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as a male did you ever have a "mentor" at a job
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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:54 AM Author: Splenetic main people like other than your family members did any older male ever bother to try to teach you something or help you along with your career at a young age? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440188) |
Date: November 18th, 2025 8:58 AM Author: razzmatazz cream legend institution very first job was a corpo job in mfh
jewish guy was assigned as my "mentor". he was just like the stuff i wrote about it in "dinner with andre" thread. Fake goy name, two first names. Taller and almost passing. Neurotic and sarcastic and quippy
one day i didnt wear a belt. I was 22 and didnt know shit about corpo-wear i guess. He grabbed my elbow and tried to parade me around office, announcing "this kid has no belt"
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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:59 AM Author: deranged ruby theatre lettuce IME the most disgusting kikes are the ones with two first goy names (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440200) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 7:28 AM Author: Talking rose hell tattoo Matthew Thomas Shapiro (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443220) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:07 AM Author: Sepia Temple Depressive of course (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440225) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:10 AM Author: arousing underhanded volcanic crater pervert A lot of boomers did (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440238) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:18 AM Author: sick doctorate space most well-adjusted people at larger companies have older more experienced guys at work who look out for them and try to help them out. terms like “mentor” are a product of the workplace being commandeered by careerist women and emasculated over-earnest evangelical types. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440256) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:30 AM Author: honey-headed aggressive area just some older bros helping out younger bros. none of that faggy woman shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440277) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 11:57 AM Author: effete senate new version (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440615) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 8:06 PM Author: Drab therapy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49442213) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:12 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443255) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 12:33 AM Author: violent stag film electric furnace (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49442966) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:23 AM Author: stirring cordovan location When I first started out, I had people that would try to take advantage of me and get me to do their work for them. After awhile, I built relationships that have lasted and those folks have looked out for me, I guess. I sacrificed a lot when I was younger and look where it has led me. |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:28 AM Author: bearded lodge After boomers became old enough to be “mentors,” the protege is always female I guess.
doodikoff thought he had a mentor but it was just a boomer who was like “how’s your Firm you started in march 2020 going, champ?” |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:32 AM Author: Comical chapel yes, i also try to mentor younger doods, they all end up CSLGing and mooning over me haha (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440281) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 9:45 AM Author: Splenetic main people you should be happy for them if they do (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440309) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:01 AM Author: Comical chapel its like watching ur son hit a home run (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440329) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:04 AM Author: Exhilarant Amber Idiot best thing i did when i went solo at 29 was rent space with 5 solo dudes age 50-70 including a former ausa and law professor. they were great about bringing me as co counsel, talking through cases and feeding me scraps. 10 years later i think i make more than all of them now because they are shit at business (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440333) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:05 AM Author: Fiercely-loyal house goy or jews? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440335) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:32 AM Author: Exhilarant Amber Idiot we are all jews (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440400) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:35 AM Author: Fiercely-loyal house u ever get to play w kai? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440411) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 11:56 AM Author: Haunting Rigor the xo story (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440612) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 7:22 AM Author: deranged ruby theatre lettuce (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443214) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:21 PM Author: Boyish antidepressant drug Why do you say they were shit at business?
Why is your firm much more profitable? |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 7:52 PM Author: Exhilarant Amber Idiot They are all crim def only and dont know how to price services and get stuck in cases. I do crim and pi and hired staff to handle the administrative shit (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49442180) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:13 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot nice! are you able to bring them on as co-counsel now, or throw them scraps - like have the tables turned - or are they retired and whatnot now (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443257) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:08 AM Author: Haunting Rigor summon: doodikoff (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440341) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:15 AM Author: bearded lodge https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4712326&mc=145&forum_id=2
https://www.xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=4848906&mc=138&forum_id=2 |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 1:31 AM Author: Provocative range sandwich Thanks for poasting the second one, I had never seen that gem (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443006) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:15 AM Author: Fiercely-loyal house biglaw boomers like me -- had 1 jew and 1 goy boomer help me with the ropes when i was a junior. mostly how to navigate the bullshit and politics and helping run interference for me to avoid bad partners (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440353) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:41 AM Author: Lascivious Ungodly Den Sneaky Criminal yeah
he was a good dude. he probably got more out of it than me - i was a stellar employee - but he did a lot out of genuine goodwill to help me and do what was best for me |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 11:55 AM Author: Twinkling fortuitous meteor when i was young my uncle mentored me to suck his cock (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440609) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:22 PM Author: Boyish antidepressant drug Surprised I had to scroll this far down to find tales of sexual exploitation. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49441815) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 12:51 PM Author: disturbing dog poop people who are hurt Yes but he had a tiny book and I went down with the ship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49440805) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:01 PM Author: Buff hall Yes, lucked out and started working for one older partner in a niche regulatory practice. Taught me everything I know and now he’s semi retired and I inherited all of his big institutional clients. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49441730) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:14 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443259) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:02 PM Author: Tantric misunderstood travel guidebook At my first job it was policy to give every new hire a "mentor." I suspect I got assigned mine because we shared a certain sociocultural identity. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49441737) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:20 PM Author: Comical chapel nebbish jew? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49441802) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 6:21 PM Author: Sadistic scourge upon the earth Yea, twice and it was 180. Thought this was normal (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49441808) |
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Date: November 18th, 2025 10:59 PM Author: Motley canary church I had one great mentor who was a former practice group head and came up under a leading lawyer in my field. He was fantastic and I’m still in touch occasionally even though he’s retired. My fatal mistake was that I trusted he would still have the juice to get me made partner. He did not. Ironically, I also worked closely with the young gun partner who took over for him. He didn’t go to bat for me to make partner (at a v10 firm where it’s impossible to make partner in my group), and I left the firm. The younger guy left for a different firm and I’m still friends with him and might give him business. I vacillate between being resentful that I didn’t make partner to being happy that I am a client now with a 10x better life. (I now personally manage ~$20MM in legal spend per year and these cockroaches are all on my nuts to get business.) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49442801) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:15 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443261) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 12:28 AM Author: marvelous well-lubricated candlestick maker Yes. They taught me what I know, protected me in the storm, stood as beacons of excellence and integrity in the darkest hour. I would die for them. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49442964) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:14 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443260) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 12:46 AM Author: violent stag film electric furnace yes. had a couple dudes who really helped me out when i was young and stupid and didn't understand the world. thankfully they are all still alive and we talk regularly.
hopefully the younger guys i deal with now will in turn help me stay in touch after i've mostly powered down to read books all day.
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:13 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443258) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 7:30 AM Author: heady ultramarine kitty cat when i started LOL they assigned me two mentors a faggot birdshit and an AZNguy cause these were the only two "diverse" ppl in the firm
got raped by both of them, now gay |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:06 AM Author: orange ticket booth international law enforcement agency Lol no. I come from stock that is smart but blue collar at best and outright criminal at worst. I didn't even know to apply for college until people were talking about getting rejected or accepted in high school
I have mentored a ton of people now, though, including fellow c-level executives. The world is fucking crazy |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:15 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5799490&forum_id=2E#49443262) |
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Date: November 19th, 2025 8:28 AM Author: Jade Galvanic Giraffe Spot love this thread about bros (occasionally) helping bros.
i had guys who i learned a lot from, but i never managed to turn it into the quasi-son, golden child thing that you see some guys pull off. which was my fault, because when i was younger, i had a bit of an anti-authoritarian streak, would be the junior complaining about bullshit deadlines or work/projects that made no sense, would sometimes correct the boss, and am too autistic to let certain things go.
maybe the guy i learned the most from was close in age and more of a colleague/slight boss, with more natural charisma than i've ever seen - seeing that up close was an education.
and honestly now, i've got a senior lady boss with a super high-powered background, who overtly talks about "mentorship" and mentoring me specifically, and it's great. even though xo consensus is that lady bosses are to be avoided, she's 180 so far and seems to like me. |