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Update on the subordinate I slept with

I got a call from HR. I was a bit unnerved but not really, s...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/13/25
Hope it works out The company I've been employed at for yea...
Chrome razzmatazz coffee pot brethren
  10/14/25
What
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/14/25
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mint unhinged rehab persian
  10/18/25
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Nubile Sex Offender
  10/18/25
promising shtick plz keep it going hopefully we can get ...
Supple grizzly mood friendly grandma
  10/14/25
All too real. The dynamics are complex but I feel alive agai...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/14/25
someone who makes you feel this alive should have a nickname...
Twisted magenta windowlicker
  10/14/25
Bezos wasn’t her boss though.
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/14/25
...
Silver Place Of Business
  10/18/25
Today she invited me to her office locations Christmas party...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/15/25
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Supple grizzly mood friendly grandma
  10/15/25
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White forum ladyboy
  10/15/25
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Lascivious jet lodge
  10/14/25
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mischievous vivacious native
  10/19/25
as we get closer to the megaposter stuff, your subordinate f...
Thriller very tactful gaping
  10/15/25
Maybe I can throw in some creep shots after the holiday part...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/15/25
this could be schtick of the year if you follow through
White forum ladyboy
  10/15/25
...
Supple grizzly mood friendly grandma
  10/18/25
...
Cruel-hearted ivory sanctuary
  10/18/25
She slacked me today to say she “threw me under the bu...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
women r the devil
Domesticated Abode Boistinker
  10/18/25
You are going to be fired for this
glittery boltzmann
  10/18/25
Is it frowned upon?
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
You will be told that you had a duty to report any relations...
glittery boltzmann
  10/19/25
I don’t think so.
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
get her pregnant
Silver Place Of Business
  10/18/25
...
impertinent kitchen clown
  10/19/25
Describe the sex. Any ass play? Hairy bush?
gold box office
  10/18/25
I was very drunk. She sucked my cock to get me hard. Then sh...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
Also, she was on her period but I didn’t realize it be...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
complete twist from your other post
Cruel-hearted ivory sanctuary
  10/18/25
There are layers to this thing
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
"wife was pissed so wasn’t home" Is this ...
dashing burgundy partner
  10/18/25
I didn’t get home until mid morning. Yes this was hard...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
You got blood on your sheets at home? You don’t wash y...
Primrose Center Filthpig
  10/19/25
I had been drinking for like 18 plus hours straight at that ...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
Club Mandingo fan?
Clear Office Wagecucks
  10/20/25
I think we left the club at 5am, went to her hotel, was ther...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
did you tongue her asshole? did she tongue yours? answer the...
gold box office
  10/21/25
Can someone link the original post?
vibrant therapy hall
  10/18/25
https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5782887&mc=66&a...
dashing burgundy partner
  10/18/25
Not a fan of this tbh The fact the relationship has to be...
diverse stage
  10/18/25
The whole thing does feel very unnatural
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
TITCR. Never do this. Specifically, someone you actually hav...
concupiscible water buffalo
  10/19/25
I wish I hadn’t. I actually regret the 5 hours of rapi...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/19/25
There’s great wisdom in the idea that (setting aside t...
concupiscible water buffalo
  10/19/25
Yeah it’s obviously good advice but people actually in...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/19/25
"The one good thing is she’s a legit high perform...
glittery boltzmann
  10/19/25
I think there’s a lot more likely scenarios. A coworke...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
"Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing h...
glittery boltzmann
  10/20/25
There are already a ton, including one that said “you ...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
back into the box tp
Dull stimulating cruise ship circlehead
  10/20/25
“one of our spouses finding evidence” Wait th...
red mind-boggling stead trust fund
  10/20/25
Yes, and recently
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
Since we’re just anonymous pals on the internet and I ...
concupiscible water buffalo
  10/19/25
I don’t think I was thinking with my dick when we text...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
I just texted with her for like 5 hours straight. We talked ...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/18/25
such as?
Swollen House
  10/20/25
I believe I said I want to kiss you at one point. She said I...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
yikes
Swollen House
  10/20/25
Yup
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
...
WordcelWorth
  10/25/25
Your age and hers? Your total comp and hers?
azure national ape
  10/19/25
43, think she’s 32 I am at over 500k all in plus equi...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
this could potentially go very wrong for you. i think you...
twinkling hot antidepressant drug library
  10/20/25
I’m aware. I was in such a funk that I think I just we...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
suicide at 35 is seeming more and more like the CR option fo...
Cruel-hearted ivory sanctuary
  10/20/25
...
indigo awkward volcanic crater
  10/20/25
Juan Veinte
mint unhinged rehab persian
  10/21/25
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ethereal connection
  10/25/25
“Slacks” is a tell that you don’t have a r...
yapping stag film digit ratio
  10/20/25
Update - things are relatively stable. We reverted to a week...
Rage Problems
  10/25/25
“never seen anything like it” And yet it woul...
A Dick is Not Dispositive
  10/25/25
1 It’s hard to “stop” because what is the ...
Rage Problems
  10/25/25
lol, I’m sure it’ll be different for you
A Dick is Not Dispositive
  10/25/25
I realize there’s lots of risk. What I should have don...
Rage Problems
  10/25/25
...
Nazca Redlines
  10/25/25
...
WordcelWorth
  10/25/25
SHE IS GOING TO DESTROY HER OWN MARRIAGE AND TELL HER HUSBAN...
VP of Poasting
  10/25/25
Why would she do that?
Rage Problems
  10/25/25
lol brother
Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant
  10/25/25
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VP of Poasting
  10/25/25
...
Juan Eighty
  10/25/25
...
A Dick is Not Dispositive
  10/25/25
O fortuitous disgruntled lover!
Juan Eighty
  10/25/25
Most boring flame in years. The most explicit You've gotten...
WordcelWorth
  10/25/25
...
Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon
  10/25/25
We chatted for a few hours last night from like 11-1am. She ...
Rage Problems
  10/29/25
You’re so fucked, I really hope this is flame
VP of Poasting
  10/29/25
Normally mostly, cr.
Salivary Stoned
  10/29/25
this sounds like a potential disaster. be careful.
Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant
  10/29/25


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Date: October 13th, 2025 11:47 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I got a call from HR. I was a bit unnerved but not really, seemed inconceivable there’d be an issue, I still get along great with her and we haven’t missed a beat. Only strange thing is we never talk about it, instead seemed to have channeled the whole thing into actual work - late night phone calls and slacks about this or that email or thing we want to accomplish.

Anyway, turns out she asked HR about relocating to my city and they wanted to know how I feel about that. They said she’s clearly extremely engaged at work and I’m done an amazing job with the team. Wanted to laugh

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347687)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:06 AM
Author: Chrome razzmatazz coffee pot brethren

Hope it works out

The company I've been employed at for years was revealed as having an extremely spotty record wrt its female employees and women's issues in the workplace so I'm probably going to be quitting and finding a lower tech position

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347706)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:28 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

What

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347732)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:00 PM
Author: mint unhinged rehab persian



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357984)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:46 PM
Author: Nubile Sex Offender



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358227)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:08 AM
Author: Supple grizzly mood friendly grandma

promising shtick plz keep it going

hopefully we can get some work holiday party action this december

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347709)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:32 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

All too real. The dynamics are complex but I feel alive again.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347735)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:40 AM
Author: Twisted magenta windowlicker

someone who makes you feel this alive should have a nickname. you should call her your "alive girl".

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347746)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 12:48 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Bezos wasn’t her boss though.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49347750)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:39 PM
Author: Silver Place Of Business



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357821)



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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:42 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Today she invited me to her office locations Christmas party. I told her I wouldn’t be able to swing it and she got pouty about it. I’m going to another office where her female rival works. I told her I plan to swing by her location soon though and she said “ooo things I like to hear.” I also told her we’re going to be particularly busy the next couple months with a project and she’s like “is it weird that really excites me?” This should be an interesting ride.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49349904)



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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:40 AM
Author: Supple grizzly mood friendly grandma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49350307)



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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:41 AM
Author: White forum ladyboy



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49350311)



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Date: October 14th, 2025 6:57 PM
Author: Lascivious jet lodge



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49349183)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:27 PM
Author: mischievous vivacious native



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360539)



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Date: October 15th, 2025 12:46 AM
Author: Thriller very tactful gaping

as we get closer to the megaposter stuff, your subordinate figures to be more interesting if she's like your younger sister or something along those lines.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49349906)



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Date: October 15th, 2025 1:58 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Maybe I can throw in some creep shots after the holiday party

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49349973)



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Date: October 15th, 2025 9:42 AM
Author: White forum ladyboy

this could be schtick of the year if you follow through

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49350312)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:41 PM
Author: Supple grizzly mood friendly grandma



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357831)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:58 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted ivory sanctuary



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357979)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:52 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

She slacked me today to say she “threw me under the bus with HR”. Then she wrote “actually it was compliance but I thought it would be fun to say HR.” Later she called me from the gym with her sister, topic turned to my weekend plans. I told her my wife has a school reunion. She asked how many years. I had no idea, so we worked it back from her age (wife is 29). She said wow lucky man, forgot she was that young. She then slacked me at like 10pm to confirm her next travel plans to my city. Well, at least life is interesting.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357329)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:01 AM
Author: Domesticated Abode Boistinker

women r the devil

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357331)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 6:50 AM
Author: glittery boltzmann

You are going to be fired for this

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357369)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 7:20 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Is it frowned upon?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357376)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 6:04 PM
Author: glittery boltzmann

You will be told that you had a duty to report any relationship involving a conflict of interest, which would include a romantic relationship with a subordinate whose pay and tasks you control, so that the company could evaluate how to handle that (e.g., changing the reporting structure). You will technically be fired for not reporting, as opposed to there being per se something inappropriate about a romantic relationship. (Of course there is something per se inappropriate in these circumstances but the company will rely on the technical aspect of not reporting a conflict).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360426)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:21 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I don’t think so.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361374)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 12:43 PM
Author: Silver Place Of Business

get her pregnant

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357838)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 2:04 PM
Author: impertinent kitchen clown



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49359988)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:24 PM
Author: gold box office

Describe the sex. Any ass play? Hairy bush?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357915)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:52 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I was very drunk. She sucked my cock to get me hard. Then she crawled on top of me. She said I was going too fast and we should slow down, almost in a bossy way, turned me on. Then she got really romantic, wanting to make it some special moment, and kept saying my name over and over as she kind of built a cocoon around us with her long golden blonde hair, staring into my eyes and saying my name over and over until I came in her. Then I immediately left, had to get home.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357967)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:54 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Also, she was on her period but I didn’t realize it because I was drunk so I had blood all over me when I got home. On my shirt especially. Got some on our sheets because I fingered her and then my finger was scrawling blood all over. Fortunately wife was pissed so wasn’t home and when I woke up had time to cover it all up and shower.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357971)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 1:59 PM
Author: Cruel-hearted ivory sanctuary

complete twist from your other post

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49357982)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 2:19 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

There are layers to this thing

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358018)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:02 PM
Author: dashing burgundy partner

"wife was pissed so wasn’t home"

Is this meant to parse as your wife staying out all night drunk?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358077)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I didn’t get home until mid morning. Yes this was hard to explain

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358295)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 7:24 PM
Author: Primrose Center Filthpig

You got blood on your sheets at home? You don’t wash your hands when you get home???

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360536)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:05 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I had been drinking for like 18 plus hours straight at that point. I wasn’t thinking straight, just saw no one was home and plopped into bed. Woke up and saw blood. Thank god wife wasn’t actually waiting for me at home or she’d have noticed it for sure. My shirt especially had blood all over it. Had to wash everything and flip the pillows and suggest we wash the next morning. Then snuck it in laundry without her noticing the huge blood stains

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49362575)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:18 AM
Author: Clear Office Wagecucks

Club Mandingo fan?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361199)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:08 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I think we left the club at 5am, went to her hotel, was there a few hours, stumbled home with phone dead. I made up a story about falling asleep on a park bench. This led to a bunch of stuff about how I have an out of control alcohol problem to do that but I thought it preferable all things considered.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49362583)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 8:08 PM
Author: gold box office

did you tongue her asshole? did she tongue yours? answer the question (and poast pics)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49364976)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 3:08 PM
Author: vibrant therapy hall

Can someone link the original post?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358083)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:23 PM
Author: dashing burgundy partner

https://xoxohth.com/thread.php?thread_id=5782887&mc=66&forum_id=2

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358184)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 4:31 PM
Author: diverse stage

Not a fan of this tbh

The fact the relationship has to be mediated through work is really really gay and depressing, talking about "projects" and her little quip about compliance is really deflating imo

its insane we alloweed women into the workforce this is a giant retarded scam



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358194)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 5:19 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

The whole thing does feel very unnatural

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358292)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:32 AM
Author: concupiscible water buffalo

TITCR. Never do this. Specifically, someone you actually have to engage in real work with. A secretary or paralegal whose biggest concern is where they went to lunch that day is different, but not someone you’re actually “on projects” with. Could not imagine doing it, flipping between flirting and digging into the status of Project Blue with some chick, would blow my brains out.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49359175)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 1:41 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I wish I hadn’t. I actually regret the 5 hours of rapid fire drunk texting that broke the dam open yesterday the most. We were doing so well just putting it away and stupidly just pulled at the string. Now it’s something more and harder to shove back in. Really dumb move on my end. Now I don’t even know what talking with her looks like or if she starts randomly sending me late night texts that I have to try to hide.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49359944)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 3:44 PM
Author: concupiscible water buffalo

There’s great wisdom in the idea that (setting aside the immorality of it) if you’re gonna fuck someone who’s not your wife you do it with the random conference slut at the bar in Austin and call it a day. Fucking your coworker, nanny, neighbor, sister in law, etc., anyone who is routinely in your life, is inviting trouble. My earnest advice to you would be to try to cauterize the wound, don’t ever do it again, and try to get her to see it’s beneficial to move on too. By the way even if she doesn’t blow up your marriage she will perpetually have you by the balls at work so you better get ready to unequivocally support every retarded idea she ever has until she quits.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360176)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:12 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Yeah it’s obviously good advice but people actually in your life are for obvious reasons the most likely source of affairs. Coworkers more than anything because you’re constantly working together and can develop a rapport that spills over when you move it to another context like after work drinks. And yeah the wound was cauterizing until we randomly picked at it over the weekend two weeks later. Now it’s harder because she seems to prefer it in open now. She sent me a message today that I ignored. The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back. Messy stuff

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360600)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:57 PM
Author: glittery boltzmann

"The one good thing is she’s a legit high performer and looks up to me a lot about work stuff so I don’t really expect work work issues beyond that she may feel weird if I pull back."

6 months later: She has put in about 20/mins per day of work over the past half year, when it comes time she is performance managed, the story is "Rage Problems is just sabotaging me because I refused to continue the brief affair that he coercively forced me into"

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360695)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:11 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I think there’s a lot more likely scenarios. A coworker noticing something, or one of our spouses finding evidence, etc. Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants. All probably more likely than a very ambitious employee who makes work a priority suddenly becoming bad at her job.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361144)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 7:10 AM
Author: glittery boltzmann

"Or maybe even her feeling like I’m not pushing hard enough for a comp adjustment and wondering if it’s because I want to avoid appearance of favoring her. A rival getting something she wants."

Yes, probably more likely. Same result for you. "Rage Problems denied me the compensation adjustment I merited because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." "Rage Problems is giving favorable treatment in work assignments to a co-worker because I refused to continue the brief affair he coercively forced upon me." If she's a very ambitious, intelligent lawyer, she's going to realize that you handed her the ability to coast at her job, shielded from any criticism, then leave with a 24 month severance package offered by HR to shut her up. This will be a "resignation" to avoid any career stigma to her, then she'll just move onto the next role with a couple hundred grand in her pocket. I work in this area, this is how these stories play out. Seems you are betting on "spurned female lawyer logically accepts affair was a bad idea, will not use it to her advantage, and fastidiously refocuses herself in a business-like way on company goals", good luck buddy

At this point your best move may actually be to bang her again, ensuring you have many messages making explicitly clear the whole thing is/was consensual, otherwise she's possibly going to say you raped her in that hotel room

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361233)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:55 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

There are already a ton, including one that said “you should be more careful, women are a bit crazy these days,” but I panic deleted them to make sure I didn’t have anything on my phone. She is not quiet about her support of me at work, including post hookup. Her suddenly claiming that seems the least likely scenario. I honestly think it’s very unlikely she will ever try to leverage it for anything too. It’s more that if I came out it would be a logistical mess. There would be no easy solution to have her report to anyone but me without demoting her or it coming across like a demotion. We would have to just say it was a one time thing and everyone is over it and hope that is the end of it. I think that is plausible now if I can get it back into the box, but if we continue down this path one or both of us will catch real feelings and it will be hard to have a real working relationship when that falls apart or one of us wants more or wants to break it off. That’s why I need to stop being a dumbass

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361324)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM
Author: Dull stimulating cruise ship circlehead

back into the box tp

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361333)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:17 AM
Author: red mind-boggling stead trust fund

“one of our spouses finding evidence”

Wait this chick is married?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361281)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:49 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Yes, and recently

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361313)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 9:18 PM
Author: concupiscible water buffalo

Since we’re just anonymous pals on the internet and I don’t have to be tactful: I think that’s a retarded after the fact justification. You need to stop thinking with your dick before your life gets blown up. Not saying this to be malicious.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360722)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 8:58 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I don’t think I was thinking with my dick when we texted. There’s no chance of a hookup anytime soon, likely won’t see her for a month or two at least. That was more just tension release and curiosity on how we each felt about it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361327)



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Date: October 18th, 2025 11:57 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I just texted with her for like 5 hours straight. We talked about everything. I am now on written record saying a ton of shit to her.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49358908)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 4:17 AM
Author: Swollen House

such as?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361160)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:18 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I believe I said I want to kiss you at one point. She said I should behave myself. Then she asked me to describe in detail what I want to do to her. Fortunately for didn’t go down that path. No sexting. Just lots of emotional talk. Felt like a date. She asked a lot of stuff to get to know my backstory more. Our opinions on things. I don’t even know how we texted so long. I didn’t have it in me to reread the whole thing. I tried to delete them one by one but it was hundreds and hundreds of messages, just panic deleted the whole conversation because I was out and about with my wife the next day and I was worried she’d somehow notice it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361370)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:31 AM
Author: Swollen House

yikes

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361388)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:54 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

Yup

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361418)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:39 AM
Author: WordcelWorth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373622)



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Date: October 19th, 2025 8:25 PM
Author: azure national ape

Your age and hers?

Your total comp and hers?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49360617)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:00 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

43, think she’s 32

I am at over 500k all in plus equity

She is at around 175

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361331)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 9:58 AM
Author: twinkling hot antidepressant drug library

this could potentially go very wrong for you.

i think you described elsewhere, but how often do you have sex with your wife? you might want to focus on shoring that up (if there's an issue) there and gently disengage from this situation



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361426)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater

I’m aware. I was in such a funk that I think I just went blind to potential consequences and wanted to feel something again. Have only had sex with wife like twice in last 7-8 months.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361472)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 11:01 AM
Author: Cruel-hearted ivory sanctuary

suicide at 35 is seeming more and more like the CR option for me

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361572)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 3:44 PM
Author: indigo awkward volcanic crater



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49362222)



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Date: October 21st, 2025 9:22 PM
Author: mint unhinged rehab persian

Juan Veinte

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49365133)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:51 AM
Author: ethereal connection



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373638)



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Date: October 20th, 2025 6:14 AM
Author: yapping stag film digit ratio

“Slacks” is a tell that you don’t have a real job

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49361193)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:07 AM
Author: Rage Problems

Update - things are relatively stable. We reverted to a week of mostly just work-related messages. But we seem to continue to find excuses to talk well into the evening. I’m surprised how flirty she sounds when I know her husband is nearby. One time I heard the sounds of cooking and she mentioned it was her husband. I immediately said I’ll talk to her later, and she was like “yeah talk tomorrow” and then dropped to a lower tone “or later”. Our instagram seems to have also taken on a life of its own to signal what we may be doing that makes it clear we’re not around our spouses. If she sees I’m at a bar late she’ll start messaging me. Last night I was drunk when she did that and I said “I want you” and she kind of skirted by it, but kept peppering me with questions. What a strange thing I’ve gotten myself into it, never seen anything like it

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373575)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:10 AM
Author: A Dick is Not Dispositive

“never seen anything like it”

And yet it would be impossible to be more cliched. This will end badly if you keep at it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373579)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:20 AM
Author: Rage Problems

1 It’s hard to “stop” because what is the “it” I am stopping? If I suddenly went cold and kept it strictly professional then our whole work dynamic would change and she might feel like I’m punishing her, doesn’t seem like a great idea. The actually inappropriate conversation is pretty minimal without knowing subtext.

2 I don’t really want it to go away. Life has been kind of depressing lately, feels like a nice spark. And I’ve already had the risk, doesn’t seem to compound just by keeping whatever emotional entanglement we have going on alive for at least a while longer. Probably more risk trying to wind it down to be honest.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373606)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:23 AM
Author: A Dick is Not Dispositive

lol, I’m sure it’ll be different for you

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373610)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:25 AM
Author: Rage Problems

I realize there’s lots of risk. What I should have done is not fucked her to begin with.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373614)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:12 PM
Author: Nazca Redlines



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373965)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:41 AM
Author: WordcelWorth



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373625)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:14 AM
Author: VP of Poasting

SHE IS GOING TO DESTROY HER OWN MARRIAGE AND TELL HER HUSBAND ALL YOUR INFO AND HE IS GOING TO TELL YOUR WIFE IF YOU'RE LUCKY AND MURDER YOU IF YOU ARE NOT I SINCERELY HOPE THIS FUCKING HELPS!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373590)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:21 AM
Author: Rage Problems

Why would she do that?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373609)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:50 AM
Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained))

lol brother

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373637)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:56 AM
Author: VP of Poasting



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373655)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:39 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49374063)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 2:18 PM
Author: A Dick is Not Dispositive



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49374152)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 1:40 PM
Author: Juan Eighty

O fortuitous disgruntled lover!

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49374067)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 10:49 AM
Author: WordcelWorth

Most boring flame in years. The most explicit

You've gotten is one sexcapade with blood.

So hurry up and just go on a bender

Destroying what's left of your marriage now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49373634)



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Date: October 25th, 2025 3:37 PM
Author: Long TERF War for PeterBoi Poon ( )



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49374338)



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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:08 AM
Author: Rage Problems

We chatted for a few hours last night from like 11-1am. She said she thinks I’ll be the first one to sour on whatever it is we are doing. I said yeah what’s weird to me is how fluently we move between work mode and whatever it is mode sometimes within sentences. I guess this is why they tell people not to do this kind of stuff. She said too late. I guess we’ll find out if we can handle it. I said happy to be on the journey with you. The whole conversation basically just served to tell each other in a round about way that we’re emotionally entangled. Then we wished each other a good sleep and promptly slacked at 7am about work.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49384388)



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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:23 AM
Author: VP of Poasting

You’re so fucked, I really hope this is flame

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49384421)



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Date: October 29th, 2025 10:29 AM
Author: Salivary Stoned (xoentlaw@gmail.com)

Normally mostly, cr.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49384435)



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Date: October 29th, 2025 11:19 AM
Author: Kiwi Camara and the no nig covenant ((zurich is stained))

this sounds like a potential disaster. be careful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5786259&forum_id=2E#49384570)