She and I are each other's first love. To this date,after nine years, I still love her most and she still loves me. Yesterday, she told me she already lost her virginity to another guy. I am seriously broken and depressed, forever. Help.
Date: March 20th, 2008 1:38 PM Author: contagious pozpig
It's been 9 years. If the two of you love each other so much, why didn't you manage to take care of this sometime in the last decade? You can only expect a girl to wait so long.
It's very complicated.We were very young back then and I was a jerk. I always felt inscure because she is extremely beautiful and I always pretend that I dont care. Now I've come to know how to love and she already lost it. I want to cry and my heart is dead.
Dude. She's not dead. are you a virgin still? if so, I would recommend losing it to someone else pronto, so that way it's no big deal to either of you.
Then fall in love with this girl you're pining over now and spend the rest of your life with her.
Date: March 20th, 2008 2:29 PM Author: Blue School
All this talk is crazy. You will love again. Though your heart is breaking, you will love again. Stonger than before. Even if it take a lifetime to get over her. You've got to move on. What else can you do?
Date: March 20th, 2008 1:50 PM Author: contagious pozpig
Chalk it up as a lesson learned (a couple lessons, actually: don't be a jerk and don't expect women to wait around while you grow up) and find some other girl.
yeah, young love. I don't see how it's different than falling desperately in love with some girl whose lost her v-card to someone else already. I mean you have to already have lost it to someone else so you both think it's not a big deal.