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Note to self: Never share finances until after marriage

and even then, be very very careful
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
Credited.
Topaz native
  05/23/07
I'm constantly amazed at how stupid people are with money
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
Hey d00d sorry I left you hanging the other night. My inTTTe...
ivory violent juggernaut dog poop
  05/23/07
yeah right dooder. you can just say you hate me it's all go...
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
actually i was responding to rowan. PW3ND!
ivory violent juggernaut dog poop
  05/23/07
woah, that's some massive selfpwnage there :(
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
No prob, happens to me all the time.
Topaz native
  05/23/07
Make sure to have a rock solid prenup.
Autistic Associate
  05/23/07
I doubt I'll have any pre-marriage assets at all, so I'm not...
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
lolz.
ivory violent juggernaut dog poop
  05/23/07
This seems pretty self-evident, but I guess not.
Self-centered Contagious Idea He Suggested
  05/23/07
you would think it would be...
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
uhh. no point in sharing finances even AFTER marriage. joint...
Gaped Mahogany Gay Wizard Useless Brakes
  05/23/07
most marriages tend to have shitty handlings on finances. s...
Stimulating lime public bath stain
  05/23/07
I think it's still doable. Separate accounts doesn't necess...
Topaz native
  05/23/07
titcr. both parties contributing equal % by income for housi...
Gaped Mahogany Gay Wizard Useless Brakes
  05/23/07
if you think that way, you aren't ready to get married.
House-broken Theatre
  05/23/07
i think you misunderstood her point maybe
misanthropic soggy center
  05/23/07
I didn't quite mean it like that. Formulas of that nature w...
Topaz native
  05/23/07
Isn't money the #1 cause for divorce these days?
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
marriage for poors, life partners is the way to go
Confused silver bawdyhouse roommate
  05/23/07
NOTE TO SELF: do not inhale deeply when your head is unde...
Lemon irradiated tanning salon
  05/23/07
ty, I'll write this on my post-it note too
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
A better solution would be not to marry someone who is horri...
House-broken Theatre
  05/23/07
Note to Self: never cover your 3-year-old in BBQ sauce and t...
Lemon irradiated tanning salon
  05/23/07
wtf? Are you sure this isn't a good idea?
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
Well... it might be ok if you really really love the pit bul...
Lemon irradiated tanning salon
  05/23/07
We both put 50% of household expenses into a joint account, ...
ungodly gaping
  05/23/07
That always struck me as a nice arrangement, especially when...
Topaz native
  05/23/07
Why on earth would you need a note to self about this?
drab bat shit crazy parlor
  05/23/07
It was mostly a joke, based off of the credit card thread ea...
Hairless stirring library coffee pot
  05/23/07
I disagree. I think you should mix everything, from bodily ...
big-titted alpha
  05/23/07


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Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:22 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

and even then, be very very careful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157818)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:23 PM
Author: Topaz native

Credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157821)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:26 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

I'm constantly amazed at how stupid people are with money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157831)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:35 PM
Author: ivory violent juggernaut dog poop

Hey d00d sorry I left you hanging the other night. My inTTTerwebs connection decided to stop working in the middle of our conversation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157884)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:37 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

yeah right dooder. you can just say you hate me it's all good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157894)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:40 PM
Author: ivory violent juggernaut dog poop

actually i was responding to rowan.

PW3ND!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157910)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:42 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

woah, that's some massive selfpwnage there :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157921)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:38 PM
Author: Topaz native

No prob, happens to me all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157902)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:23 PM
Author: Autistic Associate

Make sure to have a rock solid prenup.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157822)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:25 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

I doubt I'll have any pre-marriage assets at all, so I'm not too worried about this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157828)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:28 PM
Author: ivory violent juggernaut dog poop

lolz.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157847)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:28 PM
Author: Self-centered Contagious Idea He Suggested

This seems pretty self-evident, but I guess not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157852)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:29 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

you would think it would be...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157854)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:29 PM
Author: Gaped Mahogany Gay Wizard Useless Brakes

uhh. no point in sharing finances even AFTER marriage. joint account are only for teh poors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157855)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:17 PM
Author: Stimulating lime public bath stain

most marriages tend to have shitty handlings on finances. separate accounts seems like an obvious choice to avoid a lot of problems. the only shitty thing would be if one party makes 3x more than the other and wants to do more extravagent things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158114)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:19 PM
Author: Topaz native

I think it's still doable. Separate accounts doesn't necessarily mean that all expenses are split 50/50.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158127)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:26 PM
Author: Gaped Mahogany Gay Wizard Useless Brakes

titcr. both parties contributing equal % by income for housing, food, other expenses is clearly the only way to go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158179)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:41 PM
Author: House-broken Theatre

if you think that way, you aren't ready to get married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158299)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:56 PM
Author: misanthropic soggy center

i think you misunderstood her point maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158380)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:02 PM
Author: Topaz native

I didn't quite mean it like that. Formulas of that nature would be hard to work out. What I meant was more that if you have someone who's both rich and who'd love to go to Paris, and someone who's poor and has little interest in travel, the rich person can certainly pick up the tab.

I don't think proportional is always the right answer either, depends on the situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158420)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

Isn't money the #1 cause for divorce these days?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158384)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:40 PM
Author: Confused silver bawdyhouse roommate

marriage for poors, life partners is the way to go

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158286)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:43 PM
Author: Lemon irradiated tanning salon

NOTE TO SELF:

do not inhale deeply when your head is underwater.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158307)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

ty, I'll write this on my post-it note too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158387)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:45 PM
Author: House-broken Theatre

A better solution would be not to marry someone who is horrible with money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158315)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Lemon irradiated tanning salon

Note to Self: never cover your 3-year-old in BBQ sauce and then place in a cage with pit bulls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158383)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:06 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

wtf? Are you sure this isn't a good idea?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158440)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:08 PM
Author: Lemon irradiated tanning salon

Well... it might be ok if you really really love the pit bulls in question and *know* they are the ONE(s).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158451)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:11 PM
Author: ungodly gaping

We both put 50% of household expenses into a joint account, then keep the rest in our own accounts. It's worked pretty well for 9 years. We haven't had a single money fight yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158468)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:14 PM
Author: Topaz native

That always struck me as a nice arrangement, especially when people have fairly equal incomes. There's something to be said for having a little money you can spend on shoes or sports pools without someone else telling you how dumb your tastes are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158480)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:12 PM
Author: drab bat shit crazy parlor

Why on earth would you need a note to self about this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158470)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:14 PM
Author: Hairless stirring library coffee pot

It was mostly a joke, based off of the credit card thread earlier today

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158481)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:13 PM
Author: big-titted alpha

I disagree. I think you should mix everything, from bodily fluids to finances to the bathroom sink space, before getting married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158476)