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Note to self: Never share finances until after marriage

and even then, be very very careful
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
Credited.
Trip abusive dopamine
  05/23/07
I'm constantly amazed at how stupid people are with money
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
Hey d00d sorry I left you hanging the other night. My inTTTe...
Bronze impertinent hissy fit
  05/23/07
yeah right dooder. you can just say you hate me it's all go...
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
actually i was responding to rowan. PW3ND!
Bronze impertinent hissy fit
  05/23/07
woah, that's some massive selfpwnage there :(
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
No prob, happens to me all the time.
Trip abusive dopamine
  05/23/07
Make sure to have a rock solid prenup.
pearl boyish range electric furnace
  05/23/07
I doubt I'll have any pre-marriage assets at all, so I'm not...
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
lolz.
Bronze impertinent hissy fit
  05/23/07
This seems pretty self-evident, but I guess not.
Concupiscible spot
  05/23/07
you would think it would be...
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
uhh. no point in sharing finances even AFTER marriage. joint...
gay stag film
  05/23/07
most marriages tend to have shitty handlings on finances. s...
Gaped idiot theater
  05/23/07
I think it's still doable. Separate accounts doesn't necess...
Trip abusive dopamine
  05/23/07
titcr. both parties contributing equal % by income for housi...
gay stag film
  05/23/07
if you think that way, you aren't ready to get married.
heady mother jap
  05/23/07
i think you misunderstood her point maybe
Plum aggressive new version
  05/23/07
I didn't quite mean it like that. Formulas of that nature w...
Trip abusive dopamine
  05/23/07
Isn't money the #1 cause for divorce these days?
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
marriage for poors, life partners is the way to go
Provocative Bright Generalized Bond
  05/23/07
NOTE TO SELF: do not inhale deeply when your head is unde...
Federal exhilarant friendly grandma lettuce
  05/23/07
ty, I'll write this on my post-it note too
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
A better solution would be not to marry someone who is horri...
heady mother jap
  05/23/07
Note to Self: never cover your 3-year-old in BBQ sauce and t...
Federal exhilarant friendly grandma lettuce
  05/23/07
wtf? Are you sure this isn't a good idea?
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
Well... it might be ok if you really really love the pit bul...
Federal exhilarant friendly grandma lettuce
  05/23/07
We both put 50% of household expenses into a joint account, ...
magenta excitant public bath
  05/23/07
That always struck me as a nice arrangement, especially when...
Trip abusive dopamine
  05/23/07
Why on earth would you need a note to self about this?
burgundy garrison
  05/23/07
It was mostly a joke, based off of the credit card thread ea...
contagious dull roommate
  05/23/07
I disagree. I think you should mix everything, from bodily ...
free-loading stage
  05/23/07


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Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:22 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

and even then, be very very careful

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157818)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:23 PM
Author: Trip abusive dopamine

Credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157821)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:26 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

I'm constantly amazed at how stupid people are with money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157831)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:35 PM
Author: Bronze impertinent hissy fit

Hey d00d sorry I left you hanging the other night. My inTTTerwebs connection decided to stop working in the middle of our conversation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157884)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:37 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

yeah right dooder. you can just say you hate me it's all good

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157894)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:40 PM
Author: Bronze impertinent hissy fit

actually i was responding to rowan.

PW3ND!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157910)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:42 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

woah, that's some massive selfpwnage there :(

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157921)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:38 PM
Author: Trip abusive dopamine

No prob, happens to me all the time.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157902)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:23 PM
Author: pearl boyish range electric furnace

Make sure to have a rock solid prenup.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157822)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:25 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

I doubt I'll have any pre-marriage assets at all, so I'm not too worried about this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157828)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:28 PM
Author: Bronze impertinent hissy fit

lolz.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157847)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:28 PM
Author: Concupiscible spot

This seems pretty self-evident, but I guess not.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157852)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:29 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

you would think it would be...

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157854)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 2:29 PM
Author: gay stag film

uhh. no point in sharing finances even AFTER marriage. joint account are only for teh poors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8157855)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:17 PM
Author: Gaped idiot theater

most marriages tend to have shitty handlings on finances. separate accounts seems like an obvious choice to avoid a lot of problems. the only shitty thing would be if one party makes 3x more than the other and wants to do more extravagent things.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158114)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:19 PM
Author: Trip abusive dopamine

I think it's still doable. Separate accounts doesn't necessarily mean that all expenses are split 50/50.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158127)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:26 PM
Author: gay stag film

titcr. both parties contributing equal % by income for housing, food, other expenses is clearly the only way to go.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158179)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:41 PM
Author: heady mother jap

if you think that way, you aren't ready to get married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158299)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:56 PM
Author: Plum aggressive new version

i think you misunderstood her point maybe

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158380)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:02 PM
Author: Trip abusive dopamine

I didn't quite mean it like that. Formulas of that nature would be hard to work out. What I meant was more that if you have someone who's both rich and who'd love to go to Paris, and someone who's poor and has little interest in travel, the rich person can certainly pick up the tab.

I don't think proportional is always the right answer either, depends on the situation.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158420)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

Isn't money the #1 cause for divorce these days?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158384)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:40 PM
Author: Provocative Bright Generalized Bond

marriage for poors, life partners is the way to go

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158286)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:43 PM
Author: Federal exhilarant friendly grandma lettuce

NOTE TO SELF:

do not inhale deeply when your head is underwater.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158307)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

ty, I'll write this on my post-it note too

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158387)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:45 PM
Author: heady mother jap

A better solution would be not to marry someone who is horrible with money.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158315)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 3:57 PM
Author: Federal exhilarant friendly grandma lettuce

Note to Self: never cover your 3-year-old in BBQ sauce and then place in a cage with pit bulls.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158383)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:06 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

wtf? Are you sure this isn't a good idea?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158440)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:08 PM
Author: Federal exhilarant friendly grandma lettuce

Well... it might be ok if you really really love the pit bulls in question and *know* they are the ONE(s).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158451)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:11 PM
Author: magenta excitant public bath

We both put 50% of household expenses into a joint account, then keep the rest in our own accounts. It's worked pretty well for 9 years. We haven't had a single money fight yet.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158468)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:14 PM
Author: Trip abusive dopamine

That always struck me as a nice arrangement, especially when people have fairly equal incomes. There's something to be said for having a little money you can spend on shoes or sports pools without someone else telling you how dumb your tastes are.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158480)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:12 PM
Author: burgundy garrison

Why on earth would you need a note to self about this?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158470)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:14 PM
Author: contagious dull roommate

It was mostly a joke, based off of the credit card thread earlier today

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158481)





Date: May 23rd, 2007 4:13 PM
Author: free-loading stage

I disagree. I think you should mix everything, from bodily fluids to finances to the bathroom sink space, before getting married.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=635707&forum_id=2#8158476)