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poor mom is at retirement age. Social Security will be low. what can she do?

The estimate is $1,200/month from Social Security. She's don...
soul-stirring set
  06/22/25
OnlyGrans
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Dark embarrassed to the bone quadroon temple
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Exciting half-breed hairy legs
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sorry we need that money to be given to illegal spic crimina...
Maize know-it-all kitchen
  06/22/25
who, btw, the boomers imported
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  06/22/25
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Titillating Chestnut Home Puppy
  06/22/25
don't forget israel. we need to arm israel and ensure that i...
Lemon stead
  06/23/25
Doordash
nubile electric french chef
  06/22/25
Sell house and move to one of the typical low cost of living...
primrose massive fortuitous meteor
  06/22/25
Depending on where shes located and how much space she has i...
Histrionic incel
  06/22/25
What’s her spouse bringing in? If dead or divorced wha...
balding chad dopamine
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comical coral famous landscape painting
  06/22/25
(smells like mayo in this thread) wtf. directly pay her g...
Bearded Mewling Garrison
  06/22/25
Why are non-whites so comfortable with being a burden on the...
concupiscible therapy
  06/22/25
individualist vs collective mentality
Bearded Mewling Garrison
  06/22/25
Just feels like people do so much to ensure the success of t...
concupiscible therapy
  06/22/25
Is you kids can’t take care of you then they aren&rsqu...
Harsh national private investor
  06/22/25
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cocky fighting jap
  06/22/25
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Provocative orchestra pit becky
  06/23/25
sex with men for money, like her son
Supple place of business
  06/22/25
sex with men, like her son, for money
comical coral famous landscape painting
  06/22/25
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cocky fighting jap
  06/22/25
don't live in the desert
Charismatic Deer Antler
  06/22/25
$1200k covers her bills probably. How much is property tax?
Slap-happy Lodge Cuckoldry
  06/22/25
How is it only 1200 a month if she worked and earned credits...
Marvelous Reading Party
  06/22/25
Because the republican caucus exported all of the manufactur...
Slap-happy Lodge Cuckoldry
  06/22/25
which would mean she should get far less than $1,200 per mon...
Rambunctious Native
  06/22/25
Get a job at Whole Foods.
fiercely-loyal scourge upon the earth
  06/22/25
if only she had 45 years to be better prepared for retiremen...
Rambunctious Native
  06/22/25
You need to support her, duh
Impressive saffron shrine
  06/22/25
cr. i didn't know that white people were so against supporti...
Bearded Mewling Garrison
  06/22/25
not speaking about op’s situation specifically, but, i...
Up-to-no-good Charcoal Address Kitty
  06/22/25
yeah, just the bare minimum kind of a thing
Bearded Mewling Garrison
  06/22/25
sorry nigga , you are her pension
Khaki Library
  06/22/25
Did she strike out at OCI or what?
Mahogany Autistic Theater Stage Gay Wizard
  06/22/25
Can mortgages get senior discount adjustments? or can they j...
Thriller locus karate
  06/22/25
sell her house and yolo abroad like tommy
Shimmering coffee pot
  06/22/25
she needs to get used to eating instant noodles every meal, ...
cruel-hearted magical lay
  06/22/25
How do people work for 40 years and not think, “hey, m...
concupiscible therapy
  06/22/25
I'd rather not be alive period, most hope to pass away befor...
Khaki Library
  06/22/25
you're a pussy. judge.
Rambunctious Native
  06/22/25
$1200 a month is $40 a day, you can eat like a king on that.
Mahogany Autistic Theater Stage Gay Wizard
  06/22/25
AirBnb the house. DoorDash until her eyes and reflexes go. ...
fishy razzmatazz step-uncle's house
  06/22/25
Don’t understand the question. Her son pays for her so...
Harsh national private investor
  06/22/25
Why doesn't she do low paying, non-manual job that she enjoy...
insecure drunken idiot
  06/22/25
even menial jobs are hard to get. always have been.
Shimmering coffee pot
  06/22/25
especially when competing with https://i.imgur.com/XbiBEyw.p...
Slimy business firm genital piercing
  06/23/25
actually, sounds like she's not at retirement age at all
yellow arousing water buffalo
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Up-to-no-good Charcoal Address Kitty
  06/22/25
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cocky fighting jap
  06/22/25
Just do have your old man move in with you.
Provocative orchestra pit becky
  06/23/25
This is miserable for both parties. She wants to watch game...
Exciting half-breed hairy legs
  06/23/25
Sell her house and have her move in with you. She could pic...
appetizing jet-lagged toaster cruise ship
  06/23/25
How has nobody mentioned a reverse mortgage? Reverse mortga...
Exciting half-breed hairy legs
  06/23/25
Usually not for reverse mortgage but it makes sense here esp...
Harsh national private investor
  06/23/25
we do have a social safety net in this country for olds. her...
Apoplectic point
  06/23/25
tell her to move to Cambodia. why would you want to retire i...
swashbuckling brethren wagecucks
  06/23/25


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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:48 PM
Author: soul-stirring set

The estimate is $1,200/month from Social Security. She's done low-paying manual labor her entire adult life, and her joints are too busted to do nearly all types of manual labor now. She has a paid-off house at least. What can she do to get more money?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040361)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:51 PM
Author: Jade floppy dragon

OnlyGrans

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040363)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:33 PM
Author: Low-t sapphire crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040467)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Dark embarrassed to the bone quadroon temple



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042234)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: Exciting half-breed hairy legs



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042237)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:51 PM
Author: Maize know-it-all kitchen

sorry we need that money to be given to illegal spic criminals, kikes, retarded blacks and various indian and chink scammers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040365)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:55 PM
Author: sadistic parlor

who, btw, the boomers imported

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040372)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 7:55 PM
Author: Titillating Chestnut Home Puppy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041210)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 11:15 AM
Author: Lemon stead

don't forget israel. we need to arm israel and ensure that its citizens have free healthcare.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042379)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:53 PM
Author: nubile electric french chef

Doordash

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040368)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:57 PM
Author: primrose massive fortuitous meteor

Sell house and move to one of the typical low cost of living expat countries.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040379)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Histrionic incel

Depending on where shes located and how much space she has in her home, she could rent out a spare bedroom to travel nurses.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040382)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:02 PM
Author: balding chad dopamine

What’s her spouse bringing in? If dead or divorced what kind of spousal benefits is she entitled to? You didn’t mention her pension, 401(k)s, IRAs, taxable brokerage, cash deposit accounts, checking, etc.

The successful retiree has 7+ sources of income. If her only source of income is SS, she needs to go out and get 6 different jobs and get with the program like the rest of us sinners.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040387)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: comical coral famous landscape painting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041200)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:03 PM
Author: Bearded Mewling Garrison

(smells like mayo in this thread)

wtf. directly pay her groceries each month. don't give her money directly if she's not responsible

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040391)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:54 PM
Author: concupiscible therapy

Why are non-whites so comfortable with being a burden on their children?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041335)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:06 PM
Author: Bearded Mewling Garrison

individualist vs collective mentality



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041364)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:08 PM
Author: concupiscible therapy

Just feels like people do so much to ensure the success of their children (I’m assuming this is also true in Asia, etc.). Having this expectation that they’ll be taking care of you for the last 30 years of your life is inherently going to stunt their success.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041368)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:30 PM
Author: Harsh national private investor

Is you kids can’t take care of you then they aren’t successful. Having an extra bedroom at home isn’t a big deal.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041418)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 10:02 PM
Author: cocky fighting jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041463)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:56 AM
Author: Provocative orchestra pit becky



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042214)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:05 PM
Author: Supple place of business

sex with men for money, like her son

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040398)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: comical coral famous landscape painting

sex with men, like her son, for money



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041203)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 7:59 PM
Author: cocky fighting jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041225)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:11 PM
Author: Charismatic Deer Antler

don't live in the desert

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040413)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Slap-happy Lodge Cuckoldry

$1200k covers her bills probably. How much is property tax?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040430)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:15 PM
Author: Marvelous Reading Party

How is it only 1200 a month if she worked and earned credits

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040431)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:17 PM
Author: Slap-happy Lodge Cuckoldry

Because the republican caucus exported all of the manufacturing jobs with NAFTA while destroying unions and she probably made like $9.99/hr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040436)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 10:12 PM
Author: Rambunctious Native

which would mean she should get far less than $1,200 per month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041484)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 3:26 PM
Author: fiercely-loyal scourge upon the earth

Get a job at Whole Foods.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49040459)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:11 PM
Author: Rambunctious Native

if only she had 45 years to be better prepared for retirement

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041270)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:23 PM
Author: Impressive saffron shrine

You need to support her, duh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041291)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: Bearded Mewling Garrison

cr. i didn't know that white people were so against supporting their parents

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041294)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:40 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Charcoal Address Kitty

not speaking about op’s situation specifically, but, in general, there is a high correlation between parents who find themselves in this situation and parents who are undeserving of unqualified support.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041307)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:43 PM
Author: Bearded Mewling Garrison

yeah, just the bare minimum kind of a thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041312)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:44 PM
Author: Khaki Library

sorry nigga , you are her pension

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041314)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:55 PM
Author: Mahogany Autistic Theater Stage Gay Wizard

Did she strike out at OCI or what?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041336)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:55 PM
Author: Thriller locus karate

Can mortgages get senior discount adjustments? or can they just ask 75 y/os for paystubs?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041338)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:56 PM
Author: Shimmering coffee pot

sell her house and yolo abroad like tommy

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041341)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 8:59 PM
Author: cruel-hearted magical lay

she needs to get used to eating instant noodles every meal, like some third-world gook

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041343)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:07 PM
Author: concupiscible therapy

How do people work for 40 years and not think, “hey, maybe I should save something if I don’t want to keep working until I die?” I stress out about whether I’m doing enough and I save a ton.

Serious question, not judging. My mom is in this situation too btw.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041365)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:16 PM
Author: Khaki Library

I'd rather not be alive period, most hope to pass away before "retirement" on some level.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041383)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 10:12 PM
Author: Rambunctious Native

you're a pussy. judge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041480)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:20 PM
Author: Mahogany Autistic Theater Stage Gay Wizard

$1200 a month is $40 a day, you can eat like a king on that.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041392)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:26 PM
Author: fishy razzmatazz step-uncle's house

AirBnb the house. DoorDash until her eyes and reflexes go. Turo the car after that.

The serious answer is that people this age are supposed to be Wal-Mart greeters.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041409)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:29 PM
Author: Harsh national private investor

Don’t understand the question. Her son pays for her so she doesn’t have to stress during retirement. What kind of weird families do you have

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041414)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:29 PM
Author: insecure drunken idiot

Why doesn't she do low paying, non-manual job that she enjoys?

Work at a national park. Try to be a concierge at a hotel. Be a secretary, an aide, or a lunch lady at the local school. Substitute teach. Work in the church office. Be a clerk at a bookstore.

Not only CAN she work, she really SHOULD work. This idea that retirement is supposed to be a 25 year vacation is insane and probably hurtful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041416)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:31 PM
Author: Shimmering coffee pot

even menial jobs are hard to get. always have been.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041420)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:07 AM
Author: Slimy business firm genital piercing

especially when competing with https://i.imgur.com/XbiBEyw.png

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042244)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 9:31 PM
Author: yellow arousing water buffalo

actually, sounds like she's not at retirement age at all



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041419)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 10:13 PM
Author: Up-to-no-good Charcoal Address Kitty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041487)



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Date: June 22nd, 2025 10:00 PM
Author: cocky fighting jap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49041461)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 12:20 PM
Author: Provocative orchestra pit becky

Just do have your old man move in with you.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042569)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 12:34 PM
Author: Exciting half-breed hairy legs

This is miserable for both parties. She wants to watch game shows and fox news, while I want to watch hardcore porn. We should each have our own place.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042612)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:03 AM
Author: appetizing jet-lagged toaster cruise ship

Sell her house and have her move in with you. She could pick up the electric bill or something and provide free babysitting. you'd be better off.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042230)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:05 AM
Author: Exciting half-breed hairy legs

How has nobody mentioned a reverse mortgage? Reverse mortgage, especially with home prices being what they are now. So you don't inherit anything, so what.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042239)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 11:13 AM
Author: Harsh national private investor

Usually not for reverse mortgage but it makes sense here especially with a son who doesn’t want to take care of his elderly mother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042377)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Apoplectic point

we do have a social safety net in this country for olds. her house is paid off, she'll get medicare/medicaid, and she probably qualifies for food stamps on $1200 a month. she'll be fine assuming she has any sort of savings for emergencies.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042254)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 1:08 PM
Author: swashbuckling brethren wagecucks

tell her to move to Cambodia. why would you want to retire in US? it's a shithole in decline



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5741829&forum_id=2#49042763)