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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
idiotic love of her life
  12/25/21
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Swashbuckling chapel fanboi
  12/26/21
very valuable post
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idiotic love of her life
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I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad...
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Buff Nursing Home
  12/25/21
Make sure to bring business cards, brother.
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I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.
Supple Lilac Stage
  12/25/21
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Arousing Bright Market
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Vengeful Honey-headed Crackhouse
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Juan Eighty
  11/25/25
Important OP
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  12/25/21
Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.
Olive indian lodge
  12/25/21
(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)
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Disturbing range
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Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.
poppy point
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Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get...
Razzle-dazzle onyx hall incel
  12/25/21
OP is correct. ty OP, and Merry Christmas
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My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grand...
Galvanic indirect expression milk
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Vengeful Honey-headed Crackhouse
  12/26/21
live fast die young
Lemon base prole
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theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. i...
deep heaven
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sable shrine tank
  12/26/21
very good advice here. i have been making an effort to atten...
Swashbuckling chapel fanboi
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talented double fault macaca
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idiotic love of her life
  01/15/22
this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best ...
sable shrine tank
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talented double fault macaca
  07/15/22
(junior soprano)
Comical wagecucks
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idiotic love of her life
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I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was becaus...
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fluffy senate
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Absolutely credited.
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Mike Yanagita
  11/25/25
should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: idiotic love of her life

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Swashbuckling chapel fanboi



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: Saffron Vibrant Famous Landscape Painting Area

very valuable post

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: avocado masturbator location

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43672650)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: idiotic love of her life



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: Olive indian lodge

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673327)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Buff Nursing Home

Is it a good way to score pussy?

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: mahogany domesticated factory reset button den

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43672728)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: Supple Lilac Stage



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: charismatic keepsake machete sanctuary



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Twinkling Rough-skinned Casino



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Big House



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
Author: tantric slap-happy theatre



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: Azure lay



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: Mind-boggling Startling Dopamine Black Woman



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Supple Lilac Stage

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Chocolate Bat-shit-crazy Volcanic Crater Sneaky Criminal

same

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673188)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: Arousing Bright Market



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: Vengeful Honey-headed Crackhouse



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Pungent light skinny woman clown

Important OP

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673216)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: Olive indian lodge

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673312)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: exhilarant haunted graveyard theater

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673334)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Disturbing range



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673335)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: poppy point

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: Razzle-dazzle onyx hall incel

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: Crawly At-the-ready Resort Place Of Business

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43673924)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Galvanic indirect expression milk

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: Vengeful Honey-headed Crackhouse



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43680647)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Lemon base prole

live fast

die young

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#45965902)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: deep heaven

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: sable shrine tank



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43680629)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Swashbuckling chapel fanboi

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: talented double fault macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44857679)



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: idiotic love of her life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#43789441)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: sable shrine tank

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: talented double fault macaca



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856925)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: Comical wagecucks

(junior soprano)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#44856935)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: idiotic love of her life



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#45965877)



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: soul-stirring maroon bawdyhouse laser beams

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: cerebral school cafeteria mood



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#46052368)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: fluffy senate



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: dull pistol degenerate

Absolutely credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#46052486)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#49460858)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2Reputation#49460913)