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Getting aggressively propositioned by a woman who wants me to cheat
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Date: April 12th, 2025 9:03 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Met her through work, and the spark was obvious to both of us. We became close and eventually she started texting me that I was so sexy, so manly, she wanted me, on and on and on. Wife and I do not exactly have the best marriage, and she picked up on that. Lots of statements like, you should get divorced, you'll feel so much better, you deserve to be treated better, again and again.
XO probably won't believe me, but this other chick is super hot. Easy 8, possibly a 9. Used to be a model. My wife has never really recovered from pregnancy and is probably a 4 or 5. Also very sexually disengaged, the standard resentful, unfulfilling sex once every month or so. It would be *very* easy to slip away and get it on with this other woman. At the same time, it seems like she would not be content to be a hidden sidepiece, and getting with her would probably mean divorce.
What do I do brothers? |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:52 PM Author: laughsome liquid oxygen location https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=y_VXZDtSBaY&t=109s (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841086) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:08 PM Author: well-lubricated snowy church https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt35QMu--Ho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841128) |
Date: April 12th, 2025 9:09 AM Author: Lascivious menage gunner post a slutty pic with the face redacted (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840000) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 9:10 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Don't know how to do that, sorry. Chick is skinny with huge boobs. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840003) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:07 PM Author: Flickering Abnormal Laser Beams Flame. “Can’t edit a pic” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841709) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 3:40 PM Author: Frozen hall (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48843032) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 9:25 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840035) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 9:36 AM Author: Contagious Crimson Rehab you should talk to your wife and tell her that her being sexually disengaged is unacceptable. not sure what to do about her appearance, you can't really tell her she's dumpy. maybe start working out a lot and try to inspire her to do the same (lmao but i can't think of anything else). or actually fuck it, maybe just come out and tell her she's beat now. it's better than you blowing up your marriage when there are kids involved.
last year, my wife and i were in a bad place. as everyone knows, i blew my life up in 2020 and moved out with another woman. got back with my wife in 2022 but things were pretty awkward sexually. she'd also quit shaving her puss which i found to be gross, but i felt weird saying anything because, after all, i'd fucked about 150 prostitutes as well as strippers and side pieces. so i shut up about it and quit trying to have sex. it all boiled over last may after i'd developed a crush on an associate (due to the lack of sex). i relapsed and got drunk and told my wife i was going to be leaving. total 180, she started grooming her hole again and we have sex 2-3 times a week now. kinda crazy i just needed to scare her straight.
anyway, take it from a degenerate who blew up his life: don't do it. or at least try to fix things first. |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 9:40 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Thanks for the advice from XO's resident expert on these situations. I already work out a lot. There is a big looks disparity between my wife and myself. She's very paranoid about me cheating and accuses me often. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840067) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:33 AM Author: Contagious Crimson Rehab this may be a serious problem, to be honest. i know it sounds shallow but if you aren't attracted to your wife you aren't going to want to be initimate with her, hence you wanting to fuck other broads. you guys should probably go into therapy and address all this shit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840170) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:43 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Oh we've been in therapy. It goes nowhere. Wife does go through a lot of motions in am attempt to get in shape. She eats healthy and goes to the gym. But it doesn't translate into actually losing weight. Makes me wonder if maybe she's binging ice cream when I'm not around and slacking off on her "workouts." (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840188) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 2:02 PM Author: fighting kitty Exactly how fat is she? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840589) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 2:49 PM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account 180 pounds at 5 foot 3. This is not Johnsmeyer flame, I promise. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840679) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:07 PM Author: fighting kitty Sounds like an absolute unit. Congrats man. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840953) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:29 PM Author: Contagious Crimson Rehab that is really bad man. i know this sounds really shallow but based on everything you've said i'd separate from her unless it would be financially ruinous. how many kids do you have? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841014) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:46 PM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account 1. Trying for at least 2. Except she's not trying really hard at the moment. Claims to have some vaginally bacterial infection that makes it painful for her to have sex. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841052) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:05 PM Author: fighting kitty You have sex with her? Lmao. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841699) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:48 PM Author: impressive mentally impaired tanning salon marketing idea does she have "thyroid problem" (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841054) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:50 PM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Unclear. No program or treatment ever seems to work. What's missing seems to be a desire to make it work. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841071) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 1:47 PM Author: Mustard University Halford (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840561) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 3:41 PM Author: Frozen hall 180 (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48843040) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 9:54 AM Author: talking bronze gay wizard Just do it pussy (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840103) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:01 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Let's say I do. What happens then? She knows my irl, seems like she would get mad that she couldn't have me and try to ruin my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840114) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:02 AM Author: Pink goyim incel A very attractive woman that’s single at this age is a BPD succubus that is going to give you the best sex of your life for ~8 months, truly beyond anything you’ve ever imagined, and then she’s going to suck your soul through your hollowed out eye sockets and make you desperate to bring your ruined life to an end. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840116) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 2:01 PM Author: fighting kitty (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840588) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:58 PM Author: well-lubricated snowy church where can i sign up for this (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841094) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:56 PM Author: Swashbuckling honey-headed cumskin but where will I get one million dollars (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841257) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:09 PM Author: citrine rambunctious mother (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841717) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:32 PM Author: Lilac abode I was in a marriage similar to the OP's. I had an affair with a 23-year-old BPD chick. And it went pretty much like this. The worst part? I can't say that I regret it. I feel bad for hurting my wife and spending so much money, but dear God it was the best sex of my life. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841781) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:05 AM Author: charcoal step-uncle's house You must be a really tall, handsome, fit, Chad (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840117) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:12 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Generally accurate. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840125) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:18 AM Author: maniacal meetinghouse haunted graveyard (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840135) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 1:48 PM Author: Mind-boggling Office (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840564) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:05 AM Author: cobalt double fault depressive i'm guessing you don't have kids? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840119) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:08 AM Author: Pink goyim incel “My wife has never really recovered from pregnancy…” (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840121) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:11 AM Author: cobalt double fault depressive it must be a typo, because what kind of a person would ruin his kids' lives over a slime pit? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840124) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:17 AM Author: Pink goyim incel I think that’s the right reading. Scriveners error. No man in all of recorded history has ever been so dishonorable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840132) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:30 AM Author: garnet hateful potus orchestra pit Wouldn't it technically be his wife ruining his kids' lives over the sidepiece? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840165) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:30 PM Author: Contagious Crimson Rehab i agree but his marriage sounds awful and his wife is an obese midget. fuck that bullshit. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841017) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:32 AM Author: cyan out-of-control kitchen what do you do? you post pics
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Date: April 12th, 2025 11:25 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Sorry bro. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840277) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 1:51 PM Author: supple lavender psychic headpube Fag (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840568) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 8:39 AM Author: ungodly chapel famous landscape painting (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48842326) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 4:50 PM Author: appetizing dun range dragon You won’t find happiness with an affair no matter how hot she is. It will be a temporary high that will wear off and you will feel shitty about yourself. At the very least have a come to Jesus discussion with your wife first. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48840905) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:25 PM Author: Vigorous milky resort pistol Let’s get real, this guy is basically already having one, may as well get laid on top. If his wife ever found out he was texting some bitch about her behind her back and letting her say shit like this without defending her she would 100 percent treat it as cheating, actually worse (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841006) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 5:49 PM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account What would I say in this come to Jesus discussion? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841061) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:09 PM Author: appetizing dun range dragon What your dissatisfaction is. (I would skip the appearance part.) (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841130) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:08 PM Author: well-lubricated snowy church https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=Jt35QMu--Ho (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841126) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:21 PM Author: Chrome round eye market I love Dhar Mann (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841149) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:09 PM Author: Saffron scourge upon the earth locale nice pics, faggot (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841132) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 6:19 PM Author: Chrome round eye market Jerk off and then think about it (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841147) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:09 PM Author: citrine rambunctious mother Stay the fuck away from this crazy bitch trying to ruin your life because she is bored (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841715) |
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Date: April 12th, 2025 10:29 PM Author: Lilac abode How much would you lose in a divorce? Sounds to me like the only real options are divorce, forcing her to accept some kind of open marriage, or being sexually frustrated and bitter for the rest of your life. I'm in a similar situation. My wife basically lets me cheatmo as long as I tell her that we're not having sex. I'm not sure if she doesn't want to know or if she's naive enough to believe me. But she knows that she won't be able to keep her current bullshit job without my salary to support her, so she doesn't have much choice in the matter. Good luck, bro. I have been in that situation and it sucks. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841775) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 12:46 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Not sure how much I would lose in divorce. Wife is a SAHM and I run my own business, but we've only been married for a few years, so I don't think there would be some huge alimony award.
The open relationship/don't ask don't tell thing seems like a good option in theory. Not sure how I would have that conversation though. How did it go with you? |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 1:11 AM Author: Lilac abode We never really had a conversation per se. I just started spending nights at my side girl's house and made excuses that I was too tired to drive home and/or I had been drinking. Like I said, I'm not sure if my wife is naive or if she was just acquiescing. She has definitely given me shit about it, but she hasn't threatened to leave me or anything. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48842029) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 8:21 AM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Is this the same BPD side chick that you described above? Did she ruin your life? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48842305) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 2:28 PM Author: Lilac abode That was the most egregious example, yes. She did not ruin my life, but she came close. At one point she got my mad at me and said she was going to tell my wife everything. She sent a couple deranged texts to my wife, but I managed to grab my wife's iPad and block her before she could send any hard proof. I told my wife that the girl was crazy, and she believed me. (Or she's just in denial or she decided it wasn't a fight she wanted to have. Who knows?) I also spent more money than I should have to help the girl with rent, school expenses, and other random shit because I didn't want to risk losing access to her pussy if I refused. My wife never found out about that, either, since I manage all the finances. My wife still gives me shit about the other girl when we get into arguments, but otherwise she hasn't done anything about it.
So it definitely had a negative effect on my marriage and finances, but my life is still intact. It was enough drama that I can't really recommend it. At the same time, though, I can't say that I regret it, either. She is a former model who let me do all kinds of depraved shit in the bedroom that I will probably never get to do again, and you can't really put a price tag on that. |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 4:42 PM Author: aggressive ticket booth community account Your wife sounds willfully ignorant. So the other chick told your wife you were cheating with her, and now you tell your wife you hang out with her and spend the night at her place but you don't have sex with her? I am getting all this right? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48843154) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 7:03 PM Author: Lilac abode Well, after the chick told my wife we were cheating, we more or less ended it. She found another dude shortly thereafter. I still talk to the girl, but I don't think I have spent the night at her house since. But before that happened, yes, basically I told my wife that I slept on her couch and we didn't have sex. I'm not sure if my wife is willfully ignorant or if I'm just autistic enough for that to be believable. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48843492) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 12:20 AM Author: Opaque theater girl's not actually that hot or else would post edited pics at the least. sounds like not worth the effort of cheating. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841960) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 12:34 AM Author: Flickering Abnormal Laser Beams (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841976) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 12:35 AM Author: Flickering Abnormal Laser Beams Likely doesn’t exist. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48841977) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 3:55 PM Author: Floppy water buffalo And then the hot ex-model will sex you exclusively and you will live happily ever after. She loves you and only you, so it's totally worth it. Good plan. I say go for it. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48843059) |
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Date: April 13th, 2025 7:06 PM Author: Lilac abode No, if the OP goes for this chick, he needs to go in with the mindset that he is only doing it to get his dick wet. Trust me, nothing good will happen if you start to imagine a future with a crazy BPD chick who pursues married men. If he decides to leave his marriage, maybe this chick will turn out to be sane, but I wouldn't bet on it. BPD chicks will give you the best sex of your life, but they are not relationship material. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5709443&forum_id=2E#48843502) |