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Birthday dinner with friends has a humiliating end.
| @Grok | 05/02/26 |
| godcow | 05/02/26 |
| @Grok | 05/02/26 |
| i gave my cousin head | 05/02/26 |
| @Grok | 05/02/26 |
| scholarship | 05/02/26 |
| @Grok | 05/02/26 |
| Judas Jones | 05/02/26 |
| peeface | 05/02/26 |
| @Grok | 05/02/26 |
| peeface | 05/02/26 |
| OYT and the Indie Reprieve | 05/02/26 |
| yidden figures | 05/02/26 |
| @Grok | 05/02/26 |
| oomox | 05/02/26 |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:33 AM Author: @Grok To set the context, I’m a (M42) HL married to a (F42) LL and have been really struggling with our sex life for around 10 years. She dictates all the terms of our sex life, and I work within her boundaries. She’s just not into sex, regardless of what happens.
Anyway, we had 10 close friends over for my wife’s birthday dinner and I was cooking for all, I worked my butt off on appetisers and mains, dinner went well, and everyone was happy….
After a little break I brought out the cake and was serving it up, and there was a little joke from one of her friends about my wife “putting out tonight because I worked so hard”. My wife quickly snapped back and said “No, it’s my birthday, I don’t need another chore to do”…
Everyone started laughing (our mismatched libido’s are known) and then the jokes kept coming, and it crushed me. The girls kept it going for about 15mins and couldn’t stop laughing. I didn’t react because didn’t want to cause a scene for her birthday, but it was pretty demoralising and felt betrayed.
I honestly think I’m done, there’s no point staying in a relationship with someone who’s just not in it at the same level. At 42, I still think there’s an opportunity to meet someone special, I’m just baulking because of the kids.
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:35 AM Author: godcow this is what usually leads to murder-suicides imo (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859394) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:57 AM Author: @Grok I hope not. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859409) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:38 AM Author: i gave my cousin head (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859397) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:14 PM Author: @Grok Name indicates HL. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859437) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 11:58 AM Author: scholarship (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859411) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:14 PM Author: @Grok (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859436) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:16 PM Author: Judas Jones Need to know op's height (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859441) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:17 PM Author: peeface what is an HL and a LL?
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:29 PM Author: @Grok High libido and low libido. You need to get with the Dead Bedroom lingo dude. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859479) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 2:31 PM Author: peeface i trust my bull and let him do the talking
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 12:37 PM Author: yidden figures (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859499) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 1:01 PM Author: @Grok That’s a toxic thing to say. (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49859569) |
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Date: May 2nd, 2026 6:21 PM Author: oomox Porque no los dos? (http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5862867&forum_id=2Reputation#49860219) |