen a single episode of this show or The Bachelorette, so I have no idea. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964700) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 12:06 PM Author: Vivacious Alcoholic School It really sounds like you're not getting this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964813) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 12:08 PM Author: transparent kitty depressive good thing you have $ (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48964816) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:46 PM Author: hateful associate this would be the best thing to happen on xo since ETH.
rsf, please go on the bachelor. |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 3:59 PM Author: Scarlet site Who is keeping your FUR BABY in the divorce? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965519) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:00 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage sadly she will, I will miss that little angel :( (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965524) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:13 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space going through the same bro, miss the dog way more than the ex-wife. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965550) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:18 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage 100% I look at pics of the dog and miss her every day. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965560) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:23 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space I had to stop doing that. I do occasionally look at photos of our old dogs who passed away. We had a 8 month old puppy that we got at 3 month old who i was the primary caretaker until divorce at which point she got the puppydood. That was always kind the understanding but was still hard.
I've though about getting another dog but I'm trying to wait till april of next year when im back from ski season. |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:28 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Can't just replace a dog though :( . Where skiing? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965587) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:31 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space spend winters in PC, UT. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965597) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:33 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Nice, have you ever skied Andorra? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965602) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:35 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space No, but i'd be down to go. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965605) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:38 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Planning it for a week in Feb. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965617) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:39 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space u got a throwaway?
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:40 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage No but if you have one post it and ill email you from my normal email. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965622) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:13 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space Can someone give me (former SA poster who is now on the apps) give me some pro tips about keeping these chicks at arms length.
I haven't dated since early 20s where everyone is just "having fun" when I happened to get into a LTR and marriage, etc.
I'm noticing that I'm "bad" at dating in the sense that I don't really have issues getting dates or getting laid but all the girls get attached fairly quickly and I don't know how to a) stop that from happening and b) not drift back into another LTR.
It's already happening right now iwth a girl I've been dating for a couple months at this point (seeing each other 2-3x a week). I've realized its not going anywhere (for me) but she's very into me and I don't know how to end. |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:19 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Just be distant, string her along and don't be too available to talk or to hangout then you can't really just drift into another relationship because you're only seeing her from time to time when you want to get drinks and smash. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965563) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:22 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space This is good advice. I tend to get overly excited with all new chicks and am overly accommodating and responsive which immediately throws these chicks into relationship mode.
Now just gotta figure out how to dump the current one but I think I can just say "not ready for anything serious, thought i was but im not". |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:29 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Don't have to dump her, just start pulling away a little bit which will likely make her MORE crazy but you can just cool things off and keep her around at a distance. Once they are head over heels for you, you can pretty much do whatever you want and they will tolerate it and come back for more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965590) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 4:32 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space I'd prefer to dump at this point lol. Just want to cut ties since I'm already pretty over it. There's others who I successfully have kinda done the above with that i can rotate in at this point fairly easily. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965599) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:33 PM Author: cheese-eating resort is this the hot ass chick that passed out when you were about to fuck her? how's things been doing since then? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965786) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:41 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space correct. We've had sex repeatedly but lets say it's become clear why she's single at 40 yrs old despite being hot.
She's kinda just a pain in the ass. Wants the guy to make all the decisions but then doesn't like the decisions and doesn't like being told what to do. Sex isn't that great and i get annoyed just hanging out with her.
Now its clear she's way more into me than i am into her which if anything was maybe a reversal from how it started and I feel like I'm getting dragged into something I don't want to be in.
At the same time we have mutual friends, she's still a cool enough chick so I need to find a way out that keeps us on good enough terms.
I'm guessing it will probably be some form of "I thought I was ready to date but I'm realizing I don't think I'm ready for a more serious relationship and still have some things I need to deal with from my prior relationship and it's not fair to you to keep this going while I work through those things" |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:43 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Just pull the slow fade if she gets MAF enough she will end it then she will think it was her idea and won't blow shit up with your mutuals. You have to remember you are talking to a creature incapable of using logic so even if you lay it out in a way that makes sense and tries to spare her feelings, she is likely to just see REJECTION, NO I DON'T GET REJECTED! and be MAF. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965825) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:50 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space knowing her she will almost certainly want to "talk about it".
I tried to break up with her 2-3 weeks ago after she like scolded me about texting her my exact relationship status (separated and divorcing but divorce not finalized) when i was concerned she might think the alternative.
She was fine with the status but wasn't fine with the texting and said it should have been face to face etc, then kept going on and on about it for like 20 mins and i was finally like "as i've said for the past 15 mins, I've fucking got it".
Then she wanted me to stay over (after she had told me to come over but that I COULD NOT stay over), so I had none of my stuff with me and was already annoyed so I left as soon as she fell asleep.
Then the next day she texted me she was bummed i left and i responded that it was just feeling like too much work and there were too many rules and i just got out of a relationship where i sacrificed myself in so many ways for the other person and was not really looking to fall into a similar situation.
Then she immediately called because everything has to be a phone call and apologized and was like how do we fix it, etc. And I was like I don't know I'm just gonna pull back I guess and let you lead.
And then I did that and now she's more into me than ever before and I've been more and more over it since. |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:57 PM Author: hairraiser old irish cottage Was this one in your ski town or hometown? You can always just say you're going to be away for a while and hope it fizzles or she moves on. It sounds like she is going to make it messy. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5730298&forum_id=2#48965866) |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:58 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space she's in the hometown. I actually decided to go to ski town tmw for a week and she's already going "don't leave me".
FML.
I think I'll probably just be honest. Realizing I haven't fully dealt with my codependency, etc. Best for me to not be in a relationship at the moment.
The codependency thing is actually very true. I was very codependent in my last relationship and really sacrificed myself completely and I'm already seeing patterns of it happening again as chicks like this kinda steamroll me and i go along with it to people please. |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:50 PM Author: cheese-eating resort many such cases bro. i swear to god i got these vibes from your story but didn't want to make such detailed predictions on limited info. but the "falling asleep" naked while you get ubereats is definitely indicative of that bratty "i want to be raped" + "i want you to KNOW when i want to be raped" duality that pervades so many millennial women.
my theory is that these chicks were indoctrinated that they were supposed to be girlbosses but also inherently wanted to be dominated/housewives and are constantly dithering between extreme ends on this. one day you're daddy and the next day they're pissed because you "mansplained" something.
i think you should peel the bandaid off more honestly. just say you don't see a future together and don't feel super compatible with her. she's not going to hear or care what you say anyway and will probably have a birdbrain spergout. but if you're in the same friend group you want to minimize the opportunities she has to post-hoc make you a piece of shit amongst the other women. for example, if you fall head over heels with ms. right shortly after, you don't want this bitch seething about how quickly you were able to "work through your things." |
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Date: May 27th, 2025 5:57 PM Author: soggy vibrant feces space this is an extremely accurate description particularly the part about wanting to be dominated one day and that same day being bipolar upset about mansplaining or being told what to do.
She has her own "business" which is some bs consulting job re: SEO where she basically makes enough to live by herself but that's about it. And work is essentially her entire identity these days.
She's been telling me how busy she is, including literally crying one point about being overwhelmed then over the 3 day weekend she did exactly 8 hrs of work all of which was last night betweeen 4 pm and 3 am because the deadline was this morning.
Honestly at this point, I'm actually sort of done dating for a while. I've fucked like in excess of 20 chicks since separating from wife and I'm a little burnt out on women at the moment. Would rather just hang out with bros, do hobbies I enjoy, focus on work and myself and then maybe go about dating somewhat organically in 3-6 months.
The apps seem like a wasteland of damaged chicks and the hotter chicks in socal don't seem to even be on them.
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Date: May 27th, 2025 6:30 PM Author: cheese-eating resort many many such cases. especially amongst single millennial white chicks. im a divorcee too and wading through the sea of these birdhrains is tiresome.
taking a break is a good idea imo. i do it often when i get burnt out. once dating becomes a chore it's time. you sowed your oats and had a 180 separation fuckfest and have proven to yourself you still got it. now you have to wait for your cum reserves to build back up to the point youre horny enough to tolerate these birdbrains again. |