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I married a top – but now he wants to be a bottom

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. ...
Crystalline ticket booth
  05/14/24
Pipe dream.
Mind-boggling marketing idea step-uncle's house
  05/14/24
ran here
Chrome Corn Cake Double Fault
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Talking dysfunction
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'married'
aquamarine office skinny woman
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(bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+...
Coral Painfully Honest Boiling Water Nursing Home
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Mods.
Lavender organic girlfriend
  05/14/24
Time to man up, doobs
Razzle-dazzle french chef death wish
  05/14/24
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Crystalline ticket booth
  05/15/24
totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.
Bossy property
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marvelous fear-inspiring space new version
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khaki private investor jewess
  05/29/24
GLOBAL ISLAM NOW
aromatic grizzly dragon corner
  05/15/24
Summon UES jew
Crystalline ticket booth
  05/15/24
top burnout tp
appetizing aggressive brunch gaming laptop
  05/15/24
How do you address it? I'm a top btw
Crystalline ticket booth
  05/15/24
Prep
appetizing aggressive brunch gaming laptop
  05/15/24
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Primrose field
  05/15/24
Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence
floppy embarrassed to the bone church background story
  05/15/24
Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can ge...
Crystalline ticket booth
  05/15/24
does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my...
Bossy property
  05/15/24
this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw
marvelous fear-inspiring space new version
  05/15/24
my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental heal...
Bossy property
  05/15/24
Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn'...
cerise insane ceo pervert
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Excitant Salmon Whorehouse
  05/15/24
honey i can't, my top burnout.
Bossy property
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Fantasy-prone sanctuary roommate
  05/29/24
"in pursuit of a pipe dream " can someone exp...
Frisky lemon mad cow disease institution
  05/15/24
The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom
Crystalline ticket booth
  05/29/24
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Crystalline ticket booth
  05/15/24
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Crystalline ticket booth
  05/29/24
this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.
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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:17 PM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth

I am a man in my early 30s married to a man in his mid-50s. We have always been in an open relationship: we met at a sex party. When we met I was always a bottom and he a top. Over time, however, he has become obsessed with bottoming. He never penetrates me, even in a group, and has starting expressing jealousy about the tops that I attract. I feel he is throwing our life away in pursuit of a pipe dream and I long to get back the dominant top that I married – a role he is suited for physically. He has been looking at escort websites, which I find depressingly inevitable. How can I wake him up to reality?

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence and it can lead to a shift in a person’s power exchange preferences, usually temporarily. This is less likely to happen when partners switch, exchanging roles from time to time, but clearly that is not for you. It might be wise to relax about this and try to tolerate – even support – his period of exploration. In fact, dominance and submission are not so different; just polarised aspects of the same erotic style. So some tops frequently fantasise about bottoming but are not prepared to practise it – and vice versa. The top usually does most of the work: initiates, arranges the scene, toys and so on, so your husband may want a break from the responsibility. I can understand your disappointment and fear of losing your preferred sexual style, but people and relationships change and evolve over time so it would be best to talk patiently and lovingly with your husband – without reproaching or blaming him – about what he is feeling and the reasons for this change. You need to understand each other. Gently express your sadness about the potential loss you are facing. Then do your best to show that you love and support him.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:21 PM
Author: Mind-boggling marketing idea step-uncle's house

Pipe dream.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:38 AM
Author: Chrome Corn Cake Double Fault

ran here

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:28 PM
Author: Talking dysfunction



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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: aquamarine office skinny woman

'married'

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 PM
Author: Coral Painfully Honest Boiling Water Nursing Home

(bigot who doesn’t respect gay open marriages with 20+ year age gaps)

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:19 PM
Author: Lavender organic girlfriend

Mods.

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Date: May 14th, 2024 2:22 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle french chef death wish

Time to man up, doobs

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:39 AM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:41 AM
Author: Bossy property

totally normal, talk to your kids about top burnout.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: marvelous fear-inspiring space new version



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: khaki private investor jewess



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 AM
Author: aromatic grizzly dragon corner

GLOBAL ISLAM NOW

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:14 AM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth

Summon UES jew

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:31 AM
Author: appetizing aggressive brunch gaming laptop

top burnout tp

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:37 AM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth

How do you address it? I'm a top btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 11:39 AM
Author: appetizing aggressive brunch gaming laptop

Prep

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:15 PM
Author: Primrose field



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: floppy embarrassed to the bone church background story

Top burnout is a fairly common occurrence

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2...id#47663757)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth

Lots of ppl with experience sounding off itt, glad we can get a conversation started

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:27 PM
Author: Bossy property

does top burnout also occur in hetero couples? asking for my wife.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:30 PM
Author: marvelous fear-inspiring space new version

this is all ((completely)) normal and healthy, btw

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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:33 PM
Author: Bossy property

my 14 year old son was struggling in school with mental health issues until one day his health teacher talked about top burnout. realizing that he didn't *always* have to top was such a huge relief. there's so much social pressure on boys to dominate each other. toxic masculinity! ever since he started bottoming he's more relaxed and we're seeing a dramatic improvement in his grades.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2...id#47663863)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 1:36 PM
Author: cerise insane ceo pervert

Just tried to discuss my top burnout with wife but she wasn't very understanding

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2...id#47663869)



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:06 PM
Author: Excitant Salmon Whorehouse



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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:50 PM
Author: Bossy property

honey i can't, my top burnout.

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:56 PM
Author: exhilarant mauve boistinker



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:05 PM
Author: Fantasy-prone sanctuary roommate



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Date: May 15th, 2024 2:07 PM
Author: Frisky lemon mad cow disease institution

"in pursuit of a pipe dream "

can someone explain

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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:09 PM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth

The grody old top will NEVER be a twink bottom

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Date: May 15th, 2024 10:13 PM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:03 PM
Author: Crystalline ticket booth



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Date: May 29th, 2024 1:07 PM
Author: Bossy property

this didn't get enough lulz, deserves to be a yuge meme.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5528470&forum_id=2...id#47700987)