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Having kids made me realize my parents were actually worse than I thought
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Date: July 10th, 2025 8:31 PM Author: you\'re the puppet This whole idea that you understand your parents better once you have kids - this did not happen for me. I'm very close to breaking relations entirely just because I'm busy with a kid and a full time job and dealing with parent drama is a thankless and unpleasant task I don't have the energy for. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49091589) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 7:38 PM Author: Pierbattista Pizzaballa It sounds like you do understand your parents better. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49096573) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:42 PM Author: you\'re the puppet ouch (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106881) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:48 PM Author: richard clock (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106899) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:54 PM Author: Looking into This (🧐) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106914) |
Date: July 11th, 2025 7:08 PM Author: you\'re the puppet (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094499) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:14 PM Author: Oh, you travel? ( ) The entire notion that there’s some kind of wisdom in old age or in our ancestors is pure bullshit. They were just idiots rationalizing their bumbling steps through existence like anyone else. Most old people are just corrupt or stupid or both. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094517) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:24 PM Author: Pleasureman Acolyte i've had a different takeaway as i've gotten older. i have definitely gotten continually wiser as i've gotten older, as have my friends and peers who i respect and admire
but most other people just....don't. there's no growth, there's no curiosity, there's no intrinsic desire or drive to understand things better
there are guys i knew back in college who were definitely smarter and wiser than me back then and who i looked up to who i've caught up with in recent years and they're pretty much the exact same person. it's wild. like they got trapped in a star trek temporal bubble or something
most people really just do not care about anything at all beyond their small little parochial corner of the world and don't grow at all in any way that matters. it reminds me of the concept of "the gossip trap": until human civilization became advanced enough to move beyond dunbar-number groups into hierarchies and commercial relationships based on abstraction, individuals would always be pulled back into the bucket by the other normie crabs and no one was ever free to create, innovate, evolve, etc
https://www.theintrinsicperspective.com/p/the-gossip-trap |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 8:23 PM Author: Oh, you travel? ( ) Pretty interesting read, is that your work haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094644) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 8:31 PM Author: Pleasureman Acolyte nah it's a great essay and cr concept though (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094658) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 9:23 PM Author: Paralegal Muhammad Is this the Clique System basically (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094783) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 10:55 PM Author: todd bonzalez learning to care only about your small little parochial corner of the world *IS* wisdom. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094944) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 1:11 PM Author: Pleasureman Acolyte It's tempting to see it this way, because there is some truth to this, but in practice these kind of parochial people don't actually stick to their parochial corner of the world. They end up with bigoted, wrong, self-defeating/harmful opinions on the outside world because they are too lazy and arrogant and mentally undeveloped to have the self-awareness to realize how little they know
It's these people who end up becoming Orange Man Bad TDS nutcases or "christcucks" who believe in insane nonsense like Israel First dispensationalism
The wise man knows what he doesn't know and is comfortable with drawing lines and staying within them |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:15 PM Author: gumbo boomers, overall, are mediocre parents. and even worse grand-parents. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094520) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:20 PM Author: Senior Ethics Official My parents were idiots. But i would be an idiot too without the internet. So im not too hard on them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094530) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:20 PM Author: gibberish (?) Yes in part. I do remember disregarding advice my parents gave me with results you'd expect. Now I see my kids doing the same thing. I guess that's part of life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094531) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:27 PM Author: boner police jerking off to sam hyde choking gjr (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094543) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 9:02 PM Author: Brian Uecker of My Posting Career Did your parents tell you to be a permamad gooklet creep? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094741) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 10:50 PM Author: gibberish (?) Permamad? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094937) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 10:55 PM Author: Brian Uecker of My Posting Career Did they teach you to be dumb too or is that just because you're a bucktooth gook? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094945) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 11:04 PM Author: gibberish (?) You're calling me perma mad? I don't know who the fuck you are but pretty sure I've only ever been nice on here. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094967) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 7:36 PM Author: Brian Uecker of My Posting Career My God you are one dickless gook. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49096568) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:29 PM Author: disco fries (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage) This is an interesting thread idea. I think what you've got your thumb on is the idea that we're all inherently self-centered and a bit out of tune with those around us. Here's an example, when I went to Disneyland with CSLG, we were having a sort of general discussion about our careers. I asked him, sort of in a coy way, if I should stop working for my defense firm. It was loud and there was a crowd around and he took my question to be, will you (CSLG) ever stop working? When he answered, I had to redirect him and say, "No, I was only thinking about myself." To which he quickly replied, "Haha, so was I!" So you see, we see the world through our lived experiences. As you're a parent now, you expect more from your parents in terms of help, support, etc. They aren't giving it. That's okay. Let that just be the state of things. Don't jump to conclusions about what shitty people they are. You're kind of shitty too, you may not realize it yet, but just turn the magnifying glass inward. Then you will see. Believe me, you will see. |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 7:31 PM Author: gumbo fair (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094548) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 8:11 PM Author: dirigible behemothaur did not read (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094617) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 8:16 PM Author: disco fries (his own flesh as well as all space was still a cage) I'm spittin' knowledge, so ignore at your own peril (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094625) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 1:04 PM Author: Senior Ethics Official Disco hung out with that wealthy jew swindler and he wants the world to know. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49095807) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:46 PM Author: you\'re the puppet No to all of this. Don't post in my threads. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106892) |
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Date: July 11th, 2025 10:04 PM Author: This page intentionally left blank you dont need kids to realise this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49094849) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 1:04 PM Author: Paralegal Muhammad Seeing the lengths that even the most mediocre proles will go for their kids has really underscored how Scummy my parents are imo. I could not get a Ride anywhere and had only Consoles to Console me. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49095808) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 1:07 PM Author: Penis Six Nine Well, you're brown, so... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49095816) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 1:08 PM Author: Senior Ethics Official Ya. Its different... (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49095817) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 7:44 PM Author: Paralegal Muhammad 😔 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49096595) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:47 PM Author: you\'re the puppet My mom leaving me alone was actually the best case scenario for me. I would rather walk ten miles than have her pick me up. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106895) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 7:45 PM Author: i gave my cousin head yeah but they tried (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49096598) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:45 PM Author: you\'re the puppet I'm not actually sure that they did. My grandparents raised me. Watching my mom with the baby is terrifying. And I let the baby eat dog biscuits and greenies. The standards are low. I cannot stress this enough. The standards are VERY LOW. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106890) |
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Date: July 12th, 2025 8:34 PM Author: caitlin clark Whoa, when did u form babby, mandy? (this is jcm) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49096668) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:44 PM Author: you\'re the puppet She just turned 1. Baby was formed late, 40+ late. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106886) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 7:03 PM Author: caitlin clark congratulations! im very happy for you <3 glad you guys decided to have kids after all. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106968) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 8:44 PM Author: you\'re the puppet ty! Got incredibly lucky with this baby so far. No guarantees that we would get on but this one happens to be 180. I just really like her. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49107351) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:48 PM Author: richard clock did you ever recover your abandoned child from gujarat? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106898) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:51 PM Author: Trump Tariffs Can Do No Wrong (TDNW) stop putting your stupid career before your child, you dumb jew
lol @ manchild TMF keeping you on the plantation to fund his X6 instead of keeping you at home to raise the child |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 7:02 PM Author: you\'re the puppet Stay at home parenting is 100% not for me (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106966) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 7:12 PM Author: Trump Tariffs Can Do No Wrong (TDNW) you don’t have to stay home, but abandoning your kid for work is psychopathic
you ghouls never should have had a kid |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 7:26 PM Author: you\'re the puppet not sure im seeing the middle ground here (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49107125) |
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Date: July 17th, 2025 4:11 AM Author: Trump Tariffs Can Do No Wrong (TDNW) of course a ghoul like you can’t see that a kid is more important than “work” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49108059) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 6:59 PM Author: UhOh my parents only advice was don't get anyone pregnant and stay out of jail. and here i am, a childless lawyer. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106952) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 7:02 PM Author: you\'re the puppet lol (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49106967) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 8:54 PM Author: Looking into This (🧐) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49107363) |
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Date: July 17th, 2025 5:08 AM Author: Louis Poasteur (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49108087) |
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Date: July 16th, 2025 7:28 PM Author: 40-50x more gay and autistic than you My parents were basically perfect in every way. Perhaps they could have taught me some more social skills, but LJL at teaching me social skills. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49107127) |
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Date: July 17th, 2025 4:38 AM Author: Lawyers are the lowest form of life. My daughter will never meet my parents, inshallah. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5748908&forum_id=2...id.#49108072) |