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Please tell me the how much harder it is with kid #2

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Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
How close in age
excitant cyan place of business
  06/23/25
a little under 2 years. current one is 1.
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
Start pulling back on the amount of attention kid #1 gets no...
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
just put her in her pen and ignore her?
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
Basically.
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
ur fucked. Toddler + infant is the most difficult combo. It ...
razzle-dazzle sweet tailpipe school cafeteria
  06/24/25
Depends on how neurotic and/or retarded you and/or wife are....
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
this is a forum full of lawyers everyone here is at least on...
underhanded hunting ground
  06/23/25
FALSE. I am neither neurotic nor retarded. (Same for wif...
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
sorry brother but your writing itt smacks of "retarded&...
underhanded hunting ground
  06/23/25
That's my autism. I am EXTREMLY autistic.
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
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sienna box office filthpig
  06/23/25
wife is neither neurotic nor retarded. i definitely am both.
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
If you're neurotic, everything will always suck for you no m...
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
lmao thanks. honestly.
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
YOU'RE FREE
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
...
sienna box office filthpig
  06/23/25
wow
grizzly hairraiser milk sanctuary
  06/23/25
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balding shrine
  06/24/25
Step up is wildly overstated ime
Iridescent infuriating half-breed hissy fit
  06/23/25
totally depends on the kid/age gap. 0 to 1 was a life change...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
How old is your first? I'd suggest waiting till he or she i...
Fragrant crusty boltzmann
  06/23/25
TERRIBLE ADVICE. Close in age the better.
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
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slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
I know whereof I speak. I'm sure twins, even Irish twins, a...
Fragrant crusty boltzmann
  06/23/25
extremely oriental poast
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
Sounds like you're a neurotic faggot and you rationalize you...
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
So what, you're assuming OP has perfect genes? I'm sure he'...
Fragrant crusty boltzmann
  06/23/25
Point is that all of these little details when raising kids ...
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
This is just pronatalist wishful thinking. Lots of little t...
Fragrant crusty boltzmann
  06/23/25
It's a type of control falacy. Parents tend to assume th...
vibrant locale new version
  06/23/25
This is a total lie, based on no evidence, spread by people ...
Fragrant crusty boltzmann
  06/23/25
This was not true at all in my experience
Bateful area turdskin
  06/24/25
rofl terrible advice
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
see above. a little under 2 years apart. my wife should have...
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
2 is better than 1 once the younger is past something like 3...
mind-boggling location
  06/23/25
(Psychopath)
avocado menage
  06/23/25
Immeasurably harder. You’ll be shell shocked.
Smoky startled queen of the night
  06/23/25
Play zone defense, not man to man
Rusted glittery dilemma newt
  06/23/25
proles keep saying zone defense, esp with 3, and i dont even...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
Instead you should be playing box and 1. (Guess who's who.)
Fragrant crusty boltzmann
  06/23/25
I guess the point is don't have daddy focus on 1 kid while m...
Rusted glittery dilemma newt
  06/23/25
this would seem to be about giving both kids attention from ...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
its the difference between man v cover 3.
mind-boggling location
  06/23/25
once again, ur playing offense much more than defense. feedi...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
Got damn man, your aspergers is off the charts
Rusted glittery dilemma newt
  06/23/25
yes, but can we also agree that the zone defense thing is du...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
...
mind-boggling location
  06/23/25
man to man meaning ie dad tends to the boy, mom focuses on t...
mind-boggling location
  06/23/25
ur poast doesnt account for how people say you can play man ...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
jfc, kys. now.
mind-boggling location
  06/23/25
done
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
Much harder than going from zero to one. I laugh whenever pa...
Soggy aromatic native volcanic crater
  06/23/25
can you expound as to the first sentence? also, what should...
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
rofl 1 kid is a million times worse than a dog
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
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Gay hyperventilating home internal respiration
  06/23/25
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Beta Hell
  06/23/25
1 kid is a vacation
supple nudist lettuce
  06/24/25
I have two 19 months apart. The new baby will be significant...
Beta Hell
  06/23/25
how do u deal with kid 1's jealousy?
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
She just got super attached to her mother, because in her mi...
Beta Hell
  06/23/25
Our oldest was 2, had zero attachment issues and was basical...
Bateful area turdskin
  06/24/25
"man to man coverage" the millennial faggot told h...
Carnelian office striped hyena
  06/23/25
...
slimy university mad-dog skullcap
  06/23/25
Okay i lol’d
balding shrine
  06/24/25
0 to 1 was a much bigger change than 1 to 2, but probably ha...
sienna box office filthpig
  06/23/25
It shouldn't be that much harder given that (i) You shou...
Stimulating becky state
  06/23/25
1-3 kids is easy. 4 and up is very difficult at times.
Talented Nibblets
  06/23/25
just a reminder that if you take any advice from xo seriousl...
underhanded hunting ground
  06/23/25
i've made major life decisions based on the bort and they've...
Floppy deep plaza
  06/23/25
so did nyuug
underhanded hunting ground
  06/23/25
Your free time is done here, but it’s 180. Knock her ...
avocado menage
  06/23/25
after you rape your first one, the rest come easily
Aphrodisiac naked love of her life
  06/24/25
Have 2 kids about 2 years apart and the oldest is preschool ...
Bateful area turdskin
  06/24/25
We have 1 and a dog and it is hard but manageable. A second...
arousing dead church really tough guy
  06/24/25


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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:31 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043896)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:33 PM
Author: excitant cyan place of business

How close in age

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043899)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

a little under 2 years. current one is 1.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043926)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:45 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

Start pulling back on the amount of attention kid #1 gets now.

Multiple kids is easy AF if the kids learn to entertain themselves.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043943)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

just put her in her pen and ignore her?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043949)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:48 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

Basically.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043956)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:32 AM
Author: razzle-dazzle sweet tailpipe school cafeteria

ur fucked. Toddler + infant is the most difficult combo. It is exponentially harder with there never being a free set of hands.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045693)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:35 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

Depends on how neurotic and/or retarded you and/or wife are.

If neither of you is neurotic or retarded, it's not materially harder than 1 kid.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043902)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:38 PM
Author: underhanded hunting ground

this is a forum full of lawyers everyone here is at least one of those things

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043914)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:39 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

FALSE.

I am neither neurotic nor retarded. (Same for wife).

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043915)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:01 PM
Author: underhanded hunting ground

sorry brother but your writing itt smacks of "retarded"--it just has that classic "self-assured retard" quality to it. on the plus side that means you're the happy kind of retard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043989)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:02 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

That's my autism. I am EXTREMLY autistic.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043996)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: sienna box office filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044095)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

wife is neither neurotic nor retarded. i definitely am both.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043930)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:44 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

If you're neurotic, everything will always suck for you no matter what. So just roll with it.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043935)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:45 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

lmao thanks. honestly.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043942)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:47 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

YOU'RE FREE

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043953)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:27 PM
Author: sienna box office filthpig



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044097)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:45 PM
Author: grizzly hairraiser milk sanctuary

wow

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043944)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:47 AM
Author: balding shrine



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045731)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Iridescent infuriating half-breed hissy fit

Step up is wildly overstated ime

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043905)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:37 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

totally depends on the kid/age gap. 0 to 1 was a life changer, and 1 to 2 was easy. #1 was a difficult baby and #2 was an easy baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043907)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:43 PM
Author: Fragrant crusty boltzmann

How old is your first? I'd suggest waiting till he or she is 4 years or older. You're setting up your two oldest to have a bad relationship if Mom is having to take care of a newborn when your 2-3-year-old is still wanting lots of attention. I've seen this happen in a couple of families.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043925)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:44 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

TERRIBLE ADVICE.

Close in age the better.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043934)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043945)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: Fragrant crusty boltzmann

I know whereof I speak. I'm sure twins, even Irish twins, are fine, but the 2-3-year age gap is rough, because the oldest is still at that age that they want Mom's undivided love, but they're old enough to remember when they did have it, so they feel they're being screwed.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043948)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:47 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

extremely oriental poast

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043951)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:51 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

Sounds like you're a neurotic faggot and you rationalize your genetically-determined shitty personality by blaming your parents for not giving your enough attention.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043960)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Fragrant crusty boltzmann

So what, you're assuming OP has perfect genes? I'm sure he's a nice guy but let's be real.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043971)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

Point is that all of these little details when raising kids do not end up mattering. What matters is: (1) Genetics, (2) exposure to toxins, and (3) avoiding real hardcore abuse.

The only other "environmental" factor that really matters is the shared environment (eg. culture kid is raised in).

Everything other than that that parents can control is meaningless.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043978)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: Fragrant crusty boltzmann

This is just pronatalist wishful thinking. Lots of little things, including birth order, affect life outcomes. Higher birth order is associated with slightly lower IQ; a male child who has more older brothers is more likely to be homosexual. And you're ignoring how genetics and environment can interact; by your own argument, a baby genetically predisposed to be highly neurotic is more likely to be traumatized by non-abusive but adverse environmental factors.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044003)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: vibrant locale new version

It's a type of control falacy.

Parents tend to assume that because they have a lot of control over the minutiae of their kids day-to-day lives, the minutiae actually has a material impact on the kids development. It doesnt.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044004)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:13 PM
Author: Fragrant crusty boltzmann

This is a total lie, based on no evidence, spread by people who just want women to pop out more babies to prop up the welfare state.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044032)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:41 AM
Author: Bateful area turdskin

This was not true at all in my experience

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045715)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

rofl terrible advice

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043946)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:46 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

see above. a little under 2 years apart. my wife should have some help. her mother. at least one live in nanny. maybe another nanny during the day.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043947)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: mind-boggling location

2 is better than 1 once the younger is past something like 3-4 because they will play with each other, esp if they are boy/boy or girl/girl. everything is easier after the initial years with 2 because the sibling.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044000)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:32 PM
Author: avocado menage

(Psychopath)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044280)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:44 PM
Author: Smoky startled queen of the night

Immeasurably harder. You’ll be shell shocked.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043936)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:49 PM
Author: Rusted glittery dilemma newt

Play zone defense, not man to man

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043957)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:51 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

proles keep saying zone defense, esp with 3, and i dont even know wtf this means. maybe im too aspie. i feel like it's just something proles say to be cute.

you're playing much more offense with kids than you are playing defense.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043961)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: Fragrant crusty boltzmann

Instead you should be playing box and 1. (Guess who's who.)

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043966)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Rusted glittery dilemma newt

I guess the point is don't have daddy focus on 1 kid while mommy focus on the other. Switch it up

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043970)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:55 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

this would seem to be about giving both kids attention from both parents, and it's not clear how that applies to 3 kids.

and this doesnt seem to cover the defense aspect.

but maybe im just being aspie.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043975)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:00 PM
Author: mind-boggling location

its the difference between man v cover 3.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043983)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:02 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

once again, ur playing offense much more than defense. feeding them getting them dressed, getting teeth brushed, getting them loaded up and into the car, etc.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043992)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:04 PM
Author: Rusted glittery dilemma newt

Got damn man, your aspergers is off the charts

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044002)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:05 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

yes, but can we also agree that the zone defense thing is dumb

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044011)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:06 PM
Author: mind-boggling location



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044014)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:06 PM
Author: mind-boggling location

man to man meaning ie dad tends to the boy, mom focuses on the girl more. playing zone means both parents zone cover all the kids. this isnt that hard.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044013)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

ur poast doesnt account for how people say you can play man to man with 2 but you need to play zone defense with 3. it also doesnt account for 2/3 of the same gender.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044022)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:10 PM
Author: mind-boggling location

jfc, kys. now.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044024)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:14 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

done

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044035)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: Soggy aromatic native volcanic crater

Much harder than going from zero to one. I laugh whenever parents of only children complain; it’s about the same as a high-maintenance dog.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043969)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 7:59 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

can you expound as to the first sentence?

also, what should i do?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043980)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:01 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap

rofl 1 kid is a million times worse than a dog

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49043988)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:54 PM
Author: Gay hyperventilating home internal respiration



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044164)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 10:00 PM
Author: Beta Hell



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044344)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:31 AM
Author: supple nudist lettuce

1 kid is a vacation

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045689)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:25 PM
Author: Beta Hell

I have two 19 months apart. The new baby will be significantly easier, but the challenge comes from dealing with jealousy/attachment issues from the older kid and learning how to manage both at the same time. You’ll also be in uncharted territory with the oldest and figuring out potty training sleep regression and general brattiness you haven’t experienced before. Just remember that it’s all just phases and the kid will move onto the next thing in 30-60 days usually.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044085)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:29 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

how do u deal with kid 1's jealousy?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044101)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:50 PM
Author: Beta Hell

She just got super attached to her mother, because in her mind the little one usurped all the attention. For us it never manifested in any negative behavior towards her sister but it wore on my wife’s patience and it’s never any fun to feel rejected by your kid. You kinda just have to talk them through it and be firm whenever the tantrums get past a certain level. As with most things half the battle is staying on the same page with your wife and just accepting the kid preferred her attention until they grow out of it. You’re getting a double whammy of the terrible twos, which are annoying to begin with plus managing the changes to the household. Just don’t let the kid run the show and be patient

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044151)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:38 AM
Author: Bateful area turdskin

Our oldest was 2, had zero attachment issues and was basically just obsessed with the baby/thought of herself as a second mom.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045708)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:28 PM
Author: Carnelian office striped hyena

"man to man coverage" the millennial faggot told his wife.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044099)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:39 PM
Author: slimy university mad-dog skullcap



(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044124)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 12:22 PM
Author: balding shrine

Okay i lol’d

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045846)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:39 PM
Author: sienna box office filthpig

0 to 1 was a much bigger change than 1 to 2, but probably had to do w the fact wife became a SAHM between 1 and 2.

We’re at 3 now and wife keeps pining for #4.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044123)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:50 PM
Author: Stimulating becky state

It shouldn't be that much harder given that

(i) You should already know what you're doing

and

(ii) your life is already kid-centric. your saturday is going to be spent at the aquarium instead of the music festival - you might as well take 2 kids instead of 1

--as someone with a bunch of kids i can say definitively that 3-4 gap is A LOT easier than 1-2. sure they might play a bit more together but its a constant struggle for resources so the "playing" is constantly interupted by punching

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044149)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 8:59 PM
Author: Talented Nibblets

1-3 kids is easy. 4 and up is very difficult at times.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044177)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:05 PM
Author: underhanded hunting ground

just a reminder that if you take any advice from xo seriously your kids will end up retarded, evil, jewish, bald, and worst of all -- heterosexual. whatever people here are telling you: do the opposite and your kids will turn into little von neumanns. it's Scientifically Proven.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044188)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:08 PM
Author: Floppy deep plaza

i've made major life decisions based on the bort and they've all been great.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044201)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:11 PM
Author: underhanded hunting ground

so did nyuug

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044211)



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Date: June 23rd, 2025 9:33 PM
Author: avocado menage

Your free time is done here, but it’s 180. Knock her up again asap.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044284)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 1:33 AM
Author: Aphrodisiac naked love of her life

after you rape your first one, the rest come easily

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49044756)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 11:37 AM
Author: Bateful area turdskin

Have 2 kids about 2 years apart and the oldest is preschool aged. Going from 0 to 1 was still the bigger adjustment. The second one isn’t quite as bad because I think you’re generally less neurotic about everything so the newborn stage is overall less stressful. The first year sucked, but then it generally gets better. I think it’s a lot harder on the dad because you basically need to be a lot more

Involved with everything while mom is taking care of the baby.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045704)



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Date: June 24th, 2025 12:06 PM
Author: arousing dead church really tough guy

We have 1 and a dog and it is hard but manageable. A second would be the point at which it is probably not very manageable.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=5742418&forum_id=2Reputation#49045795)