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Dumb to get a $800k mortgage with my GF?

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed...
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/20/26
Heights of everyone involved?
fear of a faggot planet
  04/20/26
Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5&r...
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/20/26
You're fucked.
fear of a faggot planet
  04/20/26
lmao
ww2 was an inverted butlerian jihad
  04/20/26
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i gave my cousin head
  04/20/26
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all girls secretly want a fuggo
  04/20/26
sometimes i trick myself into thinking the people here are s...
i gave my cousin head
  04/20/26
...
Moishe "Moose" Goldberg
  04/20/26
Explain I’m here looking for advice.
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/20/26
They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredib...
Fucking Fuckface
  04/20/26
Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage i...
.;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,..,,.,,....,
  04/20/26
That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about h...
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/20/26
getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  04/20/26
put a ring on it, faggot
my dog can log into xo more often than I can
  04/20/26
...
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  04/20/26
Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not li...
the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)
  04/20/26
Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/20/26
Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basi...
the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)
  04/20/26
guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  04/20/26
Were you forced to sell?
.;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,..,,.,,....,
  04/20/26
not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  04/20/26
Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.
the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)
  04/20/26
our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborh...
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  04/20/26
Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept o...
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/21/26
cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself
...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,
  04/21/26
I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/21/26
I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.
the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)
  04/21/26
Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You s...
Richard Ames
  04/20/26
Retarded if not married yet
Fyre festival founder
  04/20/26
"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?...
wait till biggus dickus hears of this
  04/20/26
who is on the title?
wangfei
  04/20/26
I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low intere...
JJC (retired)
  04/20/26
We both own condos.
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/21/26
Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You stil...
POPE LEO IS WEAK ON CRIME
  04/21/26
what could go wrong?
/_\
  04/20/26
...
the preposterous functioning world in yer tv set
  04/20/26
you only live once
kikesicle
  04/21/26
https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ra...
chefboy rd
  04/21/26
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Daft Unc
  04/21/26
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POPE LEO IS WEAK ON CRIME
  04/21/26
get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come...
Brussels Sprout: Brussels,Helsinki,Stockholm,Kyiv
  04/21/26
LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and e...
POPE LEO IS WEAK ON CRIME
  04/21/26
Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd pr...
Richard Ames
  04/21/26
The only amount we will both make total is about $100k becau...
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/21/26
just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never u...
Cletus Van Damme
  04/21/26
She can’t breed
A slightly younger poaster (32)
  04/21/26


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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:05 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

We’re probably getting married (pretty much guaranteed).

I’m 32 and she’s 30. I make $250k and she makes about $150k. We got our preapproval. I’m gonna put $100k down.

So the mortgage would be $750k. Are mortgage companies just going to ok this? They seem like they’re fine with it but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?

This is not flame I legit wanna know.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830034)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:12 PM
Author: fear of a faggot planet (🧐)

Heights of everyone involved?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830058)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

Weird question? I’m 6’1 and she’s like 5’5.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830078)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: fear of a faggot planet (🧐)

You're fucked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830090)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:15 PM
Author: ww2 was an inverted butlerian jihad

lmao

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830062)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: i gave my cousin head



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830065)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: all girls secretly want a fuggo



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830621)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:17 PM
Author: i gave my cousin head

sometimes i trick myself into thinking the people here are smarter than your average person

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830067)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:20 PM
Author: Moishe "Moose" Goldberg



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830076)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

Explain I’m here looking for advice.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830081)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: Fucking Fuckface

They are. The problem is that even smart people are incredibly dumb. Internalize that

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830620)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:19 PM
Author: .;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,..,,.,,....,


Banks won't care. But seems risky even if you say marriage is a guarantee

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830072)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

That’s all I needed to know. Don’t worry about how much the mortgage is. I just needed to know the answer to this.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830084)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:21 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


getting married (pretty much guaranteed) tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830079)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:22 PM
Author: my dog can log into xo more often than I can (thanks, Rach!)

put a ring on it, faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830083)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:35 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,




(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830623)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:24 PM
Author: the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)

Obviously it'd be better to wait until married. It's not like interest rates are at sub-3% like those of us who purchased in 2020/2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830092)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:25 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

Not all of us are in situations where we were in 2021.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830094)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:29 PM
Author: the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)

Silver lining for you is that ppl who purchased in 2020 basically cannot in good conscience move.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830108)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:34 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


guy who bought in 2021 @ 2.125% who moved in 2024 here sup?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830123)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: .;:..;:.;.:.;.,,,..,.:,.;....;,;;;..;,..,,.,,....,


Were you forced to sell?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830143)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:52 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


not at all. we sold and paid ARR CASH for a bigger house.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830155)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 6:37 PM
Author: the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)

Crazy even if you're all cash buyer.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830264)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 7:52 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


our starter home was too small and in a much worse neighborhood than our new house. what could we do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830492)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:56 AM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

Same. These weird fucks don’t understand the concept of having children. The ones that say “never sell” are most likely Asians filming their purchased wives being bred.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831300)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:09 PM
Author: ...,,..;...,,..,..,...,,,;..,


cr, but you're 32 and unmarried yourself

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49832054)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:37 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

I’m 40 and married with 5 kids.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49832209)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 10:04 PM
Author: the walter white of this generation (walt jr.)

I paid $700K for an addition rather than buy new.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49833282)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:28 PM
Author: Richard Ames

Dumb for many obvious reasons. What if you have a kid? You sure she's going to want to keep working? I wouldn't bet on it. That's a big nut to pay monthly on your income alone.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830101)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:42 PM
Author: Fyre festival founder

Retarded if not married yet

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830144)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 5:55 PM
Author: wait till biggus dickus hears of this

"but what if one of us just say fuck it if we break up?"

Same thing that happens to married couples if one of them just say fuck it. If ur both on the mortgage, you both pepper angus. The bank is getting its money

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830159)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:42 PM
Author: wangfei

who is on the title?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830655)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:07 PM
Author: JJC (retired)

I would say yes if it were 2021 with historically low interest rates and there was a reason to LOCK something in.

At the moment, 1000% just keep renting and stacking cash until you need a bigger place for babydood.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830533)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

We both own condos.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831302)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: POPE LEO IS WEAK ON CRIME

Sell one and park the cash in something risk free. You still have to get through the wedding, which is not guaranteed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831835)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: /_\

what could go wrong?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830659)



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Date: April 20th, 2026 8:43 PM
Author: the preposterous functioning world in yer tv set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49830660)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:57 AM
Author: kikesicle

you only live once

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831303)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:42 AM
Author: chefboy rd

https://cdn.images.express.co.uk/img/dynamic/23/590x/Dave-Ramsey-1536490.jpg?r=1639565934357

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831439)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 7:47 AM
Author: Daft Unc



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831448)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 1:19 PM
Author: POPE LEO IS WEAK ON CRIME



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49832081)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:08 AM
Author: Brussels Sprout: Brussels,Helsinki,Stockholm,Kyiv


get your priorities straight: love and marriage (legal) come first-- the rest will follow, hth.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831831)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:09 AM
Author: POPE LEO IS WEAK ON CRIME

LMFAO, I was going to say yes, assuming you made $500k and everything was in your name. But you can barely afford the mortgage.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831832)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 11:12 AM
Author: Richard Ames

Reading this again knowing that you each own a condo. I'd probably try and sell them and then put a yuge down payment on the house. Otherwise you will be a housepoor slave based on your incomes. And your "GF" (BF?) will probably not want to work once you have kids.

Do you want to end up like Disco Fries?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49831841)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:35 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

The only amount we will both make total is about $100k because it’s “her” condo but it’s her dad’s technically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49832203)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 2:44 PM
Author: Cletus Van Damme

just knock the bitch up already the rest is noise. i never understand how adult men get into these gay "gf" relationships and arent like ok are we having kids or not within a couple months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49832229)



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Date: April 21st, 2026 3:25 PM
Author: A slightly younger poaster (32)

She can’t breed

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5858789&forum_id=2...#49832323)