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got pwn3d by gf today
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:32 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter she was supposed to be moving here this summer, but decided she's "just not ready for that"
on the upside I told this fairly hot girl I'm working with this summer about it and she replied "well, looks like we can have more fun this summer."
How should I take that comment?
Should I dump GF straight up? I'm surprisingly not that broken up about it, although I was actually thinking about proposing if things went well. |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:32 PM Author: Cerebral Macaca Idea He Suggested wow you're in bad shape (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087531) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:35 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter I kind of almost feel guilty because I don't feel bad about it. GF is pretty amazing, but is considerably younger and can be extremely shallow at times. I think she's probably been seeing people on the side since we've been away from each other. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087547) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:42 PM Author: Cerebral Macaca Idea He Suggested how long have you been dating, and what is she doing with her summer instead?
it's sort of odd that you can go from thinking about proposing to breaking up, just like that. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:16 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter yeah.
Honestly, she was just far and away the hottest girl who has ever shown any interest, which is a dumb reason, I know.
We dated seriously for 6 months, then I moved away for LS and we haven't been serious in the 8 months since. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:27 AM Author: tripping medicated factory reset button roommate how many times a day did you call her? when did you visit her? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087844) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:03 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter she called me mostly, as I'm not a huge phone person. We went on a spring break trip together, but that was it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088092) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:26 AM Author: Useless stead the fact that you don't feel bad about it should tell you something. you should probably at least take a break this summer, if not break it off altogether...you're clearly not into her enough to consider tying yourself to her for the rest of your life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087839) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:10 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter I called her about an hour ago and broke it off. Used the "we're far apart, maybe things will work out down the line, but for now I think we're probably both best served if we just do away with the whole pretense of our relationship. I mean I still care about you a lot, but I don't think there is a whole lot positive for either one of us from this relationship right now."
Her response? basically boiled down to "my dad is going to be pissed off at both of us."
Haha. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:11 PM Author: Ultramarine jap WTF? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8090280) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:14 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter her dad loved me and she was very nervous about telling him about her decision not to come. We had had very vague talks about marriage (me and her dad), so he probably thought I was pretty serious and was put off by her not wanting to come for the summer.
She's dated a ton of real winners (a couple of abusers, a couple of potheads, a coupel of "pro surfers") so her parents were really hoping things would work out. Also, her faimly is an old school southern family that is living in cali and I"m southern, which helped, I think. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:18 PM Author: Ultramarine jap Um,yeah, but her response says a helluva lot about her commitment to the relationship. Most people's immediate response to being dumped isn't to think of their parents. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8090306) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:23 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter I think she kind of felt that it was coming. and after all, she had just made the decision not to come for the summer when had planned for her to come since I got my summer job in January (an dhad talked about it hypothetically since I started LS)
But yeah, I guess part of me thought some sort of miracle would happen over the summer. And I think she's legitimately torn, she's young and probably isn't ready to get into a serious relationship, but she also knows I'm the best guy she's ever dated. But with young females feelings will win out every time over a logical "he's the best guy I've ever dated" |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:33 PM Author: startled gay rehab deer antler ok i can help but im going to need pics of your ex and this hot girl (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087538) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:37 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter don't really feel like posting pics of my gf and I'm definitely not going to put up a pic of somebody I go to law school with. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087571) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:39 PM Author: startled gay rehab deer antler ok ill just assume that both are hot persians.
how long have you and said gf been together? what else has been going on that mmakes you think maybe yuo should break up? |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:35 PM Author: frisky thriller regret step-uncle's house i dunno about your g/f, but the girl at work isn't interested in the slightest. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087546) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:59 AM Author: iridescent floppy parlor This could be right, she sounds like an attention whore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088069) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:01 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter she is kind of. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088079) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:04 AM Author: iridescent floppy parlor Pursue her, but don't rely on her statements to your detriment (ie: no material changes to your position wiht GF). (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088095) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:06 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter oh, I'm nto really thinking that much about hte other girl, I was just wondering how much I should read into her statement. She definitely said it in a "mischievous" way, but I didn't know if to just take it in a "I'm really flirty" way or a "look, lets fuck" way. Maybe I;ll study at her table tomorrow and play footsie with her and see what happens. I know footsie is kind of gay, but if it doesn't work you can always play it off as just flirting, but if she's into it, it usually ahs the girl pretty horny, pretty fast. Especially during finals. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088108) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:15 AM Author: iridescent floppy parlor You should be very direct in your attempt to fuck her, none of this testing the waters bullshit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088166) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:23 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter a guy actually tried that recently with this same chick and she shot him down hardcore. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088222) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:01 AM Author: passionate selfie therapy hehe (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088078) |
Date: May 8th, 2007 11:34 PM Author: blue pozpig That is a severe pwning. She's too much of a passive aggressive pussy to actually dump you so this is the best she can do. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087545) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:36 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter well, we've both been on the "don't ask don't tell" policy of seeing other people and I think she just wants the status quo to continue. Even though I realize I was pwn3d I don't really feel bad about it. Good or bad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087560) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:40 PM Author: Bateful fiercely-loyal locale you were planning on going from a quasi-open relationship to marriage? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087592) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:12 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter she was going to be here all summer, if it went well I was going to think about it. Sounds stupid now. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087737) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:46 PM Author: Overrated excitant sanctuary two words bro- oral herpes. I say make a play for that other girl- but in the mean time don't burn any bridges. Make a play for the girl at Starbucks (casually drop in law school while ordering a double venti machiotto lowfat 2 pumps upside down with light caramel). I think the GF wants to fuck and slut around like a feral cat- but you are her anchor that she can mary because you will be lawyer (ol money bags). That is unless she finds someone better, or plan B will be that she leaves you for her gyno or marriage counselor. If you have a suspicion that she is fucking around: SHE IS.
PS She likes the other dude better, but you are going to be a lawyer- he is probably a pot-headed musician, DJ, bartender or some shit like a waiter. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:14 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter well, she's worth like 100 mill or something ridiculous, so I don't think she cares about that. Her dad made a fuckton as a venture capitalist during the silicon valley boom years and then got out and went into real estate right as the bottom fell out. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087754) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:29 AM Author: Bistre heady weed whacker if you're willing to put up with her infidelities you could have a very nice lifestyle. at least think about it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087860) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:32 AM Author: Kink-friendly station wow. talk about right place at right time and shit.
now that RE is tanking, what's he into? |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:08 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter hes trying to slowly get out of RE, but still has most of his assets tied up in it. He's talking about just putting it all in hedge funds and basically retiring. Me and him talked a lot about joel greenblatt's investment formula so he may just put a lot in stocks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8090255) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:41 PM Author: Low-t chrome whorehouse keep your gf if she's hot, but make sure you fuck the chick from work dood. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087594) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:49 PM Author: frisky thriller regret step-uncle's house yeah... way to make your summer very awkward. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087638) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:17 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter we go to LS together and will likely see each other a lot even after the summer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087779) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:42 PM Author: Scarlet Hyperventilating Library Boistinker dog eat dog world dude, dump her or risk being dumped
she's def. seeing someone else, and she likes him better |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:00 AM Author: shimmering indirect expression stage Nice moniker. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8087671) |
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Date: May 8th, 2007 11:55 PM Author: tripping medicated factory reset button roommate what the aboe posters are saying is true.
trust, there's no way marriage is feasible with a "don't ask, don't tell policy" or you knowing she's been messing around. in some ways his was a good thing, b/c she would've shitted on you even harder if you mentioned marriage. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 12:53 AM Author: cerise pit Dump her and move on.
Hell, she may even change her mind if you show some backbone.
Pursue girl #2. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:16 AM Author: Very tactful khaki church building internal respiration dude, trust me, you are so better off. Just "take a break" and see what happens down the line. Dont stress about her being with other guys.
The last thing you want is some whiny bitch complaining about how you made her move for you. It will end badly. I know.
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:23 AM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter this is probably credited. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8088217) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:10 PM Author: Ultramarine jap I think you two need to have a longer conversation about this before you do anything. Could just be nervousness, or giving into her mother's nagging about moving for a guy, or something like that.
But I agree with the others that don't ask don't tell --> marriage is a horrible idea. |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:11 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter her parents are probably much more in love with me than she's ever been. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8090279) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:12 PM Author: Ultramarine jap Oh, then this is a horrible idea period. Run. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8090283) |
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Date: May 9th, 2007 1:16 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter yeah, looking back, I have no idea how I could have been so blind to how bad of an idea this was. Then again, I hte to admit I'm this shallow, but a ridiculously wealthy, extremely hot girl can do that. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8090297) |
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Date: May 10th, 2007 10:23 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter update:
I was talking to a friend of the ex's and she is already seeing somebody new, calling him her bf.
Me and the ggirl from school that I'm working with have been flirting a good bit lately, but I've been too busy to really pursue it. The other day we were taking a break in a common area and there weren't any more seats, I went to get up so she could sit down and she was just said "well, if you don't mind, I can sit in your lap." She smelled fucking amazing and she rubbed my penis with her ass enough to where it was semi-hard, which I'm sure she could feel. We're done with our finals after tomorrow, and we're going to do dinner and a movie with a few other people. She initially said us, but I kind of invited other people so that it wasn't a date because I'm not sure what I want to happen yet. |
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Date: May 10th, 2007 11:13 PM Author: emerald love of her life candlestick maker Bang her. You'll feel better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8099448) |
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Date: May 10th, 2007 11:40 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter we're planning on going to her apt to have some shots after we're done tomorrow. It might happen then. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8099611) |
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Date: May 10th, 2007 10:39 PM Author: French Public Bath Gaping rowan starts 99% of these relationship-on-the-rocks threads, right? whenever one pops up, she chimes in about a dozen times or more. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8099249) |
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Date: May 10th, 2007 11:29 PM Author: Ultramarine jap No, I actually don't. I just like reading them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8099553) |
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Date: May 10th, 2007 11:39 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter your input is appreciated, btw, tyvm. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8099605) |
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Date: May 12th, 2007 11:44 PM Author: Fuchsia faggot firefighter update: hooked up with the new girl. It was okay, we were both really drunk. I woke up before she did left her a note and left. She sent me a text message saying "we should do that again when we're both sober, if you want to." I responded "you're goddamn right." She was helping her roomate move today and is tired, but we're planning on getting together tomorrow. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=629004&forum_id=2#8109027) |
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Date: May 12th, 2007 11:50 PM Author: Obsidian boiling water You have a 65% greater chance of getting throat cancer now. HTH.
I'm Brian Fellows!!! |