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Note to self: Never share finances until after marriage

and even then, be very very careful
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
Credited.
Provocative Gay Wizard Locus
  05/23/07
I'm constantly amazed at how stupid people are with money
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
Hey d00d sorry I left you hanging the other night. My inTTTe...
mind-boggling halford center
  05/23/07
yeah right dooder. you can just say you hate me it's all go...
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
actually i was responding to rowan. PW3ND!
mind-boggling halford center
  05/23/07
woah, that's some massive selfpwnage there :(
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
No prob, happens to me all the time.
Provocative Gay Wizard Locus
  05/23/07
Make sure to have a rock solid prenup.
Exhilarant Insanely Creepy Mental Disorder
  05/23/07
I doubt I'll have any pre-marriage assets at all, so I'm not...
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
lolz.
mind-boggling halford center
  05/23/07
This seems pretty self-evident, but I guess not.
Clear persian
  05/23/07
you would think it would be...
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
uhh. no point in sharing finances even AFTER marriage. joint...
irate boyish national feces
  05/23/07
most marriages tend to have shitty handlings on finances. s...
Arousing citrine knife
  05/23/07
I think it's still doable. Separate accounts doesn't necess...
Provocative Gay Wizard Locus
  05/23/07
titcr. both parties contributing equal % by income for housi...
irate boyish national feces
  05/23/07
if you think that way, you aren't ready to get married.
multi-colored windowlicker
  05/23/07
i think you misunderstood her point maybe
Maniacal ivory range
  05/23/07
I didn't quite mean it like that. Formulas of that nature w...
Provocative Gay Wizard Locus
  05/23/07
Isn't money the #1 cause for divorce these days?
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
marriage for poors, life partners is the way to go
vivacious abode pistol
  05/23/07
NOTE TO SELF: do not inhale deeply when your head is unde...
Indecent Selfie Stain
  05/23/07
ty, I'll write this on my post-it note too
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
A better solution would be not to marry someone who is horri...
multi-colored windowlicker
  05/23/07
Note to Self: never cover your 3-year-old in BBQ sauce and t...
Indecent Selfie Stain
  05/23/07
wtf? Are you sure this isn't a good idea?
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
Well... it might be ok if you really really love the pit bul...
Indecent Selfie Stain
  05/23/07
We both put 50% of household expenses into a joint account, ...
Sooty Public Bath
  05/23/07
That always struck me as a nice arrangement, especially when...
Provocative Gay Wizard Locus
  05/23/07
Why on earth would you need a note to self about this?
dashing startling space blood rage
  05/23/07
It was mostly a joke, based off of the credit card thread ea...
Lake coffee pot
  05/23/07
I disagree. I think you should mix everything, from bodily ...
chest-beating mischievous principal's office
  05/23/07


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Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:22 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

and even then, be very very careful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157818)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:23 PM
Author: Provocative Gay Wizard Locus

Credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157821)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:26 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

I'm constantly amazed at how stupid people are with money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157831)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:35 PM
Author: mind-boggling halford center

Hey d00d sorry I left you hanging the other night. My inTTTerwebs connection decided to stop working in the middle of our conversation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157884)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:37 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

yeah right dooder. you can just say you hate me it's all good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157894)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:40 PM
Author: mind-boggling halford center

actually i was responding to rowan.

PW3ND!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157910)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:42 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

woah, that's some massive selfpwnage there :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157921)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:38 PM
Author: Provocative Gay Wizard Locus

No prob, happens to me all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157902)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:23 PM
Author: Exhilarant Insanely Creepy Mental Disorder

Make sure to have a rock solid prenup.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157822)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:25 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

I doubt I'll have any pre-marriage assets at all, so I'm not too worried about this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157828)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:28 PM
Author: mind-boggling halford center

lolz.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157847)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:28 PM
Author: Clear persian

This seems pretty self-evident, but I guess not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157852)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:29 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

you would think it would be...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157854)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:29 PM
Author: irate boyish national feces

uhh. no point in sharing finances even AFTER marriage. joint account are only for teh poors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157855)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:17 PM
Author: Arousing citrine knife

most marriages tend to have shitty handlings on finances. separate accounts seems like an obvious choice to avoid a lot of problems. the only shitty thing would be if one party makes 3x more than the other and wants to do more extravagent things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158114)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:19 PM
Author: Provocative Gay Wizard Locus

I think it's still doable. Separate accounts doesn't necessarily mean that all expenses are split 50/50.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158127)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:26 PM
Author: irate boyish national feces

titcr. both parties contributing equal % by income for housing, food, other expenses is clearly the only way to go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158179)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:41 PM
Author: multi-colored windowlicker

if you think that way, you aren't ready to get married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158299)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:56 PM
Author: Maniacal ivory range

i think you misunderstood her point maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158380)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:02 PM
Author: Provocative Gay Wizard Locus

I didn't quite mean it like that. Formulas of that nature would be hard to work out. What I meant was more that if you have someone who's both rich and who'd love to go to Paris, and someone who's poor and has little interest in travel, the rich person can certainly pick up the tab.

I don't think proportional is always the right answer either, depends on the situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158420)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

Isn't money the #1 cause for divorce these days?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158384)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:40 PM
Author: vivacious abode pistol

marriage for poors, life partners is the way to go

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158286)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:43 PM
Author: Indecent Selfie Stain

NOTE TO SELF:

do not inhale deeply when your head is underwater.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158307)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

ty, I'll write this on my post-it note too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158387)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:45 PM
Author: multi-colored windowlicker

A better solution would be not to marry someone who is horrible with money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158315)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Indecent Selfie Stain

Note to Self: never cover your 3-year-old in BBQ sauce and then place in a cage with pit bulls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158383)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:06 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

wtf? Are you sure this isn't a good idea?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158440)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:08 PM
Author: Indecent Selfie Stain

Well... it might be ok if you really really love the pit bulls in question and *know* they are the ONE(s).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158451)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:11 PM
Author: Sooty Public Bath

We both put 50% of household expenses into a joint account, then keep the rest in our own accounts. It's worked pretty well for 9 years. We haven't had a single money fight yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158468)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:14 PM
Author: Provocative Gay Wizard Locus

That always struck me as a nice arrangement, especially when people have fairly equal incomes. There's something to be said for having a little money you can spend on shoes or sports pools without someone else telling you how dumb your tastes are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158480)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:12 PM
Author: dashing startling space blood rage

Why on earth would you need a note to self about this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158470)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:14 PM
Author: Lake coffee pot

It was mostly a joke, based off of the credit card thread earlier today

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158481)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:13 PM
Author: chest-beating mischievous principal's office

I disagree. I think you should mix everything, from bodily fluids to finances to the bathroom sink space, before getting married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158476)