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Life Advice for Youngs: go to the funerals you don't want to attend

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. A...
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:05 AM
Author: dashing obsidian bawdyhouse fortuitous meteor

Everyone goes to the funerals of close friends and family. As you get older, there will be so many occasions where someone who you aren't close to passes away: a former co-worker who you have lost touch with, the younger brother of a friend from high school who you barely remember, or the dad of a college roommate you haven't seen since graduation. Go to all of these visitations if you can. It's good for the family and it's good for you. I have seen decades-old grudges dissolved in 30 seconds by this gesture. People are at their weakest when a loved one dies and the gratitude they feel when people take the time to pay their respects will last for the rest of their lives. My mom and dad are both gone and I can recall every single person who took the time to show up and pay their respects. It's powerful.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43672622)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:22 PM
Author: Vivacious Sex Offender



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:11 AM
Author: idiotic location digit ratio

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:13 AM
Author: Rusted factory reset button hissy fit

180 advice. It really is good for your mind too, instant perspective.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:59 AM
Author: dashing obsidian bawdyhouse fortuitous meteor



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:57 AM
Author: nofapping aggressive rehab hairy legs

I remember all of the random people that showed up to my dad’s funeral and the one-off stories they shared with me about how they knew him. One old lady had a flat tire in the bank parking lot and he changed it for her. Small town America. She would see him at the store or pharmacy for years and thank him.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:29 AM
Author: Iridescent erotic nursing home

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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:36 AM
Author: turquoise parlour tank

Make sure to bring business cards, brother.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:33 AM
Author: Jet-lagged goal in life



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:36 AM
Author: sooty field



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: Dull infuriating range internal respiration



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:41 AM
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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:42 AM
Author: impressive police squad love of her life



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Date: December 25th, 2021 9:49 AM
Author: painfully honest bateful headpube mediation



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:32 AM
Author: Jet-lagged goal in life

I'll definitely be at the funeral I most want to attend.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43673175)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:35 AM
Author: Ebony philosopher-king

same

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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:40 PM
Author: arrogant embarrassed to the bone gas station



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:23 PM
Author: wonderful peach liquid oxygen main people



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:54 PM
Author: Juan Eighty



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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:38 AM
Author: mustard concupiscible friendly grandma therapy

Important OP

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:55 AM
Author: nofapping aggressive rehab hairy legs

Easily the best advice on xoxohth in over a year.

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: Contagious market

(Will Ferrell in wedding crashers)

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Date: December 25th, 2021 11:58 AM
Author: lascivious sweet tailpipe school



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:33 PM
Author: Kink-friendly odious really tough guy

Excellent advice from one of my favorite monikers.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43673709)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 1:36 PM
Author: balding partner

Make sure you ask for a copy of the death certificate to get a discount/tax write off on your travel

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43673721)



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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:10 PM
Author: maize goyim

OP is correct.

ty OP, and Merry Christmas

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:32 PM
Author: Filthy sapphire brunch rigor

My grandfather died at 74. Church was packed. My great grandfather died at 94. Church was barren.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43674038)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:24 PM
Author: wonderful peach liquid oxygen main people



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:52 AM
Author: Overrated volcanic crater

live fast

die young

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Date: December 25th, 2021 2:34 PM
Author: Sable dysfunction area

theres an extreme immaturity to people who avoid funerals. its basically boomer level selfishness.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43674045)



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:19 PM
Author: Awkward community account center



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Date: December 26th, 2021 9:21 PM
Author: Vivacious Sex Offender

very good advice here. i have been making an effort to attend more funerals of acquaintances after a personal experience made me realize how much it can mean to those close to the deceased.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#43680638)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 6:32 PM
Author: Razzmatazz coral tanning salon



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Date: January 15th, 2022 4:44 PM
Author: dashing obsidian bawdyhouse fortuitous meteor



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:51 PM
Author: Awkward community account center

this thread has inspired me to do this multiple times. Best experience was nervously attending the funeral of dude's dad who I had beef with after high school and hadn't spoken to in forever (the kid not the dad). Anyways, the gratitude you could see on that guy's face when I showed up was something I'll remember for the rest of my life.

Thanks to the immortal Yanagita for making this thread. This is something a younger person simply cannot understand on their own.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#44856920)



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:52 PM
Author: Razzmatazz coral tanning salon



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Date: July 15th, 2022 3:54 PM
Author: Grizzly soul-stirring son of senegal

(junior soprano)

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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:44 AM
Author: dashing obsidian bawdyhouse fortuitous meteor



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Date: February 22nd, 2023 9:47 AM
Author: disturbing parlor weed whacker

I only went to 1/4 of my grandparents funerals. 1 was because he predeceased my birth so it wasn’t possible, but the other 2 I was in law school states away.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#45965887)



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:57 PM
Author: Excitant dead address



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Date: March 14th, 2023 6:59 PM
Author: Poppy Rambunctious Degenerate



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Date: March 14th, 2023 7:24 PM
Author: Pungent becky university

Absolutely credited.

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#46052486)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:36 PM
Author: Mike Yanagita



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:53 PM
Author: whimsy the cat

should you go to your ex-wife's mother's funeral?

(http://www.autoadmit.com/thread.php?thread_id=4993199&forum_id=2id.#49460900)



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Date: November 25th, 2025 7:57 PM
Author: ruinous phenotype



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