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There’s no upside to being honest with them in an exit interview, right?

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I&...
fear-inspiring cuckoldry
  06/28/25
What would God want you to do?
mewling purple masturbator national
  06/28/25
Just leave, who gives a shit
bearded well-lubricated indian lodge lettuce
  06/28/25
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Maniacal Mood Persian
  06/28/25
No one gives two fucks what you think.
thriller saffron property volcanic crater
  06/28/25
the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all,...
Drab awkward lodge water buffalo
  06/28/25
💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're goin...
frozen ruby whorehouse
  06/28/25
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big silver meetinghouse partner
  06/28/25
correct, do not do one, just ignore
flickering giraffe national security agency
  06/28/25
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Aphrodisiac market
  06/28/25
Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched y...
Sepia floppy menage really tough guy
  06/28/25
and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever
Maniacal Mood Persian
  06/28/25
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Vermilion laser beams university
  06/28/25
You sound very gay and jewish Also stop doing adderall
ruddy regret new version
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bronze corner gay wizard
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dashing set
  06/28/25
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topaz comical station
  06/28/25
Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer wi...
mewling purple masturbator national
  06/28/25
Have you learned nothing in life Honesty will only ever h...
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  06/28/25
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big silver meetinghouse partner
  06/28/25
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topaz comical station
  06/28/25
Just read ur actual op Lmfao r u a woman Holy shit ur a ...
bistre galvanic community account
  06/28/25
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Opaque digit ratio
  06/28/25
You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you...
Scarlet Appetizing Main People
  06/28/25
jewish family man you’re the bad guy if you hate t...
ruddy regret new version
  06/28/25
nobody cares
big silver meetinghouse partner
  06/28/25
Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough pr...
angry elastic band
  06/28/25
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Aphrodisiac market
  06/28/25
lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his &...
sapphire headpube
  06/28/25
A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime
angry elastic band
  06/28/25
Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the w...
tan liquid oxygen
  06/28/25
You sound like a real POS “considering” whether ...
dashing set
  06/28/25
he’s jewish
ruddy regret new version
  06/28/25
What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood jus...
Aphrodisiac market
  06/28/25
a jew
ruddy regret new version
  06/28/25
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big silver meetinghouse partner
  06/29/25
Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the ...
lilac point
  06/28/25


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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: fear-inspiring cuckoldry

Got an offer today and will be switching jobs next month. I’m not going to seek out an exit interview but I strongly suspect the HR person is going to want to document my feedback because I’m being poached by a competitor and several execs in the business will find out this week and will talk to me about it, and she will want to try to find out what I told them. I have an opportunity in all this to trash our group’s lead VP, and he’s likely already on shaky enough ground that it could at a minimum help to block any future progress up the ladder, and could possibly result in a demotion for him. Arguably this is what’s best for the team I’m leaving ie the guy is not evil or sadistic like a boomer but he’s like an archetypal Gen X beta who is drowning and losing the game of thrones at his new level that he only got to like a year ago. It’s a pretty standard issue Peter principle scenario where he’s retreating to tactical stuff because he’s overwhelmed by his failures and invisibility in terms of strategic stuff. But thinking about it especially from a pure self interest perspective it seems much smarter to say nothing about any of this and not get into any of the many pointed critiques I have of him along these lines with many on-point examples of his limitations. Curious if XO agrees.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055924)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:16 AM
Author: mewling purple masturbator national

What would God want you to do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055956)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:02 AM
Author: bearded well-lubricated indian lodge lettuce

Just leave, who gives a shit

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055930)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:59 PM
Author: Maniacal Mood Persian



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056415)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:04 AM
Author: thriller saffron property volcanic crater

No one gives two fucks what you think.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055935)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:09 AM
Author: Drab awkward lodge water buffalo

the power move would be not to do the exit interview at all, and that's what i'd recommend in this scenario. the main purpose of the exit interview is to identify and mitigate any potential legal risk from your departure.

whatever negative feedback you give for the VP will almost certainly be swept under the rug as it does not sound significant enough to warrant investigation/intervention. also, you could potentially burn a bridge.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055944)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: frozen ruby whorehouse

💯 don't bother with this. It's to find out of you're going to sue them or if they can sue you

Nothing else you say matters

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055959)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: big silver meetinghouse partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055977)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:10 AM
Author: flickering giraffe national security agency

correct, do not do one, just ignore

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056036)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:34 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056088)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:44 AM
Author: Sepia floppy menage really tough guy

Unless you make serious and direct allegations (he touched your special spot and tried to coerce you into sex), it's going nowhere



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056107)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:00 PM
Author: Maniacal Mood Persian

and even serious allegations will go nowhere, so whatever

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056419)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:36 PM
Author: Vermilion laser beams university



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056191)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:11 AM
Author: ruddy regret new version

You sound very gay and jewish

Also stop doing adderall

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055949)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:08 AM
Author: bronze corner gay wizard



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056032)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:35 PM
Author: dashing set



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056186)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: topaz comical station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49057099)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:15 AM
Author: mewling purple masturbator national

Correct. If you really want to say something grab a beer with your boss in a month.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055955)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:17 AM
Author: bistre galvanic community account

Have you learned nothing in life

Honesty will only ever hurt you in life especially in a "work" environment

Modernity demands you never tell the truth in a satanic humiliation ritual

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055962)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:26 AM
Author: big silver meetinghouse partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055978)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 9:38 PM
Author: topaz comical station



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49057100)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:18 AM
Author: bistre galvanic community account

Just read ur actual op

Lmfao r u a woman

Holy shit ur a faggot

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055964)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:27 AM
Author: Opaque digit ratio



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056066)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Scarlet Appetizing Main People

You seem to have no idea how any of this shit works. Are you a zoomer?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055972)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:53 AM
Author: ruddy regret new version

jewish family man

you’re the bad guy if you hate these “people” btw

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056115)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:27 AM
Author: big silver meetinghouse partner

nobody cares

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055983)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:35 AM
Author: angry elastic band

Why would you trash the Gen Xer? Seems like he has enough problems.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49055997)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 11:35 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac market



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056090)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:46 AM
Author: sapphire headpube

lmao at OP imagining the company is going to implement his "recommendations"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056010)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 10:59 AM
Author: angry elastic band

A light breeze could knock a Gen X manager off his perch ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056023)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:13 PM
Author: tan liquid oxygen

Lmao at thinking an exit interview with an HR idiot is the way to get at someone. You just look like a butthurt asshole pulling something like that. Either voice it when you’re there or stfu on the way out

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056151)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:25 PM
Author: dashing set

You sound like a real POS “considering” whether to torpedo some poor schlub who - per your story - never did anything remotely comparably bad to you.

You are also completely clueless about how businesses/HR depts function and it’s going to be hilarious when that bites you in the ass soon.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056166)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 12:30 PM
Author: ruddy regret new version

he’s jewish

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056175)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 1:51 PM
Author: Aphrodisiac market

What kind of dude fucks with somebody’s livelihood just to “help” some company he’s leaving. Really shitty man

Was legit in this situation 3 months ago and took the interview bc I may go back there. My boss had no idea what he was doing but was chill and I had a lot of free time as a result. Obviously didn’t throw him under the bus as I was leaving

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056328)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 3:30 PM
Author: ruddy regret new version

a jew

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056479)



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Date: June 29th, 2025 7:16 AM
Author: big silver meetinghouse partner



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49057567)



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Date: June 28th, 2025 2:50 PM
Author: lilac point

Fuck this idiot. Destroy him. Have o3 write an email to the CEO/COO/CFO

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5744095&forum_id=2E#49056402)